Online Dating

Spark Networks sent out a press release a few days ago about a new website of theirs called Facelink. This site allows visitors to search for singles across 20 of Spark Networks dating websites. Some of these sites include AmericanSingles, JDate, BlackSingles.com and ChristianMingle. Facelink is currently in beta.

The tool is very simple and allows visitors to select what gender they are looking for, age range and a text box where you can enter in keywords which describe the most important attributes of your match. When you search, the site will then bring up any matching profiles with the profile handle, introduction and location. When you click on the profile name in the results, you are then taken to the full profile page on whatever dating site the profile resides on.

I realize Spark Networks is going with the KISS philosophy and Facelink works but, it could use improvements. The search results contain the location but, on the search page you must enter the location in the text keywords box. I think location needs to have its own text box with a radius selection (ie anyone within 15 miles of current location). I also think it is important to list what site the person is on in the search results. This is important as someone who has joined JDate (a Jewish dating site) most likely will not want to date someone practicing another religion. Keyword searching also seems to be limited to the introduction essay and location. Why not include all aspects of the profile. If someone likes watching Lost and mentioned this in Fun Facts, I doubt they would reiterate this point in their introduction. Someone using "Lost" as a keyword for searching may be missing out on a potential match.

I do think the site could use a name change. The name itself FaceLink, instantly brings up comparisons to Facebook, in which the site does not have a whole lot in common with. In the title, the link part works but, maybe they should of tried getting the DatingSiteLink domain or something similar. One thing I did have a laugh at was Spark Networks disclaimer at the bottom of the site.

THANKS TO THE GREAT STATE OF NEW JERSEY, THE GARDEN STATE, HOME OF THE TURNPIKE, GOING DOWN THE SHORE, MYTHICAL HOME TO TONY SOPRANO, AND THE ONLY PLACE WHERE PEOPLE GREET EACH OTHER WITH "REALLY, WHAT EXIT YOU FROM?," WE ARE TELLING YOU, SPARK NETWORKS LIMITED DOES NOT CONDUCT BACKGROUND CHECKS ON THE INDIVIDUALS WHOSE PROFILES CAN BE ACCESSED THROUGH THIS SITE. THE HOME OF THE BOSS HAS GOT YOUR BACK AND WE SUPPORT THEM 100%! NOW DON'T FUHGEDABOUTIT.

This is in reference to the new flawed Internet Dating Safety Act which requires dating sites to notify visitors from New Jersey if the dating site performs background checks or not.

Facelink gives Spark Networks a way to tie all of their dating sites together and allows visitors to search all the sites at once. It saves visitors from having to visit each one individually. Once out of beta they should promote Facelink on all of their dating sites instead of showing other ads.

Click here to visit Facelink.

According to Reuters, Matchmakers in Singapore are seeing business slowing down due to the current economy problems. One Matchmaking company reported a 10% decrease in business.

These Matchmakers are different from most online dating sites. They offer a more one on one customer relationship and can charge men thousands of dollars a month to help them find a wife. Looking at some popular dating sites in North America, (the September statistics where just released) it looks like on average, online dating experienced a minor increase in visitors for the month of September.

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Dr. Pepper Schwartz from Perfect Match was on The Bonnie Hunt Show yesterday. She is the dating sites chief relationship expert and helped develop their Duet compatibility matching system used on Perfect Match. On the show, Dr. Pepper Schwartz gives Holly Wortell (Bonnie's long time friend) dating profile advice as well as a personality test to help improve her odds of finding a match.

Here is a small video segment from the show in which Dr. Pepper Schwartz gives Holly advice on what profile photo to use.

Read our Perfect Match Review to find out more information on this popular dating service.

For the last few months Gay.com has been updating not only their dating website software but the hardware as well. From the new updates, one website called QUEERTY has reported that Gay.com has been offline more than it has been online this month. If this is the case, I would hope Gay.com gives paying members another month for FREE to thank them for putting up with all the trouble.

Here is a quote from Gay.com's Blog about some of the issues:

So what can you expect in the days ahead in terms of on-going improvements and our communication to you about them?

1. We are adjusting our hardware configurations and software code to further speed processes. Despite extensive pre-launch testing, a site of the scale and complexity of gay.com is virtually impossible to emulate in a test lab. Additionally, we have seen new usage patterns from the site that we could not model and are adjusting our hardware and code to streamline and improve performance. With the addition of more servers earlier in the week, we have seen positive results in overall site speed. We continue to monitor site performance and may add additional capacity as necessary.
2. We continue to identify and fix the bugs that have resulted in unplanned system outages.
3. We are committed to customer service and getting everyone on the site. We have received a tremendous number of phone calls and emails with your questions and suggestions. We are working to meet your needs as fast as we can. We also know that many people still cannot get into chat for technical reasons. Should you need help immediately, we keep an up-to-date Known Issues link on our blog at http://gay.blogs.com/gaycomblog.
4. We promise to be as open as possible in our communication to you. We know these changes (both the relaunch itself and the follow-on outages) can be confusing and frustrating. We will do our best to let you know what is happening, and when and how it may affect you as a user of the site. Given the changes that we need to make, we know that we will need to have a few more planned outages. We will do everything possible to give everyone adequate advance warning of these outages. Whenever possible, planned outages will be conducted in off-peak hours.

Find out more and see the full apology letter to members at the company's blog. For more information about the dating site Gay.com, including costs and features of this matchmaking service, check out our Gay.com review.

Over 10 years ago Shaadi.com, the online dating and matrimonial service was born. Recently Shaadi has become available on your cell phone browser and for viewing on satellite TV. Now Shaadi.com has launched Shaadi.com Sapphire. This is a new phone service which allows singles to talk with a trained matchmaking assistant who will help them with every step in dating online. This includes writing a profile, searching for matches and replying to messages.

The service has been designed for the "busy professional" who doesn't have the time to search through all of their matches. Members can call 91-22-67752020 daily between 10am and 7pm to speak to a Matchmaking Assistant and to sign up for the service.

For the full release go to indiaPRwire and, read our review on Shaadi Matrimonial dating service for more information.

There are a few new things mentioned in a press release on Market Watch from eHarmony. They are reporting 93 percent of Brits do not believe a scientific formula can match them successfully, eHarmony hopes to change this thinking. The release also mentions there are currently 150,000 singles living in the United Kingdom registered on the U.S. version of eHarmony. Lastly, the press release mentions a few key differences in the U.S. and U.K. matching algorithm:

The OII research revealed that while the UK had many similarities in what determines a successful relationship, there were also some interesting differences between US and UK couples.

For example, married people in the United Kingdom consistently express greater satisfaction with the amount of consensus they experience in their marriage, such as the time spent together, how they get along with family and in-laws, and their sexual relationship.

Those from the United States, on the other hand, show more satisfaction with interpersonal aspects of the relationship, such as laughing together more frequently, exchanging ideas, and kissing more often.

Reuters mentions that eHarmony will reject members who are currently married (which we knew) or who have been married more than 3 times. Also, members who "are emotionally unfit to enter a relationship, such as the severely clinically depressed" will not be granted a membership. eHarmony also restated the fact that they would consider started a dating site for homosexuals but, do not currently have plans to do so.

It seems the eHarmony Cracked blog will not be updated for the next little while. The writer of the blog, Scott, needs to concentrate on some other aspects in his life. We wish him well and hope he can return to blogging soon.

As always you can find our more about eHarmony by reading our review.