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Authored by: Sheneese (Anonymous User) on Wednesday, March 27 2013 @ 10:40 am

I "was" always a skeptic of meeting people online for dating purposes. Why..because of the horror stories not to mention you really don't know how real the person is on the other end. I never had a problem meeting people but after a marriage gone wrong I felt the need to try something different...something outside my circle. Needless to say, I tried it...I tried a couple of different ones before I tried BPM...those seemed to be more for dating and nothing else. I am too old and focused to just date. I needed to meet people they were looking for more...On for a month for free just to see what was out there and get a feel for the people I was viewing and reading on. Basically going with whatever vibe I felt as a read and how they looked. I had to pay to see what people were saying to me on my messages so I did for another month. People that say they don't care about looks...thats lies. It may not make or break the relationship but you do care..so post picts and don't respond to people that don't. You need to see or at least think you are viewing the person you are communicating with. OK..to the point about BPM. I went on a couple of dates..the dates were so so and the guys were nice but I didnt feel a real connection to them. OK I tried it. so I got off for a minute and got back on about a month later...To my surprise...I ran across one that had viewed my profile...something about him caught my eye. I didnt respond to everyone that viewed me but he was different. I read his profile...it was very basic but again...something about him made me stop...He had not messaged me but he viewed me several times. So me..being the bold person I am...I messaged him and introduced myself and told him he could call me. Later that same day...He did...Nov. 20 2011. We talked for 6 hours. He and I both laid everything on the table. Good-bad and indifferent. We were both LEGALLY seperated pending divorces. He was living out of town on a job project but back in Houston every weekend so I was able to meet him face to face the same week we met online. For so many reasons I cant express this story to me is a true love story. We met Thanksgiving..had our first date the following day. It was like no other date I have ever experienced. Nothing extravagant but the chemistry was sooo amazing. Carried on from our first 6 hour conversation...anyhow...to end the long story...from that first conversation...we never missed a beat on talking every single day through today...His family embraced me and mine his after about 3 dates.....His 4 kids are wonderful and my daughter loves him. We are planning on a wedding in 2014. My point to this is...you never know until you try..so don't knock it. His house was in my area...we had frequent the same hang out spots but never crossed paths..I truly believe that BPM was our path and way to meet. So though there are some that lie and claim to be what they are not online..they do the same off the internet so broaden your horizon. you just may find the love of your life...as we did. Thank you BPM for connecting me to my missing piece.

Bad guy on BlackPeopleMeet

Authored by: No longdistance for me (Anonymous User) on Thursday, August 29 2013 @ 01:54 am

Congratulations!!! My story is somewhat the same but ended horribly. After my longgggg eight year relationship ended I also decided to try something new. My girlfriend want me to start dating again so she introduced in to BPM, hmmmmmm I was skeptical. The horror stories I've heard about these dating sites scares me. After three months of persuasion I gave in. A week in I was ready to give up because all the men seemed to be creepy. I went ahead and deactivated my account, just to get a break, hoping once I signed back in the results might be different; it actually was. This guy messeged me claiming to be his last day on the site and he would love to get to know me. Ok!! I didn't respond but I did take a closer look at his profile, ahhhhh he wasn't my type but he was attractive. I continued receiving messages from him so, I decided to just say hello!! It was no turning back from there. We exchanged numbers and about three hours later he called. There was an instant connection, we talked about everything. To add, he was from Jersey, lived in ATL and I lived in NYC. I never believed in longdistance relationships but I wanted to take a chance on this on .... Smh.... It's was perfect at first, he said all the right things and did the right things. We spoke for close to two months before we met, we did FaceTime to break the ice, we were both pleased and couldnt wait to meet. We met shortly after that. The first date was great!!... We laughed, talked, observed, and admired each other for hours.... Neither one of us wanted to end the date. Oh!! He took the trip to visit and he visited three times after that. It was three months in and I realized things began to change. The calls lessen, cute name calling stopped and goals and aspiration for our relationship was not talked about anymore. He expressed that he wanted my to visit him which not a problem... I did!!... The trip sucked, he treated me like I was on vacation and I needed a tour guide. He claimed he lived with his cousin but he never took me to his place, I stayed at a hotel which I payed for, he also never stayed with me one night.... I was I ATL for five days...... Smh..... And that week was his birthday week and the following week was mines. Time finally came to head back home now things was kidda back to normal. On the day of my birthday I received an early birthday call from him wishing me happy birthday and him telling me he's on his way to JA.... Hmmmm that is was a last minute family trip.... Yeah ok!!!.... I was totally surprised. His family lives in
Jersey....I asked if he was traveling alone from ATL to JA he said yes!! That was a lie, found out that he was traveling with a woman .... No, not a family member. The trip was booked to months in advance on the day that he lied to me canceling the trip to see me claiming that he had to work. He never booked the trip to see me but booked a trip to go with her to JA. I texted him while on his trip giving him a piece of my mind he claimed that they are just friends and they are not involved in any way.... Smh..... He also claimed that it was just me and him all this time. He never apologized, never expressed how much he cared, never denyed her either but he did tell me let my investigation belt truth and I made my decision so keep it moving!!! Please ladies, stay away from this guy .... On BPM

wild

Authored by: Jerome (Anonymous User) on Wednesday, April 17 2013 @ 05:40 pm

I'm a good looking male that just read your comment. A favorite quote of mine that you wrote is “Needless to say”. I’m a person who likes too treat a women right, seriously man. Well if you want to find a good person give me a try. My name is Jerome and my Black People Meet title is “Wild I am”. I am looking for a picture and a name from you, but take your time.

Read His Information Closely

Authored by: Anonymous (Anonymous User) on Sunday, October 27 2013 @ 09:01 am

..... and this ladies is the type of individual you really need to pay attention to and stay away from.

There are so many things wrong with his post that he doesn't realize it.

His screen name says it all because that's exactly what you will get: a WILD individual and need I say more about that aspect.

According to him he's good looking, but he said nothing about his character or moral barometer. Physical appearances hold no weight in a relationship because individuals are going to treat you according to what's in their heart, but most importantly MIND.

He would be spoken for and not available if he knew how to treat "a women" right.

He would like someone to give him a try. Women try things that won't affect their lives; shoes, clothes, different foods, alternate hair, make up, perfume, etc. Matters of the heart isn't something you try.

Lastly, he uses reverse psychology. He's looking (waiting) for not one, but for two things (picture and name) but take your time.

We have no one to blame but ourselves when we get disappointed because our women's intuition gives us glaring red flags and warning signs, but ignore it.

Read His Information Closely

Authored by: Anonymous (Anonymous User) on Saturday, July 11 2015 @ 12:17 am

Amen Sister! God gives us intuition and when we ignore it we pay dearly for it! Happened to me and thats why I am determined not to ever ignore those red flags again. lol

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