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I started dating this girl I work with the beginning of last month. Everything was great until about 4 days ago. She seems to have lost interest in me...

In the first couple of weeks we had 4 dates and talk often on the phone and text each other back and forth. This has stopped for the most part now with even most of my texts not getting answered back. She also seems less than excited when we do talk on the phone. I do not know if I am just being paranoid or if it has to do to the fact that it will soon be her last week of school and she has her exams. The last time I talked to her I told her to give me a call when she wants to go out.

Should I call her just to talk since I am interested in her or should I let her make the first move. If I do I would worry that she would think that I am not interested.

profM

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In a word, yes.

Most women it would appear have become so picky that they end up being alone because nobody is good enough for the princess.

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GeorgiaRivera

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Get past her. Go ahead and find aq good partner for yourself. And quote me on the word "partner". Keep life simple instead going in for the jazzy stuff. Get to know the girl better before asking the big question. I met Christine on Fuzd. She is a gem of a person. I hope you find your's as well. All the best, buddy.

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Marsha

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You should talk to her about this and if she isn't interested, don't be sad. You'll definitely find some girl that will be perfect for you. But yes, you should think about partnership not temporary flings on these sites.

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Chris80pitt

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Quote by: Anonymous

I started dating this girl I work with the beginning of last month. Everything was great until about 4 days ago. She seems to have lost interest in me...

In the first couple of weeks we had 4 dates and talk often on the phone and text each other back and forth. This has stopped for the most part now with even most of my texts not getting answered back. She also seems less than excited when we do talk on the phone. I do not know if I am just being paranoid or if it has to do to the fact that it will soon be her last week of school and she has her exams. The last time I talked to her I told her to give me a call when she wants to go out.

Should I call her just to talk since I am interested in her or should I let her make the first move. If I do I would worry that she would think that I am not interested.



You have questions but instead of asking us, ask herSmile. We can all give our thoughts but at the end if you don't ask her, you will never know what is the problem.

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Jenny1501

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Feel really bad to hear this. However in today's world, all relationships have become mutual benefits. nobody gives a *censored* about feelings. still if you want to give it a last chance, you can want either ask to show-me-interest or you can log-in to showmeinterest.com

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hollycraze

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I think there's nothing wrong with it...that's relationship! Just stay cool and stop being needy/desperate!

It's better to focus on doing your passion. Stop worrying!

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Anna_in_love

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You should talk to her. She will tell you exactly if she is still interested in relations with you!!!

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DenellEposey

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Listen to yourself. What do you want to do?
Talk to her about it. ask her about your thinking. She will give the response then. Do some porny talk to her.

mouser

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You can try to talk to her to find out, but i would say that she's no longer interested. You are being too needy. If she doesn't reply often to your texts, it means she needs more space. Try to start dating other people and pull back. She may reach out to fill the gap, as people often do when you're no longer paying attention to them. It will then be up to you to decide what to do. Also, try to get her to have sex with you. That hormonally bonds a woman to you. Good luck.

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