Online Dating

On August 31, 2012 Plenty of Fish released a new update for their Android dating app. The new version number is 1.4.1.9627 and it includes a number of new features and bug fixes. The new features include:

• Username search
• Additional search filters on profile attributes
• You can now register on POF through the App (done through web before)
• Auto-refresh for conversations
• Local event notifications
• User interface modifications

I haven't had any problems logging in with the new version but more than a few members have complained about not being able to use the app due to time out issues or notifications that the service is down for scheduled maintenance. A reviewer also mention that the Apps MeetMe feature could use additional search filters so you can have tighter control on which members are displayed.

Check out the Google Play Store on your Android phone and search for POF to download the app. To find out more about this popular free dating site you can read our POF.com review.

I am not sure if this is the right type of publicity a company wants but the Gay dating app called Grindr is being blamed for the rise of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). The Christchurch Sexual Health Clinic in New Zealand has been quoted as saying that these type of apps which allow Gay men to find others nearby have been associated with a 50 percent increase in cases of Syphilis in 2012.

Globally Syphilis has been making a comeback in recent years. It is recommended that you always use protection. In fact Grindr has a policy which bans its members from looking for unprotected intimate encounters. If a member violates this regulation their profile will be removed.

For more on this story you can read The New Age.

In a not too surprising move IAC announced last Friday that it has acquired the free dating site DateHookup.com. No financial terms of the agreement have been disclosed. IAC already owns such popular dating sites as Match.com, Chemistry.com and OkCupid. Datehookup.com was founded by Dustin Weirich in 2002 and has grown over the years to become the 6th most visited dating site on the internet. Every month DateHookup.com receives over 1 million unique visitors.

Over the past few years IAC has acquired a number of dating sites. Here are their most recent purchases:

• 2011 – OkCupid for $50 million (see Story)
• 2010 – Singlesnet (see Story)
• 2009 – People Media for $80 million (see Story)

Every year since 2009 IAC has bought a dating site. If the pattern holds true I wonder who they plan to purchase in 2013? I heard rumors a while ago that they may be interested in Cupid PLC since they are performing well in the European market. I have my doubts it will happen though, since Cupid PLC does operate some adult oriented dating services.

For more on the story you can read the IAC press release. To find out more about the dating sites involved you can read our Match.com review and DateHookup.com review.

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Read our review of eHarmony for more information about this online matchmaking service.

You’ve been single for awhile. Although you’re OK with that, you really would like to find someone special. You’ve tried having your friends fix you up on blind dates, but that didn’t turn out so well. And you really don’t want to date someone at work because of possible complications if things go wrong with the relationship. The logical alternative is online dating. If you’ve decided to take the plunge into the online dating world, following these five strategies will produce the best possible odds of finding someone compatible.

Smile for the Camera

Yes, you have to include a photo. Actually, you should include at least two photos – one of your face and a full body shot, both of which should be recent. Additional photos of you engaged in a favorite hobby are a nice bonus. If you’re worried that someone you know will see your photo on a dating site, don’t. After all, how would they know you’re online dating unless they’re doing the same thing? If you absolutely refuse to include a photo, be prepared to receive very few responses. It’s not fair, but looks matter.

Choose the Right Username

Online dating is not like posting a professional profile. You’re allowed to have a little fun. A username like “Leo Princess” is cute and gives potential dates a clue to your personality. On the other hand, a username like “Sexy Stud” implies that you’re only interested in casual encounters. If that’s actually the case, no problem, but otherwise you run the risk of putting off potential prospects who are actually seeking relationships.

Have a Positive Attitude

Yes, there are creeps out there. But dating profiles that rant endlessly about “no game players need apply” or “gold diggers not welcome” are not attractive to anyone. It’s possible to express the same sentiment in a more positive way by saying, for instance, “honesty is essential for me.” You may be skeptical about online dating, but try to maintain at least some optimism that you’ll meet nice people, even if you don’t find The One.

Emphasize the Unique

You enjoy walks along the beach and beautiful sunsets. Congratulations. So does the bulk of the human race. Remember, there is a lot of competition with online dating. Unless you’re drop dead gorgeous, you need to include something in your dating profile that allows you to stand out from the crowd. So if you were a standout track star in high school or college, why not include that in your dating profile? On the other hand, avoid getting too personal. Save the fact that you’re taking meds for depression until you have established a steady dating relationship.

Spelling and Punctuation Count

Your dating profile is not a school essay, but it still needs to be letter perfect. Use proper punctuation and grammar, and avoid too many abbreviations. Unless you’re fourteen years old (in which case, you have no business being on an online dating site), don’t write your ad in text speak. Proofread your profile thoroughly, with spell check and by reading through your profile and making manual corrections. Remember, you only get one chance to make a good first impression – and that includes online dating.

Heads up, Internet privacy advocates: a new report released in June warns the 7+ million members of OkCupid that the site is "a privacy heartbreak waiting to happen."

Since being acquired by Match.com last year, OkCupid's service terms allow the site to share user data with more than 50 websites owned by Match's parent company, IAC/InterActive Corp., and with IAC partners. The site may even archive data after users have closed their accounts or deleted information from their profiles.

Sarah Downey gives a detailed rundown of OkCupid's privacy weaknesses in the report:

• OkCupid does not support HTTPS, a standard web encryption that ensures secure browsing by sending and receiving information in an encrypted form. Without HTTPS, information appears as plain text. With HTTPS, information looks like random characters. The lack of HTTPS on OkCupid means that anyone on your wireless network could potentially read things like emails, profile info, and the answers to your hidden questions on the site.
• OkCupid uses nine different tracking companies and ad networks to obtain information about its visitors. None are part of OkCupid - all are independent third parties mining user data, like pages visited and time spent viewing a specific profile. The FTC requires dating sites to inform members about how their data will be used, but that information is often hidden deep within confusing terms of use or privacy policies.
• OkCupid can keep your data forever. The site's privacy policy states that it collects OkCupid users' "personal interests, gender, age, education, occupation and certain relationship preferences. . . name, email and photo," along with their browser and IP address. It also says that OkCupid "may keep such information archived indefinitely." But on the bright side, you can email OkCupid at privacy@okcupid.com to request that your information not be shared with others.
• Match's takeover of OkCupid means even more data sharing. Match's parent company owns sites like CitySearch.com, CollegeHumor.com, and Vimeo.com, and IAC's privacy policy allows it to share information freely between the companies it owns. "In other words," Downey writes, "your OkCupid data can be shared freely among the 6th largest online network in the world. Not very private."

So what can you do to protect your data online? "Think twice before posting any content on OkCupid or any other dating website," Downey says. "Even if you delete it later, it may be archived permanently." Use a browser add-on to block trackers and ad networks. Use an alias and an anonymous email addresses. And only provide information that is absolutely necessary - if it's optional, don't fill it in.

For more information on this dating site you can check out our OkCupid review.