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I broke up with my ex-girlfriend of 3 years about 4 weeks ago. Last weekend I had my first date with a girl I just met. We went for dinner and drinks and ending up back at my place. She did stay the night. We didn't have s*x but we almost did.

It went a little farther than I thought it would last night. I just wish it did not happen. I realize it is not the right time for me to be in a relationship after my recent break-up. I am also not that into this girl since she sounds like she has a lot of emotional problems.

How should I break it off with her? Should I just not call her? Or should I call or text her telling her I am not interested?

JAY

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Do not be one of those guys that give the rest of us a bad name. Call the girl and let her know that you do not want to continue seeing her. Blame yourself that you are not ready yet for a new relationship. There is nothing worse than not having someone call you after a date.

Anon

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Honesty is the best policy. If she reaches out to you, let her know that it was a mistake and you need more time to get over your ex. Don't string her along because it will just make your life harder than it needs to be.

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BRew23

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You have to say it

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ryecody1986

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Quote by: BRew23

You have to say it



Exactly. Even if it hurts! I actually did a bad things before but really need to tell the person that you don't love her. then cheating on her.

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Jack_Birchfie

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Totally agree with @BRew23 and @ryecody1986. You have to say truth to her. Run away is not solution at all. Tell her that you don't love her.

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Quote by: Anonymous

I broke up with my ex-girlfriend of 3 years about 4 weeks ago. Last weekend I had my first date with a girl I just met. We went for dinner and drinks and ending up back at my place. She did stay the night. We didn't have s*x but we almost did.

It went a little farther than I thought it would last night. I just wish it did not happen. I realize it is not the right time for me to be in a relationship after my recent break-up. I am also not that into this girl since she sounds like she has a lot of emotional problems.

How should I break it off with her? Should I just not call her? Or should I call or text her telling her I am not interested?




Heeeey. how are things going on? Did you tell her?

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kaitlynlily6

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Be upfront. Call to say how you feel, apologize and say your not ready for a relationship.

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nancy_torchic

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Her emotional problems will become even worse if you don't respond to her texts.

I'd rather break it off after meeting over a cup of coffee. The pain will slowly subside

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