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Authored by: Anonymous (Anonymous User) on Sunday, July 14 2013 @ 06:13 pm

For the ladies. As soon as I posted my photos on OT, I was bombarded with messages, favorites, flirts, etc... from 100s of men who have the option of viewing your profile and photos even if you're not a match. The ones I was matched to were as close as they could get, but still not close enough. I also was quickly contacted by an attractive gentlemen who lived so far away that there was no chance we'd ever date, he messaged me a few times a week, and once he found out how little money I make, I never heard from him again. Another reasonably attractive man was messaging me from a neighboring city, but felt we lived too far apart to date and once he found out how much money I made per hour, that I'm poor basically, like he is because he told me he was, no more messaging from him.

I then had a date with a man. Big mistake. We met at a restaurant, his photos hid his rather large basketball shaped beer gut and man boobs. I work out, jog, lift weights. He was very rude to the waiters, actually stepped back and checked my back side out when I walked up to him. Stalled on leaving after dinner so I'd be in the parking lot alone with him, I knew better, seen that trick before and made sure to leave when I knew there'd still be people out there, and he tried to follow my car when I left. My advice, get to know each other as well as possible on through messages, discuss income right off, get it out of the way, say your poor even if you aren't to get rid of the thieves. Lots of men will lie and say they make more than they do, but men really don't need to know if you have a good income, say you don't. Find out everything you can, then meet up at a public place with a group around you and during the day so the parking lot will have people in it when you leave, and take a round about way home. Also ladies, pay for your own meal on the first date, just say it's the right thing to do, if you like the guy and date again, then let him pay, if you don't and you paid for your own meal, he can't hold it against you, because trust me, he will if he's a creep.

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