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Yes. As a woman I used Adult Friend Finder for a year and a half. As with any site you have to have a good attitude and be willing to put time and effort in contacting people and yes there are many fake profiles. Anything that looks too good to be true probably is. Please keep in mind that the men out-number the females by a factor of 10. I am going to repeat the "good attitude" and "time and effort." All the men that I met and hooked up with 1) didn't assume that I was a fake profile and sent a nice first message-- not a flirt or one line and 2) had a complete profile themselves, with well-written paragraphs, pictures (body, face as well as equipment) and testimonials which AFF has and 3) were prompt about meeting, calling or video chatting with no run around.
In short: BS

- I have been there, and there are almost no real girls, but a lost fake profiles and all sorts of "scamers", e-mail collectors, etc...
- Secondly, even those very very few... basically, very unclear why are they there. They complain so many guys, yet they do not look or contact anyone themselves
- Thirdly, if so many guys, surely they would find someone, or even dozen very quickly, yet they are there for years...
- so in short, again, BS. Very few real people. not worth it at all.
"I have been there, and there are almost no real girls, but a lost fake profiles and all sorts of "scamers", e-mail collectors, etc..."
There are in fact, quite a few "real" girls, but yes, there are a lot of fakes as well, but not "actors". The fakes you get, are mostly guys wanting to get what they can out of you picture wise and whatever else gets them off posing as a woman. There's also scammers with ill intent.. like the guy who'd hotlist me on a daily basis, with a new account every time. The first time "she" hotlisted me, I sent a message, which she says her country's internet was about to shut down, and she had to use VPN.. "she" was in China. Obviously I didn't connect over VPN.. I'm not giving some hacker access to my computer. His profile picture even showed up in google image search as an Asian model. Ever since then he's been trying daily with different names. There's also just your regular, everyday trolls who just want to mess with you. It's to be expected.. it's the internet.
There's also going to be "some" girls who just like to tease.. that happens in everyday life, not just the internet.
"Secondly, even those very very few... basically, very unclear why are they there. They complain so many guys, yet they do not look or contact anyone themselves"
Not too sure what you're talking about with this one. I've never heard of anyone complaining.. the more guys to choose from, the happier they'd be. As for not contacting anyone themselves... again, not too sure what you're talking about. I've gotten quite a few messages, both from locals who wanted to hookup, as well as girls just wanting to chat, many from around the world. Most of the messages I get though, are from couples.. I happen to be quite long, and a lot of these guys want their wife to have it. Go figure.

"Thirdly, if so many guys, surely they would find someone, or even dozen very quickly, yet they are there for years..."
You don't get it.. it's a site for swingers and people who want casual sex. They aren't looking for a long term commitment.. lol. o.O
"so in short, again, BS. Very few real people. not worth it at all."
I think you're just pissed off that none of the women wanted your ass. lol.
Here's a hint... only look at the "verified" accounts, or the "gold" accounts.. though those may be guys as well, so look for the photos. If the site has member cams, like AFF.. then look to see if the member ever broadcasts. Pretty easy to tell if they're real or not that way.
I even made a skype friend after entering one woman's room one night. She approached me.

I did find a few actual women paying (I assume) Very few. These sites are pretty much SCAMS. You will stand a better chance on Craigslist.
If you get a bleeding heart story, Ghana, of other third world *censored* holes, Play with them but for GODS sake do not send money. I traced most to 11 holes on the planet all fake,
Advice keep your credit card in your pocket, DO NOT give the numbers they will not give you a free trial, If you have, Call your credit card company stop the payments.
If you are really wanting to meet someone, I suggest Match.com, E harmony,

Yes. As a woman I used Adult Friend Finder for a year and a half. As with any site you have to have a good attitude and be willing to put time and effort in contacting people and yes there are many fake profiles. Anything that looks too good to be true probably is. Please keep in mind that the men out-number the females by a factor of 10. I am going to repeat the "good attitude" and "time and effort." All the men that I met and hooked up with 1) didn't assume that I was a fake profile and sent a nice first message-- not a flirt or one line and 2) had a complete profile themselves, with well-written paragraphs, pictures (body, face as well as equipment) and testimonials which AFF has and 3) were prompt about meeting, calling or video chatting with no run around.
In order to get testimonials you first of all have to actually make a physical contact and it has been my experience that these sites are just cash cows for the unscrupulous owners who appear to do nothing at all about weeding out the fake accounts that crop all the time until someone complains and then they ban the person, who simply re registers under another false name / location. If they really wanted to they could cure this problem at a stroke by blocking the IP addresses, which makes me think that they are in fact generated by the owners to keep punters on the site longer in the hope that they might just be lucky and make a real connection.
AAF is one of the many sites that I use and have nothing good to report about them or indeed any of the sites, are we allowed to name them on here?






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