Subject: has she lost interest in me?

Posted on: 2012/02/01 02:54pm
By: Anonymous

I started dating this girl I work with the beginning of last month. Everything was great until about 4 days ago. She seems to have lost interest in me...

In the first couple of weeks we had 4 dates and talk often on the phone and text each other back and forth. This has stopped for the most part now with even most of my texts not getting answered back. She also seems less than excited when we do talk on the phone. I do not know if I am just being paranoid or if it has to do to the fact that it will soon be her last week of school and she has her exams. The last time I talked to her I told her to give me a call when she wants to go out.

Should I call her just to talk since I am interested in her or should I let her make the first move. If I do I would worry that she would think that I am not interested.

Re: has she lost interest in me?

Posted on: 2015/03/31 01:06am
By: Anonymous

In a word, yes.

Most women it would appear have become so picky that they end up being alone because nobody is good enough for the princess.

Re: has she lost interest in me?

Posted on: 2015/04/04 05:22am
By: GeorgiaRivera

Get past her. Go ahead and find aq good partner for yourself. And quote me on the word "partner". Keep life simple instead going in for the jazzy stuff. Get to know the girl better before asking the big question. I met Christine on Fuzd. She is a gem of a person. I hope you find your's as well. All the best, buddy.

Re: has she lost interest in me?

Posted on: 2015/04/21 01:20am
By: Marsha

You should talk to her about this and if she isn't interested, don't be sad. You'll definitely find some girl that will be perfect for you. But yes, you should think about partnership not temporary flings on these sites.

Re: has she lost interest in me?

Posted on: 2015/05/22 01:23pm
By: Chris80pitt

Quote by: Anonymous

I started dating this girl I work with the beginning of last month. Everything was great until about 4 days ago. She seems to have lost interest in me...

In the first couple of weeks we had 4 dates and talk often on the phone and text each other back and forth. This has stopped for the most part now with even most of my texts not getting answered back. She also seems less than excited when we do talk on the phone. I do not know if I am just being paranoid or if it has to do to the fact that it will soon be her last week of school and she has her exams. The last time I talked to her I told her to give me a call when she wants to go out.

Should I call her just to talk since I am interested in her or should I let her make the first move. If I do I would worry that she would think that I am not interested.



You have questions but instead of asking us, ask herSmile. We can all give our thoughts but at the end if you don't ask her, you will never know what is the problem.

Re: has she lost interest in me?

Posted on: 2015/05/23 10:18am
By: Jenny1501

Feel really bad to hear this. However in today's world, all relationships have become mutual benefits. nobody gives a *censored* about feelings. still if you want to give it a last chance, you can want either ask to show-me-interest or you can log-in to showmeinterest.com

Re: has she lost interest in me?

Posted on: 2015/06/01 12:35am
By: hollycraze

I think there's nothing wrong with it...that's relationship! Just stay cool and stop being needy/desperate!

It's better to focus on doing your passion. Stop worrying!

Re: has she lost interest in me?

Posted on: 2015/06/09 12:14pm
By: Anna_in_love

You should talk to her. She will tell you exactly if she is still interested in relations with you!!!

Re: has she lost interest in me?

Posted on: 2015/06/10 11:42am
By: DenellEposey

Listen to yourself. What do you want to do?
Talk to her about it. ask her about your thinking. She will give the response then. Do some porny talk to her.

Re: has she lost interest in me?

Posted on: 2015/06/23 11:20pm
By: Anonymous

You can try to talk to her to find out, but i would say that she's no longer interested. You are being too needy. If she doesn't reply often to your texts, it means she needs more space. Try to start dating other people and pull back. She may reach out to fill the gap, as people often do when you're no longer paying attention to them. It will then be up to you to decide what to do. Also, try to get her to have sex with you. That hormonally bonds a woman to you. Good luck.

Re: has she lost interest in me?

Posted on: 2016/08/24 04:01pm
By: Anonymous

No she didnt!! I had the same problem, in the beginning i though the same way, but after a while with some experience you get the whole point. Its all about the practice, practice, practice and the more girls you get in touch with the more you are self-confidence. And there is the point. Me, in first place i started with ChatlineUSA and PartyLine, but after a while i have learned, its all about chatting and meeting new ones.
At the end dont worry, in one of them you will find right one. Believe me! Cool And good luck. Smile Smile

Re: has she lost interest in me?

Posted on: 2016/10/14 01:22am
By: SamarthGodara

Yeah, but you can regain it. Just keep your distance with her, dont meet more than 3 times in a week, and dont make your meetings too long (not more than 2-3 hours) you will find that she will get attracted towards you in a week.

Re: has she lost interest in me?

Posted on: 2016/10/14 02:33am
By: Anonymous

Bit late giving advice now, he asked the question 4 years ago. Wow with a relationship consultant like you, we don't stand a chance.

Re: has she lost interest in me?

Posted on: 2016/12/06 11:26pm
By: willnilly

I think it would be best if you ask her. It seems to me that she must have started loosing interest on you. It is better if you find it out as soon as you can and don't waste time if she is not interested. All the best, don't loose heart, better times will come.

Re: has she lost interest in me?

Posted on: 2017/03/29 12:09pm
By: Filip8459

Sure it's completely fixable. Girls love attention and variety. You can worry about her exams, give her support, show that you are interested in this and understand that's important. And then excite her well, come up with smth passionate. I'm constantly experimenting with my girlfriend. In addition to banalities such as role-playing games, we tried various interesting places (a rock concert, for example, or a roof). The last feature - went together in a strip bar, she did not want at first, but then got carried away by this idea. In general, in this Zavistbar there was a room for privates, stylized under BDSM (no hardcore, just an easy game), and it was so exciting that now we try it tooWink So do not let her get too distracted. And all these emotional throwings are solved by a simple imitation of attention.

Re: has she lost interest in me?

Posted on: 2017/04/07 03:13pm
By: Tionant

definetly she lost interest in you, Confused

Re: has she lost interest in me?

Posted on: 2017/06/02 05:13am
By: Antohnas

Don't get paranoid. I think you need to wait. Maybe she is in personal problem. Talk to her. Try to understand what she is facing.

Re: has she lost interest in me?

Posted on: 2017/06/29 01:02pm
By: Anonymous

I have liked this one girl for a while, and I think we relate a lot, but I made a huge mistake. This girl goes to school with me, and we had been friends for a little over a year, and I starts to have attractions towards her, but then i found out she was a lesbian. I was, not to be dramatic, heartbroken. I didn't even have a chance with her. But I didn't ever tell her I liked her, but she got the idea later and told me that she suspected, and she still wanted to be one of my best friends, even though we couldn't hang out due to my parents being homophobic. Then, this past year, I made a comment on how big her chest was to one of her friends, and they told me how that was inappropriate, and I understood and felt regret for it, hoping that friend wouldn't tell that girl. But she did, and I didn't know until I noticed that girl was ignoring everything I said publicly and didn't ever respond. Then, one day, I apologized to her about what I said, but she didn't accept it. I miss her so much and I don't know what to do. I guess I can't really do anything, now that I thought about it. I just wish I could take back what I said, but I can't. I have practically ruined my life, because I haven't found anyone remotely like her, and probably never will... I'm sorry. And now, I'm changing schools, which is why I most likely will never see her again. I won't be able to check back on your responses to this, so I don't know why I'm submitting this. I'll never forget her nor the last day we talked together as best friends, before I found out I ruined everything... I didn't know what Hell was like until now

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