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Authored by: No longdistance for me (Anonymous User) on Thursday, August 29 2013 @ 01:54 am

Congratulations!!! My story is somewhat the same but ended horribly. After my longgggg eight year relationship ended I also decided to try something new. My girlfriend want me to start dating again so she introduced in to BPM, hmmmmmm I was skeptical. The horror stories I've heard about these dating sites scares me. After three months of persuasion I gave in. A week in I was ready to give up because all the men seemed to be creepy. I went ahead and deactivated my account, just to get a break, hoping once I signed back in the results might be different; it actually was. This guy messeged me claiming to be his last day on the site and he would love to get to know me. Ok!! I didn't respond but I did take a closer look at his profile, ahhhhh he wasn't my type but he was attractive. I continued receiving messages from him so, I decided to just say hello!! It was no turning back from there. We exchanged numbers and about three hours later he called. There was an instant connection, we talked about everything. To add, he was from Jersey, lived in ATL and I lived in NYC. I never believed in longdistance relationships but I wanted to take a chance on this on .... Smh.... It's was perfect at first, he said all the right things and did the right things. We spoke for close to two months before we met, we did FaceTime to break the ice, we were both pleased and couldnt wait to meet. We met shortly after that. The first date was great!!... We laughed, talked, observed, and admired each other for hours.... Neither one of us wanted to end the date. Oh!! He took the trip to visit and he visited three times after that. It was three months in and I realized things began to change. The calls lessen, cute name calling stopped and goals and aspiration for our relationship was not talked about anymore. He expressed that he wanted my to visit him which not a problem... I did!!... The trip sucked, he treated me like I was on vacation and I needed a tour guide. He claimed he lived with his cousin but he never took me to his place, I stayed at a hotel which I payed for, he also never stayed with me one night.... I was I ATL for five days...... Smh..... And that week was his birthday week and the following week was mines. Time finally came to head back home now things was kidda back to normal. On the day of my birthday I received an early birthday call from him wishing me happy birthday and him telling me he's on his way to JA.... Hmmmm that is was a last minute family trip.... Yeah ok!!!.... I was totally surprised. His family lives in
Jersey....I asked if he was traveling alone from ATL to JA he said yes!! That was a lie, found out that he was traveling with a woman .... No, not a family member. The trip was booked to months in advance on the day that he lied to me canceling the trip to see me claiming that he had to work. He never booked the trip to see me but booked a trip to go with her to JA. I texted him while on his trip giving him a piece of my mind he claimed that they are just friends and they are not involved in any way.... Smh..... He also claimed that it was just me and him all this time. He never apologized, never expressed how much he cared, never denyed her either but he did tell me let my investigation belt truth and I made my decision so keep it moving!!! Please ladies, stay away from this guy .... On BPM

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