Subject: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2011/01/11 10:59am
By: Anonymous

If not, which come the closeist to having actual members contacting each other.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2011/02/06 11:25am
By: Anonymous

You mean, sites were real women/men wants to have sex with you and not yust people who get payed to send you a message but never meeting you in real. I would also be curious if such sites exists were people doesn't get fooled ...

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2011/02/12 03:27am
By: Anonymous

Yes. As a woman I used Adult Friend Finder for a year and a half. As with any site you have to have a good attitude and be willing to put time and effort in contacting people and yes there are many fake profiles. Anything that looks too good to be true probably is. Please keep in mind that the men out-number the females by a factor of 10. I am going to repeat the "good attitude" and "time and effort." All the men that I met and hooked up with 1) didn't assume that I was a fake profile and sent a nice first message-- not a flirt or one line and 2) had a complete profile themselves, with well-written paragraphs, pictures (body, face as well as equipment) and testimonials which AFF has and 3) were prompt about meeting, calling or video chatting with no run around.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2011/06/14 04:33pm
By: Anonymous

Yes! ALL sex dating sites are scams, usually run from America. Do not waste your money.
If you want to meet a partner stay away from any site that offers members wanting just sex. THEY ARE ALL SCAMS!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2012/10/25 10:49pm
By: Anonymous

I think a lot of the fake adult sites are coming from parts of Europe and Asia. Russia and the Ukraine are high on those lists.

Do not trust them!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2013/01/26 04:13pm
By: Anonymous

Guys/Girls if its too good to be true ITS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE, no woman/guy with half a brain would fall for that, I guess I have less than half a brain since I decided to spend the full 2.99 for a 3 day membership at Benaughty.com , I quickly realized the answers were computer generated responses to my questions LOL - I should know better!!!!
to make matters worse try cancelling the repeat charges in the small print!!!! I was careful enough to follow all the cancellation steps very closely and in the end I only spent 2.99 Lesson learned!!!!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2013/02/21 07:07pm
By: Anonymous

I am 55 and fed up with these so called sites where you can always meet a woman.
That 's until you disclose you are 55 that 's when you discover that all the older women want young guys and young girls don 't do it with older guys.
Yet on the front cover everyone does it and there 's no bar.
All I want is to meet a married woman who is betwen 35 & 60 looking fior some funis that to much to ask.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2013/02/23 04:24pm
By: Anonymous

Well I fell for it to and it's kinda embarrassing. I just wanted to meet someone for casual sex.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2013/09/27 02:04am
By: Anonymous

The woman who wrote about AFF being a legit website for sex was wrong....only the women OR couples succeed on that website. And Black men well hung. I REPEAT: ONLY women or couples and Black men succeed in finding sex on Adult Friend Finder.com Single men are in the LESS THAN 1% of meeting anyone for sex on that website. Your best chance is to find a girlfriend on one of the sites like eHarmony.com where EVERY WOMAN i met in person ended up making love to me. And I am being 100% HONEST.....EVERY WOMAN who met me in person after going through the eHarmony process made love to me and then some!! I had sex with OVER 50-women 3-4 times a week for 2-8 months AVERAGE relationship time in 15 years just by going on there and paying the $49.95 I think it is for 3-4 months membership. That's A LOT OF SEX guys!! 8-month relationships and each we had sex 3-4 times per week if not more. They give it up MORE than a website where you just ask for it in your profile. WOMEN??? on AFF??? *censored*! they get it WHENEVER and with WHOMEVER they want on AFF.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2013/09/29 05:54pm
By: Anonymous

Great, so what you're saying is.. you were payed to post that. Thanks for the eHarmony plug. Big Grin

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2013/10/15 01:37am
By: Anonymous

NOONE was paid. ONLY trying to help the men who read this. *censored*! try Match com. You get the same results. AT LEAST i am getting sex all the time.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2013/11/13 10:45pm
By: Anonymous

When I was not married, well when I was not married to this wife, I used POF. it's free I'm a few xtra lbs white male, kids, divorced 3 times blah blah. and I was pounding a new chick every 2-3 weeks.. sometimes sooner. but it's all about the time you put into it. make a decent profile. don't beat around the bush when you contact, and STAND OUT in your first contact b/c there are many of dicks you are competing with. I only found this forum b/c I googled a dating site to see if it's a scam or not.. yes it turned out to have more bad reviews than positive. As well gentlemen learn how to capture image, and google search image.. it helps on separating the bots from the real. and married men it's cheaper and less risk of getting caught, getting prego and std to use an escort out of backpage good escort 300$ an up an hr.. their clean, they do what u want and they don't call ur phone at 3 am telling you their in love.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2013/11/21 06:47am
By: Anonymous

1. The one who wrote here about eHarmony and Match is a scam or "agent" to get you to those sites.

2. eHarmony, may have some real girls, but mostly it will be like every where "else", but that i mean it is not complete scam per say, but will be difficult. I actually has couple of girl friends who tried out that site, but did not stay long there. Ok, they were after serious relationship rather than anything else, but still...


Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/02/18 03:02pm
By: Anonymous

YES all these sex sites are fake most made up by criminal gangs over seas out to rip you off they'll not steal your credit card or money off your card because they need to keep their site open but what they will do is con you into believing the women are real ,as if a beautiful good looking woman would put her self on a sex site asking or begging for sex if shes going to do that she may as well get paid for her beautiful body .so stay clear .if you want sure sex dont give these sex site your money .if you join and reply to an add the only replies you'd get back is from the site owners making you believe its a reply back from a woman and usually they will say they just want to chat not meet up thats to put you off corresponding and to move on. best bet is just get a nice escort for £60.00 from adult work at least you know you'll get some sure sex

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/04/20 08:28pm
By: Anonymous

Stay away from BBWDesire. The whole site is a scam from the members to the customer service.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/04/30 03:55am
By: Anonymous

Nope...all sex sites are scams. Don't waste your money. I know girls that get paid to be on sites like xxxdating and xxxconnect and Ashley Madison. Its all a scam. And for the record.. Eharmony is NO different than any other dating site. The best one is free plenty of fish. Lavalife is OK, but costs to talk to women. But I hooked up with lots of girls on plenty, lavalife .. Eharmony was a joke. Its no different than any other dating site. I would never recommend harmony to any one unless they lived in the south pole and only had dial up access to only that site...and even then, the penguins would get more action than you that weekend.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/05/09 09:46am
By: Anonymous

iHookup worked for me and its free to sign up. Got laid hella times on that site. Its similar to AFF but way better.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/06/04 04:11am
By: Anonymous

They are all scams. Unfortunately I have wasted a lot of money to find this out. Adult Friend Finder is one big scam and so is Match.com and eHarmony. You get sucked in with "free weekends" or "free to join" then get bombarded with messages from fake women asking you to contact them, but first you have to pay. As soon as you pay your membership, those women all disappear. As soon as eHaemony got my money, they told me that they could not match me with anyone! I'm not rich and don't ride a Harley but other than that I'm a normal single white male.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/06/04 04:25am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

iHookup worked for me and its free to sign up. Got laid hella times on that site. Its similar to AFF but way better.



this is *censored*! The real reviews about iHookup are negative. ALL of the profiles are FAKE!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/06/05 08:57am
By: Anonymous

I have to say this... All these posts about AFF being so bad must be from real losers, because I personally hooked up with a lot of women when I was on there. I also met some really cool friends who I remain friends with to this day. I'd say that in the 2 years that I used the site, I probably met somewhere between 50-70 women and 10-12 couples. I am a handsome guy and I'm not a youngster. I've thought about going back on there, but it's just not what I'm looking for at this point.

One warning for the young studs... You're probably not going to do well on there. Most of the girls seem to want an experienced, level headed guy that won't bring drama to their door. Oh! And the older guys... Don't forget that pervs are not cool. If you can flirt for a while and actually hold a conversation, then you'll do fine.

On the other hand... Why join a pay site when free dating sites have turned into the new pickup bar? I have done really good on several sites though. So maybe it's just me... Cool

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/06/10 02:03pm
By: Anonymous

Just as a note, I have also found the sex sites to be scams, but was very careful and didn't invest any money, was vague with my details and lied about anything sensitive like town and name.
Match.com, on the other hand, gave me several genuine dates that turned into nice friendships, and a 3.5 yr relationship. So don't judge all of them as scams without looking into each one... Smile

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/06/11 06:23pm
By: Anonymous

This comes from a guy who has lost count of how many women I've pounded from online dating, so listen up. Your best -- no, your only option -- is to use legitimate dating sites. Not the hookup sites. List your intentions as long-term relationship, no matter how inaccurate that is. Have many good photos and write an interesting, grammatically correct profile. When texting with the woman, hint at your sex drive without overwhelming them with it. And no *censored* shots. The hints will screen out the prudes, while the nicely written profile will get you a higher caliber woman. Accept that forking out for that first date with no sex will likely be the price of getting regular sex down the road. Better than a membership with a fraud site. Wish I could give a clinic in this stuff. Good luck, gentlemen.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/06/16 08:02pm
By: Anonymous

Ashley Madison may be legit but it's so unwieldy and expensive to use, it's not worth it.

After I got divorced I was on Match and OK Cupid and woman were actually doing me in my car. If you can be a generous gentleman for 5 dates you are almost guaranteed to
get sex. My problem is that I feel like I'm misleading woman; most want much much more than sex.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/06/17 08:56am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Yes. As a woman I used Adult Friend Finder for a year and a half. As with any site you have to have a good attitude and be willing to put time and effort in contacting people and yes there are many fake profiles. Anything that looks too good to be true probably is. Please keep in mind that the men out-number the females by a factor of 10. I am going to repeat the "good attitude" and "time and effort." All the men that I met and hooked up with 1) didn't assume that I was a fake profile and sent a nice first message-- not a flirt or one line and 2) had a complete profile themselves, with well-written paragraphs, pictures (body, face as well as equipment) and testimonials which AFF has and 3) were prompt about meeting, calling or video chatting with no run around.



In short: BS Smile
- I have been there, and there are almost no real girls, but a lost fake profiles and all sorts of "scamers", e-mail collectors, etc...
- Secondly, even those very very few... basically, very unclear why are they there. They complain so many guys, yet they do not look or contact anyone themselves
- Thirdly, if so many guys, surely they would find someone, or even dozen very quickly, yet they are there for years...
- so in short, again, BS. Very few real people. not worth it at all.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/06/17 08:59am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Ashley Madison may be legit but it's so unwieldy and expensive to use, it's not worth it.

After I got divorced I was on Match and OK Cupid and woman were actually doing me in my car. If you can be a generous gentleman for 5 dates you are almost guaranteed to
get sex. My problem is that I feel like I'm misleading woman; most want much much more than sex.



In short: Ashley Madison is BS Smile This site has plenty reviews about AM. Not worth it at all.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/07/19 12:37pm
By: anon

I need to tell the poor guys out there the truth and it is a scam. I worked as an "admin" and was paid 15p per message. It is all a scam and sometimes I felt really bad when a older widowed man thought he met then woman of his dreams. Each message that popped up were answered by different women who just needed to read the previous conversation and notes. The women are all fakes and pictures found from the internet. Don't waste your money, do real women really meet men for sex from the interent, I don't think so.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/07/30 05:39pm
By: Anonymous

Hasn't POF changed their site about a year ago, to discourage - or actually not allow any type of casual hookup messages?

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/08/14 05:06am
By: Anonymous

On some hook up sites pof'aff, you do find both good and bad looking girls but unless your a 7 or better nice body pretty face you will most likely not find to much. It is the same as bars or clubs best looking will almost always get first choice and down the line it goes. I recommend the sites with 3 month guarantee after you start paying the bots seem to slow down.
I have always had a hard time compromising I'm just not attracted to homely girls.
Before I met my current girlfriend at the Cleveland metroparks dog park I would of been considered a hobbyist on back page. I it lucky by not being burned and I realize now how short sighted that is. But if your a 5 or 4 and you are only attracted to 7+ than life is full of denial both in person and online .
I to wish there was chubbychasinggirls dot com or hotgirls4smalldogs dot com but there is not , all you can do is try to keep a positive outlook and get white teeth and maybe you can get lucky.
I was a member of 4 hookup sites 16 months and I got 0 sex I was a member of match1yr and I got 4 dates with girls that would 4 or 5's

Happy Hunting

PS my gf's best friend admitted to me that before we were introduced her group was asked to be nice to me that's how low rated I am.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/08/22 03:24am
By: Anonymous

obviously you are a 10, so its easy to judge those girls a 4/5.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/08/26 09:43pm
By: Anonymous

They are all scams. People who fall for these don't understand basic human social dynamics.

Women WILL NOT have casual sex with anyone who is not either extremely famous, rich, or insanely handsome (as in a tall, dark Armani model).

If you are an average man like 99% of men are, you ALWAYS have to pay for sex. Be it in the form of a relationship (dinners, housing, nights out at the movies etc) or pure cold cash (prostitution).

Women do not have sex for free after adolescence except with extremely high value men who represent less than 1% of society.

If they do, there is always a catch. For example, in ghettoes they will want to extract alimony from deadbeats, or pop out as many children as possible to live on welfare. So they do not really want the men nor the children, they want the money.

Everything in western society comes down to money. Absolutely everything. Get this through your thick heads and stop living in a fantasy world. There is no Ukrainian supermodel out there who is dying to screw some balding 47y.o guy from the middle of Tennessee.

The ads are frauds, the photos are stock model photos and the women probably don't even know their pictures are being used in this fashion, or they are being compensated for it.

The end.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/09/07 01:43pm
By: Anonymous

I try to find some web in US that is similiar to the web we use in EU, i have my acound there for free if I wannt I can upgrade with payment to be able see webcam on chat, but its my desition. I uppgrade after month of use to have more options, but for simply chat or look on member profiles it's not necessary.

We can there use a chat rooms, have there our own pics and video, orginaze meeting in publick places put there some add if looking for somebody to meet, have there own blog etc.

is here in US some similliar web?

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/09/13 10:02pm
By: Anonymous

It requires time, patience and yes, $$, but I have found several good girlfriends on Ashley Madison, Three of whom I still see.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/10/03 11:36am
By: Anonymous

First time poster so bear that in mind lol....

It is unbelievable how many scams are being operated across so many dating websites, including a load of fake reviews websites as well lol....

Anyway there is already loads of good advice in this thread, most of it probably not what OP wanted to hear.

My take on it is slightly different, I wanted / want some discreet adult diversions. For me, POF has worked absolutely fine. There maybe some fake or old profiles, but you should be able to establish who is who pretty easily.

My main point is that if you cannot get dates through POF, then frankly you will not do any better on a paid for website. Why would you? There might be a slightly different crowd involved on AFF, OK Cupid or whatever but POF is big and popular.

If POF is not working then put more effort in your profile, some sort of pic, even disguised works (for me).... And the main thing is being original when messaging women. To me it's fairly obvious, but if someone's profile says they like tabby cats (haha) then simply google interesting facts about tabby cats and ask if she prefers classic, spot or ticked ( yes really I just googled it). Women love being asked questions. They can get to know more about you later.

To answer the Ops post more directly, to be absolutely fair a while ago I overheard two middle age women at work talking about how they have used AFF successfully, so you could maybe have a go with that as it probably isn't a complete scam. But again, POF should be your proving ground. If POF isn't working I don't believe anything also will, and you need to change / change up your approach.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/10/07 12:40pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

They are all scams. Unfortunately I have wasted a lot of money to find this out. Adult Friend Finder is one big scam and so is Match.com and eHarmony. You get sucked in with "free weekends" or "free to join" then get bombarded with messages from fake women asking you to contact them, but first you have to pay. As soon as you pay your membership, those women all disappear. As soon as eHaemony got my money, they told me that they could not match me with anyone! I'm not rich and don't ride a Harley but other than that I'm a normal single white male.



Very well said!!!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/10/10 03:00am
By: Anonymous

milfshook up is another scam . Computer responses and noone real. Stay away from it

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/10/13 06:56pm
By: Anonymous

I agree adult sites are 99% waste of money, I found out the expensive way.
I have met more women and more sex from pof and it's free.
Just take time to create a good profile with good pictures.
They even show you how to create a good profile. Lol
Happy fishing

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/10/14 10:30am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

They are all scams. People who fall for these don't understand basic human social dynamics.

Women WILL NOT have casual sex with anyone who is not either extremely famous, rich, or insanely handsome (as in a tall, dark Armani model).

If you are an average man like 99% of men are, you ALWAYS have to pay for sex. Be it in the form of a relationship (dinners, housing, nights out at the movies etc) or pure cold cash (prostitution).

Women do not have sex for free after adolescence except with extremely high value men who represent less than 1% of society.

If they do, there is always a catch. For example, in ghettoes they will want to extract alimony from deadbeats, or pop out as many children as possible to live on welfare. So they do not really want the men nor the children, they want the money.

Everything in western society comes down to money. Absolutely everything. Get this through your thick heads and stop living in a fantasy world. There is no Ukrainian supermodel out there who is dying to screw some balding 47y.o guy from the middle of Tennessee.

The ads are frauds, the photos are stock model photos and the women probably don't even know their pictures are being used in this fashion, or they are being compensated for it.

The end.



Shame, just shaved my head and looking to relocate to TN, what a waste of time lol

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/10/21 01:14pm
By: Anonymous


As for AFF. You CAN in fact meet women and couples there if you put in the time. I've been there for a few years and have made some great friends, and bedded my share of women too.

DO NOT PAY for a membership! AFF's scam is in their billing practices. They'll auto charge your CC even when you have auto-renew turned OFF. They also advertise "x months free" with some of the purchases, but there's a catch in that you have to Email so many people, respond to posts, Blog, etc..etc... to EARN each of those "Free Months"

IF you try AFF, go in to your region's Chatroom and don't be a tool. 99.5% of the people in the chat rooms are real. Look for "Meet & Greets" to attend to meet them face to face.

As an earlier poster said, if you're a young buck you're probably going to have difficulties as *most* of the women I've met are not "Cougars" and prefer adults who know their way around the female anatomy. I'm not saying that there aren't cougars on AFF, but if you stick to just email and profile surfing.. your chances are greatly reduced in meeting people.

Also, in ANY CASE.. Install TinEye or another image search plugin in your browser!!!! This applies to ALL websites and it can quickly help you decide if a profile is fake. If you get 10 image hits from sites all over the world, you can bet it's a fake profile. Wink

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/10/23 03:02pm
By: Anonymous

if you guys want to meet women that are close to you why don't you try church. its got to produce more and better results than what you are doing, believe me there is some baby dolls in the churches single and looking for a partner.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/10/26 01:45am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

if you guys want to meet women that are close to you why don't you try church. its got to produce more and better results than what you are doing, believe me there is some baby dolls in the churches single and looking for a partner.



Lol local churches? Who is this guy??

All churches are full of old people, how old are you 55?

Im 27 and struggling to pick up chicks these days!

POF is by far the best site out there, ive met LOADS of girls from there but most are 1 night stands!

Meeting chicks through friends is the best way to meet girls but ive hardly got any mates these days as they all moved away or settled down with kids!

I meet this 1 girl every few months but she lives at the other end of the country and i cant expect her to keep paying for hotels and driving to see me, shell get bored in the end!

There needs to be a new way to meet girls! Im not a 10/10 id probs give myself 7/10 at a push on looks but i know i have a really good personality which is hard to show even on POF or a first date.

Working in IT sucks too as theres no girls and half the blokes dont even drink they are little nerds...

HELP!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/10/28 01:03am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Yes! ALL sex dating sites are scams, usually run from America. Do not waste your money.
If you want to meet a partner stay away from any site that offers members wanting just sex. THEY ARE ALL SCAMS!



The scam sites tend to be run from somewhere outside the US, usually Cyprus or something. Clearly people aren't reading the Terms of Service documents.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/11/05 01:21am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

They are all scams. Unfortunately I have wasted a lot of money to find this out. Adult Friend Finder is one big scam and so is Match.com and eHarmony. You get sucked in with "free weekends" or "free to join" then get bombarded with messages from fake women asking you to contact them, but first you have to pay. As soon as you pay your membership, those women all disappear. As soon as eHaemony got my money, they told me that they could not match me with anyone! I'm not rich and don't ride a Harley but other than that I'm a normal single white male.



Match.com isn't a scam, I met several very attractive nice woman from that site, went for drinks with 2 or 3, wasn't desperate and wasn't just looking for a hook up either. I ended up meeting someone else via not online married her, but I actually am still friends 'facebook' with 2 or 3 of the woman that I met/talked to/etc Of course at the time I was 30 years old, thin, with a solid build (former college athlete), with a good career.....never used eharmony.com. As for the other sites, I've looked and its the same thing spam messages, then pay then never hear from anyone. I did have some success on one site several years ago but I've forgotten the name, maybe fling.com? Yea I believe that was it...

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/11/15 12:54pm
By: Anonymous

lol all dating sites arent spam

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2014/12/15 08:07am
By: Anonymous

Yes..he is paid for sure....e-harmony sucks....only matches are way out of your criteria and way to expensive...a lot more that 49.95

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/01/27 08:28am
By: Anonymous

Just go out, clubs, bars, gyms, classes, churches. Talk to girls and be cool and normal. Stay away from this online garbage

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/02/01 12:04pm
By: norfolk2015

Not all adult dating sites are scam, I have found in the past that free sites, you do get a lot of scammers on them, I have had a few people contact me, and how there emails arrived, and how they talked, would not entertain them, but the paid sites are better, the ones I have joined, have had quite a few nice people contact me, found erotic-adults.co.uk a very good one, you have to pay, but had quite a bit of response, just testing the water for now. Will let you know when I take the plunge and meet someone. I also was told a lot of the free sites are not monitored, and you do not know who you are contacting, but the paid ones, they are monitored, and everything is checked before a profile goes on to the dating site.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/02/05 11:22am
By: Anonymous

Stay away from AdultDateMaker.com complete rip off...took my money and did not credit my account and did not answer my emails.. Stay clear

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/02/09 11:11am
By: Anonymous

They're not scams. I've met real life models on adult dating sites. You just have to play your cards right and not be a perv.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/03/15 03:37pm
By: Anonymous

Stay away from social sex....totally fake, many responses are from fake profiles and by paid staffers. But this probably isn't news to anyone.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/03/20 12:03pm
By: Anonymous

I am a 33 yo white male from seabrook NH and those who say AFF IS FAKE ARE 150% DEAD WRONG!!!I I have no reason to lie, yes most sites are FULL of spam but AFF has little to none and over the past 11 months have hooked up with more girls than I have my entire life! I tried hoohup cloud and that was a scam to get money! All these sites have real girls but no doubt about it AFF is by far the most legitimate! Yes I am a very attractive and polite guy that girls really like but did I mention that I am in a wheelchair! I can walk and girls dont even get phased! I am stupid for even saying thi bcuz the only downside is that it is flooded with guys! But they all are. The guys that say that AFF is fake are either very unattractive or have no game! Or maybe I am more attractive than Im told! I was just reading these reviews and didnt plan posting until I saw how absolutely wrong the other post are! Honestly I dont even try that hard, but if I wanted to put my time in I could hookup with @least 3 or 4 different attractive girls a week! I'm not lying and have zero reason to cuz Im actually hurting myself by drawing more guys. Actually I am supposed to be meeting another girl tonight for the 1st time! I wish I could pist pics of these girls cuz I would. Dont listen to the guys who have had no luck and girls if u read this and ur on AFF my name is the same here as there look me up!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/03/26 04:03am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Yes. As a woman I used Adult Friend Finder for a year and a half. As with any site you have to have a good attitude and be willing to put time and effort in contacting people and yes there are many fake profiles. Anything that looks too good to be true probably is. Please keep in mind that the men out-number the females by a factor of 10. I am going to repeat the "good attitude" and "time and effort." All the men that I met and hooked up with 1) didn't assume that I was a fake profile and sent a nice first message-- not a flirt or one line and 2) had a complete profile themselves, with well-written paragraphs, pictures (body, face as well as equipment) and testimonials which AFF has and 3) were prompt about meeting, calling or video chatting with no run around.



In short: BS Smile
- I have been there, and there are almost no real girls, but a lost fake profiles and all sorts of "scamers", e-mail collectors, etc...
- Secondly, even those very very few... basically, very unclear why are they there. They complain so many guys, yet they do not look or contact anyone themselves
- Thirdly, if so many guys, surely they would find someone, or even dozen very quickly, yet they are there for years...
- so in short, again, BS. Very few real people. not worth it at all.



"I have been there, and there are almost no real girls, but a lost fake profiles and all sorts of "scamers", e-mail collectors, etc..."

There are in fact, quite a few "real" girls, but yes, there are a lot of fakes as well, but not "actors". The fakes you get, are mostly guys wanting to get what they can out of you picture wise and whatever else gets them off posing as a woman. There's also scammers with ill intent.. like the guy who'd hotlist me on a daily basis, with a new account every time. The first time "she" hotlisted me, I sent a message, which she says her country's internet was about to shut down, and she had to use VPN.. "she" was in China. Obviously I didn't connect over VPN.. I'm not giving some hacker access to my computer. His profile picture even showed up in google image search as an Asian model. Ever since then he's been trying daily with different names. There's also just your regular, everyday trolls who just want to mess with you. It's to be expected.. it's the internet.

There's also going to be "some" girls who just like to tease.. that happens in everyday life, not just the internet.


"Secondly, even those very very few... basically, very unclear why are they there. They complain so many guys, yet they do not look or contact anyone themselves"

Not too sure what you're talking about with this one. I've never heard of anyone complaining.. the more guys to choose from, the happier they'd be. As for not contacting anyone themselves... again, not too sure what you're talking about. I've gotten quite a few messages, both from locals who wanted to hookup, as well as girls just wanting to chat, many from around the world. Most of the messages I get though, are from couples.. I happen to be quite long, and a lot of these guys want their wife to have it. Go figure. Razz


"Thirdly, if so many guys, surely they would find someone, or even dozen very quickly, yet they are there for years..."

You don't get it.. it's a site for swingers and people who want casual sex. They aren't looking for a long term commitment.. lol. o.O


"so in short, again, BS. Very few real people. not worth it at all."

I think you're just pissed off that none of the women wanted your ass. lol.



Here's a hint... only look at the "verified" accounts, or the "gold" accounts.. though those may be guys as well, so look for the photos. If the site has member cams, like AFF.. then look to see if the member ever broadcasts. Pretty easy to tell if they're real or not that way.

I even made a skype friend after entering one woman's room one night. She approached me. Wink

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/03/29 12:48pm
By: Anonymous

So what about this place.... right here?? I mean one thing we can be sure of is that people in here, in this discussion might be horny but not perverts. so right now it appears to be the best place to find a genuinely consenting adult. what say?

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/04/01 10:15am
By: Anonymous

Ok folks, First I am not hacker supreme but I do know my way around a keyboard. The sites I hit were Australia, one in Fla, But really in the UK the women were used in several, different cities some were gleend on porno sites.
I did find a few actual women paying (I assume) Very few. These sites are pretty much SCAMS. You will stand a better chance on Craigslist.
If you get a bleeding heart story, Ghana, of other third world *censored* holes, Play with them but for GODS sake do not send money. I traced most to 11 holes on the planet all fake,

Advice keep your credit card in your pocket, DO NOT give the numbers they will not give you a free trial, If you have, Call your credit card company stop the payments.

If you are really wanting to meet someone, I suggest Match.com, E harmony,

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/04/03 02:36pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Yes. As a woman I used Adult Friend Finder for a year and a half. As with any site you have to have a good attitude and be willing to put time and effort in contacting people and yes there are many fake profiles. Anything that looks too good to be true probably is. Please keep in mind that the men out-number the females by a factor of 10. I am going to repeat the "good attitude" and "time and effort." All the men that I met and hooked up with 1) didn't assume that I was a fake profile and sent a nice first message-- not a flirt or one line and 2) had a complete profile themselves, with well-written paragraphs, pictures (body, face as well as equipment) and testimonials which AFF has and 3) were prompt about meeting, calling or video chatting with no run around.



In order to get testimonials you first of all have to actually make a physical contact and it has been my experience that these sites are just cash cows for the unscrupulous owners who appear to do nothing at all about weeding out the fake accounts that crop all the time until someone complains and then they ban the person, who simply re registers under another false name / location. If they really wanted to they could cure this problem at a stroke by blocking the IP addresses, which makes me think that they are in fact generated by the owners to keep punters on the site longer in the hope that they might just be lucky and make a real connection.

AAF is one of the many sites that I use and have nothing good to report about them or indeed any of the sites, are we allowed to name them on here?

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/04/19 03:53am
By: Anonymous

Hi. Just wanted to add on here that Hot Mature Contacts website also appears to be fake. Warning to anyone who thinks this is genuine keep an eye on the responses you get. I put the time and effort in and you can see that the responses never really answer the questions you ask unless you are flirting or talking sex. Feels very scripted and they are very good at getting you to buy more credit. Even the English grammar changed during one very long contact so could see a different person was responding. I even had the same reply a few days apart. Be careful as these sure prey on the vulnerable and can't believe I got caught out

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/05/29 09:16am
By: Anonymous

Grannysexmeet is defo a scam you never get to meet and they try and keep you paying to chat even when you tell them they are fakes. Not recommended to waste money on this stupid con. Steer well clear of this site and all those related. Google the persons name your talking to and it will appear on dozens of other sites , sometimes with different locations. Basically you never get to meet the women on here , they are not real people at all.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/05/29 06:23pm
By: Anonymous

That's just great. Rolling Eyes well, no more dream then. later.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/06/29 03:20am
By: Anonymous

I mean let's be serious this guy name anonymous you won't even give his name so first of all if this guy such a lady man why doesn't even give his name he's the only one that says good things about you harmony you pay $50 a month I know several people that have been on that site it is rated a very poor there is so many men on that site getting laid two or three times a week you're crazy these girls must be like 500 pounds I hate to say it but I don't believe a word that this guy says because only people that are getting paid to say these things are honest I mean if you're like 63 and buff and have a good job and make a lot of cash ok you might be able to get a piece ass but you can't do it any other way these dating sites are all about making money and they know that 90 percent of the people on there are men horny men looking for a piece of ass in 10% maybe 22 women and half of them are just there for text there is no real legit dating site it is just outrageously men compared to women if you're a woman you're set that's why whenever you read these things in a woman is shocked and he can't really say much because you know any woman can get a piece ass you know excuse the language but its just the fact that you have to do is stand there unless you're huge you're going to meet somebody the problem is they don't usually meet men that are loving them women in generally change in the 2000 stay are very very arrogant in the only pic certain types of men that they want to date so believing women I really special is not really a truthful statement they usually like jerks guys that think they're hot s*** and make money you know dogs no offense to the man let's say that they get laid every week I mean if you get laid to three times a week then you either a horn dog or you pay a lot under the table cash because he harmony is the worst site it is a absolutely crap site for men and that's the fact you will get over 100 times more men saying that and you will get almost no man sing with this guy says is just got crazy

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/07/13 01:40am
By: Anonymous

Yes Rosie contacts this is the same company that dies the contact magazine if it's sex u want it's here I use this and I am a woman

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/07/16 01:54pm
By: Anonymous

If all you are wanting to do is get laid, you might as well find you a prostitute. C'mon get real, do you actually think any woman needs to join a dating or hookup site to get laid? They can get it very easily from anyone without going to that extreme. Anyone that pays money for these sites is an idiot and supporting organized crime. Get a life!!!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/07/27 10:57am
By: Anonymous

I actually think he is right about AFF but it depends on where you are at. I only managed to hook up once and alot of the women only wanted white guys or couples. I'm in Ma though and black

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/08/01 04:26pm
By: Anonymous

Pof and ok Cupid work and are free, i'v hooked up with multable woman on both, you just got to come up with something better than "Hi" or "you wanna hook up" lol.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/08/13 05:31pm
By: Anonymous

How about Milfs ? Go ahead and try it. But you will be not happy.

Nothing but a bunch of crap. Almost all of the people that are so called online aren't online. If you message them you will get all sorts of strange answers if you ask the right question. Almost all the messages you get back are computer generated..like holy *censored* your not even talking to a human. After a couple of messages you have exceeded your limit now you have to pay to upgrade to continue...imagine that...L You can't believe 95% of what you read there. Fake pictures. People not from where they say..on and on and on. Your constantly getting buddy requests and you have to pay to accept those also...hmmm..again, imagine that.

I live in Escanaba, Mi. There are quite a few hot women from Cornell, Mi. about 12 miles from me on there...LOL Cornell is a dinky little farming community and if there are some women there they are more than likely corn fed little heffers. But not on Milfs.

There are hot lil bitches running around all over out there..which is generally speaking in the woods..as a matter of fact that about all that is there...woods, a few farms..and corn fed heffers..but good luck with milfs wherever you are...LOL

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/08/19 10:30pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Ashley Madison may be legit but it's so unwieldy and expensive to use, it's not worth it.

After I got divorced I was on Match and OK Cupid and woman were actually doing me in my car. If you can be a generous gentleman for 5 dates you are almost guaranteed to
get sex. My problem is that I feel like I'm misleading woman; most want much much more than sex.



In short: Ashley Madison is BS Smile This site has plenty reviews about AM. Not worth it at all.



AM had their site hacked. ALL their credit card info and secret msgs were exposed this week.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/08/21 07:59am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

This comes from a guy who has lost count of how many women I've pounded from online dating, so listen up. Your best -- no, your only option -- is to use legitimate dating sites. Not the hookup sites. List your intentions as long-term relationship, no matter how inaccurate that is. Have many good photos and write an interesting, grammatically correct profile. When texting with the woman, hint at your sex drive without overwhelming them with it. And no *censored* shots. The hints will screen out the prudes, while the nicely written profile will get you a higher caliber woman. Accept that forking out for that first date with no sex will likely be the price of getting regular sex down the road. Better than a membership with a fraud site. Wish I could give a clinic in this stuff. Good luck, gentlemen.


Absolutely right, I found Ashley Madison and similar sites full of scammers, bots & cam girls, best score I ever had was lying through my teeth on POF!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/08/21 10:00am
By: Anonymous

It would seem not
I was asking questions about so called home town and getting stupid replies, I then wrote jibberish nonsence and got an obvious computer generated response, Cheeky Devil.com is one of the most amateur scams I've ever come across! I can't seem to upload a screenshot but here's the conversation:

Her: If being sexy was a serious crime, Id be guilty as charged! Send me a message so you can see for yourself! Yesterday 12.26 AM
Me: hi Today 12.43 PM
Her: Hey so what more do you just simply want? Today 12.43 PM
Me: to meet up Today 12.44 PM
Her: I bet we can do something else hon Today 12.45 PM
Me: go on Today 12.45 PM
Her: Do you want to do some kissing with me? Today 12.53 PM
Me: I'm very sceptical of these sites, I tend to blog about all the dodgy ones and there are plenty Today 12.54 PM
Me: we'd have to meet up for that Today 12.54 PM
Her: I think we should not be talking about that kind of stuff Today 12.57 PM
Me: are you for real, this chat seems computer generated Today 12.58 PM
Her: Well of course i am for real Today 12.59 PM
Me:I once went to wonderland to see Alice but she was getting shafted by the three bears Today 01.09 PM
Her: Okay that is far more which could be interesting Today 01.09 PM

Now is that a bot or what?

Then I tried to cancel the account and the cancellation code didn't work! so I've emailed the crooks as well!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/08/21 11:16am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

It would seem not
I was asking questions about so called home town and getting stupid replies, I then wrote jibberish nonsence and got an obvious computer generated response, Cheeky Devil.com is one of the most amateur scams I've ever come across! I can't seem to upload a screenshot but here's the conversation:

Her: If being sexy was a serious crime, Id be guilty as charged! Send me a message so you can see for yourself! Yesterday 12.26 AM
Me: hi Today 12.43 PM
Her: Hey so what more do you just simply want? Today 12.43 PM
Me: to meet up Today 12.44 PM
Her: I bet we can do something else hon Today 12.45 PM
Me: go on Today 12.45 PM
Her: Do you want to do some kissing with me? Today 12.53 PM
Me: I'm very sceptical of these sites, I tend to blog about all the dodgy ones and there are plenty Today 12.54 PM
Me: we'd have to meet up for that Today 12.54 PM
Her: I think we should not be talking about that kind of stuff Today 12.57 PM
Me: are you for real, this chat seems computer generated Today 12.58 PM
Her: Well of course i am for real Today 12.59 PM
Me:I once went to wonderland to see Alice but she was getting shafted by the three bears Today 01.09 PM
Her: Okay that is far more which could be interesting Today 01.09 PM

Now is that a bot or what?

Then I tried to cancel the account and the cancellation code didn't work! so I've emailed the crooks as well!



Same site, Daventry girl? or Bot?

hi Today 02.55 PM
Hello there..how are you doing? Today 02.59 PM
Good, you ok? Today 03.11 PM
Isn't this rain awful, hasn't stopped all day Today 03.13 PM
I am great well babe oh yes it has been heavy since Today 03.13 PM

funny that because I'm in Daventry and its been sunny all day, I think maybe the site should upgrade their bot!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/08/21 12:11pm
By: Anonymous

Cheeky devil . com 3 out of 3 are bots so far!

Wonderwoman
Female, 39, Birmingham,United Kingdom
Looking for someone who is well built, muscular, and can handle me and drive...

Hi Today 03.19 PM
are you real? if you are you're the only one on this site Today 03.21 PM
Why are you having any doubts about me baby? Today 03.25 PM
because so far all ive found are bots on this site Today 03.28 PM
How can you say that they are bots? Today 03.34 PM

hi Today 02.55 PM
Hello there..how are you doing? Today 02.59 PM
Good, you ok? Today 03.11 PM
Isn't this rain awful, hasn't stopped all day Today 03.13 PM
I am great well babe oh yes it has been heavy since Today 03.13 PM
funny that because I'm in Daventry and its been sunny all day, I think maybe the site should upgrade their bot! Today 03.34 PM
Huh?? why are you here? if you don't believe in me? Today 03.42 PM
because I'm hoping there's at least one human being on this site Today 03.44 PM
and there obviously isn't, you see I'm doing some research into scam dating Today 03.52 PM
Well that depends on you.. Today 03.55 PM
you see answers that don't make any real sense or common expressions which are unusual anywhere else like Huh!! also the time it takes to process an answer proves it's a machine making fools of people and ripping them off Today 03.58 PM
Like to find that out already? i am ready for that Today 04.08 PM
exactly! Today 04.09 PM



Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/08/23 12:01pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

If not ,which come the closeist to having actual members contacting each other.


Down the pub

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/09/30 09:42pm
By: Anonymous

I have been on a few dating sites for a few years now all are free to send and receive messages and and I have slept with every woman I met in person that I wanted to have sleep with and many the first time we met and I've had a few relationships the longest lasting 10 months..I do wonder if maybe there is a different type of women that actually pay for a dating.. Or does that just mean they waste more money than most.. Lmao

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/10/02 02:22pm
By: Anonymous

With that attitude it's no wonder you didn't meet anyone. I was on the site as a genuine female but most guys look down on you because you are on there. I'm an intelligent professional and to be quite honest most guys who approached me were quite clearly punching above their weight and were very patronising in their approach. What's good for the goose and all that but it still seems most guys are living with 19th century attitudes. For those guys that were not (very few) a great time was had by all.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/10/11 07:29pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

First time poster so bear that in mind lol....

It is unbelievable how many scams are being operated across so many dating websites, including a load of fake reviews websites as well lol....

Anyway there is already loads of good advice in this thread, most of it probably not what OP wanted to hear.

My take on it is slightly different, I wanted / want some discreet adult diversions. For me, POF has worked absolutely fine. There maybe some fake or old profiles, but you should be able to establish who is who pretty easily.

My main point is that if you cannot get dates through POF, then frankly you will not do any better on a paid for website. Why would you? There might be a slightly different crowd involved on AFF, OK Cupid or whatever but POF is big and popular.

If POF is not working then put more effort in your profile, some sort of pic, even disguised works (for me).... And the main thing is being original when messaging women. To me it's fairly obvious, but if someone's profile says they like tabby cats (haha) then simply google interesting facts about tabby cats and ask if she prefers classic, spot or ticked ( yes really I just googled it). Women love being asked questions. They can get to know more about you later.

To answer the Ops post more directly, to be absolutely fair a while ago I overheard two middle age women at work talking about how they have used AFF successfully, so you could maybe have a go with that as it probably isn't a complete scam. But again, POF should be your proving ground. If POF isn't working I don't believe anything also will, and you need to change / change up your approach.


It true

I have used POF and OK cupid. There both great. OK Cupid does have some fakes and I wouldn't pay for there extras on there either as it is just pointless and won't help you get a date quicker neither will POF. What it will do is make you look desperate which will allow fakes to find you easier.

I met a lovely girl in Denton on OK cupid and while were broken up now we still enjoyed a wonderful year together.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/10/12 03:51pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Well I fell for it to and it's kinda embarrassing. I just wanted to meet someone for casual sex.

LOL LOL Arrow Hello

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/10/20 03:27pm
By: Anonymous

Well, from what I can see a lot of the hookup sites are what I would consider scams. And by scams, I mean using fake profiles to lure people in to shell out money.

As far as finding any that work? Well I've heard that Ashely Madison works, but for those who haven't been paying attention that site got hacked a while back and a LOT of people got burned, i.e. personal details released in a database post... and yes, I was one of them and now I'm getting random extortion phishing emails piling up in my junk box (thankfully my email server is good at screening them).
As far as I can tell it was actually 'legit' in the sense that there were real people on there. I actually did get emails back from a few, one had a nasty VD (though thankfully they had the courtesy to let me know before we actually did anything). And another backed out after having second thoughts. So, yes it was 'real', but I'm never going back. My info got leaked in that hack so I personally won't trust them again.

As for AFF, that one DID work. I met someone. I'm not a perfect 10 and neither are they, but the sex was definitely good. I also met one other who ended up flaking out repeatedly. But again, I would classify the site as 'legit'.

Most of the other hookup sites I tried seemed like junk. I would immediately get spammed by dozens of emails / IM's before I even put any details into my profile. And of course, none of that was real... Read the fine print on a lot of those sites and you will find out that they fabricate profiles or 'initiate contact on behalf of users to promote interaction'... So yes, there are a LOT of scam sites out there.

Lastly, both AFF and AM had a LOT more men than women. I think that's probably true of every hookup site out there. As far as I can tell, AM openly lied about that as was seen by the hack data if you read the news... I don't think AFF has ever claimed to have a balanced male to female ratio, so at least they don't lie about it.
So if you do plan on using a hookup site just be aware that the women on the site will probably have their inboxes filled to the brim with emails from the bazillions of random Joe-Schmo profiles. That means they probably spend most of their time having to sift through a lot of junk, which means its up to you to stand out... Honestly I think I only met the one person I did out of shear luck, and that was after 2 years of trying.
On that note, DO NOT expect the women to contact you first... unless you have the body of a Greek god or something... EVERY single email I got from a 'woman' initiating contact ended up being some kind of scam or stripper trying to get me to join a random cam site or something like that.

Similarly, most of them will probably be tired of sifting through the same one liners, junk shots, and rude / obnoxious losers. So don't be surprised if you don't get much response at first...

So, if you want to still try, I would suggest AFF as a start. I'm not saying its great but at least I had some fun on the flash chat and forums while I was there... But be prepared to actually have to work at it if you want to get anywhere.

Lastly, remember even if a site does have 'real' profiles and they don't make fake profiles themselves, that doesn't there won't be scammers that do. You'll have to learn how to spot them and ignore them... like I said, most of the women probably won't be contacting you, you will have to contact them. If someone does contact you first, don't be surprised if it turns out to be a scam.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/10/26 11:34am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Guys/Girls if its too good to be true ITS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE, no woman/guy with half a brain would fall for that, I guess I have less than half a brain since I decided to spend the full 2.99 for a 3 day membership at Benaughty.com , I quickly realized the answers were computer generated responses to my questions LOL - I should know better!!!!
to make matters worse try cancelling the repeat charges in the small print!!!! I was careful enough to follow all the cancellation steps very closely and in the end I only spent 2.99 Lesson learned!!!!

Idea Big Grin Question thats not totally true I was on be naughty for 2months around 5 years ago there was a fair share of fake profiles but not near as many as on other sites I may have not have gotten laid in the 2 months but If I would have just wasn't living close to the girls I connected with but I did make like 8 really good female friends that we are still cool to this date maybe I didn't get what I was after but I got something better and to be clear I could have had sex with any one of them girls I just couldn't travel that far.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/11/09 08:54am
By: Anonymous

never found one yet , all like the AM model ,millions of guys chasing a few 1000 fake women and getting no legovers

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/11/09 09:05am
By: Anonymous

criminals can get an easy ride on online date sites without risk of jail time ,why waste time smuggling narcotics or flesh trade rackets when they can open a date site and make a killing without risk

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/11/11 09:41am
By: Anonymous

then theres the sites with Nigerians using fake woman profiles to get you to send money ,you can waste months talking to an african fella who is using a glam womans photo and has you taken in

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/11/17 10:15am
By: Anonymous

if you see 'global personals' in the the terms you know its a scam site as they generate large numbers of sites such as fling dot com and you likely to see their name somewhere in the small print

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/11/19 09:40pm
By: Anonymous

I just joined a website. I was getting messages from girls. I got a trial membership, and the moment i paid everything suddenly stopped. No messages. no answers from girls i contacted. Nothing.
I just cancelled the account, Hopefully they wont keep charging my card.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/11/22 11:55am
By: Anonymous

just call your bank and tell them to block any more charges it always works as theyre familiar with online date scam sites

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/11/30 11:50pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

The woman who wrote about AFF being a legit website for sex was wrong....only the women OR couples succeed on that website. And Black men well hung. I REPEAT: ONLY women or couples and Black men succeed in finding sex on Adult Friend Finder.com
Single men are in the LESS THAN 1% of meeting anyone for sex on that website.

Your best chance is to find a girlfriend on one of the sites like eHarmony.com where EVERY WOMAN i met in person ended up making love to me. And I am being 100% HONEST.....EVERY WOMAN who met me in person after going through the eHarmony process made love to me and then some!! I had sex with OVER 50-women 3-4 times a week for 2-8 months AVERAGE relationship time in 15 years just by going on there and paying the $49.95 I think it is for 3-4 months membership.

That's A LOT OF SEX guys!! 8-month relationships and each we had sex 3-4 times per week if not more. They give it up MORE than a website where you just ask for it in your profile. WOMEN??? on AFF??? *censored*! they get it WHENEVER and with WHOMEVER they want on AFF.



I thought E Harmony was for Marriage not picking up FWBs

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/12/13 12:12pm
By: Anonymous

No.....try Mature Sex Meet...easy to join..just make certain your details aren't exactly accurate....DOB for instance.....then wait until you receive some messages.

The messages will arrive and at this point, in order to reply, a fee will be required and this is normally very,very easy.

Now,having decided to respond,and paid the fee, BE VERY CERTAIN in all your replies, that you include an email addrescv s and/or your mobile number!

The forthcoming responses will invariably tell you that giving THEIR contact details is our of order at this time but will request that you provide further information about YOU,via the site messaging service

This, of course, will use up any messaging allowance you have left and encourage you to spend more.

If the people were genuine, they would,of course, reply directly to you via the contacts you provided.

That,my friends, is the essence of the scam....to keep you 'talking'

it's very much like pikes selling lucky heather

don't do it...keep your money in YOUR pocket...good luck

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/12/16 09:01am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

I have to say this... All these posts about AFF being so bad must be from real losers, because I personally hooked up with a lot of women when I was on there. I also met some really cool friends who I remain friends with to this day. I'd say that in the 2 years that I used the site, I probably met somewhere between 50-70 women and 10-12 couples. I am a handsome guy and I'm not a youngster. I've thought about going back on there, but it's just not what I'm looking for at this point.

One warning for the young studs... You're probably not going to do well on there. Most of the girls seem to want an experienced, level headed guy that won't bring drama to their door. Oh! And the older guys... Don't forget that pervs are not cool. If you can flirt for a while and actually hold a conversation, then you'll do fine.

On the other hand... Why join a pay site when free dating sites have turned into the new pickup bar? I have done really good on several sites though. So maybe it's just me... Cool



Your full of it lmao

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/12/16 09:09am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Hasn't POF changed their site about a year ago, to discourage - or actually not allow any type of casual hookup messages?



You are correct. If you even state in your profile that you are looking for NSA Fun they delete your profile, ban your email address and IP Address from their site so that the moment you try and make a new profile they immediately delete and will not answer any attempts regarding the matter. POF has gone way downhill and OKCupid is just as bad if not worse. In short you are better off just going to a bar or night club and finding some drunken slut to take home.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/12/17 12:37am
By: Anonymous

I have found dozens of women over the last year on both AM and AFF. You have to not be a retard and write in a professional manner. The women I have been with said that too many guys have no class. They send one line messages with a dick picture. I'm a very good looking guy, but that wouldn't matter if I were to behave the way most guys do. So, up your game guys!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/12/18 02:27am
By: Anonymous

My poor deluded husband has spent £155 on just sex texting trying to find someone to have sex with will someone please tell him he is being conned and promises of 'when we know each other better etc' are stock answers to keep you texting he just doesn't seem to realise having tried several sites they are all scam probably faceless people from abroad raking in the money from poor fools like him. Well I am taking my half of what's left and going as he will never see sense!!!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/12/19 02:24pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

I have to say this... All these posts about AFF being so bad must be from real losers, because I personally hooked up with a lot of women when I was on there. I also met some really cool friends who I remain friends with to this day. I'd say that in the 2 years that I used the site, I probably met somewhere between 50-70 women and 10-12 couples. I am a handsome guy and I'm not a youngster. I've thought about going back on there, but it's just not what I'm looking for at this point.

One warning for the young studs... You're probably not going to do well on there. Most of the girls seem to want an experienced, level headed guy that won't bring drama to their door. Oh! And the older guys... Don't forget that pervs are not cool. If you can flirt for a while and actually hold a conversation, then you'll do fine.

On the other hand... Why join a pay site when free dating sites have turned into the new pickup bar? I have done really good on several sites though. So maybe it's just me... Cool



So which sites did you use? Helpful to know.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/12/21 05:19am
By: Anonymous

the companies in question no doubt have stooges on here trying to negate the criticisms so disreagrd the BS from alleged happy members, its all BS of the highest qulaity

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/12/22 01:16am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

I am a 33 yo white male from seabrook NH and those who say AFF IS FAKE ARE 150% DEAD WRONG!!!I I have no reason to lie, yes most sites are FULL of spam but AFF has little to none and over the past 11 months have hooked up with more girls than I have my entire life! I tried hoohup cloud and that was a scam to get money! All these sites have real girls but no doubt about it AFF is by far the most legitimate! Yes I am a very attractive and polite guy that girls really like but did I mention that I am in a wheelchair! I can walk and girls dont even get phased! I am stupid for even saying thi bcuz the only downside is that it is flooded with guys! But they all are. The guys that say that AFF is fake are either very unattractive or have no game! Or maybe I am more attractive than Im told! I was just reading these reviews and didnt plan posting until I saw how absolutely wrong the other post are! Honestly I dont even try that hard, but if I wanted to put my time in I could hookup with @least 3 or 4 different attractive girls a week! I'm not lying and have zero reason to cuz Im actually hurting myself by drawing more guys. Actually I am supposed to be meeting another girl tonight for the 1st time! I wish I could pist pics of these girls cuz I would. Dont listen to the guys who have had no luck and girls if u read this and ur on AFF my name is the same here as there look me up!



Man, give us your screen name so we can copy. I'm a good looking guy, polite, no dick pics, and I'm getting NOTHING but scams. To the point I can spot them from the jump and string them along for weeks. Frustrated scammers lose their ability to write in English really quickly. Its funny.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/12/27 10:09pm
By: Anonymous

This is an older post but I thought I would add our 2 cents. I can't speak for single men and can only mention my experience as part of a couple for over 11 years. We have not used adult friend finder in about a year but it has been my go to place for over 11 years. We belong to an exclusive high end swingers club and AFF. After 11 years and 2 relationships AFF has only let me down once with an older picture that did not accurately represent the person. Aside from that it has been a great resource. I suggest being clear and upfront with what you are looking for and maybe do a picture search in google. Over the years AFF has been a better value and resource than the hundreds we spend at an exclusive club

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/12/28 01:24am
By: alex hang

Just go out, clubs, bars, gyms, classes, churches. Talk to girls and be cool and normal. Stay away from this online garbage

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/12/30 03:37pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

They are all scams. People who fall for these don't understand basic human social dynamics.

Women WILL NOT have casual sex with anyone who is not either extremely famous, rich, or insanely handsome (as in a tall, dark Armani model).

If you are an average man like 99% of men are, you ALWAYS have to pay for sex. Be it in the form of a relationship (dinners, housing, nights out at the movies etc) or pure cold cash (prostitution).

Women do not have sex for free after adolescence except with extremely high value men who represent less than 1% of society.

If they do, there is always a catch. For example, in ghettoes they will want to extract alimony from deadbeats, or pop out as many children as possible to live on welfare. So they do not really want the men nor the children, they want the money.

Everything in western society comes down to money. Absolutely everything. Get this through your thick heads and stop living in a fantasy world. There is no Ukrainian supermodel out there who is dying to screw some balding 47y.o guy from the middle of Tennessee.

The ads are frauds, the photos are stock model photos and the women probably don't even know their pictures are being used in this fashion, or they are being compensated for it.

The end.



Stated EXACTLY as it is. Don't let those greasy boiler room crooks rob you of your hard earned cash. Get a hooker or hit on women in bars or clubs. Costs the same and you'll get laid.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2015/12/31 07:34am
By: Anonymous

its extremely unlkely any are genuine as theyre a hub of deception and easy money for criminals without fear of doing any jailtime

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/01/04 09:46pm
By: Anonymous

Yeah I have to agree. Don't use the casual sex sites all scams. Women don't need to go on those sites advertising sex. No matter looks or weight any woman can get laid when she wants. And the few women that are on those sites are major swingers or really into some nasty fetishes. Personally i like a girl that doesn't advertise. Craigslist works but like I said...the best way to do it is get on a regular dating site and talk to girls. Just because there not advertising for sex doesn't mean they don't want it. Also Im not a big one night stand guy. Yeah I've had my share. But nothing compares to getting to know them first. Even a little bit. I've hooked up on adult friend finder. Pof. Craigslist. Try something different than every other typical predictable guy. I once posted a picture of a big black penus on c.l. saying I was going to be in town for weekend, just to see responses of local women. Got alot of responses. One lady I liked and told her truth saying was an experiment. But helped that I have a big white penus to show her and she was good to go. Also I posted ad in dating section saying I wanted to find women that were interested in living off the grid. Just like looking for likeminded girls. Got a lot of responses and still close friends with a couple of em. Anyway I'm not saying dovwhat I did, bit just think outside box think like a women. Don't be just one of the countless predictable guys. Stand out.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/01/12 01:59pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

iHookup worked for me and its free to sign up. Got laid hella times on that site. Its similar to AFF but way better.



Really? iHookup worked for you? That's *censored*. I signed up for iHookup and got over 20 contacts without even putting in a profile. I got constant requests from "girls" asking to upgrade to gold to see their pictures, and constant contact from scammers. All you have to do is seach "is iHookup a scam?" and you'll get back tons of evidence that it is, indeed, pure scam

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/01/12 02:09pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

With that attitude it's no wonder you didn't meet anyone. I was on the site as a genuine female but most guys look down on you because you are on there. I'm an intelligent professional and to be quite honest most guys who approached me were quite clearly punching above their weight and were very patronising in their approach. What's good for the goose and all that but it still seems most guys are living with 19th century attitudes. For those guys that were not (very few) a great time was had by all.



Well, hell, then Maggie. I want to talk to you. I certainly am not looking down on anyone for being on an adult site. I mean, them being on the site is why I'm on the site

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/01/17 11:24am
By: Anonymous

Well I am 71 and all the parts still work and love to please. I have had a few takers from a couple of sites but it's not fun getting older and still enjoying the best thing in life lol. I am not ready to get into a monogamous relationship. Older spends more time taking care of business than the wham bam type. Too bad women don't understand that. I have had more luck off of the free sites than anything but very few women want a man of my age. Too bad lol.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/01/29 04:36am
By: Anonymous

Ive not found any yet

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/01/29 11:34am
By: Anonymous

do you believe in santa claus ?? if so then go ahead and good luck

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/02/02 09:50am
By: Anonymous

There are loads of genuine sites out there, in my experiance just join the ones that have good contact details i.e. Contact numbers and email address. Like most good sites they are plagued with big guys from Nigeria sitting in cafes using pics of the internet to pretend to be Busty Lucy from Luton. They are easy to spot, just ask yourself if some good looking woman is contacting me when I look like the back end of a bus then she is a fake. Just contact the ones that are in your league and be polite with no *censored* pics....its not rocket science....Ive been reading some of these feedbacks and some of the issues are because some men just don't know how to talk to women or how to conduct themselves online....talk to women with respect and surprise surprise some will talk back.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/02/04 05:22am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

1. The one who wrote here about eHarmony and Match is a scam or "agent" to get you to those sites.

2. eHarmony, may have some real girls, but mostly it will be like every where "else", but that i mean it is not complete scam per say, but will be difficult. I actually has couple of girl friends who tried out that site, but did not stay long there. Ok, they were after serious relationship rather than anything else, but still...

[/QUOTE. All these sites exist to part you from your money..... *censored* Scam

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/02/04 08:16am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

If not, which come the closeist to having actual members contacting each other.



In my opinion and experience there all scams, I wouldn't spend another penny on one of them. It's basic psychology, they suck you in, because you want to believe. Maintain a healthy sense of cynicism, and don't don't go there, you'll end up with an empty wallet and nothing to show for it.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/02/05 10:32am
By: Anonymous

Give us some examples of good sites which are genuine. Its all complaints on review sites. Date sites will never let you get a free contact to proove they're genuine as to do so would reveal they are a load of crap.

The men far outnumber the female profiles and a good few are bogus so that leaves not much even if you write good profiles ....and look like an adonis ...

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/02/06 12:45am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

I am 55 and fed up with these so called sites where you can always meet a woman.
That 's until you disclose you are 55 that 's when you discover that all the older women want young guys and young girls don 't do it with older guys.
Yet on the front cover everyone does it and there 's no bar.
All I want is to meet a married woman who is betwen 35 & 60 looking fior some funis that to much to ask.



Actually that couldn't be farther from the truth, most women want men 35 through 55. And a lot of younger women are into older men. It's tougher for single younger men then for any other demographic.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/02/06 01:30pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

If not, which come the closeist to having actual members contacting each other.



In my opinion and experience there all scams, I wouldn't spend another penny on one of them. It's basic psychology, they suck you in, because you want to believe. Maintain a healthy sense of cynicism, and don't don't go there, you'll end up with an empty wallet and nothing to show for it.



Or your just a twat that sends messages saying "hi sexy give me a call" with your *censored* hanging out on your profile....at the end of the day a lot of these sites have genuine and fake members, because scammers and prositutues use these sites and it's hard to control that...but if you have a few brain cells you can get to the genuine profiles...but no doubt I'm going to now get abuse from some other idiot

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/02/07 11:46am
By: Anonymous

shills like to bad mouth unhappy customers belittling them and calling them out as dysfuntional nerds who cant string a sentence together .but maybe the opposite is true....there is just too many complainants ...of all date sites

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/02/13 11:36am
By: Anonymous

The guy who posted about AFF is right, most women are looking for younger guys, I was two time member and I hardly got any attention at all, big waste of money, I have done much better on the regular sites like Our Time.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/03/17 11:00pm
By: Anonymous

There all BS, for example sexEncounters will lure, you in with an email from a pretty girl..you sign up and they never send you another note. You will have a few look at your profile once in a while, a few will friend you but they are all paid by the site.Don't be suck in men...all you do is keep the site up and running.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/03/18 06:26am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

There all BS, for example sexEncounters will lure, you in with an email from a pretty girl..you sign up and they never send you another note. You will have a few look at your profile once in a while, a few will friend you but they are all paid by the site.Don't be suck in men...all you do is keep the site up and running.



its the biggest scam of modern times-- all criminals are on the bandwagon as its a billion dollar scam market and little chance of doing jail time

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/03/20 10:42am
By: Anonymous

I joined AFF two weeks ago. Out of the women that contacted me at least 5 were scams to try to get money. After they talk with you 3 times. lol There was 4 conversations that did not go anywhere and one legit young lady. The couples were all legit as far as I could tell. The ladies for the most part in my age group 50-60 were looking for younger men. Then I started getting messages from swinger groups which always directed you to another site. Corporate raiding? Have not followed up on them yet but by the paperwork they send you seems legit. These ID's are new to me also. Any experience with these situations out there/

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/04/08 12:21pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

This comes from a guy who has lost count of how many women I've pounded from online dating, so listen up. Your best -- no, your only option -- is to use legitimate dating sites. Not the hookup sites. List your intentions as long-term relationship, no matter how inaccurate that is. Have many good photos and write an interesting, grammatically correct profile. When texting with the woman, hint at your sex drive without overwhelming them with it. And no *censored* shots. The hints will screen out the prudes, while the nicely written profile will get you a higher caliber woman. Accept that forking out for that first date with no sex will likely be the price of getting regular sex down the road. Better than a membership with a fraud site. Wish I could give a clinic in this stuff. Good luck, gentlemen.



This guy is 100% on the money go with the legit sites create great profiles, post well taken pics, create a script, l have a lot of pre fab responses for the different personality types of women out there you gota control their thought process dont give them time to think and bombard them with constant classy innuendo, as he said it will filter out the prudes once you have done that you can get a little more raunchy, however everything must be done with tact... l always tell them im open to a long term relationship, l am not interested in one nighters or hookups, not looking for a fwb, but l always tell them l have a high sex drive and expect sex but that sex is not all that im looking for... in the ladt 4 years l have slept with approximately 300 women my business partner & friend who is a woman estimates this # to be 500 l have used tinder, pof, okcupid, obc(low quality women on there and not very popular any longer) Craigslist (stay away from casual encounters and use the long term post section) l have used aff with success, meetme.com, fling (though l cant quite remember the experience) l am a good looking man in my late 30's who takes care of myself, if you look like crap dont expect a results because your competing against someone like me, and stop treating these women like they are virgins, THEY ARE NOT!! Honestly most of them want to be treated like whores and sluts in the bedroom, l repeat in the BEDROOM, not in every day life (though there are some who are into that as well)
Also l differ majorly from the guy l am quoting in one way of the 300 women l estimate l have been with through these sites 290 of them l have banged on the first meeting, l have rarely had to take them out l usually go straight to their house, or they come to mine, my healthy lifestyle helps with that, l dont eat out lol... and here is the trick to getting laid everytime, even if you are taking them out. I do this every time l meet a woman regardless of where l am or what she looks like because lets be honest when its just for sex standards get lowered, however before l even say hello to her l walk up to her intensly grab her and passionately kiss her, l grab her ass, and especially do this grab the back of her head and ball a good amount of her hair and firmly pull her head back while you kiss her. If you are at her or your place immediately go for the neck after kissing (dont give her time to think) you will hear her wimper or moan at this point and she's yours push her to her knees or take her shirt of... literally within 30 seconds of physically meeting these women im banging them... this has worked for me 90 plus percent of the time... after l have had my way with her l always say "well hello" they love it.... l give them some cuddle time and great pillow talk then im out of there, but they are hooked... hope this helps someone

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/04/08 12:27pm
By: Anonymous

Oh and one more thing go for women in their 30's and 40's they are in their sexual primes and a lot easier to nail... the younger ones definitely look better but they are not as comfortable with sex so you have to work way harder and they are more expensive

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/04/11 05:44am
By: Mickey676

This question will never have a straight to the point answer. There are people too frustrated, by fake websites that promise a sure date, that say all dating sites are fake. And are those who just for profit say that's not true. In fact, there are legit websites, and of course exist websites that are fake. What is sure is that whatever website you visit, be sure that you'll find genuine profiles as well as fake ones. All you can do is take some minor safe measures so you won't be scammed.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/04/22 07:17am
By: Anonymous

pick any date site you like then take a look at the reviews on youtube .its all complaints and no good reviews and feedback

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/04/27 01:39pm
By: Anonymous

join a swinger site, hook up with a single woman to go to partys or clubs and as you come as a couple you will get laid all you can handle, single guys are welcome but dont often get laid like a couple

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/04/30 02:49am
By: Anonymous

I agree all but a few “dating” sites are totally fake and just exist to take money out of your bank account. And at times the automatic renewal process can seem to be on auto-pilot because you know you canceled it. Then when first signing up with new site at a very reduced intro fee you can really be suckered punch by a deceptive site. By completing the sign up process, but not reading the fine print and checking the box NO to their other related site(s) you unknowingly have also signed up with the “sister” site(s) and NOT at a reduced cost. Same parent company that operate separate but “in the family” sites.

NOW I have suggestion to substantially cut losses. Open up a savings account and don’t keep but a few dollars more than the amount of a “sign-up/registration fee”. Simply transfer the amount required (checking to savings) just before signing up . Usually but not always banks will not honor a payment request due to insufficient funds but some banks will accept the request for payment and you get a hit with a fee. SO, when opening the savings acct. inform the bank rep that the account cannot allow a payment without sufficient available funds. However this does not negate the need to read the fine print or at least look for any indication of a dual site registration process.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/05/23 11:50am
By: Anonymous

the biggest date sites turn over billions of $ from ripping people off so they all want a piece of the action to get on the gravey train ...to easy money ville

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/05/26 04:01am
By: Anonymous

Yes but you have to pay the ladies and if your willing to do that all your troubles are threw! You will look at dating sites like childs play! Go to Craigslist personals casual encounters wfm and find someone you want to hook up with make sure they have an actual # and text or call them and negotiate a donation amount never say money. Its hit and miss as far as looks go but ive scored with beautiful woman and it didn't cost me my house!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/05/27 04:36am
By: Anonymous

I can give an accurate report , ALL the supposed cheating sites ( like wicked wives etc ) - are totally bogus ,
do not use them, you will get instant e-mails and lured into them - I can also sadly state I found no real women on Ashley Madison ( thankfully I posted false address and name details ) before it was hacked

if you want sex - you must join a proper dating site , and pay for the service offered , I went on match.com and actually was up-front in my profile , that I was married , and met up with 2 single women who I had sex with -
I can also state that both were larger ( fatter ) than the profile photo seemed to suggest -
I also never used a profile photo ( for obvious reasons _) and did well , I recommend you just send a polite e-mail and keep it straight for the first few messages , and you will prosper

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/05/27 05:44pm
By: Anonymous

I'm a member of flirt.com and looks ok.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/06/07 02:47pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Yes! ALL sex dating sites are scams, usually run from America. Do not waste your money.
If you want to meet a partner stay away from any site that offers members wanting just sex. THEY ARE ALL SCAMS!



That's *censored* - I've been a member on AdultFriendFinder for years now and have met multiple couples, and singles there. You just need to weed out the fakes and players.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/06/22 11:25am
By: Anonymous

WHAT WILL REALLY BUST YOUR BUBBLE ABOUT THESE SO CALLED SEX DATE SITES. THERE'S A SITE CALLED SCAMBUSTERS WHOM I TRUSTED AND ALL I GOT WAS DISAPPOINTED SURPRISED SHOCKED THEY GAVE A SO CALLED SAFE TO USE RATING FOR SEX DATE SITES LIKE. (IM NAUGHTY, NAUGHTY OVER 50 SSBBW SEX DATES SENIOR SIZZLE AND MANY MANY MORE) THESE WOMEN SAY THEIR LOOKING FOR SEX HOOK UPS, NOT TRUE REAL WOMEN TRUE SAFE SITE TRUE. ACTUALLY MEET NOT TRUE. I JOINED TONS OF THESE SITES AND ALL I FOUND WAS THE SAME THINGS DEAD END. ON ALL. THESE SO CALLED SEX DATE SITES BEFORE I UPLOADED A PIC OR EVEN FILLED OUT A PROFILE I ALREADY RECEIVED 50 TO 60 E-MAILS HOW CAN THAT HAPPEN (SO TO END THIS BS YOU CAN'T EVEN TRUST THE TRUSTED)

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/06/22 11:31am
By: Anonymous

its a billion dollar business so expect them to use every trick in the book to part you from your money and give nothing in return as men far outnumber women and any genuine women get swamped with replies and dont respond

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/06/22 11:39am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

I'm a member of flirt.com and looks ok.



HEY KENNY Your A FOOL!!! I JOINED THAT ONE TO AND RECEIVED NOTHING IN RETURN.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/06/22 12:39pm
By: Anonymous

EVEN PUBLIC CHATROOMS ARE MESSING WITH YOUR HEAD (YOU CAN'T TRUST THE TRUSTED)

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/06/22 12:58pm
By: Anonymous

HERE'S SOMETHING ELSE TO THINK ABOUT. I HAD TO CANCEL AND CHANGE MY GMAIL ACCOUNT SEVERAL TIMES BECAUSE IT WAS THE ONLY WAY TO GET AWAY FROM SEX DATE SITES E-MAILS. EVEN SITES LIKE TUMBLR ARE SNEAKING IN SEX DATE SITES ALSO GOOGLE PLAY STORE HAS THEM. SO JUST REMEMBER YOU CAN'T TRUST THE TRUSTED! !!!!!!!!

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Posted on: 2016/06/22 01:04pm
By: Anonymous

HAY YOU BETTER LOOK LIKE A CHIPNDALE AND HUNG LIKE A HORSE IF YOU THINK TO GET ACTION

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/06/22 01:25pm
By: Anonymous

I'VE INVESTIGATED ALOT OF SITES SPENT LOTS OF MONEY USED SEVERAL EMAIL ACCOUNTS IM A FORENSIC INVESTOR FOR THE UNITED STATES GOVERNMENT I WORK ALONE IM THE GUY THEY CALL WHEN OTHERS FAIL I'VE ACTUALLY. DEMOLISHED A HOUSE DOWN TO THE LAST NAIL JUST TO CATCH THAT BAD GUY. I HOLD SEVERAL COLLEGE DEGREES PHDS IN FORENSICS. I DON'T WANT MONEY I DON'T WANT AWARDS I JUST WANT TO HELP CATCH THAT IDIOT THAT THINKS HE'S SMART

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/06/22 02:10pm
By: Anonymous

HERE'S ANOTHER GOOD ONE... I SPENT $275.00 WITH ASHLEYMADISON 100% GUARANTEED OR YOUR MONEY BACK THAT WAS A YEAR AGO I STILL HAVEN'T RECEIVED MY MONEY BACK SOMEONE NEEDS TO GO TO PRISON FOR TAKING ADVANTAGE OF US WHEN WHERE VULNERABILITY

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/06/22 02:27pm
By: Anonymous

I HAVE MORE. .... I INVESTIGATED AND THOUGHT I SHUT DOWN A SITE CALLED AFFAIRES ALLERT. THAT WAS 2 YSR AGO AND THEY POPPED UP AGAIN GUESS WHERE HIDDEN INSIDE THE TUMBLR APP.. LIKE I SAID YOU CAN'T TRUST THE TRUSTED. ......

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/06/25 10:47pm
By: Anonymous

I personally think you shouldn't have to pay anything to meet up and have a good time, most dating sites like Swipe Hookup and other crap like that spring credit card *censored* for so called gold features, don't be dumb and fall for crap like that, sites that insist on credit cards are 100% scams.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/06/27 07:22am
By: Anonymous

they couch there scams as verification sites .which they claim are free but dont fall for it ,give them NO cc details or they will plunder your account ,stay well away from verifications sites as theyre run by east european criminals

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/06/28 09:08pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Yes. As a woman I used Adult Friend Finder for a year and a half. As with any site you have to have a good attitude and be willing to put time and effort in contacting people and yes there are many fake profiles. Anything that looks too good to be true probably is. Please keep in mind that the men out-number the females by a factor of 10. I am going to repeat the "good attitude" and "time and effort." All the men that I met and hooked up with 1) didn't assume that I was a fake profile and sent a nice first message-- not a flirt or one line and 2) had a complete profile themselves, with well-written paragraphs, pictures (body, face as well as equipment) and testimonials which AFF has and 3) were prompt about meeting, calling or video chatting with no run around.




I read somewhere that aff. Is for woman to get hotter guys than they normally would on regular date sites mostly fat chics? Is this true? Razz

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/06/28 11:39pm
By: Anonymous

Maybe this is the best place to meet someone for hookups! Seems to make sense to me.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/07/02 10:53am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Maybe this is the best place to meet someone for hookups! Seems to make sense to me.



company stooges are operating on here so not true

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/07/03 08:51pm
By: Anonymous

Adult friend finder charged about 20-50 a month I had the gold plan and I had at least 50 real sexual encounters in about 6 months. You can photoshop your pic if you want but if you are honest you'll have better results.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/07/09 09:26am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Yes. As a woman I used Adult Friend Finder for a year and a half. As with any site you have to have a good attitude and be willing to put time and effort in contacting people and yes there are many fake profiles. Anything that looks too good to be true probably is. Please keep in mind that the men out-number the females by a factor of 10. I am going to repeat the "good attitude" and "time and effort." All the men that I met and hooked up with 1) didn't assume that I was a fake profile and sent a nice first message-- not a flirt or one line and 2) had a complete profile themselves, with well-written paragraphs, pictures (body, face as well as equipment) and testimonials which AFF has and 3) were prompt about meeting, calling or video chatting with no run around.




I read somewhere that aff. Is for woman to get hotter guys than they normally would on regular date sites mostly fat chics? Is this true? Razz



certainly true on POF where the women are very choosy and nothing will satisfy them ,many on there complain ''where have all the good guys gone '' because they have used up all their goodwill with guys on there ..you see the same old faces bitching they cant find a good guy on POF..

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/07/15 09:26am
By: Anonymous

even craigslist is awash with scammers and fakes so you cant trusy anybody it seems...nigerians have stuffed online dating as they pose for victims and scammers

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/07/15 12:16pm
By: Anonymous

Well all the ones I have tried are total scams. The worst so far were Secretmatureflirt and Matureflirtbook:
Matureflirtbook

this is the most blatant scam site I have come across. The girls who almost certainly do not exist in reality in the regions listed are not the people writing to you. If you pick up on a line in their 'profile' for instance saying they like walking in the park or having a drink on a terrace they are totally ignorant of this and their replies are no sequiturs to anything you write or ask. In many cases they reply always with one liners the exact opposite of the question or the profile. The English imperfect and the swift responses are being written by Russian computer operators responding to the profile.
Much of the site is blatantly sexual and do not be surprised if you get sent raunchy photos and intimate details in an attempt to keep you hooked.
I suspect that most people on this site are seeking sex contact but I doubt you will achieve it. All you will do is spend £100 getting nowhere.
As I was not looking for pure sex or any variety thereof but for a mature relationship I picked those profiles which claimed they were looking for 'Tender' or some other form of hook up. Believe you me I wasted about 150 messages suggesting a coffee, a meal, a chat or at least a sensible reply revealing the interest and character of the profile. There was NEVER an appropriate feedback. I tried 7 profiles
Avoid this site and its sister Secretmatureflirt at all costs and save your money.
It is Fraudulent and a blatant scam and the Support is non exist ant. They claim they will remove a fraudulent profile but they will not.

Secretmatureflirt

I had hoped that at least for us golden oldies over 40 a 'mature site' might be reliable. No way. The usual rip off and expensive too. I had hoped the site might be a reliable alternative to Tinder. The site is well designed and easy to use but you only get 500 letters or spaces per message for one pound sterling ($1.50) so to make any communications at all you go through $50 in a flash. most of the women are average to unappealing in the beauty department and seem sex mad intent on any combination of sexual activity from Bi to threesome or oral. naturally I tested three of the more attractive participants. The results were all identical. Their English grammar was suspect, the replies anodyne avoiding any answers to questions or personal information or indeed asking any real information about oneself. Instead one was invited to chat continuously but it is a one sided chat with no feedback or hope of progress. This was a shame because I took a real fancy to one photo personality claiming to be 41 but from analysis of her hands certainly closer to 50. After a number of exchanges I was sent a phot of the person's very abundant breasts. Two days later after requesting aa 'mugshot' I was sent the same photo and when I pointed out I had already seen it there was a feeble excuse so clearly the site operator had forgotten they had sent it. Quite clearly in all three cases I experienced you were never speaking to the real person but to a site employee. I learn from another user that even if you get so far as requesting a contact you are referred to yet another site and charged at least $50 with no guarantee of a hook up.
The site is 9 months old and is operated out of the Netherlands but hides its real identity and has all the hallmarks of yet another Russian scam.
BEWARE!



Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/07/18 12:26pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Yes. As a woman I used Adult Friend Finder for a year and a half. As with any site you have to have a good attitude and be willing to put time and effort in contacting people and yes there are many fake profiles. Anything that looks too good to be true probably is. Please keep in mind that the men out-number the females by a factor of 10. I am going to repeat the "good attitude" and "time and effort." All the men that I met and hooked up with 1) didn't assume that I was a fake profile and sent a nice first message-- not a flirt or one line and 2) had a complete profile themselves, with well-written paragraphs, pictures (body, face as well as equipment) and testimonials which AFF has and 3) were prompt about meeting, calling or video chatting with no run around.



As this poster illustrates, men outnumber women roughly 10:1. I actually think of this as closer to 100:1 because the of the 10 women to 100 men, only one of those women is attractive enough for me to want to message. And I'm guessing 75 of the other guys are going to agree w/ me. So men, you are in a tough situation here, competing w/ somewhere around 75 other messages to see which she picks. You gotta pour your heart into this, use all your clever wit & charm, but don't be too eager or long winded. You gotta show her how incredible you are, be funny, be sweet, have an ability to develop intimacy, but again, don't make it too long or scare her away by being TOO intimate too soon. Tempt her, tantalize her, entertain her.

That's the lowdown for men.

The lowdown for women? Realize that any man who is willing to spend the time and energy to do all the above for the 15-100 different women he might potentially meet but more than likely is never going to get a response from:
1. Spends a lot of time alone in front of a computer. (or is cut-n-pasting his message, which is actually a good way to go, guys)
2. Has some issues but is able to write an appealing introduction and construct an ideal profile. High probability that the online persona he has created is way cooler than the real life persona.

So go ahead and fall for the most well-constructed fake, then go date him for a few days, weeks or months before you figure out the illusion isn't what you thought it was. Head back to the internet for another guy who dedicates his time to being online weaving webs of romance for your entertainment.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/07/18 12:38pm
By: Anonymous

the fact that no date site will even let you try a free date to actually meet a women illustrates that theyre all fraudsters as you arent likely to meet any women.. so they wont give you a trial to meet some person ..as it wont happen

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/07/20 04:19pm
By: Anonymous

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Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/07/28 10:38am
By: Anonymous

I've tried Granny Chat City - a complete 100% scam.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/07/29 06:55pm
By: Anonymous

Still trying to work out if maturesexmeet.com is a scam. Message costs are scandalous. Conversations appear to be genuine so far.

Also Mature Meets, which is affiliated to hundreds of other sites, including NaughtyToo, RealLocalSex etc.. A lot of the "women" are bots.

One that appears to be kosher, up to now anyway, is fabswingers.com - relatively cheap subscription offering Gold or Silver membership (Gold doesn't last quite so long but gives you more benefits), online messaging all day long at no extra cost, chat rooms, cams, store as many pictures as you want & the ability to make some available to "Friends" only. I'm enjoying it.

Just get on there & hook up with me!!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/07/30 01:13am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Still trying to work out if maturesexmeet.com is a scam. Message costs are scandalous. Conversations appear to be genuine so far.

Also Mature Meets, which is affiliated to hundreds of other sites, including NaughtyToo, RealLocalSex etc.. A lot of the "women" are bots.

One that appears to be kosher, up to now anyway, is fabswingers.com - relatively cheap subscription offering Gold or Silver membership (Gold doesn't last quite so long but gives you more benefits), online messaging all day long at no extra cost, chat rooms, cams, store as many pictures as you want & the ability to make some available to "Friends" only. I'm enjoying it.

Just get on there & hook up with me!!



Plus I own the site lol

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/08/03 10:49pm
By: Anonymous

I have been searching and looking for legit sites just like everyone else on this forum. I found a new site but it only has a couple of people right now. I emailed the admin to see why had so few people and they told me because it was a brand new site and they didn't want to load it with bots. They wanted real people from the beginning. The site is xxxfundate.com check it out for yourself and make your own decision. Cool

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/08/07 09:55am
By: Anonymous

try POF its very difficult or even impossible to get a simple acknowledgment

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/08/09 03:18am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

I have been searching and looking for legit sites just like everyone else on this forum. I found a new site but it only has a couple of people right now. I emailed the admin to see why had so few people and they told me because it was a brand new site and they didn't want to load it with bots. They wanted real people from the beginning. The site is xxxfundate.com check it out for yourself and make your own decision. Cool



And I own the site lol

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/08/09 07:16am
By: Anonymous

Most are scams . I worked for one as admin being paid 15p per message I replied to .men were encouraged to stay on the site and paid a hell of a lot to send messages to fake women

POF however has treated me well I found my late husband on there and also my now longterm B/F

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/08/09 07:23pm
By: Anonymous

I am a 55,Male, I have checked dating sites, I have visited Sex sites and they all have profiles that claim to be either 1 Mile - 50 mile or 1 km 100 km from me.
The problem with that is I am in fact 200 km from the nearest town and there is nothing between me and that town except bush or open barren plains.
The Photos in all the sites cant be accepted as real cause from what I have seen is TOO MANY Photo's used by scammers in every site and the Sites have been Notified of this fact but still run the Photo's , so how can anyone take these sites as Legit if the they have Fraudulent Profiles and support SCAMMERS by Ignoring notifications to the fact ?
One group of sites had a minimum of 48 Photo's of Porn stars and Models Etc. used by Scammers that I had seen.

ALL sites are Fraudulent and REFUSE to clean up their sites that is why I gave up looking.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/08/16 12:50am
By: Anonymous

Definitely stay away from Adult Friendfinder and Passion. Yes there are many genuine persons looking for hookups but it's like looking for a needle in a haystack finding a genuine real member. I took took a one month membership and I read six hundred and forty, yes 640!! profiles and at a very rough estimate I would say at least ten per cent of them were false! I conversed with one for a few hours who tried to get me to pay for an Iphone 6!

This is the general pattern: I'm a poor student. My parents died in a car crash. My late father has assets in the bank etc etc etc.

My friends, don't be lazy bastards like me! Instead go out to the bars and clubs and you can almost definitely get laid every night Big Grin

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/08/16 04:24am
By: Anonymous

On fling dot com its more like 90 % dead or fake accounts, this was found on my scan thru profiles where none of them had logged in for very long periods, or never.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/08/21 06:49pm
By: Anonymous

Probably not.

I have reviewed a few now Adult friend Finder, Mature Flirts, most recently Real Sex contacts and a load more. See my review of Real Sex Contacts here.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/08/23 12:02pm
By: Anonymous

Going back a few years I had some luck on Tagged and as it was the Myyearbook (now meetme). Since then these sites don't seem to be any good even though Tagged merged with Hi5 but maybe it's because I am older now! I have tried quite a few dating sites more recently including POF of which BDSM Sex Dates and another by the same company were fruitful but again these days seem to be more of a scam making it difficult for you to cancel your subscription. As for the rest recently I have tried a few all of which seem to be scams. The swinging sites don't seem to be scams but it is difficult to get started as a single male and even harder if married but playing alone. I don't know which sites are the best but perhaps the likes of POF maybe however it has now merged with match.com or similar I think and has gone downhill from the early days.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/08/29 02:10pm
By: Anonymous

Not any more. I think about 7 to 8 years ago I went to Sugar Daddy. I presumed 50% were no doubt "Fake" just the way the Ad was displayed. I avoided them. Of the remaining 50% I contacted about 5% or perhaps 10 Womwn. 8 of 10 were Great. I think the Greed of the Company ruined a "good thing" The Erotic Review is legit so far (over the last week. They may have a few Fakes? but so far so good. Smile Check them out!

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Posted on: 2016/08/30 03:39pm
By: Anonymous

Don't go to "meet a mature" total scam.....funny that nearly all the ladies come from Derby. It is a total scam just to encourage guys to have a sexual chat and draw you in.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/08/30 07:04pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Don't go to "meet a mature" total scam.....funny that nearly all the ladies come from Derby. It is a total scam just to encourage guys to have a sexual chat and draw you in.



Maybe just maybe your in Derby and so your search menu diverts to Derby...Internet is a wonderful thing but dangerous in the hands of people like you.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/08/31 08:50am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

I have to say this... All these posts about AFF being so bad must be from real losers, because I personally hooked up with a lot of women when I was on there. I also met some really cool friends who I remain friends with to this day. I'd say that in the 2 years that I used the site, I probably met somewhere between 50-70 women and 10-12 couples. I am a handsome guy and I'm not a youngster. I've thought about going back on there, but it's just not what I'm looking for at this point.

One warning for the young studs... You're probably not going to do well on there. Most of the girls seem to want an experienced, level headed guy that won't bring drama to their door. Oh! And the older guys... Don't forget that pervs are not cool. If you can flirt for a while and actually hold a conversation, then you'll do fine.

On the other hand... Why join a pay site when free dating sites have turned into the new pickup bar? I have done really good on several sites though. So maybe it's just me... Cool



agree with match.com got answers and has dated one girl. But I got several answers. Admittedly, I look good but I'm pretty nice and not pushy in terms of sex. This pays off in the end. Work on your personality and what you write. We guys checking much for appearance. But working with your presentation and to the right girl. Girls get 10 times more notice than us guys. My ex got 100's of emails per week, so I understand that girls can not be bothered to respond. But my ex told the guys that effort and not good writing hello or hey sweetie she usually answer. Look at the profile and try to match and capture her interest. She likes to dance, write that you also like dancing or looking to start dancing. When you show your interest in her as a person and interest. Another way way is to write Hello all good for 100 girls (spam) you might get a response in 20 girls but then got a bite. I did so on OkCupid, which led to that I met three girls 100 I contacted but these three girls were interested in me as a person, both in appearance but me as a person.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/09/01 06:26pm
By: Anonymous

I am over 70 in a sexless marriage requiring me to be discreet. I've hooked up with a sweet self-described slut several times, had a fair amount of cybersex, and tried out my bicurious side successfully once in a couple of years. And met several friends on line. It's worth it for me; it would be much more worth it were I not a fat old fool.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/09/01 06:30pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

I am over 70 in a sexless marriage requiring me to be discreet. I've hooked up with a sweet self-described slut several times, had a fair amount of cybersex, and tried out my bicurious side successfully once in a couple of years. And met several friends on line. It's worth it for me; it would be much more worth it were I not a fat old fool.



This is on AFF.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/09/06 11:47am
By: henryscat

Hi, recently i joined justwantsex.co.uk, straight away i started chatting and got replies, as the girls were local, i suggested to meet up in a well known public place for a coffee so we could get to know each other in person and primarily to establish wether they were real people, everyone declined and didn't understand my reasoning, £1 per message is enough of a reason i think.
anyway this carried on for a while with no luck, then i realised that no women had contacted me, with cogs turning in my head i decided to open a second email account in order to open an account on the same web site, only as a woman, the results confirmed to me that this is a scam site, there are 1000's of women, mainly between 18 and 35 on the site, compared to only 101 men, with this ratio i would have expected to be inundated with messages!!! i'm guessing there will be a handful of girls sitting in an office somewhere on their computers telling us what we want to hear!!!
So now i'm just spreading the word for guys to stay clear of this web site, it's a scam...

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/09/06 03:46pm
By: Anonymous

its the easiest scam con ever invented by criminals with no chance of jail time ,they can conjur up as many fake profiles as they wish

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/09/26 05:18pm
By: Anonymous

Being 56 years old, but with young looks and athletic body, I thought it would be a walk in the park to find a women for casual sex in these websites. For 4 years my marriage was a sex starved one, I didn't want to run the risk of getting a women in the local pub as It is not discreet.
I have tried many of them hookup websites and spent some money, I found out the naked truth, they are all scams, full of fake women and computer generated replies.
I need sex as I have very high sex drive, so I ended up buying one of these expensive blow up dolls that looks real and feels real, it even vibrates and moans. Problem solved, at least I paid for something not for a fantasy. I know it is not moral, but even paying for sex with hookers is cheaper than using those websites and it is certainly real sex.
Don't spend a penny on those websites. Here are your options
1) Masturbate (not anywhere near as good as a women)
2) Blow up doll ( better than a hand job, less good than a women)
3) Hookers (Immoral, risk of TSD)
4) If in a sex starved marriage, spend the money on doctors to cure your wife low sex drive, if no hope spend the money on divorce lawyers and make sure you marry a women with high sex drive like you.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/10/01 06:21am
By: Anonymous

Meetlocalmatures.com. All a scam

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/10/01 10:06am
By: Anonymous

I agree re meetlocamatures.com. Total con.

After demanding some money back, and getting it, they then sent me an ordinary e-mail from another website they run, complete with attractive nude picture, saying 'Holly' lived very near me and would I like to meet? Yes I would, if she was a real person, but of course she isn't, this is how desperate the site owners are for money and how desperate some men must be ...

Site owners (the company is registered in the Netherlands): I wasn't born yesterday (I'm 62, so indeed I wasn't).

I actually think that if the UK wasn't still so repressed with regard to sex - attitudes are only liberal among a minority - the consumer magazine Which? could do a thorough review of the casual dating sites and get a few closed down for breaking UK consumer law.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/10/01 01:53pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

I agree re meetlocamatures.com. Total con.

After demanding some money back, and getting it, they then sent me an ordinary e-mail from another website they run, complete with attractive nude picture, saying 'Holly' lived very near me and would I like to meet? Yes I would, if she was a real person, but of course she isn't, this is how desperate the site owners are for money and how desperate some men must be ...

Site owners (the company is registered in the Netherlands): I wasn't born yesterday (I'm 62, so indeed I wasn't).

I actually think that if the UK wasn't still so repressed with regard to sex - attitudes are only liberal among a minority - the consumer magazine Which? could do a thorough review of the casual dating sites and get a few closed down for breaking UK consumer law.



There are only a few sites that are scams the others work hard so the user can enjoy the site,its not always their fault that scammers join and send spam messages. You can go on any site in the world and upload a female picture and pretend your a woman. And if you send normal messages you won't get caught out, scammers love the sites and its hard for site owners to find them a lot of the time.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/10/08 11:12pm
By: Anonymous

All of the sites are scams or worse! Met a woman on one of the sites. She looked nice but turned out to be the queen of herpes! She got her herpes from men on the dating site and continues to spread the disease to countless other men. And the disease is incurable. Watch out or you could be next!!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/10/09 10:19am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

All of the sites are scams or worse! Met a woman on one of the sites. She looked nice but turned out to be the queen of herpes! She got her herpes from men on the dating site and continues to spread the disease to countless other men. And the disease is incurable. Watch out or you could be next!!



So she don't pick up guys from bars???? What a stupid comment.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/10/18 01:51am
By: Anonymous

i think that is what he meant

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/10/19 08:48am
By: Anonymous

Big Grin This is indeed an interesting topic. Its much harder to find women, for casual encounters if your not a white Caucasian male. It is interesting that a lot of Caucasian males are finding it difficult though. As an Indian by ETHNICITY i have found it really hard on all sites in recent times. Tried all the tricks nothing works. There again its not that easy in the Uk to get with random women as people arent as open as in the United States for example. Interesting stuff keep the conversation going.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/10/25 04:04pm
By: Anonymous

i have had 20 plus years of "online hookup" experience that dates back to the mid 90's. The first really productive place i went for hookups was the old yahoo chat rooms by state. When i started going there - you could virtually always find a same day hookup(being married at the time i stuck to once or twice a week) 4 or 5 years into that i hooked up with my current wife. There was a lot of garbage in yahoo chat, but you could always find some fun.

Fast forward 10 years and suggested mfm fun to the yahoo hookup that became my second wife. 6 weeks after suggesting mfm i arranged first time .

we used yahoo chat for hookups until it closed......since then aff has been the productive site.....and mix in a little from craigslist, swinglifestyle etc we have stayed busy as we want to be.......mostly mfm, but we have found single f for fmf as well and mfmf fun.

Single guys just dont recognize the odds and most shoot themselves in the foot with bad manners , usually less than 5 minutes into the first contact.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/10/26 04:48pm
By: Anonymous

I know a couple of these, but unfortunately, I can not get access to because they are blocked for our country. You have to use a proxy like advanced.name/ru to access them, and it's not very convenient.

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Posted on: 2016/10/28 09:18am
By: Anonymous

plenty of fish absolutely totally works I'm 23 years old, I've used this app in two states now, both successful with many women,(most of them a bit crazy). All I can say is to be successful you have to send out tons of messages, and mature greetings to maximize responses. There is bots on this website, but ladies and gentlemen, I tell you, it works

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Posted on: 2016/10/29 07:11pm
By: Anonymous

Seriously all you guys posting on here sound like such a catch.NOT
No wonder dating sites get such a bad rep with people like you on them. Why on earth would any nice normal woman want to meet or even hook up with you when there is a complete lack of any respect shown.
Believe it or not there are many women that would much prefer something casual than a serious relationship. But you still need to show some respect and dignity to have any hope of attracting them!
Take a look at yourselves

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/10/31 12:27pm
By: Anonymous

I have been on several sites that claim to be honest and so far I have not found one. The women claim to be from towns close to me but, they are not. I am retired law enforcement and I have worked these towns before and I promise you none of these ladies come from those towns. All they do is get you to spend money for membership or but tokens to chat with but you never get to first base with them. I would love to find a honest site, I am alone and would love to meet someone who shares my interest and would love to have company. If there are any please someone let me know.

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Posted on: 2016/11/04 02:09pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Great, so what you're saying is.. you were payed to post that. Thanks for the eHarmony plug. Big Grin




Hahaha haaaaahahaha to ficking funny to be real bro hahahaa

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Posted on: 2016/11/13 09:59pm
By: Anonymous

If you want no strings attached sex, join a swingers website and go to gang bang parties, swing parties that allow single men or find couples where the women wants a bull. its much easier to find a woman there who just wants sex and you can be her boy toy for months.

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Posted on: 2016/11/19 11:54pm
By: Anonymous

BeNaughty.com To say the most IT IS B.S.!!!! TO SAY THE LEAST Caveat emptor !!!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/11/20 12:40am
By: Anonymous

I've tried about a dozen hookup sites. They all wanted my money, with the exception of Craigslist, if you consider that to be a hookup site.

Most hookup sites are eager to make money. That's understandable. But luring people in, with glamorous and fake profile photos is no way to go about it.

It's difficult to find a hookup site that can promise you that the person you're talking to is real. I fell for a "love scam" once.

After noticing the mistakes and lack of features offered by many of these hookup sites, I decided to create my own, with the hopes of providing everybody with an awesome free service, with a feature where you can verify that the person is real, and that feature is Private Video Chat.

Come check it out. All members have a photo on file, and anyone can join. You can brosw profiles, send & receive messages, chat in our chat rooms, and enter a private video & voice chat, all on your first visit. There is no payment system programmed into my site; everything is totally free.

http://www.adultchatclub.com

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/11/20 10:12am
By: Anonymous

So adultchatclub.com allow 14 year olds and above on their site? Don't know why admin just removed my last comment, it's a fact....check the website

The terms read as follows

We do not knowingly collect any personal information from children under the age of 13. If you are under the age of 13, please do not submit any personal information through our Website or Service. We encourage parents and legal guardians to monitor their children’s Internet usage and to help enforce this Policy by instructing their children never to provide personal information through our Website or Service without their permission. If you have reason to believe that a child under the age of 13 has provided personal information to us through our Website or Service, please contact us.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/11/21 10:12am
By: Anonymous

in the days before the net arrived i used to advertise in contact ads in mags and national papers and always had 6-8 replies at a time and there was no photos employed and met some gorgeous females and many were hot to trot right away . online dating is a crock of **** and doesnt work IMO..adding photos esp naked photos to online dating encouraged criminals to scam guys


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Posted on: 2016/11/22 02:02am
By: Anonymous

There are many decent single or divorced women begging for a nice guy to come along and rock their world. Treat them right, (that's respect, not necessarily money) and you won't have to ask for anything. They want what you want and they will let you know if and when they're ready. The problem is finding out where they are. The women you want to be with would not be caught dead roaming around some sleazy adult site. Take the sex out of your searching and you will find the women in droves. And the craziest part of it all is that they want the sex more than you do. They just don't want it with some dirt-bag crawling around in the internet cesspool. So get off your lazy ass, shut down the computer, go out into the world and find real people to interact with. I might help to tidy yourself up first.

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Posted on: 2016/11/24 08:44pm
By: Anonymous

I actually have had luck on AFF, not a ton, but I have hooked up on that site. I find it easier to go on the dating sites, the best is POF, for the simple reason, you can chat with women and hook up and it's all FREE. Most sites won't let any contact without $$. I am Married, and I have hooked up quite a few times there and never disclosed that I am. Downside, and asshole can report you and get you kicked, twice now for me.

Good luck!


Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/11/25 08:12am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Ok folks, First I am not hacker supreme but I do know my way around a keyboard. The sites I hit were Australia, one in Fla, But really in the UK the women were used in several, different cities some were gleend on porno sites.
I did find a few actual women paying (I assume) Very few. These sites are pretty much SCAMS. You will stand a better chance on Craigslist.
If you get a bleeding heart story, Ghana, of other third world *censored* holes, Play with them but for GODS sake do not send money. I traced most to 11 holes on the planet all fake,

Advice keep your credit card in your pocket, DO NOT give the numbers they will not give you a free trial, If you have, Call your credit card company stop the payments.

If you are really wanting to meet someone, I suggest Match.com, E harmony,

Big Grin

I just found out that grannysexmeet.com is one of them. BIG TIME SCUM. Stay away from them . These are the real guys to be sentenced to the prison .

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/11/26 06:48am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

They are all scams. People who fall for these don't understand basic human social dynamics.

Women WILL NOT have casual sex with anyone who is not either extremely famous, rich, or insanely handsome (as in a tall, dark Armani model).

If you are an average man like 99% of men are, you ALWAYS have to pay for sex. Be it in the form of a relationship (dinners, housing, nights out at the movies etc) or pure cold cash (prostitution).

Women do not have sex for free after adolescence except with extremely high value men who represent less than 1% of society.

If they do, there is always a catch. For example, in ghettoes they will want to extract alimony from deadbeats, or pop out as many children as possible to live on welfare. So they do not really want the men nor the children, they want the money.

Everything in western society comes down to money. Absolutely everything. Get this through your thick heads and stop living in a fantasy world. There is no Ukrainian supermodel out there who is dying to screw some balding 47y.o guy from the middle of Tennessee.

The ads are frauds, the photos are stock model photos and the women probably don't even know their pictures are being used in this fashion, or they are being compensated for it.

The end.



You are completely delusional. Perhaps because it hasn't happened to you doesn't mean that it happens to everyone. I have never used a dating site in my life. I am 34 years old, 6'3, 230 pounds(and swf nor all muscle but average again, thiufh more athletic than obese), family from Pakistan, but I was born in NY and thus am American, and I have been told by so many random strangers, both women and men gay and straight, and my guy and girl friends that I could be a model, but I consider my looks average (I suppose I underestimate my looks but this doesn't mean that I lack confidene, not one bit). Everyone and I mean everyone always comments on how good looking I am when I'm dressed up and groomed (sometimes I just like to wear a fitted and sweatpants and grown stubble, beards, mustaches and even then I get compliments when looking like a bum). And though I have a doctorate degree, I do not make crazy money or drive a fancy car or live in an affluent apartment. Yet I have had no joke, over 20 girls come up to me/approach me in my lifetime , of all ages, even at 13 (when I was 13 also),whether strangers in public or in a bar/lounge/club, or workplace and ask me out rather than vice versa. And each time the girl was a 7 or above, not being a braggadocio but just telling you that yes women do approach men. I have dated a few, hooked up with a few as fwb, or one night stands, and have even said no if I was in a relationship. So if this happens in person, I guarantee it happens on the internet. I have had friends who are average or below looks wise hook up with good looking women off the internet ant have met quite a few of them. So I'm saying that you sir just don't know how to approach girls, or get rejected all the time, so you cope by telling yourself that it haooens to all men, and made itba generalization in your head.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/11/27 12:47pm
By: Anonymous

it depends on where in the world you are and if the local women are many or few in numbers as to what response you get , criminals will know the score on numbers in your area and will fill in the gaps with fake profiles if you live in a sparse area for females . some guys live in an area where free women are plentifull in number and will do well ..others will have little success ..and get taken for a ride time after time ...but in most cases theyre a scam

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Posted on: 2016/11/27 12:54pm
By: Anonymous

forget craigslist as its infested with nigerian scammers even in sub forums that have nothing to do with dating and contacts .. such as in teaching jobs and boats and motor bikes for sale and other inocuous sub forums nigerians are advertising posing as women or hookers

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Posted on: 2016/11/27 01:03pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Ok folks, First I am not hacker supreme but I do know my way around a keyboard. The sites I hit were Australia, one in Fla, But really in the UK the women were used in several, different cities some were gleend on porno sites.
I did find a few actual women paying (I assume) Very few. These sites are pretty much SCAMS. You will stand a better chance on Craigslist.
If you get a bleeding heart story, Ghana, of other third world *censored* holes, Play with them but for GODS sake do not send money. I traced most to 11 holes on the planet all fake,

Advice keep your credit card in your pocket, DO NOT give the numbers they will not give you a free trial, If you have, Call your credit card company stop the payments.

If you are really wanting to meet someone, I suggest Match.com, E harmony,

Big Grin

I just found out that grannysexmeet.com is one of them. BIG TIME SCUM. Stay away from them . These are the real guys to be sentenced to the prison .



its a myth about grannys being up for it .they have long ago gone off the boil due to menopause and other health problems esp in their heads so dont waste your time with grannys with saggy tits and dangly bits that shouldnt be there

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/11/27 01:54pm
By: Anonymous

What age do you class a woman to be a granny? I know a woman who is a nanny or granny at 34 so is that to old?

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/11/29 06:37pm
By: Anonymous

"Great, so what you're saying is.. you were payed to post that. Thanks for the eHarmony plug. Big Grin"

HAHAHAHAHA!!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2016/12/09 09:41am
By: Anonymous

theyre all fakes run by criminals as that is the norm now

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Posted on: 2016/12/21 11:31am
By: Anonymous

No, no and no.
Lost enough money. Should have read here first.

Please run away from Adult Friend Finder and LovesFlirt.

I did meet two people on 121 dating and had sex with one over a period. Didn't fancy the second one. Maybe that one is genuine or I was just lucky.

My advice now is to leg it.

Spot a fake Profile

Posted on: 2016/12/22 02:26am
By: Anonymous

I wish I was here earlier, I would like everyone to read this.

I would like to inform you all of a great way to tell if someone is pretending to be someone else online. Its free and you don't download anything, all you do is use Google.
1. Right click the image and you'll see an option to Copy Image URL, copy that.
- If you can't right click, you can take a screenshot of the image instead. Make sure its cropped to the person's face.
2. Go to the Google Images main page, to the right of the search bar there is a little camera icon.
3. Click that, choose Search by URL and paste that image. I think there is an option to upload the screenshot saved on your computer if you did that.
You will be able to see every time that same image is used in Google's database. You can also look for visually similar images with Google.

If the person is famous on many other websites you can tell something is wrong. This doesn't always work of course if they are a private model or whatever but it doesnt hurt to take a look around to see what you can find. Im not sure if this will come in handy for sex scam sites or dating websites but this might be helpful to know in general.

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Posted on: 2016/12/22 05:20am
By: Anonymous

NOTE- 'k' key not good- using c or C- same sound.
I've struck out 95% of the time online and in person due to lack of confidence. I am better than average in look's, funny- but lack confidence.
THE GAME- a dating bible. RETOOL YOURSELF!:
The Prey- hot women- w/ the magic t*ts and vag- 10 minutes in bar, party, social event, THEY have choice of 10 dongs- 30 minutes later- getting plowed. So why go online to get lied to, BSed? Just pick one out- see what your getting. So Online we find: Hotties w/ Kids, fetish, rebound, busy professional, nemph(1/1000), wild hair u luck out, recent return to scene and no wing girl, and.... Tier Two- homely, over-weight, socially inept, occasional girl next door, mom w/ Kids needs new husband, etc.. but most of us are Tier 2- SO- clean, nice, overweight is good enough and have to work harder so usually more skilled sexually. Some of the hottest are the lamest in bed- they don't have to try.
>>Craigslist-99.9% ads to pull you to their BS website or cam. But- .5% are real- start studying- you will learn to tell real from prostitutes and website cams. Spot the genuine ones- will get snaked once in a while, that's fine.
>>Trade- I got chicC- a professional, to come after her eve at 6am and next day via trade. Risked health, freedom, $...but I was horney, but not again- was very interesting and NASTY good.
>>POF- same retreads, got bored.
>>connectingsingles.com- nice new variety.
>>The Game, a book on how to get dates in person, or online... written by a Gobber, learned the craft- could get laid 90% if time using the skill's taught in the book. There are other similar book's- written by PUA Pick Up Artists.
Axiom One- NEVER step outside your house unless you look the best you can- clean, groomed, neat, smell nice, white teeth, etc... be the person any woman would do- women want fresh, clean, nicely dressed. Break this axiom if you want to become a professional Master Baiter. Quit crying if not getting laid if you break Axiom ONE. Second- you have to overcome the fear of approaching a beautiful woman, alone, spur of moment- maybe walk up from behind, OH- here- this lent was on your shoulder- or is this your pet??? Lint from your pocket really- apply dialog, comments, questions, remark's, etc from the book... you act as if pressed for time- quickens the conversation, I got to run, but I enjoyed this....want to trade numbers and pick this up later.... or some other canned conversation is used..... That is my two cents- no need for change. Good Luck- ALWAYS TREAT EVERY women, hot or not, thin or fat, hideous or worst, breasts or not, tall or small, able or handicapped, whatever- EXACTLY how you would want your MOTHER or SISTER treated- guaranteed, she will have a friend that will suck your eyes out of your head or the chrome off the trailer hitch....RESPECT, Kindness, pays! Plus she will talk you UP, you being talked UP will now get you noticed and fondness will be felt for you before the game starts.....Respect and Kindness splits the sheets...
>>There is a book dedicated to online dating- you turn your hunt into a factory Mill, 10 men to 1 chicC- how to overcome this by technique and volume.

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Posted on: 2016/12/22 05:59am
By: Anonymous

been on CL for years and never found a genuine corespondant .its all taken over by nigerians .in every sub forum ... now given up on CL

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/01/02 05:26pm
By: Anonymous

Thank you for reading our terms of service. The statement you're referring to is in reference to the FCC's Children's Online Privacy Protection Rule (COPPA.) For more information on that rule. please read this:https://www.ftc.gov/enforcement/rules/rulemaking-regulatory-reform-proceedings/childrens-online-privacy-protection-ruleAdultchatclub.com does not allow any person under the age of 18 to sign up. Our registration process will automatically reject their application.If you're old enough, I encourage you to visit us and create an account. You will then be able to view the profiles of each and every member of our site, which includes their age. You will not find a member who is less than 18 years old. Sorry about your misunderstanding. Have a great day!Adultchatclub.com
Quote by: Anonymous

So adultchatclub.com allow 14 year olds and above on their site? Don't know why admin just removed my last comment, it's a fact....check the website

The terms read as follows

We do not knowingly collect any personal information from children under the age of 13. If you are under the age of 13, please do not submit any personal information through our Website or Service. We encourage parents and legal guardians to monitor their children’s Internet usage and to help enforce this Policy by instructing their children never to provide personal information through our Website or Service without their permission. If you have reason to believe that a child under the age of 13 has provided personal information to us through our Website or Service, please contact us.


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Posted on: 2017/01/06 03:47pm
By: Anonymous

Nothing could be further from the truth ... it is not free to be on AFF but it is a pretty good site to meet women for intimate fun. I was a paid member for a year and met 15, slept with 12 women ... some once, some several times for months.

Now, if you think you're gonna throw a couple dick pics up and have women lining up, you're out of your mind. Not saying there aren't "enthusiastic" women there, but its simply not that easy ever. Put a little time in, buy a couple drinks, etc ... you'll get all the P you can possibly handle.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/01/26 02:57pm
By: Anonymous

My partner and I have met many lovely women on AFF. However, the fakes do outnumber the real ones by a wide margin, and the male:female ratio is FAR worse than 10:1. It's more like 75:1.


General rules:

* Genuine couples will do better on sites like AFF (and its many sister sites like alt.com etc).

* Couples looking for other couples will fare the best out of anyone.

* Many times, even "real" couple profiles are in fact just the guy screwing around. The female half mysteriously never is there.

* NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER pay for a membership on these sites. AFF is totally usable with a free membership.

* I forget if I mentioned this already: NEVER give them your credit card number.

* Always insist on webcam chat with everyone on the profile (i.e. for couples, all 4 of you should be present on the cam chat). If the other person "doesn't have a cam", or "can't get their cam to work with this site", (seriously???) or "my wife was called to work suddenly".....these are fake/scammers, block them immediately.

* Use TinEye or Google image search to weed out obvious fakes. Be aware that they have gotten much better with cropping and altering photos, etc, and many times the search engines still can't find any matches on obvious fake photos.

* When we were on AFF my partner and I had a "blocked user" list that was literally 4 pages long. Use this feature of the site.

* NEVER GIVE THEM YOUR CREDIT CARD!!

Good luck, but in all honesty you're best bet is to go out to swing clubs, pay the charge as a single male, be polite, respectful, well-groomed, and sincere, and you will have more success than on an "adult dating" web site.

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Posted on: 2017/01/27 09:39pm
By: Anonymous

I haven't found any, if you are not sure on a sex hook up site, or a dating site, go to scam busters, & they will give you some information, on what ever sites you are interested in.

As for Snap2Date, this is a total scam,
It says that you can communicate with people on there, but they prevent you from actually arranging, any kind of hookup with the person you want to have sex with. U need to look at the terms policy in detail, & take a bit of time reading what it says.
I nearly fell for it,
After reading the reviews on the app, I downloaded it, then went to sign up, & read the terms.
And that's when I found out It was a scam website & app.

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Posted on: 2017/01/28 11:55am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

The woman who wrote about AFF being a legit website for sex was wrong....only the women OR couples succeed on that website. And Black men well hung. I REPEAT: ONLY women or couples and Black men succeed in finding sex on Adult Friend Finder.com



That's not entirely true. The woman who about AFF is correct. As for ONLY women, couples or black men having success, I couldn't say. I don't know where you did your research but I didn't do any research. So you may be right. But most likely you're wrong.

Back in 2007 after a bad break up I only wanted to get laid. I was done with relationships. So after I had gone through my circle of friends and their friends, I joined AFF. I was a member for a whole year and only had one encounter. I'm a short, Hispanic man and I hooked up with a white woman with very large fake breasts that her husband had just bought her haha. We partied at her friends house until the sun came up and then went back to my place and did it until the sun went back down. I never saw her again. So one hookup from the site in an in entire year is horrible. But you can't speak in absolutes and say "ONLY" women, couples and black men get laid. Btw, I live in a small city so there aren't many people in my area on the site.

I will say this: after many years of being away, I rejoined AFF last year for a few months. Almost every profile seemed to be fake. Something definitely changed over there.

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Posted on: 2017/01/30 10:34pm
By: Anonymous

Yes they are. Please don't be fooled into thinking that there are a lot of women looking for sex on these sites. Craigslist is also not the way to go. If you do find a women, the chances of her having an std is really high. In finding an actual women online, the only successes I've had are facebook(free) and pof(2 month subscription as in i caved and payed. I really didn't want to, but im making enough money that it didnt hurt at the time). Yes you can meet women on pof, whether or not they will have sex with you is up to them. And as for paying, it only gives you priority(meaning it makes it so you are one of the first people to pop up if a woman is actively searching for a man). No guarantees, you just have to be something that a women is looking for. If you don't believe me that's fine. but i found a girl who isn't just sex to me and it feels kinda good knowing someone likes me for me you know?

P.S. -Forgot to mention for the pof subscription, it doesn't automatically renew for me but it might for you so watch out for that if you are willing to take a leap of faith like me.

Good luck to all those guys out there looking to get laid Smile chances are real low so you definitely need the luck XD

P.S.S -If you do happen to find out a website that works, keep it to yourself, you don't want competition cause there is a lot of it XD

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/02/07 10:17am
By: Anonymous

i have only ever found nigerian scammers on CL masquerading as women .with stolen photos of hottys

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/02/09 07:15am
By: Anonymous

I find that badoo although not a sex site I have had sex with 3 married women and 5 girls younger and older then me in last 2 years from that site

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/02/09 03:40pm
By: Anonymous

Even for this old site, passing this along. I do Internet security work when there are criminal gangs that are well organized. For AFF-biggest scam site, occasionally good for swinger types, but for hookups you will be scammed if you try. Match.com-next on the list-Some real women, about a 40 percent scam rate, Other adult sex sites-very little real women, about 97 percent of all adult sites are totally fake, try OK Cupid-since I also do the moderator job for them free-15 min a week, no scammers, and real people. Take time to answer at least 150 questions, the more the better. Pick friends as your choice or dating,
Make a decent profile. And, guys keep this in mind, yes if you are a former player, pick-up person like me in the real world you can do what you want, for dating sites, women out number you completely. Don't waste time with them. If anything do the OKCupid, POF, currently a joke. You can meet up with real people within a couple days, if you know what you are doing. I would limit emails back and forth to a few, and say that.
One thing to keep in mind is demographics. Find someone that is close to your age on dating sites. The one or two hookup sites that rarely will find some women. OKCupid-start as friend or only date, but meet for coffee as a condition of whether you want to date. If you have any game, you could turn it into a hookup, but go for the multiple friend method. Realize that women are on that site because they can't find dates in the real world.

Go have fun with OKCupid or go out in the real world, find women that have similar interests as you do. Try any of the meetup meetings, free in any city, find a topic that you enjoy. Some of that takes a little time.

You can go from the OKCupid to hooking up fairly fast, Meet in person and go over what you are seeking. Know that women read your intentions better than you know. Women are more sexual than men.
So if you are a Nice Guy, get help. You need to get over the fear of rejection. There are 3.6 billion women available.Most won't work long term. In the real world, daytime meeting of women is best. Personally, bookstores have been my favorite, but anywhere there are women you can meet them. Just need to be someone that is not afraid to approach women, no games, state your name, she caught your attention and you would like to get to know her better. I have never asked a women for a phone number in my life. They just give them to me. Avoid chat, messaging as much as possible. Much of that is games. If a woman can tie up your time, you aren't able to see other women. Don't fall for the just want to get to know you thing. Make it clear that is called friendship, you are looking for a relationship. Don't get stuck in the friends zone. Few get out. Learn about descriptive language, the various tests women will do. They do this partly as they stand a chance of getting pregnant. Set boundaries and stick to them. At first, don't go on dinner dates, or to the movies. Keep it simple. Until you have slept with a woman, you don't need to give your life story, don't think you need to impress them. They far more go for a man that can simply be honest, vulnerable.
Know what polarity theory is. That is women that are available are going to be uninterested, neutral, or interested. Most will be neutral. If there is mutual attraction, your goal is to escalate fairly fast. If you are dating and you go more than two dates, realize you are not acting like a man. Women won't tell you but they expect you to act. Not them. So if they are neutral realize it is up to you to escalate matters. This will either move them to uninterested, or interested. Too much to put here, but the goal is to have interested women. Lots of normal ways to do that. If it was pickup artists stuff that is completely different..
What you want is to find women that have high self-esteem. They will see sex as positive and want to learn more. If you are just seeking to get laid, most likely you will find ones with low self esteem and you need to then know how to archetype them and play the psychology of sex. If you want more, seek high self esteem women. Do all you can to make yourself the best not for women but for yourself.
There are plenty of games you can play but you need to know what you are doing. Charm is one of my favorites, Think James Bond. You basically, have no intentions, no anxiety, you charm others if it is in a group setting. If you enter a room, stop a few seconds at the entrance and look around. then enter. Blink slower, really don't show any interest, this is for just meeting anywhere not dating. If you do this right the woman is going to think you are either gay or can't figure you out. You know the goal. The end result if you know what you are doing is you will get more women.

For those that just want to do pure hookups, know that short of spending years or decades to be a pickup artist, your intentions are going to scare off most women. There will be some that seek out men of status, but that is few. Most want security. Don't get into buying her things or you are the nice guy. I don't even buy women drinks. If some date isn't going right. I take her home half way during the date, explain it just doesn't feel right. Get a hold of the book No More Mr. Nice Guy. It might help. Realize you will get women angry.So what. Rejection simply means you are not compatible. And the overall scope here of hookup sites. Total rip offs, be careful with your credit cards. Why do you think most adult sites offer porn? The answer is because you won't meet most women in real life. So, online OKcupid- had lots of good women. Even match.com had some good sex dates, but never at the first meeting, which is coffee to see if dating is wanted.
You should know how to see if she is attracted, eyes dialed she leans into you. Don't ask too many questions, talk some about yourself. It is somewhat a numbers game, but really depends on what you are seeking. If you want quality, seek high self-esteem, and get your personal self in shape. You don't have to be rich. But hookup adult sites are fake other than one or two, and chances of true hookups without scam stuff is very few are there to hookup, and most aren't even real. Just use Google image search and you will find the image on lots of sites. Look at the email headers if you get to that. They won't be any where near.

Can't add more. Real world is best I can advise. Wish I could pass along what comes naturally to me, but I found out that is not easy. Approach women, be honest and don't try to put on some show to impress them.
Unless you are a true pick up artist, and know women, they are more aware of what is going on than you are most of the times. I could suggest becoming an expert NLP person, that will take years, but you can flip some switches with that if you want.. Good hunting, and stay disease free if possible Mr. X, Cool

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/02/14 08:37am
By: Anonymous

Beware of the wantingsex site...they want you to pay to be able to send messages by buying credits. You have no chance of meeting anyone from here as they are paid to send messages..i am glad i wasn't fooled by it. That type of site should be banned as they should by law have to state thats it's not a real sex dating site..so its a big scam...BEWARE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/02/22 03:41pm
By: Anonymous

Thanks to everyone for what I consider very very good advice stay away from them they are as I suspected scams but it is so easy to get drawn in with the promises, like one person said if it sounds to good to be true then its 99% *censored* thanks everyone

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/03/02 01:34pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

The woman who wrote about AFF being a legit website for sex was wrong....only the women OR couples succeed on that website. And Black men well hung. I REPEAT: ONLY women or couples and Black men succeed in finding sex on Adult Friend Finder.com



That's not entirely true. The woman who about AFF is correct. As for ONLY women, couples or black men having success, I couldn't say. I don't know where you did your research but I didn't do any research. So you may be right. But most likely you're wrong.

Back in 2007 after a bad break up I only wanted to get laid. I was done with relationships. So after I had gone through my circle of friends and their friends, I joined AFF. I was a member for a whole year and only had one encounter. I'm a short, Hispanic man and I hooked up with a white woman with very large fake breasts that her husband had just bought her haha. We partied at her friends house until the sun came up and then went back to my place and did it until the sun went back down. I never saw her again. So one hookup from the site in an in entire year is horrible. But you can't speak in absolutes and say "ONLY" women, couples and black men get laid. Btw, I live in a small city so there aren't many people in my area on the site.

I will say this: after many years of being away, I rejoined AFF last year for a few months. Almost every profile seemed to be fake. Something definitely changed over there.

Razz

I was on AAF for three years and found 25 different women, yes I said 25. Some I threw back right off the bat, they were terrible in bed and couldn't be taught, just too much work. Had 6 I saw on a ongoing bases. Some I would have loved to keep going with, but I guess I was to boring for them. Now I'm not black, not that it matters much I was told by a couple of women. Now I'm not huge, but I'm 7" cut with large mushroom head and carved to the right, not that I'm bragging. I was told by more than one woman that being black and a so called big unit means nothing if you don't know how to use it. They had been with several black guys and were told to try them. They all said that they were quite disappointed with the whole experience, that they'd never go back. I agree that the whole Craigslist has changed because of the idiots on there now. Real women don't want to list on there anymore due to the fact that their ads get flagged by the frauds. We have to take CL back and get rid of the cons. Report them, flag them, and harass them back. There are horny legit woman out there waiting to jump back onto CL and eventually jump on our bones.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/03/07 02:02pm
By: Anonymous

Have you ever noticed how many hot women reside in small towns near you? I have had search results list 40 or 50 women who supposed live in towns that may just be a wide spot in the road. And all their photos look professionally done. Very few selfies. These should all be red flags that the profiles are fake. I've noticed this on most of the pay sites.

I've had the best results from POF but the site now screens out married men.

CL is a total loss. The ads don't even make sense. The ad heading says the woman is 46 and her ad says she is 40. Or she is blond but has brown hair.

I'm so discouraged.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/03/14 11:14am
By: Anonymous

i would say 99% are fake and few genuine profiles ,you are just chasing your tail like a mad dog .looking for a bone that doesnt exist...international criminals have taken over the date scene without doubt

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/03/19 01:24pm
By: Anonymous

The only 2 sites I've found which are free and legit are saucydates.com and fabswingers.com.
I have met ladies from both sites.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/03/20 01:41pm
By: Anonymous

scamanalyse says about saucydates
quote ......

Saucydates.com has Unsatisfactory Reputation
May not be Safe to Use
Updated Mar 8 2017

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/03/20 01:43pm
By: Anonymous

tinder is probably ok if your a teenager or early 20s age group.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/03/21 08:51pm
By: Anonymous

I signed up to four dating sites, only paid money on one, apparently they were totally unconnected, but guess what? The same bunch of women were on every single site! One woman had multiple profiles under different names on each site but exactly the same picture. Obviously all these sites were just total scams so I cut and ran.
Sites were:-
XXXAdult date
Local Shags
Saucy over 60s and another I can't remember the name of.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/03/31 06:08am
By: Anonymous

only use free sites on the off chance there maybe some real women on there ,but start with the premise theyer all crooked rackets .never give over your CC details as you cant get rid of them until they have hammered your cards for as much as they can...

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/04/09 06:39am
By: Anonymous

I would say that there are some Adult websites that are not TOTALLY scams. I have had some success with Alt.com, Adultfriendfinder, and adultmatchmaker, and RSVP. I had some success with Collarme when it existed. I got to know many real life local women who were listed on these sites. There are a plethora of sites around at the moment who seem to contain women who are too good to be true, and you know what they say about anything that is "Too good to be true!". I would advise extreme caution with any "new" sites that appear and claim a large database of hot horny women. I am being bombarded by these on an almost daily basis. Sadly they are almost always TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/04/10 06:44am
By: Anonymous

it also depends on where you live and the numbers of free women in your local area .if you live in a big city like NY ,you have more chances .but in a small town the site will make up false profiles for you to get your card details.and then you know it cant be true ,as its not normal

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/04/12 02:34am
By: Anonymous

Honestly I have met great women on Tinder

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/04/28 03:56pm
By: Anonymous

Well I've never personally tried a adult dating website. But Tinder is mainly for hookups so in my opinion the hookup websites could work or at least you may find some real women on some. I believe they will in the futurte if not now. Or at least there should be but people are to chicken or somehting.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/04/29 03:39pm
By: Anonymous

I came across this forum because I had the same question...I've tried many sites...I will tell you this...AFF and ALT do have some real women...but I would say "most" are fake...after awhile you learn how to spot a lot of the fake ones. I've been using AFF on and off for 10 years...I've probably sent well over 1000 emails...and have actually hooked up with maybe 10-15 women in that time frame. It's a horrible ratio. There are probably 100 hard up men and 200 fake women for every 1 legitimate woman. The real women get inundated with emails so your email is 1 of 100's they get on a daily basis...so you have to put some thought into your emails. If the woman looks like a supermodel...don't be an idiot and think she's real. Take the time to read profiles...if you have half a brain, simply reading the profile can clue you in. Don't just email women with pictures...if it's casual discreet cheating sex you're looking for...with a woman wanting the same...chances are they won't have a picture...again...half a brain people. Create an email address that you don't care if it gets spammed like crazy because it will.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/05/02 06:09am
By: Anonymous

No real sites that i know of. If there were any real ones they would not ask for cc's or for verification of age or other bull

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/05/02 09:37am
By: Anonymous

the only genuine sites are the ones that dont charge you a fee . all the rest are scams for sure

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/05/04 08:45pm
By: Anonymous

The only thing that has worked for me is OK cupid but I had a relationship with those girls. looking for a situation now where I don't want a relationship I haven't found anyone who I find relatively attractive that is willing to have a fwb or nsa arrangements so now I'm a whore monger finding women for around 200/hr. on backpage

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/05/14 11:45am
By: Anonymous

POF or Tinder as theyre free. Don't give any dates site your card deatails as theyre all treacherous villains.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/05/20 03:34am
By: Anonymous

Alot said here is true but what do those who are not n norm maybe a defect or beliefs that can't put them in churches what then

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/05/22 09:23am
By: Anonymous

Actually, I did meet a woman on Adult Friend Finder a long time ago. We became friends until we had a falling out. I don't know if the site is still legit, but it was about 7 years ago. If I was to look for a casual hook up, that's where I'd sign up. But I wouldn't fork over a lot of cash.

I think most women know that advertising for sex openly is a foolish thing in today's world. It's much easier to join a legitimate dating site. You can always filter your searches to guys looking for a casual hook up. I'm sure there are plenty of them.

Plenty of Fish is free and has a very good search system. I've met a few women there. One is still a very good friend, although our relationship is strictly platonic.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/05/23 08:24am
By: Anonymous

Not many are legit. AFF is legit. Although someone said if you're male, it's tricky. Very true. Craigslist is full of hookers and gay/bi men. But one thing that's JUST AS BAD as the sites, is the amount of fake "review sites" on a Google search. I'd see things like "definitely NOT a scam site". I'm thinking cool, I'm going to join. I pay me $30 or whatever, to find out its a total scam. But like some other person said too, you MUST put in a lot of effort. Someone said they had great luck on eHarmony. I can believe that. If you make a woman think you are ONLY with her, sure, she'll bang you. If you tell 3 or 5 women you are being monogamous with them, sure they'll bang you. I actually believe that guy who said that, but he was being deceitful, as most guys are anyway. So if you wanna get your dick wet, you gotta lie through your teeth. Bottom line. Sad but true!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/05/25 08:39am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Actually, I did meet a woman on Adult Friend Finder a long time ago. We became friends until we had a falling out. I don't know if the site is still legit, but it was about 7 years ago. If I was to look for a casual hook up, that's where I'd sign up. But I wouldn't fork over a lot of cash.

I think most women know that advertising for sex openly is a foolish thing in today's world. It's much easier to join a legitimate dating site. You can always filter your searches to guys looking for a casual hook up. I'm sure there are plenty of them.

Plenty of Fish is free and has a very good search system. I've met a few women there. One is still a very good friend, although our relationship is strictly platonic.




POF has the free system and the charge for system .. i get messages saying so and so wants to meet you but when i click to see who they are, i am directed to an upgrade screen that wants my CC details and not going there...lots of them seem to be on the charge for system ..but why didnt they use the free system if they want to meet me??suspicious of yet another scam

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/05/27 11:45am
By: Anonymous

unfortunately they are all scams or very difficult to succeed at because of all the competition there's always going to be a better looking man with more money that can attract more women to his profile. That being said there are legitimate dating sites like E-Harmony, Match.com and even Tinder has been advertised in a Family Guy episode. Other people have been using facebook itself to find possible mates in their area.

Although there are legitimate ways to get casual dates online the best way is still going to a local bar, shopping malls and movie theaters etc. tourists are probably the best ways to find casual hookups because they live out of town or they're even from another country and they're just looking for a very short term relationship. Most men who are looking for a casual hookup who don't have hundreds of dollars in spending money will be rejected more times than not. It's all about persistence, having good pickup lines being able to start a conversation with a woman and being lucky enough to find a woman who is interested.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/06/02 06:20pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Pof and ok Cupid work and are free, i'v hooked up with multable woman on both, you just got to come up with something better than "Hi" or "you wanna hook up" lol.



So your lying to get what you want..a real man is honest...

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/06/05 07:58am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

They are all scams. Unfortunately I have wasted a lot of money to find this out. Adult Friend Finder is one big scam and so is Match.com and eHarmony. You get sucked in with "free weekends" or "free to join" then get bombarded with messages from fake women asking you to contact them, but first you have to pay. As soon as you pay your membership, those women all disappear. As soon as eHaemony got my money, they told me that they could not match me with anyone! I'm not rich and don't ride a Harley but other than that I'm a normal single white male.



This simply isn't true! I joined Match.com a year ago and had immediate dating success (7 dates with different women in 15 days). I wasn't expecting sex but got it anyway. I left after my 3 months was up and am still seeing a lady I met from the site; we have (another) long weekend away in 3 weeks! You just need to learn how to play the Match.com game and navigate through their various offers etc..

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/06/09 09:44am
By: Anonymous

POF is the same winks and messages but you cant find out who they are until you upgrade and hand over your card details ..but not going there any time soon

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/06/17 04:51am
By: Anonymous

I have been on AFF twice since around 2000. First time was about a year, beginning in 2000 and into 2001, as a free user. Second time was 2012 into early 2014, first as a free user, then a paid user. I had some success both times.

Start as a free member. You can earn some points as a free user that will allow you to send an occasional message, which you can use for your top prospects. If you are not physically fit, spend your money and time on a gym membership first, because the truth is that women are as much fixated on physical appearance as men are. Some are also fixated on money, so you can be slovenly but wealthy and still do ok with some girls, But on AFF you will do best with the greatest number of women if you are fit.

Choose a profile photo that shows that you have a fit, masculine physique. If you're good looking, show your face. If not, keep it hidden until you establish rapport with whoever you are wanting to meet. Women like a nice smile, so flaunt it if you got it,

While you are a free member, you can search and see who is near you and add them to your hotlist for follow-up.

If and when you choose to become a paid member, I recommend you use the money order option and buy three months paid membership at one time. That will probably give you enough time to contact everyone on your hotlist and attempt to arrange rl encounters with them.

When you create your profile, do show yourself nicely attired, and do include one or two pics that show your physique, like in swim trunks at the beach. DO NOT show your *censored* in your photos that everyone can see. However, have your *censored* pics ready to share after you've gotten a woman's interest and you've been talking on the phone or chatting online. You can make private photo albums and choose who you want to share them with. That's the place for your dick pics.

Also, get a full panel STD test performed and have the results ready to share BEFORE you meet in rl.

Don't act thirsty on AFF. Women are repulsed by thirst. And plan your strategy. Start lining up next Friday night's date on Saturday morning.

By the time the two of you are having cocktails Friday night, you will have talked on the phone a few times, she will know you have a good body, she'll know your STD status, and she might know what you're packing. You should have your place ready to host... VERY neat and clean, clean sheets on your neatly made bed, and have your trojans and astroglide ready.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/06/17 06:00am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

The woman who wrote about AFF being a legit website for sex was wrong....only the women OR couples succeed on that website. And Black men well hung. I REPEAT: ONLY women or couples and Black men succeed in finding sex on Adult Friend Finder.com
.



Completely false. I'm a very fit (and very well hung, but that is not as important as you might think) older wm. I have had reasonably good success on AFF. I particularly enjoy the company of black women, and in my particular area (da dirty south), I met a number of attractive black women on AFF. After about a year of occasional fornication with five pretty hot black women, I dropped AFF and became monogamous with one. I was on AFF from mid 2012 to early 2014. I started as a free member and I met a couple of women while still a free membern I had the most success when I became a paid member because I could contact more women. I paid with a money order to avoid issues with repeat billing on my credit card.

On AFF, you just have to (1) put the effort into looking your best, and (2) be wise in regard to who you're messaging. Some profiles are prostitutes drumming up business. A LOT are very overweight women (shut-ins, I think). But some are just horny women in their 30's and 40's working regular full-time jobs who just want some occasional romance and some good dick.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/06/17 08:22am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Completely false. I'm a very fit (and very well hung, but that is not as important as you might think) older wm. I have had reasonably good success on AFF. I particularly enjoy the company of black women, and in my particular area (da dirty south), I met a number of attractive black women on AFF. After about a year of occasional fornication with five pretty hot black women, I dropped AFF and became monogamous with one. I was on AFF from mid 2012 to early 2014. I started as a free member and I met a couple of women while still a free membern I had the most success when I became a paid member because I could contact more women. I paid with a money order to avoid issues with repeat billing on my credit card.



^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
what is the population and size of town you reside ?? and your radius to meet dates

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/06/23 07:38am
By: Anonymous

Are there any sites that let you actually contact the people (chat or the like) without paying?

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/06/24 09:26am
By: Anonymous

free sites soon get taken over by the fraudsters and they enact sneaky payment schemes ,that are hard to cancel..most sites are owned by a hand full of holding companies ..some have dozens or 100s of dating setups



Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/06/24 10:16am
By: Anonymous

I think that there is no complete fake dating site, it is just matter are they filled less or more with fake profiles, just my two cents.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/06/26 06:42am
By: Anonymous

the sneaky payments scheme are common to all ..hard to get rid of them .despite the veracity of profiles

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/06/29 12:27am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

I have to say this... All these posts about AFF being so bad must be from real losers, because I personally hooked up with a lot of women when I was on there. I also met some really cool friends who I remain friends with to this day. I'd say that in the 2 years that I used the site, I probably met somewhere between 50-70 women and 10-12 couples. I am a handsome guy and I'm not a youngster. I've thought about going back on there, but it's just not what I'm looking for at this point.

One warning for the young studs... You're probably not going to do well on there. Most of the girls seem to want an experienced, level headed guy that won't bring drama to their door. Oh! And the older guys... Don't forget that pervs are not cool. If you can flirt for a while and actually hold a conversation, then you'll do fine.

On the other hand... Why join a pay site when free dating sites have turned into the new pickup bar? I have done really good on several sites though. So maybe it's just me... Cool



Same here. I've met and had sex with lots of women on AFF, and been threesome man to several couples. I'm not black....average sized equip......I'm 55yo now......still have three couples I'm threesome man for......one from AFF....one from AMM....and one from Alt.com. Being seeing them all for years. I've also hooked up and had ongoing things with a number of single women. I've also been part of a swinging couple and we often used to advertise for guys for threesomes. And I can tell you for a fact that reason most guys do not succeed....is their attitude and approach. Most guys would not have a clue. And you can't even teach them. I've been so successful getting *censored* from adult sites....that a lot of my friends have got me to coach them.....but they don't learn......they fall back into the same losing behavior over and over. They just don't learn. And that's why they think its a scam.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/06/29 07:12am
By: Anonymous

theres a date site in far off galaxy that has tons of klingon women and romulan women who are hot to trot..but apart from that have no idea of any sites on earth that are not scams

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/07/20 05:15am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

NOONE was paid. ONLY trying to help the men who read this. *censored*! try Match com. You get the same results. AT LEAST i am getting sex all the time.




Poor women!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/07/24 03:37am
By: Anonymous

its still best to hop on a plane to The Gambia .Thailand or the Philippines for female company. in The Gambia you see pensioners walking around with gorgeous young women. they look very happy away from the online dating BS which leads nowhere .

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/08/31 03:06am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Not many are legit. AFF is legit. Although someone said if you're male, it's tricky. Very true. Craigslist is full of hookers and gay/bi men. But one thing that's JUST AS BAD as the sites, is the amount of fake "review sites" on a Google search. I'd see things like "definitely NOT a scam site". I'm thinking cool, I'm going to join. I pay me $30 or whatever, to find out its a total scam. But like some other person said too, you MUST put in a lot of effort. Someone said they had great luck on eHarmony. I can believe that. If you make a woman think you are ONLY with her, sure, she'll bang you. If you tell 3 or 5 women you are being monogamous with them, sure they'll bang you. I actually believe that guy who said that, but he was being deceitful, as most guys are anyway. So if you wanna get your dick wet, you gotta lie through your teeth. Bottom line. Sad but true!



sad but true.. the fraudsters cook up fake review sites to overcome the bad reviews by posting fake good reviews so desperate are they to scam people

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/08/31 05:43pm
By: Anonymous

yes alot are scam.....ask them a detailed question like what colar is your hair i did this 50 time and i never got answered like the just kept talking sex like they never heard me....... 10-10 times

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/09/03 04:07am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

yes alot are scam.....ask them a detailed question like what colar is your hair i did this 50 time and i never got answered like the just kept talking sex like they never heard me....... 10-10 times



thats a BOT pumping out the messages

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/09/08 05:23am
By: Anonymous

I found this part of a review:


Perhaps most importantly, AdultFriendFinder has genuine profiles of genuine people. Far too many other adult dating sites have been accused again and again of using fake profiles of sexy female members in order to entice male members to pay to upgrade their subscriptions. Male members upgrade in order to reply to the e-mails sent to them by these non-existent women (otherwise known as fembots), but once they upgrade, they hear nothing more from the female members who e-mailed them. This kind of practice is rife within the industry and gives the whole adult dating industry a bad name. No dating site can guarantee that all its member profiles are genuine. However, dating sites seem to be governed by one of three policies: (i) actively seek out and ban fake profiles; (ii) don't worry about fake profiles, as long as the cash keeps rolling in; (iii) create fake profiles (or fembots), in order to entice men to upgrade their subscriptions. We know from experience that AdultFriendFinder follow the first type of policy, as they do their best to get rid of any fake profiles which they find and are one of the only adult dating networks that do not use fembots. In short, you can be assured that the profiles on Adult FriendFinder and all its sister sites are real.This is just one of the many reasons why AdultFriendFinder has remained in business for around 20 years and has amassed more than 60 million members.

i dont know if this content is accurate and you have to give them you card details which i personally would not do

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/09/09 08:23am
By: Anonymous

i cant see how AFF can identify Nigerians who are using photos of an attractive woman and as soon as they find a sucker they would move over to email and away from the site and waste a persons time.. as i had with a bogus women on saucy contacts who spent 3 months trying to get me to send her money

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/09/10 11:01am
By: Anonymous

After her marriage broke down, Jenny Beard knew finding love again wouldn’t be easy. Not only was she 42 and the sole carer of her six-year-old son Will, but her demanding career as an accountant left her with precious little time to socialise.

Nonetheless, she didn’t want to be alone forever, so when she heard about an internet dating site for single parents like herself, she joined without a second thought, Jenny told Channel 4 News in a programme that will be aired tonight.

Describing her interests as ‘going to the theatre and restaurants, enjoying country walks as long as they feature a tea shop’, she was hopeful she would meet mature, like-minded men who understood the difficulties of bringing up a child alone.

What she didn’t expect was to find herself posted as a ‘hot date’ on cheesy lads’ magazine sites, and bombarded by spam emails from people who didn’t even exist — or if they did, had anything but a country walk in mind.
Jenny Beard was shocked to find her pictures, submitted to a singe-parents dating site, on sleazy lads¿ mag sites

Jenny Beard was shocked to find her pictures, submitted to a singe-parents dating site, on sleazy lads¿ mag sites

Over the course of the four years Jenny has been on the site, not one of the men she met has been a member of justsingleparents.com where she originally posted her profile. Not one of them had even heard of it. Alarmingly, half were not parents at all and only one had a child the same age as her son.

Worse still, her picture and profile have been plastered across tawdry dating websites belonging to ‘lads mags’ such as Nuts and Loaded that are more associated with scantily-clad girls in semi-pornographic poses than professional, middle-aged women like Jenny.

She is just one victim in an extraordinary dating scam exposed by two industry whistle-blowers.

Unbeknown to Jenny, justsingle parents.com is run by a parent company called Global Personals — a legitimate company most members never will have heard of, but which passes members’ details freely between the 7,500 sites it owns, meaning they are inundated with unwanted and inappropriate advances.

The company has also created ‘fake’ profiles, by lifting photographs off the internet, and ordering staff to flirt with unsuspecting members, outrageously flattering them into renewing their subscriptions.

Disturbingly, their deception has proved an unqualified success. Global Personals — whose headquarters are in Windsor, Berkshire — makes £40 m a year, employs 130 staff and is believed to take a 40 per cent cut of every membership subscription, with the remainder going to the spin-off company.

But it is at the expense of women like Jenny, now 46, who is astounded by the way in which she has been duped.

‘Internet dating seemed the best way of meeting people,’ she says. ‘But I’m shocked by how many sites I’ve ended up on. It’s upsetting and annoying. I’m nobody’s idea of a Nuts hot date. It’s the last place you would expect to find me and a waste of time and money.

‘I’m not surprised they’re making up people. I’ve received no end of emails from men who say they like my smile, but clearly haven’t seen my profile. I won’t be renewing my subscription.’

Certainly, Jenny’s experience serves as a cautionary tale to those tempted by the increasingly popular world of online romance, said to be worth £2 billion globally. She first started internet dating in September 2008, eight months after her seven-year marriage ended.
Fake profiles were created by a team scouring social networking sites and stealing people's photos to use on their fake profiles

Fake profiles were created by a team scouring social networking sites and stealing people's photos to use on their fake profiles

‘I have a serious job. My options for meeting men are limited,’ she says. ‘This seemed the best way.’

She began by joining a site called Plenty of Fish, but, within weeks she realised it was unsuitable.

‘It’s hard to say without sounding snobby but I’m a professional person with a degree,’ she explains.

‘It was very good for meeting dustmen, builders and mechanics who are perfectly nice but not right for me.

‘Apart from anything else, it’s free and attracts people with less money. I thought finding a paid service would be more appropriate.’

So she researched online and came across justsingleparents.com. With membership costing £20 a month and members all purportedly having experienced single parenthood, she was more likely to meet like-minded people, she reasoned.

‘I wanted to meet people with children because they understand that anyone else in my life won’t be my top priority,’ she says.

Her son Will, who’s now ten, also was keen to see his mum with someone nice ‘to look after her’

But what Jenny didn’t realise was that when she joined justsingleparents.com that she would be exposed on websites she’d previously never heard of.

Worryingly, the practice, while misleading, is perfectly legal. It is called ‘white-labelling’ and happens when a product produced by one company, such as Global Personals, is rebranded by other companies — in this case dating websites.

Who knew?
Internet dating amongst those aged 50-plus has risen by 40 per cent in the last year

Also, in a bid to boost their revenue, the company was specifically employing staff whose sole job it was to set up and run fake profiles on the dating sites, to keep members interested. Within weeks, Jenny got her first warning signal: She’d begun emailing a fellow single parent from her area and the pair had swapped phone numbers:

‘I texted him and said “it’s Jenny from Just Single Parents” and he replied “what?”’ she recalls. ‘He’d never heard of the agency. I was put on the back foot and so flummoxed I didn’t contact him again.’

It was another member, Jenny recalls, who explained that their details were passed around various dating sites: ‘I felt put out and rather stupid,’ she says.

Nonetheless, as the months passed, she was sent three emails a day from unlikely suitors, who ranged in age from 22 to 73. ‘I deleted them before reading,’ she says. ‘I can’t remember any being particularly crude, but maybe they were and I never saw them.’

Jenny says she quickly suspected some of the identities were fake. ‘I know I got emails that weren’t from real people,’ she told Channel 4 News. ‘You’d ask a man a question, such as how many children he had, and would get a reply tell you how happy they are they’ve met you.’
Describing her interests as 'enjoying country walks as long as they feature a tea shop' Jenny hoped to meet a man who shared her passions, but was sadly disappointed

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Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/09/10 11:14am
By: Anonymous

continued

She adds: ‘You don’t realise to start with that these companies they have “ice breaker” messages saying “I like your profile” or “you’ve got a lovely smile” that are sent to all the women in East Sussex between the ages of 35 and 55. You’d reply and wouldn’t hear back. After a while you realise a lot of the messages you get are sent to hundreds of people, not just you.’

Yet Jenny — fuelled by hope that she would meet someone genuine — carried on using the site. At times, however, she became so exasperated with the process that she cancelled her membership.

‘Cancelling was a faff — you couldn’t do it online and would have to call someone in working hours,’ says Jenny, who spent hundreds of pounds on subscription fees.

‘I remember one email I got that persuaded me to re-join was from a good-looking, wealthy single father who ran his own building business,’ says Jenny. ‘Part of me suspected it was too good to be true, but I replied anyway.’ And, surprise surprise, she never heard back.

Over the course of four years, she met up with just eight men in person. Not one of them was from justsingleparents.com, half didn’t have children at all.

‘I only met most of them once, for a drink,’ she says. ‘One, a store manager, had joined a website called Old Flirt. He was my age but, had I known the site he was on, I would have hauled him out on the grounds that it was a ridiculous name.
Attacking the vulnerable: Many users have no idea the flirtatious messages they receive are from pseudo profiles and people don't even exists

Attacking the vulnerable: Many users have no idea the flirtatious messages they receive are from pseudo profiles and people don't even exists

‘Another was a bus driver. There were two retired people. They came from geographical and rock music dating sites. One came from a site called Derbyshire Singles. One didn’t even know I had a son, which was the whole point. It made me think my profile might have been edited. I was perplexed.’

As Jenny had suspected, she was not the only one being duped — and not the most vulnerable.

Channel 4 News investigators spoke to whistle-blower Ryan Pitcher, who joined the company in 2008 and a second, unnamed, employee, who detailed the suspicious way in which they were recruited, when they were warned they were not to discuss their duties with family and friends.

Finding fake profiles was a secretive and calculated process, with the team scouring social networking sites and stealing people’s photos to use on their fake profiles: ‘You’d take Helga from Iceland and make her into Helen from Manchester and write a profile,’ says Ryan. ‘You’d use her features and invent a whole new person.’

The role of the fake profiles — or ‘pseudos’ as they were called by employees — was to email members flirtatious messages to entice them into continuing their subscriptions. Up to 400 messages an hour were sent by the team who frequently coerced their victims into intimate text conversations.

‘You’re talking about thousands of messages which means millions of pounds in subscription fees,’ says Ryan. It seems they were targeted specifically at the sites’ most vulnerable members.

‘A lot of the people on the site aren’t the most attractive people,’ he admits. ‘If they’re not getting replies from real people after a month, they’re going to sign off. The pseudo team could string
along a girl or guy for up to 24 months. It is all about money, all about greed. With fake profiles you can get 50 per cent more revenue, sometimes even more.’

If the member wanted to pursue a relationship with a pseudo, or even have a telephone conversation, they would be brushed off before being replaced by another pseudo.

‘It’s all about stringing them along on tenterhooks with that pretence that eventually they’ll meet up or swap telephone numbers,’ says Ryan.

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Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/09/18 01:10pm
By: Anonymous

I keep looking but they all seem fake it's annoying. Any girl looking for a hook up hit me up 🤙

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/09/19 04:19am
By: Anonymous

Loveroulette.net lies to you. But it is worth your time.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/09/19 04:21am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Loveroulette.net lies to you. But it is worth your time.


This site has models, you have to pay for every minute. The subscription lies because it gives access to pay for every minute. Take care, use it as free users.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/09/23 01:37am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

NOONE was paid. ONLY trying to help the men who read this. *censored*! try Match com. You get the same results. AT LEAST i am getting sex all the time.




Poor women!



i don't believe a word you say. At last have the balls to be honest.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/09/23 07:06am
By: Anonymous

same with POF false leads but you have to upgrade first

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/09/25 07:17am
By: Anonymous

Ive used a social site called Tagged, bee on it for some years, A bit like facebook. Ive also meet a few lovely no strings ladies on it, Initially to find friends to chat and share similar likes, Costs nothing, its not a dating site as such,Tho I suspect the roads are full of cars , going to meet up with women. Worth a try. even tho many just want to chat or go for a drink etc. Also swap email adds and the like without it costing a penny. You also get to see photos of a likely partner. Hoping this is of use to some of you guys out there.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/09/28 07:56am
By: Anonymous

In my experience, there are no such web sites. All are largely populated by bots and manufactured profiles. Last I checked, AdultFriendFinder is one of these, but also has a few "real" women. Unsure what your standards are, but for the most part I would say with AFF you might need lower expectations with the non-bot women on the site.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/09/29 04:56am
By: Anonymous

i have come to the conclusion they are all scams after trying a selection over many years ... the owners get greedy and boost their income flow by posting fake profiles ..i would only use free sites now..

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/10/06 04:06am
By: Anonymous

^^^^^^^
what he said ... theyre now sunk into the pits of fraud

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/10/06 07:37pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

If not ,which come the closeist to having actual members contacting each other.


Down the pub

ha ha, sorry this reply is two years late - but i concur hahaha, have a bevy relax, break tge ice and ask a girl if she wants a game of pool..

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/10/07 05:14am
By: Anonymous

online dating is now all BOTs and gullible suckers chatting to each other ,,shame

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/10/08 02:46am
By: Anonymous

Yes I just got scammed tonight myself .
Was asked to get a free verification id for safety reasons and by doing so drained my bank account didnt have much in there thankfully.
The site was called benaughty they did offer me a alternative way to hook up by paying 500 dollars when I meet the girl at designated place.
Was either a prostitution ring set up of police set up. So beware people not a good site

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/10/13 12:37pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

online dating is now all BOTs and gullible suckers chatting to each other ,,shame



I wouldn't agreee with you I think online dating is better than ever because there is more women on various dating sites than ever...

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/10/16 04:50am
By: Anonymous

I don't think they are Legit @ all .. I was on two sites AFF & Secret liaisons. Locally both were F#$%kn useless. Found the Qld woman all B/S.. Ping Pong Chat only .so no Meet ups. But Interstate .Vis & NSW. did much better, got invites ,to come down Or meet me on gold Coast Yep she came up here. Didn't renew either one when it came up. & Yes. Yankee sites.. watch out there guys.. Massive scams . tread carefully with them, especially there Discount offers ? don't touch them . Always check your banking Details before, during ,& after you shut them down . Raymon PS Have found a legit site @ a good price Good for 50+ guys

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/10/16 05:25am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

online dating is now all BOTs and gullible suckers chatting to each other ,,shame



I wouldn't agreee with you I think online dating is better than ever because there is more women on various dating sites than ever...



could be true on some sites where there are divorced females with tons of kids by different fathers or alcoholics which no guy wants ,like one sees on POF ..the hub of rejected women

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/10/23 07:27am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: anon

I need to tell the poor guys out there the truth and it is a scam. I worked as an "admin" and was paid 15p per message. It is all a scam and sometimes I felt really bad when a older widowed man thought he met then woman of his dreams. Each message that popped up were answered by different women who just needed to read the previous conversation and notes. The women are all fakes and pictures found from the internet. Don't waste your money, do real women really meet men for sex from the interent, I don't think so.



They do exist. I hooked up with two ladies off Craigslist (no money needed) But they are so far and between. It's a long process.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/10/26 07:16am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Quote by: anon

I need to tell the poor guys out there the truth and it is a scam. I worked as an "admin" and was paid 15p per message. It is all a scam and sometimes I felt really bad when a older widowed man thought he met then woman of his dreams. Each message that popped up were answered by different women who just needed to read the previous conversation and notes. The women are all fakes and pictures found from the internet. Don't waste your money, do real women really meet men for sex from the interent, I don't think so.



They do exist. I hooked up with two ladies off Craigslist (no money needed) But they are so far and between. It's a long process.



i have tried CL for years and only found what appears to be Nigerian scammers using very old photos of females they have stolen from somewhere.. and no genuine women ..every sub forum is infested with scammers from Africa

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/10/28 03:17pm
By: Anonymous

I am a man of 64. I am fit muscular and “apparently” not bad looking. Over the years I have had my share of sex, and again, “apparently “ I’m quite good at it. However due to unfortunate marital circumstances I’m not getting any at home. The point is I need occasional casual sex. All the sites are scams period....

The shame is that I know from experience that there ARE women out there that want casual sex, I’ve had some. There are many reasons for it, mostly late thirties into forties, early fifties, mostly married, feeling neglected feeling old and wanting an exiitement that has perhaps left their lives. Something that makes them feel sexy and desirable. Some are just plain dirty. II have had two mmf threesomes with women who are just plain turned on by it.

Would they put themselves out there with photos and personal details.... NO NO THEY WILL NOT. But they are out there. How to find them. It definitely isn’t on a website.

Gym
Tennis club
Supermarket
At work (risky)

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/10/29 06:06am
By: Anonymous

I generally agree with what the anonymous user said about Eharmony and AFF, with the exception of AFF being more favorable for black males. I'm a single black male and have been a member of both AFF and Eharmony. On AFF, you have to put in a lot of work. As the lady in one of the previous responses said, the guys far outnumber the women. Most of the contacts I received were from gay guys, cuckold husbands, married women who were in open relationships, fat chicks, and only a couple of single attractive women. I was fortunate enough to experience a couple of encounters, but certainly not worth the time and the effort.

As for Eharmony, every lady I met in person ended up being an intimate encounter. I'm not plugging Eharmony, and I'm not getting paid by them, but when it comes to rating the two I would take Eharmony over AFF any day of the week in terms of having a higher "smash" rate! Smile

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/11/04 07:40pm
By: Anonymous

Go to fetlife.com and do a search for your city name. Then join the groups in your city. Private message people in those groups that appeal to you.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/11/07 12:17pm
By: Anonymous

LocalCheaters.com is run by thieves on top of 100% full of totally fake profiles! I was going to give them a try by paying for the shortest period membership they offer, I believe it was a week. I don't remember because I tried forgetting how they out right STOLE $70.00 from me after I entered my info and chose the plan I wanted, then I clicked to confirm the purchase & somehow it changed to the highest plan at $69.99 for 6 months on the very next page. I freaked out & immediately called them and told them kindly what I saw happen from my end,as I didn't even leave that problem page on my laptop so I could see have all info in front of me for a simple return to the original plan I had intended to purchase.Rudely I was denied any type of delete purchase or compromise. I then asked for the manager & he was even more of a JACKOFF & told me"I have to be careful what I'm clicking on & absolutely no refunds are made. I then found it to be the worst run site with a continuous pattern of FAKE PROFILES of women! They're probably all played by that PRICK manager & not even chicks! But he is a *censored*!!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/11/08 07:43am
By: Anonymous

better cancel your card pronto. to stop further debits

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/11/13 09:41pm
By: Anonymous

Found out the hard way that Adult Hub is definitely a scam! They are purportedly based out of London. I feel like an idiot admitting it! Pursuing legal action against them. The $40 is not the issue, of course.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/11/15 12:20pm
By: Anonymous

the only site is probly tinder if you are youngish but its free so if it fails no worries

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/11/21 07:34pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

They are all scams. People who fall for these don't understand basic human social dynamics.

Women WILL NOT have casual sex with anyone who is not either extremely famous, rich, or insanely handsome (as in a tall, dark Armani model).

If you are an average man like 99% of men are, you ALWAYS have to pay for sex. Be it in the form of a relationship (dinners, housing, nights out at the movies etc) or pure cold cash (prostitution).

Women do not have sex for free except with extremely high value men who represent less than 1% of society.

If they do, there is always a catch. For example, in ghettoes they will want to extract alimony from deadbeats, or pop out as many children as possible to live on welfare. So they do not really want the men nor the children, they want the money.

Everything in western society comes down to money. Absolutely everything. Get this through your thick heads and stop living in a fantasy world. There is no Ukrainian supermodel out there who is dying to screw some balding 47y.o guy from the middle of Tennessee.

The ads are frauds, the photos are stock model photos and the women probably don't even know their pictures are being used in this fashion, or they are being compensated for it.

The end.



Probably the most truth, and best advice on here.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/11/25 02:25pm
By: Anonymous

I have been trying xCheaters, knowing full well that it is at least partly a ripoff site (no legit responses yet), but they do have one nice feature if you want give it a try: you can pay with a gift card, and spend a very minimal amount. That is, you can go to a site like Target.com, buy a $25 eCard, then enter the card ID number on their site (actually through a site called PayGarden.) In effect, you pay through a legitimate business, the probably-scam website never gets their hands on your card info, and there is no automatic rebilling.

Hopefully some of the other sites are now offering this option. It was, at least, one of the things that made me think xCheaters might have a *shred* of legitimacy. Of course, always use Incognito mode (that's what Chrome calls it; other browsers use different terminology) when looking at these sites.


Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/11/28 08:59am
By: Anonymous

@StillKickin'
Why would you pay if you know it's a rip off?

Men want sex, this is our intrinsic design, our purpose, our goal. Once that is taken away we are pretty much left with stupid hobbies or making things. Buy or make yourself a sex doll and save yourself some aggravation and rejection. Women don't think like men do, they are nurturing or money grabbing, perhaps both. It's a security thing. If it's interactoin with a female you crave then join a local meetup group.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/12/05 05:31pm
By: Anonymous

Don’t know why women care so much about you having a damn well filled out profile where it’s filled with paragraphs. Geez we’re all here for 1 thing and that’s sex, talking to people is how you’re supposed to get to know them not be depending on a stupid profile. Sure if the profile has nothing than I’d probably decline. But you women on these sites make it like we’re going through the SAT test with how demanding you are.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/12/06 09:11am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Don’t know why women care so much about you having a damn well filled out profile where it’s filled with paragraphs. Geez we’re all here for 1 thing and that’s sex, talking to people is how you’re supposed to get to know them not be depending on a stupid profile. Sure if the profile has nothing than I’d probably decline. But you women on these sites make it like we’re going through the SAT test with how demanding you are.



very accurate on POF with demanding females with too many kids that only a fool would take on ..they are only worth a 1 night stand if theyre lucky

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/12/07 04:47pm
By: Anonymous

I just spent the past three days on local milfs and what a scam that *censored* website is!! They charge you extra to chat directly and that's when I realized they were not real ! Supposedly local women but when you ask them anything personal they get all defensive and cha nge the subject!! Of course after three days they cancelled my membership and kept the entire 6 months fee!! i am soo f---- pissed right now!!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/12/10 08:04am
By: Anonymous

https://coconuts.co/bangkok/news/nigerian-star-boy-arrested-romance-scam-aimed-lonely-thai-men/


The woman of nearly 40 lonely Thai men’s dreams was arrested yesterday. Sadly, their dream girl wasn’t who they’d been led to believe, but a 35-year-old Nigerian man.

Known in his community as “Star Boy,” the scammer was arrested in Bangkok yesterday for targeting lonely Thai gents by pretending to be a beautiful American female soldier on Facebook.

Antonio Jose Carlos and his Thai girlfriend, 20-year-old Sukanya Sakaew, were caught at their apartment in the Chaengwattana area as a part of the government’s crackdown on foreign criminals. Police found six mobile phones and a few bank books at the apartment, which had a circulating fund of THB3 million (nearly US$92,000).
Photo: Tourist Police

Police investigators said “Star Boy” was engaged in ongoing conversations with 38 middle-aged Thai men using a Facebook profile in which he presented himself as an American woman. It was unclear how much money he had managed to con out of them.

Follow-up investigations yesterday ultimately saw the arrests of five other members of the so-called Star Boy gang, all Nigerian nationals, Daily News reported.

Pol. Maj. Gen. Surachet Hakpan, deputy commander of the tourist police, said the scammers had played on their victims desperate need for romance and tricked them into transferring money to their bank accounts. Some had built social media profiles to give the appearance of a luxurious lifestyle, then asked victims to invest in a business with them.

Police have charged the suspects with fraud and putting false information into a computer system that causes damages to others. The investigation is ongoing.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/12/12 07:20pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

This comes from a guy who has lost count of how many women I've pounded from online dating, so listen up. Your best -- no, your only option -- is to use legitimate dating sites. Not the hookup sites. List your intentions as long-term relationship, no matter how inaccurate that is. Have many good photos and write an interesting, grammatically correct profile. When texting with the woman, hint at your sex drive without overwhelming them with it. And no *censored* shots. The hints will screen out the prudes, while the nicely written profile will get you a higher caliber woman. Accept that forking out for that first date with no sex will likely be the price of getting regular sex down the road. Better than a membership with a fraud site. Wish I could give a clinic in this stuff. Good luck, gentlemen.

you just did lol

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/12/13 09:38am
By: Anonymous

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/finance/personalfinance/11113769/Online-dating-scams-new-tricks-that-fleece-victims-of-an-average-9589.html


Singletons sign up to online dating sites in the hope of finding love, but they are increasingly being targeted by fraudsters.

Someone you have started to develop a relationship with online might first ask for money for travel costs, or say they have lost their plane ticket so need to borrow some cash for a new one. They might say a family member is ill and they need funds for urgent medical treatment.

According to recent figures, these requests for cash appear to be working. There were 651 dating scams reported in the three months to August this year, with the average victim paying out £9,589. In July, the average payout was as high as £10,882.

With one in four British adults using a dating website at some point in their life, according to Which?, users are being warned to be vigilant while online, particularly as the fraudster's tactics are becoming more elaborate.

cont..

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2017/12/20 11:42pm
By: Anonymous

Didn't read all the posts but thought I'd give my experience.
This is aimed for those in UK.
Pof. I'd send about 40 custom messages and get maybe about 10 replies. Out of those 10 about 4 would go on to meet.

Tinder. Have about 40 matches and about 10 would talk again about 4 to on to meet.

Other sites are far less successful. Many fakes.
But I've had more luck on those 2 sites than AFF and the others.

Heavily goes on looks.

If you got money then check out www.adultwork.com
By time you meet a woman and buy her meals and drinks etc it's probably just as cheap.

All sites are free. I don't recommend paying.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/01/04 01:55am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

if you guys want to meet women that are close to you why don't you try church. its got to produce more and better results than what you are doing, believe me there is some baby dolls in the churches single and looking for a partner.

Like Doughboy told Lil Chris in the wheelchair, "Aww *censored*! Nigga Please!! Aint nobody going to church to catch no bitches! I should roll your ass off this porch with that stupid *censored*"

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/01/04 04:45am
By: Anonymous

they all follow a set pattern ,,give guys free signup ,bombard them with fake messages and winks from attractive women ..in order to get their card details ..then when they pay up the messages from beautiful women dry up and they are left with no dates ,,,from the fake profiles and scammers

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/01/06 12:07am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Yes. As a woman I used Adult Friend Finder for a year and a half. As with any site you have to have a good attitude and be willing to put time and effort in contacting people and yes there are many fake profiles. Anything that looks too good to be true probably is. Please keep in mind that the men out-number the females by a factor of 10. I am going to repeat the "good attitude" and "time and effort." All the men that I met and hooked up with 1) didn't assume that I was a fake profile and sent a nice first message-- not a flirt or one line and 2) had a complete profile themselves, with well-written paragraphs, pictures (body, face as well as equipment) and testimonials which AFF has and 3) were prompt about meeting, calling or video chatting with no run around.

don’t listen to her she fake like the site she is promoting see if she or he gets you to spend any thing which you have to. To send that message that she is talking about it’s all a scam.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/01/06 12:14am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

If not, which come the closeist to having actual members contacting each other.

To be Honest you can even go to Escorts and sugar baby sites I say at least 90% of even these sites are Fake also. sorry guys but 90% of all these sites are fake cyber scams.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/01/06 09:53am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

If not, which come the closeist to having actual members contacting each other.

To be Honest you can even go to Escorts and sugar baby sites I say at least 90% of even these sites are Fake also. sorry guys but 90% of all these sites are fake cyber scams.



absolutely spot on

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/01/08 05:24pm
By: Anonymous

Get away from the Casual Dating website, a perfect scam design to fleece you.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/01/09 06:26pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

If not, which come the closeist to having actual members contacting each other.



Hi can anyone tell me if Local Bangs UK is a scam site it looks like one to me.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/01/15 10:53am
By: Anonymous

I'm a man,I hooked up with 2 hot chicks on AFF.It was no scam.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/01/16 09:53am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

So what about this place.... right here?? I mean one thing we can be sure of is that people in here, in this discussion might be horny but not perverts. so right now it appears to be the best place to find a genuinely consenting adult. what say?



Lol

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/01/18 08:21am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

So what about this place.... right here?? I mean one thing we can be sure of is that people in here, in this discussion might be horny but not perverts. so right now it appears to be the best place to find a genuinely consenting adult. what say?



Lol




the moderator will delete your messages right away

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/01/23 02:37pm
By: Anonymous

Look all those sites are scams full of people getting paid to flirt or just bots. They just want you to spend your money. If you going to waste money spend it and get a shag+ on a site called adultwork. You pay for it but at least you get your end away lol

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/01/24 04:17am
By: Anonymous

AFF is real. I am a 51 year old married male. I have chatted online with several women on AFF. Ashley Madison also has some real women but mostly fake profiles. AFF is way more active. I have been on several dates and hooked up with a few different women. There are many fake profiles yes. It can get frustrating. You must be patient. It helps to be funny kind and good looking. Sorry all you old out of shape ugly people. It is what it is. Think about it like this. You gotta know which league you are in. If you are a pretty good beer league softball player you might not be ready to win the MVP in the MLB. The first thing people see is a picture. They gotta get past that. Then they gotta get something different out of your profile. Remember WAAAAY more women. The prettiest women get 100+ messages a day. You gotta stand out next to those other guys.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/01/24 04:57am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

AFF is real. I am a 51 year old married male. I have chatted online with several women on AFF. Ashley Madison also has some real women but mostly fake profiles. AFF is way more active. I have been on several dates and hooked up with a few different women. There are many fake profiles yes. It can get frustrating. You must be patient. It helps to be funny kind and good looking. Sorry all you old out of shape ugly people. It is what it is. Think about it like this. You gotta know which league you are in. If you are a pretty good beer league softball player you might not be ready to win the MVP in the MLB. The first thing people see is a picture. They gotta get past that. Then they gotta get something different out of your profile. Remember WAAAAY more women. The prettiest women get 100+ messages a day. You gotta stand out next to those other guys.



What a load of tosh lol the (so say real) women on there can't even answer basic questions like what city do they live in or what country lol. They always try to ask you where you are first because they claim to live in your area.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/01/24 06:24am
By: Anonymous

most small date sites are just a PC chugging away in a locked room with auto bot software with fake profiles collecting card numbers run by fraudsters at some place in the world ..out of reach of the law..


Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/01/26 12:11pm
By: Anonymous

I've seen all the bs sights and they are bs. Best you're gonna hope for is fake girls, bots, or webcam chicks.and you have to pay to play. Best advice is open up profiles on legit sights like POF or tinder. Say in your bio you're not looking for a relationship or anything serious and be real with people about who you are and what you're about. It all depends on your standards. After a bad relationship, I wasn't looking for a girlfriend but I was lonely. I didn't want to lead anyone on so I didn't. I'd just be myself and be real with some cool girls and ended up making a friend or two.... However, after doing that I realised that I wasn't even ready for that and now I'm just talking to people on Kik I'll most likely never meet. I'd rather be a little lonely than end up with the wrong one again or waisting someone else's time or hurting someone to suit my needs. I have a good heart and I have to big a heart for anything meaninglessness, and I'm to passionate to just be a friend to someone I want. I don't have it in me to be fake.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/01/27 03:19am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

AFF is real. I am a 51 year old married male. I have chatted online with several women on AFF. Ashley Madison also has some real women but mostly fake profiles. AFF is way more active. I have been on several dates and hooked up with a few different women. There are many fake profiles yes. It can get frustrating. You must be patient. It helps to be funny kind and good looking. Sorry all you old out of shape ugly people. It is what it is. Think about it like this. You gotta know which league you are in. If you are a pretty good beer league softball player you might not be ready to win the MVP in the MLB. The first thing people see is a picture. They gotta get past that. Then they gotta get something different out of your profile. Remember WAAAAY more women. The prettiest women get 100+ messages a day. You gotta stand out next to those other guys.



What a load of tosh lol the (so say real) women on there can't even answer basic questions like what city do they live in or what country lol. They always try to ask you where you are first because they claim to live in your area.



that's are sign of paid shills sending you messages ,they work for the company as normally u wont get many replies if u don't resemble tom cruise or g cloony

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/01/27 03:28am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

most small date sites are just a PC chugging away in a locked room with auto bot software with fake profiles collecting card numbers run by fraudsters at some place in the world ..out of reach of the law..



run by the italian cosa nostra on a remote island in the mediteranean ?

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/02/03 11:24am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Yes. As a woman I used Adult Friend Finder for a year and a half. As with any site you have to have a good attitude and be willing to put time and effort in contacting people and yes there are many fake profiles. Anything that looks too good to be true probably is. Please keep in mind that the men out-number the females by a factor of 10. I am going to repeat the "good attitude" and "time and effort." All the men that I met and hooked up with 1) didn't assume that I was a fake profile and sent a nice first message-- not a flirt or one line and 2) had a complete profile themselves, with well-written paragraphs, pictures (body, face as well as equipment) and testimonials which AFF has and 3) were prompt about meeting, calling or video chatting with no run around.



and your a joke for i've used this site to no success and all adult sites want is:

MONEY AND YOU KNOW IT

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/02/08 02:45am
By: Anonymous

Yes there are.

I have recently met two ladies online. Had very pleasurable date with both of them. Both from "Naughty Seniors", though that database is used by a number of dating companies

I am 66. One was 65 and the other 73.

My approach?
Be up front, be honest and be a gentleman. Don't appear to be desperate - that won't appeal to anyone.

In fact, not only don't APPEAR to be desperate. Don't BE desperate Big Grin

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/02/09 07:57am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Yes there are.

I have recently met two ladies online. Had very pleasurable date with both of them. Both from "Naughty Seniors", though that database is used by a number of dating companies

I am 66. One was 65 and the other 73.

My approach?
Be up front, be honest and be a gentleman. Don't appear to be desperate - that won't appeal to anyone.

In fact, not only don't APPEAR to be desperate. Don't BE desperate Big Grin



consensus of opinion is that ''naughty seniors'' is a scam site of fake profiles as seen here
or are you a company employee ?

See this forum post.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/02/09 12:29pm
By: Anonymous

I tried to register with AFF twice. I used my CC, which is valid. Both times AFF told me my CC was not valid.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/02/10 03:01am
By: Anonymous

Everyone is right about all those sex sites being a scam. I was never desperate enough to actually pay for it and it was really obvious to me being smarter than an average bear. I could see that before I even put my picture up I already had over ten messages....that was my first sign and the fact that they make u pay to even read the bot's message. I never paid....pictures of the girls all looked like models, no ugly ones like on real sites that is also how you tell. One person had it right there are 10 times the men these days than there are women. Too many hipsters with 14" wangs, we need more wars and the draft to come back in to thin out the men so the ones luckiest enough to survive will have a chance in hell. Back ten years ago I was able to date so many women I could not even keep up with all their names. I'm not GQ at all, rather on the short side 5.9, but I have that lean wolverine look and even I have trouble getting even average chicks to write me back on the real dating sites. It's the women's playground not for us men. Most of the women on there *censored* about not any good men out there...well if the bitches would get off the damn sites where only a handful of players rules dating 1,000s of women and leaving none for the good guys....the women actually are getting what they deserved...."played". I actually have much better luck in my local grocery store just shopping for groceries and talking to all the milfs. I'm done with these dating sites. Time to go to publix and talk to some real women that don't have 20 chat windows open while you trying to talk to them.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/02/15 06:07pm
By: Anonymous

To be totally honest.. I hook up three times on AFF..the dates were incredible sexual encounters....I’m looking to try another site..

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/02/17 10:31am
By: Anonymous

watch out for emails containing a phishing payload from the scamsters they will stop at nothing to get their hands on your cash ..dont unload them

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/03/03 04:35am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

The woman who wrote about AFF being a legit website for sex was wrong....only the women OR couples succeed on that website. And Black men well hung. I REPEAT: ONLY women or couples and Black men succeed in finding sex on Adult Friend Finder.com
Single men are in the LESS THAN 1% of meeting anyone for sex on that website.

Your best chance is to find a girlfriend on one of the sites like eHarmony.com where EVERY WOMAN i met in person ended up making love to me. And I am being 100% HONEST.....EVERY WOMAN who met me in person after going through the eHarmony process made love to me and then some!! I had sex with OVER 50-women 3-4 times a week for 2-8 months AVERAGE relationship time in 15 years just by going on there and paying the $49.95 I think it is for 3-4 months membership.

That's A LOT OF SEX guys!! 8-month relationships and each we had sex 3-4 times per week if not more. They give it up MORE than a website where you just ask for it in your profile. WOMEN??? on AFF??? *censored*! they get it WHENEVER and with WHOMEVER they want on AFF.

>>>>>>>> This guy just said f*** it! I'm going to advertise through a review as just some random guy. I'M SURE THEY WON'T NOTICE!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/03/08 05:08am
By: Anonymous

Alt.com try it with a little patience you can meet like minded people

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/03/11 10:39pm
By: Anonymous

There is not a SINGLE website anywhere on the Internet that is devoted to the honest providing of services for the lonely. It's nonsense. Every single site is established simply to make cash for the creator of the website. Nearly all, if NOT all, of the profiles on these websites are pure forgeries, simply pictures of European porn actresses. They are not even human.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/03/13 12:10am
By: Anonymous

Warning!!!!!!!
I just had to have charges removed from my credit card after cancelling my 3 day trial period at Benaughty.com... They continued to charge me after going through there ridiculous cancellation process..............😠

Nothing but fake computer generated bots!!!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/03/27 09:15am
By: Anonymous

To paraphrase John Dillinger - to meet partners, you need to go where they are. In other words, why would you think you can find a sexual partner on-line. The fundamental premise is wrong. People judge one another by appearance but also many things that are impossible to communicate digitally. Hard as it is to contemplate, you need to actually meet in person - gasp!

90% of everything on www is crap and 99.9% of so-called dating sites are filled with fakers, pervs and liars
Reality is a *censored* - but it's real - turn off your digital devices and actually put yourself where you can meet other real human beings

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/03/28 04:43am
By: Anonymous

quite so. people are attracted for various reasons like personality ..body language ,smell of pheromones ..a twinkle in the eye and speech .so net dating cant cope with this as its all superficial by looks alone and prejudged ,, .i expect the churn rate on date sites means they have to create false profiles to keep the millions rolling in as many subscribers last only a month of payments

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/03/31 03:01am
By: Anonymous

the females on POF are all complaining ''where have all the good guys gone?'' so it appears theyre not having much luck or are just too picky ..seeking Mr perfect

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/04/03 01:37pm
By: Anonymous

I have worked for some of these companies. If you have to pay per message then you are conned. They use people who work from home to write replies. They get paid per message. They always hint at meeting but then make excuses. You dont even get to text the same person twice. You always have to text back in the style of the last message. Some of the men message for years or some say I love you and keep texting and paying with no chance of a meet. Dont waste your money lads. Its a con.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/04/04 03:25am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

This comes from a guy who has lost count of how many women I've pounded from online dating, so listen up. Your best -- no, your only option -- is to use legitimate dating sites. Not the hookup sites. List your intentions as long-term relationship, no matter how inaccurate that is. Have many good photos and write an interesting, grammatically correct profile. When texting with the woman, hint at your sex drive without overwhelming them with it. And no *censored* shots. The hints will screen out the prudes, while the nicely written profile will get you a higher caliber woman. Accept that forking out for that first date with no sex will likely be the price of getting regular sex down the road. Better than a membership with a fraud site. Wish I could give a clinic in this stuff. Good luck, gentlemen.



This coming from a guy that that says pounded when referring to having sex. Though I don't believe he lost count of how many ladies he's "pounded", I do agree with his response

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/04/11 12:21pm
By: Anonymous

As far as AFF I've been a member for quite a few years. I am real and I am not being paid to say this. I have hooked up with several women and several couples. And also as one person said earlier you had to be a black man I'm not a black man. So yes of all the sites AFF is genuine. But as another person said you have to be willing to strike up a conversation it's not like going to the bar and finding a woman that's so drunk she doesn't know her name and she'll *censored* anybody. And if you don't want to be a paying member you can be a standard member and you are allowed to start 3 instant message conversations daily so if you take the time and you talk to somebody halfway decent you do have the opportunity to have a meeting with someone for great sex on AFF.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/04/16 04:18am
By: Anonymous

I found a partner on e-harmony but I met several women and had sex with them as part of the dating ritual. Yes, you pay for the privilege but I honestly had quite a few face to face contacts. What I think is, if you want more sex use a regular dating site and go through the process of being nice to people. women like to use regular dating sites to meet men for sex and relationships because they don't want to seem slutty by using other means, so to speak. It does'nt matter what regular dating site you use but give it a go and you may be surprised.. best of luck.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/04/18 03:03pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Great, so what you're saying is.. you were payed to post that. Thanks for the eHarmony plug. Big Grin

no.... even eharmony is a joke saying there in your city but miles away and ask for more pictures even though you have m on site scam scam scam

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/04/19 01:53pm
By: Anonymous

definitely not nowadays ..the fakes have overtaken the genuine s .BOTS rule

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/04/21 01:21am
By: Anonymous

I've tried quite a few and I feel like everything is BS. Even the almighty tinder is junk.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/04/21 03:11pm
By: Anonymous

From my experience, Match worked. I met a lovely girlfriend there.

A friend of mine met her husband on eharmony, but I have no experience of that site personally.

AFF appear to sponsor a number of review sites that claim all of the other sites are scams. Suspicious - I think we should be.

When I was actively looking, which was over 10 years ago now, there were a few other sites.

Midsummerseve.com worked. I believe that it is 100% free, so there are probably quite a number of scam profiles. I met a couple of nice girls there.

If you want a bit of fun with a site that uses bots, try spdate.com For some conversations their bot can be quite convincing. They also can be persuaded to talk dirty. Quite bizarre really.

Another site that might be reasonable is Illicitencounters.co.uk It is a fully paid for site, and I do not have experience of it, but it has a better feel than others.

Above all apply caution. I heard somewhere that there are over 30,000 adult dating sites. There are certainly loads of duplicate ones with the same owners. They often have the same profiles. As they say caviat emptor.... let the buyer beware!!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/04/26 12:11pm
By: Anonymous

Got on hangouts , talked to all these girls want you to send an I tunes card for them , everyone from South Africa , what a turn off when they ask! Be safe don’t trust

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/04/29 03:12pm
By: Anonymous

Tinder, I have legit, hooked up through Tinder numerous times. I'm just an average looking guy nothing special. Some of the girls looked nice, some were just fair looking, but all wanted to hookup. Bottom line, if your first date ends up with her coming to your place, 85% chance you're getting laid. That being said, please remember that she is a person, and no, means no. Just don't take advantage of a woman, if you guys drink. Don't wanna end up like Cosby.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/05/03 02:30am
By: Anonymous

I had sex with 2 different women from Horny Matches and slept overnight with lots of French kissing with a 3rd and slept in bed with a 4th from DateHookup which will go away soon. I met 2 women in OK Cupid. I had sex with one of them, but ironically NOT from OK Stupid, but because she was my long-lost girl friend years ago whom I ended up finding on OK Stupid by accident !!! You have to pay to get sex from Horny Matches and you have to contact 300 women to get a response, but the sex was so good, it was worth it for me.
The 3rd woman wanted to be my girl friend and I might have made a mistake telling her " Don't fall in love with me." I'm still not sure. I've seen each of these women at least twice. I am looking for a bisexual Christian woman which is an oxymoron ONLY if you don't believe in the "once saved, always saved" theory that Calvinists believe in. I'm meeting more and more NORMAL, straight, church-going, Bible reading Christian men and women that believe that. So, IF it is true, then it is NOT an oxymoron. They just get fewer rewards in heaven.

Hope this doesn't show up on my FB page.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/05/10 04:05am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Well I am 71 and all the parts still work and love to please. I have had a few takers from a couple of sites but it's not fun getting older and still enjoying the best thing in life lol. I am not ready to get into a monogamous relationship. Older spends more time taking care of business than the wham bam type. Too bad women don't understand that. I have had more luck off of the free sites than anything but very few women want a man of my age. Too bad lol.


I've had a different experience.
I'm 73, and have posted a desired age range of 55-74, which is COMPLETELY IGNORED on various sites, including POF and Millionairematch. Do I get contacts of that age? Hell no, I'm messaged by women in their 30's and '40's! I never COULD figure out how women think!

Here's a tip I learned on the net; Don't use your regular credit or debit card on a questionable site, which would be any site you haven't had experience with. Instead, get a non-refillable gift card for a specific denomination, such as $50, and sign on for the minimum term. If that's just a few bucks for 3 days or whatever, use the card at another site, in order to pretty well use it up. They'll get a big surprise when they go and try to re-bill it if you don't want their service to continue. Wink

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/05/12 10:03am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: alex hang

Just go out, clubs, bars, gyms, classes, churches. Talk to girls and be cool and normal. Stay away from this online garbage



absolutely true .online garbage with fake profiles generated by fraudsters

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/05/20 05:36am
By: Anonymous

Having done extensive 'research' over the past five years, my conclusion is, sadly, don't waste your time. Firms like Bonefish and similar ilk will have multiple 'affiliates'. You 'sign up' to these affiliates, unbeknown to you. Most 'women' if they are actually real will be some old maid in a Knitting Circle getting paid to read from a crib sheet. I could list numerous 'local' women where 'local' means Europe or USA. Bonefish tried the 'take small amounts from his account. He won't notice" I challenged them and got verbal diarrhea in response. Did a 'chargeback'. They did NOT like that. I'm housebound so normal dating methods are not an option. I'm open to be proved wrong but I won't hold my breath

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/05/20 05:41am
By: Anonymous

Anybody else find it ironic that to the left of the Posts there are multiple 'Dating Sites'?. Perhaps this is a case of the wolves guarding the sheep

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/05/26 08:01pm
By: Anonymous

There are.. RHP possibly the best i have found. You have to invest your time and be willing to chat a bit first but can and does pay off.. Recently tried AUSSIE SWINGERS CLUB total rip off!!! Do not spend your time or money on this web site. Very user unfriendly, and full of time wasters and cons and expensive to boot. Don't even join as a non paid member as they will send you fake mail making out members are interested in you with the only way to reply to them is becoming a paid member.. Shame there are crap sites like these ruining what the internet made hooking up so easy about.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/06/01 07:56pm
By: Anonymous

In my view they all are a con in one way or another,I tried OkCupid ,I tried the free route sent some messages and what a surprise messages were sent to me but I had to pay to see them.
When I paid and went on the damn message was from OkCupid themselves,I asked for a refund after cursing them out and was told I was banned and no refund because I broke their rules ,but I was not abusive to any so called users.
Other sites find you matches such as POF but they don't follow your request such as distance,age,non smoker but all the matches were from over 100 miles away from me and even smokers.
I am disillussioned and pissed off ,oh and to top it off the amount of scam profiles which prey on guys is horrendous.
Don't trust any of the sites.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/06/09 10:24am
By: Anonymous

they all use a standard format to con people

give a free signup

entice guys with photos of attractive women some naked

flood mailbox with phony messages which appear to come from genuine women

guys get curious about the messages and handover card details despite these women have never checked their profile

make it very difficult or impossible to cancel with fake phone numbers or email addys that never get replied to

if you cancel cards then they threaten debt collectors will visit you ..these are empty threats but some are terrified and keep paying..





Passion.com

Posted on: 2018/06/15 12:06pm
By: Anonymous

I foolishly decided to to pay for a 3 month Golden Membership on Passion.com & during that period my decision was unjustified.
The majority of replies you'll receive are from fake accounts, and after building a rapport, try scam you for money!!

It was a complete waste of time and money...

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/07/14 10:46am
By: Anonymous

I can confirm what most people say. If you are looking for sex only, unless you are in the 1% rich/model, its better to save up and pay an escort. I have tried dozens of sites, posted ads on classifieds (craigslist till it got removed, now doublelist), and i never met a girl. Every time they ask for me to sign up to a website (SCAM alert), or other *censored* like that. I dont live in the downtown area of a city, i live a bit away from it (far suburbs), but i managed to get a few escorts for an hour for a decent price (200$ for GFE (kissing and bareback suck)). Thats the only way i got sex.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/07/15 03:22pm
By: Anonymous

That guy who said he's getting laid left and right off eHarmony is full of *censored*. eHarmony deliberately screens out people like him that want to score or are too sexually minded when they answer questions. That's just a f'ing LIE.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/07/23 04:52am
By: Anonymous

less and less sites are genuine as fakes and scammers slowly take over the market ..its a losing game .you may get lucky buts its more effective to talk to females in public places or at work if u can manage it

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/07/23 05:41am
By: Anonymous


NZ Herald
By: Carla Penman

More than 200 Kiwis have been caught out by romance scams this year, costing them $7.9 million.

That's just for the first three months of 2018 alone, according to the latest quarterly report from Netsafe, and is six times more than for the whole of last year.

Among those conned was a man in his 40s who sent $200,000 to someone he met on a dating site while a woman in her 50s lost $15,000 and was unwittingly used as a "mule" by receiving funds from another person caught up in the same scam.

Netsafe's director of technology and partnerships, Sean Lyons, said that while it was difficult to pinpoint the exact reason for the increase, it was likely because there has been an increase in scam attempts.

He said the romance scams today were a lot more sophisticated than they used to be, making them increasingly harder to spot.

"It's a lot more sophisticated. There often a lot more evolved, they [scammers] do a lot more to convince people that they are legitimate," he said.

Romance scammers were also prepared to play the long game until their victims fell in love and had no reason to believe they were being conned.

"It's sometimes years with no real attempt to defraud them, and then suddenly when somebody brings up money after that length of time, you think 'there's no way this is a scam'," Lyons said.

"When they [scammers] do finally go for what they're looking for it seems legitimate, and anyway, you're head over heels by that stage and the last thing in the world you want to do is think they're [the scammers] out to get you."

The Commission for Financial Capability's manager of fraud education, Bronwyn Groot, deals with such cases and told the Herald the new figures weren't surprising.

"We need to remember that most of those funds will have gone offshore, possibly to fund organised crime such as drugs and human trafficking," she said.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/08/15 10:20pm
By: Anonymous

One thing is for sure, it's so hard to find any of these sites to do a review to warn people.

maturesexmeet.com/ grannysexmeet.com/ seniorsexmeet.com

These 3 sites are 100% scam . No one was ever willing to talk off line only on the site, which really made no sense. Made a lot of useless Small talk knowing full well that it's costing you money.Never wanting to meet just chat on the site claiming that it's safer there, and they don't know me well enough to give out any contact info. Even told one to call me and block her number, never heard from her again. These sites have turn me completely against dating sites. Can anyone tell me how I can write a review for those 3 sites

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/08/17 09:49am
By: Anonymous

be carefull of women asking to call you back but its likely to be on a premium rate line so beware of that trick they use

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/08/23 01:45pm
By: Anonymous

For Silim60.....thanks man !! 17 pages in , this is by far the best advice, from an experienced fella´. I especially liked point no.4. I am on my own and i really did laugh out loud. A shared experience often offers the best humour, though i didn´t marry the ice cube i used to live with. Good luck man.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/08/26 01:02am
By: Anonymous

Cry I've seen lots of comments here about the impossibility of dating, sex, or finding anyone if a guy is 55yo. I've been alone and tried EVERY venue and idea for 30yrs with zero luck. And now in 2018 the chances of getting together with anyone is LESS than zero. Age discrimination is the biggest thing now, next is "member" size. Women today are disgusting and demanding, only wanting "young & hung". Meaning under 35 and 8, 10, to who knows how much, the skys the limit. Its absolutely, totally pathetic!!! Seen it get worse as time goes on. OH!!!, btw, they want you to be ""GENOROUS"" with a pocketful of Benjiman Franklins, especially if they see your over 45/50yo. NONE OF THE SITES WORK. WOMEN ONLY PLAY "20 questions" with you. Get 1 wrong and you're screwed. Watch out for those credit card sites , don't do them at all. And those "verify" sites?? OMG!! What a load of crap!! STAY AWAY FROM DATING SITES IF YOUR OVER 30. THEY'RE ALL BULLS***!!!!!
I know, I've tried EVERYTHING you can think of for 30yrs.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/08/26 01:44am
By: Anonymous

Angry Basically, HELL NO, THERES NO LEGIT SITES OUT THERE. NOT AN ABSOLUTE SINGLE ONE AT ALL, AND PROBABLY NEVER WILL BE. IN THIS DAY AND AGE NOW, DON'T EVEN BOTHER TRYING FOR A WOMAN. THERE ISN'T A REAL, DECENT ONE OUT IN THIS WORLD. BUYING A PORN MOVIE AND SEEING A GIRL ON IT IS ABOUT AS CLOSE AS YOU'LL EVER GET.
DATING IS DONE NOW.
ANYTHING, ANY POSSIBILITY OF THINGS WORKING UP TO AND INCLUDING LTR OR MARRIAGE IS....... DEAD.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/08/27 02:26pm
By: Anonymous

I thought I'd add my 2 cents to this forum as well.

I was on BDSMScotland's site - unfortunately paid for a months subscription so I could message some women. The women that did speak to me, gave me their gmail address so we could speak on Hangouts, which I thought it was going well. Then 1 asked for a 'dating id' that I had to pay for, which is when the bells started to ring. She wanted to meet up that night, but needed a dating id. I gave that a miss at that point, wondering if I had made a mistake.
Started speaking to someone else on the site, which took us to Hangouts and she said the EXACT same words as the 1st person, like they copied and pasted paragraphs. I ended up finding out that the pix they were using were from some cam sites. *sigh*

I've also been on EliteAdults and you have to pay per message by buying a bundle of 'coins' to message others. I've had some nice chats and spent a little too much, but now I don't trust the site, since I can't tell if people are real or not. No one wants to leave the site and stop buying the coins and move over to email. There doesn't seem to be any search that brings up others talking about the site, which makes me wonder how so many people found it.

So I'm back to square one. In the middle of a divorce and wanting to take my mind off things by speaking to the opposite sex who are fun to talk to and maybe take it further.

Next options are Hinge? and Coffee meets Bagel? I met my ex on Pof, but I won't be going back there - maybe I'll need to try .... the real world! 8l

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/08/28 08:33am
By: Anonymous

forget POF its a total waste of time .fake and dead profiles .you can spend 5 years on there and get no dates

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/08/29 06:52am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

There all BS, for example sexEncounters will lure, you in with an email from a pretty girl..you sign up and they never send you another note. You will have a few look at your profile once in a while, a few will friend you but they are all paid by the site.Don't be suck in men...all you do is keep the site up and running.



its the biggest scam of modern times-- all criminals are on the bandwagon as its a billion dollar scam market and little chance of doing jail time



Well if theres that much money in it then men and women by the boatload must be signing up for sex or there wouldnt be any worthwhile reason to do it. So if people are signing up for sex then it stands to reason that that some people will be doing just that.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/09/09 06:34am
By: Anonymous

Absolutely not. I have tried dozens, latterly just for the entertainment value, and have yet to find a legit site. A huge majority of profiles are fake and, if you look closely, the same photos but using slightly different names are scattered throughout these sites. On one occasion I found the same photo under six different names in six different locations between Cornwall and Aberdeen. The sites where you buy credits to send messages are the biggest scam. The women are never quite ready to hook up and ask to continue using the paid for messages until they are more comfortable about meeting up, which is never. As other people have said, just go to a busy bar or engage the services of a hooker.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/09/10 09:46am
By: Anonymous

if george clooney tried online dating he wouldn't find any women as his age would preclude him from any dates..if he was on POF the age filters would get him

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/09/13 06:15pm
By: Anonymous

I was on AFF. Did not see a single attractive woman from Australia on there. Yet, USA had heaps

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/09/15 01:15pm
By: Anonymous

XMeeting for one is a scam! They take your money and you never hear from one soul. All you get are messages saying that someone likes you and wants to meet you but they NEVER reply after you message them. SCAM! SCAM! SCAM! Don't do business with XMeeting!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/09/15 01:22pm
By: Anonymous

If you read through enough profiles you will see for yourself that most of them read in duplicate from others down to the very last word. How many women do you think use exactly the same words and phrasings? You have a better chance of winning the lottery with those odds!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/09/16 12:56pm
By: Anonymous

A friend of mine actually works on one of these scam adult dating sites. The company who she works for own a lot of fake 'hook up' sites with names like Granny Lover and Mature Meetups etc. Basically she gets sent messages from guys that she replies to and gets paid 15p per message. The men in these sites will never get any woman's phone number and certainly won't get a real life meeting. Some guys have been on the sites for years and the penny still hasn't dropped!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/09/16 01:04pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

One thing is for sure, it's so hard to find any of these sites to do a review to warn people.

maturesexmeet.com/ grannysexmeet.com/ seniorsexmeet.com

These 3 sites are 100% scam . No one was ever willing to talk off line only on the site, which really made no sense. Made a lot of useless Small talk knowing full well that it's costing you money.Never wanting to meet just chat on the site claiming that it's safer there, and they don't know me well enough to give out any contact info. Even told one to call me and block her number, never heard from her again. These sites have turn me completely against dating sites. Can anyone tell me how I can write a review for those 3 sites



Yes, they're all scam sites. The messages are coming from random women who are paid by the company to message you. My friend works for the company who own them. As you have discovered, nobody will give you their number or actually meet in real life because all those sexy profiles are fake.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/09/18 02:24pm
By: Anonymous

I have been surfing adult dating sites or adult picture posting sites for about 15 years and it is very easy to hook up with women or with couples. Experience is what counts. Experience in not wasting your time on useless sites, experience in approaching profiles, experience in selecting profiles with a reasonably high chance of not being fake, experience in communicating and finding the right mix of hitting the other person's erotic button and just being friendly, funny and interesting. You also need patience, look halfway presentable and a good *censored* never harms. I have talked with quite a few women, that I hooked up with and it must be totally frustrating, harmlessly boring and intellectually poor, what they get. Keep in mind, that women will get tons of messages and typically decide in a split second, if they might be interested or not. Carefully read the profiles. There are usually many hints or information. If you are not 100% compatible with this, forget it. If the distance is too big, forget it. Always be totally honest and know what you want. Women will smell a desperate guy, sending messages to just about anyone, from miles away.
So if you know what to do and what to look for, it is really quite easy to hook up. It will take some time though. The "competition" is very mediocre. And that is from the mouth of women.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/09/19 07:22am
By: Anonymous

women get 100s or 1000s of messages so most of them dont get read and are binned no matter how smart you claim to be .men far outnumber women on date sites

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/09/27 11:14pm
By: Anonymous

All scams, don't fall for buying credits to message someone that will try to keep you buying credits. Save your money, buy lottery tickets instead...better chance of getting a return on investment and we all what those chances are

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/09/28 09:03am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

All scams, don't fall for buying credits to message someone that will try to keep you buying credits. Save your money, buy lottery tickets instead...better chance of getting a return on investment and we all what those chances are



Remember that when you're paying about £1 per message the woman who the company employ to reply to your message, is getting 15p. The company are making an absolute fortune.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/09/28 11:48am
By: Anonymous

Razz
Quote by: Anonymous

Yes Rosie contacts this is the same company that dies the contact magazine if it's sex u want it's here I use this and I am a woman


How do we get pics of you or message you privately? how does it work - do we exchange pictures and chat to see if we have chemistry?

Very keen 👍

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/09/29 01:24pm
By: Anonymous

Well from what I can tell, I think you should stay away from thoses sites.

In fact, what they've done is illegal so is you or anyone you know fell victem to this, speak up to the feds I'll even post a link to the FBI tip line, it's time these sites to pay for thier fraudulent activities.

https://tips.fbi.gov

Let's make an example of thses frausters that we are not going to go down in slience.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/09/29 03:54pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: henryscat

Hi, recently i joined justwantsex.co.uk, straight away i started chatting and got replies, as the girls were local, i suggested to meet up in a well known public place for a coffee so we could get to know each other in person and primarily to establish wether they were real people, everyone declined and didn't understand my reasoning, £1 per message is enough of a reason i think.
anyway this carried on for a while with no luck, then i realised that no women had contacted me, with cogs turning in my head i decided to open a second email account in order to open an account on the same web site, only as a woman, the results confirmed to me that this is a scam site, there are 1000's of women, mainly between 18 and 35 on the site, compared to only 101 men, with this ratio i would have expected to be inundated with messages!!! i'm guessing there will be a handful of girls sitting in an office somewhere on their computers telling us what we want to hear!!!
So now i'm just spreading the word for guys to stay clear of this web site, it's a scam...

.

They aren't in an office, they're sitting at home answering messages and being paid 15p per message. My friend works for the company that own this site and many other adult dating sites.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/10/01 04:47am
By: Anonymous

what is needed is a blind date website so the scammers cant use fake photos to entice people ..with a call number to call em up for a meet ..the BS profiles are used to defraud people ..take it back to basics with no details

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/10/01 06:10am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

what is needed is a blind date website so the scammers cant use fake photos to entice people ..with a call number to call em up for a meet ..the BS profiles are used to defraud people ..take it back to basics with no details



Another thing - when a guy gives out his phone number on these scam sites the system will automatically change the numbers. Not that it matters because none of the women's profiles are genuine anyway

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/10/03 12:36pm
By: Anonymous

what is need is finger prints and passport to confirm a person who says he or her is ..finger print scanners could help weed out scammers but i wouldn't bet money on it

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/10/08 06:15pm
By: Anonymous

Obviously you guys havent heard of Swingers sites or Swingers Clubs. Get yourselves members of your local club and boy will you have fun. As for the swingers websites. I've been single 13 years however im having more sex now than ever.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/10/09 08:29am
By: Anonymous

dating sites dont want guys to get fixed up with women as their income stream would tail off and they have to keep guys paying money month after month .. so its in their interest to keep guys separate from women at all costs.. happy couples means they go broke

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/10/12 03:37am
By: Anonymous

Yes there are legit ones. And you don't have to be female, married, or a hung black guy (but it helps). Ive been on AFF for 10 years and have met around a dozen women there that I had sex with. Some were married not getting laid at home, but not wanting to break up their family - just wanting to get laid. Ive had one night stands, on going hook ups. If youre bi or gay you can find that too.
I think most of the sites out there are scams - if you read the fine print, they say they will give out flirts on behalf of members - they give flirts and messages, and to respond you have to sign up, so yes, beware! I'm just saying I have personally had luck with AFF & its sister sites (with this being said, you do need to join to send letters and flirts and look at profiles). I'm you're average guy - middle aged, white, single, average endowment, not rich, not buff.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/10/12 11:00pm
By: Anonymous

If someone could figure out a real way to make meeting others possible not just sex but coffee or dinner. I would forever be greatful because I don’t have time nor do I want to! Please can someone get this worked out! It’s 2018 almost 2020 if it’s not our only way to meet new people by then I’d be shocked! It’s not about the money all the time is it? Green Disease it’s sad!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/10/13 10:46am
By: Anonymous

I only tried one: Casual Granny. I was looking for older women so I could raw dog and not worry about pregnancies. Anyhow, lots of women on there have explicit photos. I signed up for free and messaged two of the women. Both replied! How often does that happen? Never. I read their messages, but I had to pay to reply. The way it works is that you buy message plans. The cheapest was $11.99 for 7 messages. I sent each of the women a few messages and then when I was about to use up my allotment, I asked them to email me instead. I figured that emailing is still very safe and anonymous. You can block anyone you don't like and don't even need your real name or age to make an account. I figured that the site would either block my address or the women would refuse to email me. That latter occurred. Both women claimed that they felt safer using the website. Well, it was obvious from there that it was a scam. As others have said, the company needs guys to keep sending messages otherwise they won't make any money. Otherwise, every guy would do like I did and try to get the women to email them instead of paying for messages. Well, I'm done with these sites.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/10/17 01:18am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Yes there are legit ones. And you don't have to be female, married, or a hung black guy (but it helps). Ive been on AFF for 10 years and have met around a dozen women there that I had sex with. Some were married not getting laid at home, but not wanting to break up their family - just wanting to get laid. Ive had one night stands, on going hook ups. If youre bi or gay you can find that too.
I think most of the sites out there are scams - if you read the fine print, they say they will give out flirts on behalf of members - they give flirts and messages, and to respond you have to sign up, so yes, beware! I'm just saying I have personally had luck with AFF & its sister sites (with this being said, you do need to join to send letters and flirts and look at profiles). I'm you're average guy - middle aged, white, single, average endowment, not rich, not buff.



There isnt a mystery website or dating app that can make peoples dreams come true. Wake up people.
none are legit. If you read all the negative reviews about all the websites ever reviewed then you'll notice that reviews like the above are also fake. you do need to join etc. *censored*. For the reviewers either yes youre correct, but heres the real top 5 sites that can be trusted. Or the reviewer who is giving put 5/5 is saying you have to pay, so obviously its all the guys who are searching for the unicorn faults.
Stop looking for what doesnt exist.
Bewildered.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/10/17 04:47am
By: Anonymous

probably less than 1% are legit profiles on date sites.. most are scams ..cos the odd guy gets fixed up but its like wining the jackpot on the lottery

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/10/18 07:05am
By: Anonymous

I've been on and off these adult sites for years boys. I have probably tried over 10 different ones and spent months on them. In the end I keep coming back to Adult Friend Finder. It is not perfect and they do have users who will try to scam you but it is the only one I consistently meet new women on.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/10/24 11:15am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

I only tried one: Casual Granny. I was looking for older women so I could raw dog and not worry about pregnancies. Anyhow, lots of women on there have explicit photos. I signed up for free and messaged two of the women. Both replied! How often does that happen? Never. I read their messages, but I had to pay to reply. The way it works is that you buy message plans. The cheapest was $11.99 for 7 messages. I sent each of the women a few messages and then when I was about to use up my allotment, I asked them to email me instead. I figured that emailing is still very safe and anonymous. You can block anyone you don't like and don't even need your real name or age to make an account. I figured that the site would either block my address or the women would refuse to email me. That latter occurred. Both women claimed that they felt safer using the website. Well, it was obvious from there that it was a scam. As others have said, the company needs guys to keep sending messages otherwise they won't make any money. Otherwise, every guy would do like I did and try to get the women to email them instead of paying for messages. Well, I'm done with these sites.



The company that own these sites employ women to reply to messages. I have a friend who does this from home. She logs on to a special site and then gets sent messages that she has to reply to. You'll never get anyone's phone number, let alone an an actual real life meeting. It's just a huge scam.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/10/24 08:48pm
By: Anonymous

I was on AFF for only 6 weeks or so. I searched more than once and the same profile pic was being used for two different profiles. There are obvious fakes. I think there are legit ones too. I may try it again, but know that most of your efforts on AFF are a waste of time.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/10/31 10:25am
By: Anonymous

Well, the sad truth is that most of the adult dating sites are scams. Only a very few of them actually have enough women and actually work. I would say adultfriendfinder and ashleymadison are the best paid sites. But you might as well also use Tinder. Many use tinder to just hook up Smile

If you want to check out some of the best adult dating sites, you can take a look here

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/10/31 11:12am
By: Anonymous

and bear in mind there are a lot of bogus review sites with fake good reviews set up by the scamming date sites to hoodwink those who are looking for a genuine date

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/11/03 02:35pm
By: Anonymous

I have used tinder, pof, fab swingers, fetlife, happn all with great success sometimes meet straight away for sex no questions asked. Occasionally a coffee or drink fìrst but 90 percent always had sex one or regarly.

While you will always get a few fakes should spot them pretty.quick if she looks like she is too good to be true probably is. Be nice be flirty dont asl of they want a shag! with good profile and get straight to the point about what you want in a nice way. Never had any problem meeting.

If you are struggling your probably looking in the wrong are group or being unreasonable about who your hooking up with or just not nice enough.

Remember woman probably have about a 1000 percent more men to choose from than us men do

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/11/09 05:02pm
By: Anonymous

I have tried AFF, Mature Sex Meet, Fetlife and BBWSexNet (which has changed from what it used to be). I also used Tagged.com. Out of all of these sites I had the most success on Tagged and then Fetlife. Which are both free. Mature sex meet is a 100% scam. AFF-never net anyone. A lot of game players. BBWSexNet was good but it’s gone...😢

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/11/11 08:18am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

I have tried AFF, Mature Sex Meet, Fetlife and BBWSexNet (which has changed from what it used to be). I also used Tagged.com. Out of all of these sites I had the most success on Tagged and then Fetlife. Which are both free. Mature sex meet is a 100% scam. AFF-never net anyone. A lot of game players. BBWSexNet was good but it’s gone...😢



Mature Sex Meet is a definite scam. The company that own it employ women to answer messages. My friend works from home doing this. This is why men never get anyone's phone number nor an actual real life meeting with anyone.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/11/19 09:56am
By: Anonymous

BBC report about romance scams




Billion-Pound Romance Scam
Panorama

It's a crime that breaks the hearts of victims as well as emptying their bank accounts. Thousands of people lose money to romance frauds each year after being conned on internet dating sites. The criminals are called catfish, and they promise love and marriage to get cash. Reporter Athar Ahmad turns the tables on the fraudsters by using his own fake dating profile to expose the international gangs behind the crime.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b0bsvn2c

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/12/02 10:54am
By: Anonymous

I agree...there are no legitimate hookup sites out there. You will spend money searching and testing, etc.. Fake profiles are everywhere and no one can confirm their location ir even identify landmarks in their city. The workers or programs that respond to your chat/email are there to tease & entertain. That's it. Any tokens u purchase are designed to be depleted. I can walk into any gentlemen's club in my area and meet gals and have physical contact....costs money but it's a return on investment.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/12/02 08:38pm
By: Anonymous

What if one were to be created that was legit?

What's the ideal interaction to keep both parties safe and identities secure?

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/12/03 06:44am
By: Anonymous

i think if amazon started a dating facility it would work as their customers are previously proven to be genuine so long as they have had goods delivered to their door prior to engaging in dating ..of course scammers will try to breech their defenses so caution will be needed ,but any scammers could be banned from using amazon for good .smart speakers could be used to keep out scammers

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/12/03 10:08pm
By: Anonymous

Authenticate user identity via license/credit card?
Location based
Facilitate meet up connection - indicate who you're meeting in case of foul play?
Anonymous and pre-phrased review/rating (safety, fun, etc..)?

Chat/video, channels, multi-alias?
Friend-like system?
Group forming, swingers?

Just tossing ideas about

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/12/05 08:09am
By: Anonymous

the UK hookup site adultwork com checks passports of women advertisers but they just use fake documents ,and its full of fake profiles with fake photos. so it dont work unless its cross checked with government databases where id and passports is issued and that wont happen

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/12/08 09:05pm
By: Anonymous

I have worked as a rep for sites like this. They are horrible even to their employees. ALL profiles are fake and us resp answer you and engage in a conversation to get your money. We as reps were paid 0.06 euro cent/message while they charge clients 1.5 euro per message! Quite often they let the reps work for 1 week teill payment, then they find an excuse to fire you and you dont get paid. I only did it for 2 weeks and just cpouildn't continue lying to people. I had no compassion with the pervs or the guys looking to stray out of their marriage but what made me quit without pay by the way were the "normal" guys. Guys looking for a relationship. Mind you some of these guys have been talking to these fake profiles for months on end. Unreal, have lost 1000's of $ yet still continue. Some weirdos know that they are talking to fake profiles and just like to talk dirty or put women down and be abusive by speech.
The world is a strange place, feel free to ask of you need more info.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/12/10 04:42am
By: Anonymous

ebay dating would work as any scammers would soon get bad feedback and lose their account for scamming

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/12/18 09:40am
By: Anonymous

https://www.thescottishsun.co.uk/fabulous/3620506/stirling-maryln-graham-con-scam-love-divorce/

web of lies Stirling pensioner scammed out of £50,000 by TWO con men she met online after being desperate for love following divorce

Newly-divorced Marlyn Graham was devastated after her 29-year marriage ended - but then things got worse

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/12/22 01:42am
By: Anonymous

How to spot a fake dating service

I would love to join the conversation here and add a professional perspective.

I am an internet dating expert, and author at an adult dating website since 2009. You can find my about.me profile here for more information and samples of my studies.

I have tested multiple sites so I know what is real and what is fake on the internet.

Here are some things to keep in ming where you are looking to hookup website:

Design:

Usually, real websites will have intuitive and clean design, along with a mobile app in both Android and iOS stores. Apple and Goole have developed a high standard when it comes to the type of apps they allow in their stores, but this doesn't aways mean the app is trustworthy – I have heard of many people getting scammed even using Apple apps.

Users:

When users write you immediately, and you inbox is blowing up this is a good sign that the app or website you are using is not legit. When you have girls flooding your inbox don't accept their requests. The only app I have seen that is an exception to this rule is seeking.com, this is a real app in which users actually message you consistently.

Credit cards:

When a website asked for a credit card right away this is another good sign you are using a fake dating service. Don't ever verify your age using a credit card, this is an attempt to take your money. If you do read the terms bellow to the the charges and dollar amount.

The most important thing to keep an eye open for is the term of service. Even if you are using a fake dating service, you will usually see the charges in small print at the bottom of the credit card page. This will help you what you are about to spend money on.


Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/12/22 04:12pm
By: Anonymous

I havent been on them for a couple years but i used pof and it worked really well. I am good looking and don't live with my mama so it helps. People who say its a fraud probably dont know how to talk to women. I was bringing a different girl home every Saturday. You gotta remember these girls are getting bombarded with messages. If u dont stand out your already done. Read her profile make comments on things that interest her and if she answers don't seem over eager or to excited. Women love mystery.
Any girl who needs a dating sight
A. Needs attention and just wants an ego boost. (Good luck with those ones. Usually has been on for years and are most likely just want to talk)
B. Is a ho (easy but use protection)
C. Just out of a long relationship
D. Hurt from having sex to soon with dudes and none sticking around (viscous cicle and these are the ones u feel bad after.)
I suggest going for C. And trying to be first before to many guys send a bunch of dumb *censored* and she erases her profile. The ones fresh out want sex and a cuddle and not much else. So u won't feel bad after.
Almost every date was a one night stand. If your looking for a real relationship stay away from sites and go out with your friends and live your life.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/12/24 05:10pm
By: Anonymous

I used no strings local for a couple o months. All say the same thing, won't exchange numbers, won't leave the site feeling safer here..waste of time. All fake profiles even says they employ "hosteses" to enhance the experience. Pay for messages get nowhere. If you report a profile as a scam they thank you and remove the profile. Then the "hostess" assumes another profile. Fake fake fake

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/12/25 01:31pm
By: Anonymous

women gets 100s of replies if they are good looking .then most dont get read and go straight in the bin unread,
any women who gets fixed up will never login for an eternity so becomes a dead account to fool suckers ..thus you end up with large numbers of dead accounts and fake profiles with just a few genuine profiles .so it doesnt mater how positive or handsome you are are its a losing game

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/12/27 05:45pm
By: Anonymous

They’re not worth the risk you’d have better look on this forum then on one of those. Just to try any women from Somerset looking for anything?

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/12/27 07:31pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

The woman who wrote about AFF being a legit website for sex was wrong....only the women OR couples succeed on that website. And Black men well hung. I REPEAT: ONLY women or couples and Black men succeed in finding sex on Adult Friend Finder.com
Single men are in the LESS THAN 1% of meeting anyone for sex on that website.

Your best chance is to find a girlfriend on one of the sites like eHarmony.com where EVERY WOMAN i met in person ended up making love to me. And I am being 100% HONEST.....EVERY WOMAN who met me in person after going through the eHarmony process made love to me and then some!! I had sex with OVER 50-women 3-4 times a week for 2-8 months AVERAGE relationship time in 15 years just by going on there and paying the $49.95 I think it is for 3-4 months membership.

That's A LOT OF SEX guys!! 8-month relationships and each we had sex 3-4 times per week if not more. They give it up MORE than a website where you just ask for it in your profile. WOMEN??? on AFF??? *censored*! they get it WHENEVER and with WHOMEVER they want on AFF.


Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2018/12/29 09:02am
By: Anonymous

lapsed accounts is the biggest problem.. of course dating companies will never prune their dead accounts to keep the money rolling in

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/01/11 04:26pm
By: Anonymous

Adult friend finder its a great site...but I stop using it because they charge you now ....for every thing. It use to be a monthly fee but now is not ..very disappointing Cry

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/01/12 03:22am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

If not, which come the closeist to having actual members contacting each other.

swinger's heaven . Have hooked up ³ times

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/01/14 08:24pm
By: Anonymous

AFF is legit but they used some shady practices to get you to subscribe and then switch you to autorenew when you aren't looking. Over the years I met a lot of couples on there and a few single ladies. Best advice is to come across as a genuine person, not just a perv. If you are too lazy to fill out your profile and say something about yourself beyond being horny, most women get the impression you will be too lazy to get her off. Let's face it, she is there to get something she needs. Put a face pic on your profile. Nothing screams married guy like a collection of wiener pics. She can find one of those anywhere.

Swinglifestyle dot com is legit but geared more to couples. Met a few from there. There was another site a while back I had a lot of luck with but they closed shop.

I have to agree with the other guys that say POF. I have dine very well on that site. And I am very upfront about my FWB intentions in my profile. I refuse to mislead a lady to get into her pants. And it works! The guys that lie, cheat and steal make me look great and I get dates. OKC was good until the screwed it up. Not sure how they stay in business. Match and eharmony were both complete wastes of money.

Anyway, I see a lot of misinformation on this thread. There most certainly are women willing, just be genuine. Giving a lot better than you get will also go a long way towards repeat business. Smile

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/01/15 04:08pm
By: Anonymous

I see you have interest in Granny or GILF. Did you find a legit website for this? I to have the same fantasy and would like to explore.

Quote by: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

I only tried one: Casual Granny. I was looking for older women so I could raw dog and not worry about pregnancies. Anyhow, lots of women on there have explicit photos. I signed up for free and messaged two of the women. Both replied! How often does that happen? Never. I read their messages, but I had to pay to reply. The way it works is that you buy message plans. The cheapest was $11.99 for 7 messages. I sent each of the women a few messages and then when I was about to use up my allotment, I asked them to email me instead. I figured that emailing is still very safe and anonymous. You can block anyone you don't like and don't even need your real name or age to make an account. I figured that the site would either block my address or the women would refuse to email me. That latter occurred. Both women claimed that they felt safer using the website. Well, it was obvious from there that it was a scam. As others have said, the company needs guys to keep sending messages otherwise they won't make any money. Otherwise, every guy would do like I did and try to get the women to email them instead of paying for messages. Well, I'm done with these sites.



The company that own these sites employ women to reply to messages. I have a friend who does this from home. She logs on to a special site and then gets sent messages that she has to reply to. You'll never get anyone's phone number, let alone an an actual real life meeting. It's just a huge scam.


Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/02/09 04:07pm
By: Anonymous

Since I broke up with my boyfriend I was so devastated and ruined. But my friend tried to comfort me and told me to try casual sex. I was skeptical at first, but then I decided to give it a go. I am to shy to flirt with people in bars or clubs so I started looking for the dating web sites. Tinder and others did not work for me, because they are a different kind of platforms.

Accidentally I've found loveeeble - I wasn't sure it even worked, because it is new, but I managed to meet 3 guys from there. Break up still hurts, but this hotties make me forget about my ex.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/02/26 10:59am
By: Anonymous

it works for young adult daters but for those over 30 its all gone totally corrupted by fraudsters who just scam

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/02/26 02:11pm
By: Anonymous

I joined one; can't remember the name, and got a message from somebody using pictures of Kitty Foxx; the porn actress who died about 8 years ago. I pointed out to her that she was using pictures of a dead porn actress, which she denied and claimed they were pics of her.

The whole thing is BS.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/02/28 08:07am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

I am a 33 yo white male from seabrook NH and those who say AFF IS FAKE ARE 150% DEAD WRONG!!!I I have no reason to lie, yes most sites are FULL of spam but AFF has little to none and over the past 11 months have hooked up with more girls than I have my entire life! I tried hoohup cloud and that was a scam to get money! All these sites have real girls but no doubt about it AFF is by far the most legitimate! Yes I am a very attractive and polite guy that girls really like but did I mention that I am in a wheelchair! I can walk and girls dont even get phased! I am stupid for even saying thi bcuz the only downside is that it is flooded with guys! But they all are. The guys that say that AFF is fake are either very unattractive or have no game! Or maybe I am more attractive than Im told! I was just reading these reviews and didnt plan posting until I saw how absolutely wrong the other post are! Honestly I dont even try that hard, but if I wanted to put my time in I could hookup with @least 3 or 4 different attractive girls a week! I'm not lying and have zero reason to cuz Im actually hurting myself by drawing more guys. Actually I am supposed to be meeting another girl tonight for the 1st time! I wish I could pist pics of these girls cuz I would. Dont listen to the guys who have had no luck and girls if u read this and ur on AFF my name is the same here as there look me up!

. Show us a picture of you in your wheelchair...

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/03/03 05:21am
By: Anonymous

mature daters are prime targets for scammers as they have money and assets so you need to be very carefull if you are a mature dater looking for a partner.. as they lose the most to scammers every year .. young adults have little to lose so are mostly safe from scammers and fraudsters

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/03/03 11:25pm
By: Anonymous

Dating apps (I can't think of any) are legit, espesicaly if they are editors choice (Google play) but online sex dating sites are mostly bs.
From the start most are bots useing porn wbe cam footage or naked pictures from the inrerner
also there all pretty, like perfect pretty
Now on top of that, it says pay $0.00 just prove your 18+. if it is free then dont ask for card dtails.
But among the BS and scams, there are truley some legit sites, though in my peronal opion
don't just hook up with girls
but imoprtantly don't rely on the internet

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/03/05 07:45am
By: Anonymous

NEWSPAPER ADS ALWAYS USED TO WORK FINE BECAUSE THEY ARE IMMEDIATE AND NO DEAD ACCOUNTS .THE AD APPEARS AND WOMEN RESPOND IN DAYS AND THEN YOU MEET UP ALL PRETTY SIMPLE BUT NOW ITS BECOME TOO COMPLEX WITH TOO MANY HOOPS TO JUMP THRU AND DEAD ACCOUNTS.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/03/08 05:26am
By: Anonymous

They're all BS and bovine manure. Don't bother!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/03/09 04:53pm
By: IvanMNG

How anyone in their right mind can think that there are legit "adult dating sites" is beyond me.

Even if there are a few women among all the fakes and spams. Is it really worth your time and effort to go dig through the dirt to find one..."pearl"?

Absolutely not.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/03/11 06:23am
By: Anonymous

i was wondering about gumtree dating ads ..but it seems they pulled out in 2010 due to fakes and scammers ,just too toxic like craigslist dating ads

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/03/17 05:16am
By: Anonymous

Is there any websites for real lifestyle users ? All I have seen are just business, business and one more time business Confused

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/03/17 10:09am
By: Anonymous

No, they all are. I learned. If you meet up with “Dark Diva,” tell her I said she is a liar!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/03/30 01:42pm
By: Anonymous

all sites have been infiltrated by scammers from russia nigeria ukraine and ghana so its a losing game for genuine punters

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/04/06 12:21pm
By: Anonymous

I say don't waste your money.

I've been on POF for at least 5 years. I've been on about 8 dates. The woman asked me out each time. My profile is honest no bs.
Three of them were really nice but just no connection. One became a good friend, no sex though. Two were girls I knew from high school who I actually liked in high school. We see each other maybe 3x a year for a meal and adult activities. The other two live about an hour away from me. We have sex on a regular basis. We both know what were in it for.
It's nice having regular sex but it does make it hard to find a real relationship without expecting regular sex.
Off the internet. If you see somebody who is really nice and seems to respond to you. Leave them a note with your number. I've received several call backs this way. Most have been married but they did not tell me until after we had sex. But I am still in contact with them.
I'm not the best looking or worst looking guy so you all have hope. Just be honest.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/04/16 08:10am
By: Anonymous

likewise for me on POF for 6 years and very little to show for chasing my tail .i didnt spend any money on upgrades though as thats a fools game .the women on POF are very picky .. social rejects punching above their weight and divorcees with too many kids by too many guys

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/04/17 03:01am
By: Anonymous

so what are the normal computer-generated response to letters can you give me a few ideas of what they say that makes it computer-generated I know what I've seen before were repeated text messages from the website saying the same thing about three times or they will post three individual questions in the matter of one minute or under three minutes


Quote by: Anonymous

Guys/Girls if its too good to be true ITS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE, no woman/guy with half a brain would fall for that, I guess I have less than half a brain since I decided to spend the full 2.99 for a 3 day membership at Benaughty.com , I quickly realized the answers were computer generated responses to my questions LOL - I should know better!!!!
to make matters worse try cancelling the repeat charges in the small print!!!! I was careful enough to follow all the cancellation steps very closely and in the end I only spent 2.99 Lesson learned!!!!


Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/04/20 10:47am
By: Anonymous

just dont let em get hold of any of your card details as they stick like glue to suckers and its very difficult to get rid of them

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/04/20 01:53pm
By: Anonymous

Met women off OkCupid, PlentyofFish, Google Plus which was not for dating, and Tinder.

I dont think I met an online female I did NOT eventually have sex with. First night? A couple. But most ended up being intimate if we met and saw each other a few times.

Stop looking for booty on the first night. It will happen.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/04/27 01:09pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Ashley Madison may be legit but it's so unwieldy and expensive to use, it's not worth it.

After I got divorced I was on Match and OK Cupid and woman were actually doing me in my car. If you can be a generous gentleman for 5 dates you are almost guaranteed to
get sex. My problem is that I feel like I'm misleading woman; most want much much more than sex.



Pof is good! You can get a date a week easily

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/05/01 11:15am
By: Anonymous

Surprised! Angry
Quote by: Anonymous

They are all scams. People who fall for these don't understand basic human social dynamics.

Women WILL NOT have casual sex with anyone who is not either extremely famous, rich, or insanely handsome (as in a tall, dark Armani model).

If you are an average man like 99% of men are, you ALWAYS have to pay for sex. Be it in the form of a relationship (dinners, housing, nights out at the movies etc) or pure cold cash (prostitution).

Women do not have sex for free after adolescence except with extremely high value men who represent less than 1% of society.

If they do, there is always a catch. For example, in ghettoes they will want to extract alimony from deadbeats, or pop out as many children as possible to live on welfare. So they do not really want the men nor the children, they want the money.

Everything in western society comes down to money. Absolutely everything. Get this through your thick heads and stop living in a fantasy world. There is no Ukrainian supermodel out there who is dying to screw some balding 47y.o guy from the middle of Tennessee.

The ads are frauds, the photos are stock model photos and the women probably don't even know their pictures are being used in this fashion, or they are being compensated for it.

The end.



Unfortunately, thats the truth 100%

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/05/22 05:38am
By: Anonymous

Hi,
There are two places where I have gotten lucky repeatedly. The first is no longer, that being Craigslist. I know sounds crazy but I ran ads and got responses (sometimes from what I considered very attractive females). There are sites attempting to replace Craigs but so far to my knowledge none have been anything close to Craigs. That said, when Craigs stopped, a ton of people went every which direction and some of them landed in small sites similar to Craigs ... one which comes to mind was Locanto.

The second are sites where you are going to have to shell out some dough but I ask you: how much are you paying now between lays? I mean if you take out a gal the average of 3 dates for food and drinks, you're going to shell out $150 on the lower end to as much as 3 times on the higher, or more. But figure about $300 .. well you can go to a sugar daddy site and get an amazingly beautiful young girl for $300 and be guaranteed to get laid. I'd tell you no games but its my experience, depending upon what you want of course, that unless you pick out a definite pro, you may get some games. Personally I enjoy the amateurs but as mentioned a higher percentage of no shows and excuses but its worth it in trade for getting a woman who doesn't have to act and that truly gets into it, assuming you know what you're doing.

Is it prostitution? IDK: I worked with an older black man back in the 90s, and he made it clear to me that in his world, you gave the lady some cash afterwards .. if you ever wanted to see her again. It was their custom and to not do it was basically unheard of: with I imagine the exception being the really good looking and the rich / famous.

It makes sense. She went to a lot of trouble to get dolled up, yet didn't get wined and dined at even a mediocre joint, A lady ought to get something for her effort.

Before I go, the sugar daddy sites are not immune to either fraud accounts or scamming efforts such as women reaching out and once you've spent money to talk to them they disappear. But after having tried Tinder, many of the more recognized mainstream dating sites such as Match, POF, (trying out OurTime right now), all of them came in second to Craigslist (completely free) and of course were blown out of the water by the 2 SD sites I have frequented, SecretBenefits (watch yourself there, the set up is designed to fleece you if you're not careful) and Seeking which has the largest selection of suugar babies (SBs) of any place i have been. And more importantly to me, the largest selection of women whom are lower class for lack of better words (single mothers , minimum wager workers seeking to supplement income, etc). My people. Smile

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Posted on: 2019/06/05 11:11pm
By: Anonymous

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Quote by: Anonymous

They are all scams. Unfortunately I have wasted a lot of money to find this out. Adult Friend Finder is one big scam and so is Match.com and eHarmony. You get sucked in with "free weekends" or "free to join" then get bombarded with messages from fake women asking you to contact them, but first you have to pay. As soon as you pay your membership, those women all disappear. As soon as eHaemony got my money, they told me that they could not match me with anyone! I'm not rich and don't ride a Harley but other than that I'm a normal single white male.



Match.com isn't a scam, I met several very attractive nice woman from that site, went for drinks with 2 or 3, wasn't desperate and wasn't just looking for a hook up either. I ended up meeting someone else via not online married her, but I actually am still friends 'facebook' with 2 or 3 of the woman that I met/talked to/etc Of course at the time I was 30 years old, thin, with a solid build (former college athlete), with a good career.....never used eharmony.com. As for the other sites, I've looked and its the same thing spam messages, then pay then never hear from anyone. I did have some success on one site several years ago but I've forgotten the name, maybe fling.com? Yea I believe that was it...



Not only did I just check the web site out but I discovered all the women on that website are fake profiles.

Secondly you work for them! Stupid bot! Fling is a scam for sure. To anyone that’s question that website. Just ask google if it’s a scam
.

Both are run by the same people. Two different websites run by the same people!!!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/06/10 08:30pm
By: Anonymous

Zooske is good, met many ladies on there.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/06/13 12:04am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

They are all scams. People who fall for these don't understand basic human social dynamics.

Women WILL NOT have casual sex with anyone who is not either extremely famous, rich, or insanely handsome (as in a tall, dark Armani model).

If you are an average man like 99% of men are, you ALWAYS have to pay for sex. Be it in the form of a relationship (dinners, housing, nights out at the movies etc) or pure cold cash (prostitution).

Women do not have sex for free after adolescence except with extremely high value men who represent less than 1% of society.

If they do, there is always a catch. For example, in ghettoes they will want to extract alimony from deadbeats, or pop out as many children as possible to live on welfare. So they do not really want the men nor the children, they want the money.

Everything in western society comes down to money. Absolutely everything. Get this through your thick heads and stop living in a fantasy world. There is no Ukrainian supermodel out there who is dying to screw some balding 47y.o guy from the middle of Tennessee.

The ads are frauds, the photos are stock model photos and the women probably don't even know their pictures are being used in this fashion, or they are being compensated for it.

The end.



Shame, just shaved my head and looking to relocate to TN, what a waste of time lol



ALL these paid sites are 99.9% paid employees who will answer to you virtually immediately you join. They use the same format which is to keep you talking & if you raise the subject of meeting they all have the same answer "I would like to get to know you better" using more subtle words. Remember. You will NEVER TRULY get to know anyone using this online correspondence. One of the BIGGEST GIVEAYAYS is the women on profile. They are virtually all desirable which does NOT happen in real life, where are all the desperate women which are not beautiful, overweight etc, etc, they should be at least five for every beauty. NOTE. Those who run these sites and their employees will be reading these replies & will try and counteract. They ARE here and please be clever enough to see their replies here. Do not waste your money, once the pretty girl has taken you for a "scam ride" they just vanish and you never hear from them again.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/06/15 04:17am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

They are all scams. People who fall for these don't understand basic human social dynamics.

Women WILL NOT have casual sex with anyone who is not either extremely famous, rich, or insanely handsome (as in a tall, dark Armani model).

If you are an average man like 99% of men are, you ALWAYS have to pay for sex. Be it in the form of a relationship (dinners, housing, nights out at the movies etc) or pure cold cash (prostitution).

Women do not have sex for free after adolescence except with extremely high value men who represent less than 1% of society.

If they do, there is always a catch. For example, in ghettoes they will want to extract alimony from deadbeats, or pop out as many children as possible to live on welfare. So they do not really want the men nor the children, they want the money.

Everything in western society comes down to money. Absolutely everything. Get this through your thick heads and stop living in a fantasy world. There is no Ukrainian supermodel out there who is dying to screw some balding 47y.o guy from the middle of Tennessee.

The ads are frauds, the photos are stock model photos and the women probably don't even know their pictures are being used in this fashion, or they are being compensated for it.

The end.



This is a very cynical generalization, the only point I will agree on is that most dating and or hook up sites are scam, the reasons why have little or nothing to do with materialist attitudes of some (not all) women. Truth be told there are plenty of materialistic men as well, how many guys out there would date a single mom? If what you said was true then there would not be such a thing as straight male prostitutes, or women going to Thailand on their own. Plenty of women like sex as much, if not more then men, and money doesn't even enter into it.
It is often the refrain of single women, once they enter their early 30s, to remark "Where are all the single men?" The mediocre ones, with a bad attitude, holding out for a Brad Pitt to shower them with money and luxury goods, or the man haters who just what to subjugate men, are going to go away disappointed as even the men who would stoop to the level will eventually tire of it and leave them. Women make up more then 50% of the population, they can't all be married to male models, nor have rich boyfriends, the demographics do not allow it.
The problems with these sites are related to money, but it's the owners whom are responsible for that, fake accounts, bots contacting you, misleading search results. With regard to search results the search on one showed several black women, Hispanic women, as well as profile pictures with palm trees, there are not too many of the above residing in my region.
This is 2019 as I am writing this but POF went down the toilet a number of years ago, first they dumped the "casual encounters" section, they they stopped allowing members to contact each other without a paid membership, just like all the credit card scam sites based in Cyprus, or the Caribbean do. Then as a substitute they posted a page of links to hook up sites, and aside from AFF the other 98% are scam sites full of fake profiles, and bots.
Even with the semi legit sites they only stand a chance of working if people log in and check their accounts regularly. On several sites I search for people in my area, and there just are not many people in my area, let alone active users. Dead accounts abound, A.F.F actually shows how many days, or months, since someone logged in, up to a point, then it just says "Over XX months", I would say that about 2/3 of the accounts have been inactive for at least two months or more. I think what happens is that people join, and play with it for a short while, then they don't find someone in their area, or at least active in the area, or hit the pay wall, and then loose interest, and not log on again. I'm guilty of this myself, on these sites it's difficult for two people to meet, even if it were all free.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/06/23 06:47pm
By: Anonymous

I agree most sites are fake. But I did manage to get a few sex dates after joining a few. Yes it took time but I met 3 women off one site “come dogging”. 7 on various other paid sites. 2 on Bumble and 6 on POF which were free. Pay your money take your chance. But in the long run I would say save your money.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/06/30 05:35am
By: Anonymous

The companies that own many of these 'adult' dating sites employ women to reply to messages from men. My friend does this job, working from home. The guys are paying £1 per message thinking that they're chatting to a genuine woman without realising it's a scam. If the guy asks to swap numbers or go on a date with this woman she will always make an excuse, even after months of messaging. 'I need more time/get to know you better/I'm busy at the moment' are the usual excuses. Basically, every message you get from this woman is actually coming from different people every single time - all paid employees.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/07/03 07:52am
By: Anonymous

its all fraudsters who have taken over date sites as its safer than dealing in drugs or sex trafficking ,theyre untouchable by the law over their fake profiles and scamming

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/07/06 04:02am
By: Anonymous

the ukrainian supermodel is really looking for a 70 year balding cowboy from houston thats why shes choosy

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/07/09 01:53pm
By: Anonymous

gangs of nigerian guys have recently been rounded up for scamming enterprises

https://todaynewsafrica.com/37-nigerian-internet-scammers-who-were-living-like-royalties-arrested/

its a huge business out there

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/07/21 09:02pm
By: Anonymous

You’re all a bunch of cheating, lying *censored* who will soon realize karma is a real *censored*. Why don’t you get divorced and get a life. You need therapy. Or perhaps you get off on the thrill of doing this behind your partners back or simply you cannot find a real relationship any other way than prostitution. Shame on the dirtbag women who are home wreckers doing this idk how you sleep at night. Best of luck to all of you in the afterlife, boy is that going to suck for you ❤️

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/07/21 09:11pm
By: Anonymous

I have to say I’m currently ashamed and embarrassed to be a woman these days. My own gender (men now too though) has set us back decades with this behavior. Just to make a buck because you’re to lazy to go out and get an education or work like a real woman should. YOU'RE THE REASON THE AIDS AND STD RATE HAS SKYROCKETED as well as CHILD PORN, HUMAN TRAFFICKING AND PEDOPHILIA. Bravo, god forbid you apply for the plethora of free rides our govt offers to better yourselves.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/07/22 06:03am
By: Anonymous

women these days are all phone zombies so how will you ever get any eye contact or sensible conversation and thats before you battle your way thru fake profiles galore and dead accounts galore ..give em your card details and get no where you fools

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/07/24 11:18am
By: Anonymous

the sites go to great lengths to stop you posting you phone details to make sure you wont meet anyone and keep on paying month after months ,,year after year..they are terrified of you meeting some partner and leaving

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/07/24 11:53pm
By: Anonymous

I’m Ed from Hampton Park, Melbourne, Australia.
This is my own experience with a lot of dating sites.
I seem to get ripped off so I have stopped paying for them.
In saying that the only success I have had was on zoosk, I paid for membership and I meet a nice woman with whom I actually meet had a coffee with and chatted with for an hour or so. We had phone conversations and we ended up dating for 10 months, before we split up. That was in 2016. Here it is 2019 July and I’m still single and completely over scammers, scams, scam sites,
I just can’t believe how hard it is to find a woman today, I’m 49 a little over weight and women in general seem to be so fickle in meeting a man.
Zoosk has been the only site I had luck with and some of the women on there “seemed” real , I know Mary was.
I tried POF, oasis, a lot of the rest too, to no success
What ever happened to having sex just for the fun of it.?????
We are all human and that is the purpose for which we are here, everything else is just inconsequential .

This is my honest review as a person and I am in no way coerced by anything or anyone.
Zoosk work for me once and once only

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/07/25 11:23pm
By: Anonymous

Ed from Hampton park, again.
I forgot to mention that last week I paid for a 6mth subscription on zoosk again just to try and see if I can meet another woman, as I have been single since 2016 and have had no luck anywhere else and I had 10+ messages so the site said.
To this point I have had 2 conversations and it has gone nowhere.
And of the messages I sent to other women they have not responded or if they have, it was to say NO to having a chat with me.
Now I know that I have only had a week, but to have a 98% strike out rate it is not looking very promising .😞🤬

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/07/27 07:22am
By: Anonymous

speed dating events are the best way of meeting and its quick and
and easy and no scammers to deal with

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/07/27 07:24am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

I’m Ed from Hampton Park, Melbourne, Australia.
This is my own experience with a lot of dating sites.
I seem to get ripped off so I have stopped paying for them.
In saying that the only success I have had was on zoosk, I paid for membership and I meet a nice woman with whom I actually meet had a coffee with and chatted with for an hour or so. We had phone conversations and we ended up dating for 10 months, before we split up. That was in 2016. Here it is 2019 July and I’m still single and completely over scammers, scams, scam sites,
I just can’t believe how hard it is to find a woman today, I’m 49 a little over weight and women in general seem to be so fickle in meeting a man.
Zoosk has been the only site I had luck with and some of the women on there “seemed” real , I know Mary was.
I tried POF, oasis, a lot of the rest too, to no success
What ever happened to having sex just for the fun of it.?????
We are all human and that is the purpose for which we are here, everything else is just inconsequential .

This is my honest review as a person and I am in no way coerced by anything or anyone.
Zoosk work for me once and once only



,
mates in melbourne say the same as you so your not alone

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/07/27 07:23pm
By: Anonymous

gorooting.com is no good. I had all these messages but couldn't read them unless i was a premium member so stupidly I signed up and legit they are almost all scams. There might be some real women on there but there is no way to tell.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/07/29 04:39am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

You’re all a bunch of cheating, lying *censored* who will soon realize karma is a real *censored*. Why don’t you get divorced and get a life. You need therapy. Or perhaps you get off on the thrill of doing this behind your partners back or simply you cannot find a real relationship any other way than prostitution. Shame on the dirtbag women who are home wreckers doing this idk how you sleep at night. Best of luck to all of you in the afterlife, boy is that going to suck for you ❤️



to whom do you refer to?

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/08/05 10:18pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Yes. As a woman I used Adult Friend Finder for a year and a half. As with any site you have to have a good attitude and be willing to put time and effort in contacting people and yes there are many fake profiles. Anything that looks too good to be true probably is. Please keep in mind that the men out-number the females by a factor of 10. I am going to repeat the "good attitude" and "time and effort." All the men that I met and hooked up with 1) didn't assume that I was a fake profile and sent a nice first message-- not a flirt or one line and 2) had a complete profile themselves, with well-written paragraphs, pictures (body, face as well as equipment) and testimonials which AFF has and 3) were prompt about meeting, calling or video chatting with no run around.

i signed up for aff withing 24 hours my account was stolen password changed with card information in the account never sign up

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/08/07 09:10pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Ashley Madison may be legit but it's so unwieldy and expensive to use, it's not worth it.

After I got divorced I was on Match and OK Cupid and woman were actually doing me in my car. If you can be a generous gentleman for 5 dates you are almost guaranteed to
get sex. My problem is that I feel like I'm misleading woman; most want much much more than sex.



Pof is good! You can get a date a week easily



POF used to be good when it was free, although I never met anyone on it who agreed to even a cup of coffee. I took time to write a thorough profile, I posted legit pictures and have not once gotten a reply. I've used POF for at least 9 years, long before it had "premium upgrades" I'm not saying it's a scam site, but women on it are way to picky.
I'm not an adonis but I'm not ugly either. I'm not fat, I'm in pretty good shape.
I'm quickly beginning to believe for the average person/man out there ALL WEBSITES for hookups are *censored*.
I'd like to create my own website, but how would I not only create it, but how would I advertise it?

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/08/07 09:21pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Ed from Hampton park, again.
I forgot to mention that last week I paid for a 6mth subscription on zoosk again just to try and see if I can meet another woman, as I have been single since 2016 and have had no luck anywhere else and I had 10+ messages so the site said.
To this point I have had 2 conversations and it has gone nowhere.
And of the messages I sent to other women they have not responded or if they have, it was to say NO to having a chat with me.
Now I know that I have only had a week, but to have a 98% strike out rate it is not looking very promising .😞🤬


Does anyone know anything about dating cop dot com, I came across it and it claims to rate hookup sites.
I was doing a internet search for xmeeting dot com and their website was one of the results.

It gave a very negative review of xmeeting saying 95% of the profiles on x meeting were fake.

But at the end it provided a list of several hookup sites it claims are legit. I'd like some feedback on these sites:
fling
snapsext
uberhorny
instabang
milfplay

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/08/14 04:07pm
By: Anonymous

I’m a horny old geezer whose wife in for sex these days. But I don’t want waves. So I tried AFF. I have found one woman there who loves sex and is very good at giving and receiving pleasure. My chances to meet with her are very infrequent. I’ve found some friends and some who enjoy cybersex. Cybersex is to the real thing as the Lightning Bug is to the Lightning, but Fireflies can be lovely!

Interesting fact: Match has been a good investment for me on the stock market, and it is the owner of Adult Friend Finder and plentyoffish, among many others. Two of the genuine sites.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/08/17 02:17pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Well I fell for it to and it's kinda embarrassing. I just wanted to meet someone for casual sex.




Looking for a Male or female?

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/08/19 08:24pm
By: Anonymous

Fling is real. You have to pay $25 a month or $100 for 6 months. It's up to you to make exchanges with you in your area. If they are interested ,will reply. No fake profiles. But if you get a free membership for 3 days ,you need to cancel or you get charged 4 the month.If your subscription runs out,then you get alot of random mail which seems a bit suspicious

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/08/19 08:26pm
By: Anonymous

Fling is real. You have to pay $25 a month or $100 for 6 months. It's up to you to make exchanges with you in your area. If they are interested ,will reply. No fake profiles. But if you get a free membership for 3 days ,you need to cancel or you get charged 4 the month.If your subscription runs out,then you get alot of random mail which seems a bit suspicious

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/08/31 01:40am
By: Anonymous

Adult friend finder was awsome when they allowed free members to interact with paid members now thats gone and unless you wanna pay premuim so you can comunicate with free members theres no staying power for free members its sad they had a good thing but its gunna drop off the list due to greed

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/09/10 09:30am
By: Anonymous

Like most things, the answer isn't black and white. Having had lots of experience on these kinds of sites, here's my experience. I'm in my early 50's and like younger women...don't we all! Smile
In short, they can and do work. It requires patience, a good profile and it helps if you're at least reasonably intelligent and in good physical shape...and you most certainly need a sense of humour!
AFF- very hard work but definitely some genuine women and I've met several, but that was quite a few years ago....but many fakes.
POF - Met several women and ended up in a 1 year relationship with a gorgeous woman 20 years younger.
Shagbook - Don't know what it is like in recent years, but when I was using the site about 10 years ago, I got REALLY lucky and met a beautiful (and very naughty!) 29 yr old woman. We lived together for several years.
TheAdultHub - going back 15 years, had several successful encounters. Most exciting one was a woman who came to my house and shared a bath with me five minutes after walking through the front door.
Fabswingers - Most recently used ( and hopefully the last!) and I found lots of real people and probably the most reliable in the UK. I struck way too lucky again and met a gorgeous woman aged 30...actually fell in love!! Before meeting her, I met several women and a couple and had bucket loads of fun
BeNaughty - used many years ago and got a date to chaperone a woman to a sex club in Birmingham. I believe the site has changed significantly since then and people I knew seem to have migrated to FabSwingers.

In summary, even if you're an old git like me (ok, I am pretty good for my age and physically fit) there are younger women in their 30's who are willing to meet significantly older guys....as long as you're in good shape and can interest / intrigue them...and ultimately convince them you have something good to offer them.

None of the sites make it particularly easy for you but from my experience, pretty much all of the major ones do have some genuine women to be found. Don't forget also that there are couples that like to meet single guys...and believe me, that can be A LOT of fun and a hell of an adventure. I've done that on 5 or 6 occasions and met some absolutely stunning women and often, their husbands just want to watch.

My advice...Don't give up and don't accept the 'It's all a scam' posts. Understand it requires a lot of effort, but be in no doubt, there are some absolutely stunning (and very naughty and fun) women to be found if you look hard enough. However, be realistic....if you're overweight, don't look after yourself and can't be bothered to invest the time in getting to know a woman before trying to get her in your bed, it's not going to work! You get out what you put in. As of today, I suggest you check out FabSwingers as it seems to have plenty of genuine women and it's not too expensive. In fact, quite a bit of functionality is free.

This is a genuine post and I don't usually respond to topics in forums, but I thought I should give hope to those that believe it's ALLa scam. It's not.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/09/18 12:46pm
By: Anonymous

Quote by: Anonymous

Adult friend finder was awsome when they allowed free members to interact with paid members now thats gone and unless you wanna pay premuim so you can comunicate with free members theres no staying power for free members its sad they had a good thing but its gunna drop off the list due to greed



I personally feel like AFF is also something of a scam. I had a paid membership, but the messages were clearly not working, and customer service was useless. The second I dropped the membership, all of a sudden I'm getting those "icebreaker" messages again, which of course I need a membership to read, and then to respond and get silence because the other person (if they're real) was never interested. They're also partnered with cam sites, who have they're girls on there, but they pose like they're regular, just interested in meeting someone (yeah, I was naive, but they were wrong for preying on that).

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/09/19 10:26am
By: Anonymous

Quote by: anon

I need to tell the poor guys out there the truth and it is a scam. I worked as an "admin" and was paid 15p per message. It is all a scam and sometimes I felt really bad when a older widowed man thought he met then woman of his dreams. Each message that popped up were answered by different women who just needed to read the previous conversation and notes. The women are all fakes and pictures found from the internet. Don't waste your money, do real women really meet men for sex from the interent, I don't think so.



I met two woman on the internet. The second one was a prude but the first one I met for drinks with paid the tab when I went to the John. We went out to the parking lot and were making out hot and heavy. Proceeded to my car and got one of THE best BJ's ever. complete with swallowing (glad she didn't spit it out on the leather Wink

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/09/20 10:19am
By: Anonymous

i tried on POF but even fat piggos that look like Mike Tyson AND frank bruno dont reply ..and women with no photo dont even reply

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/11/18 01:26pm
By: Anonymous

Sort of...

CL was good before they surrendered to the "Do Gooders" however it's actually still going if you know where to look and are willing to put up with slogging through a lot of BS to find a real person.

I was surprised to find that there are bots operating on CL that at first blush seem to be real but there are signs to give them away almost from the start. One being that they tend to make very short emails similar to the low-effort replies you often get from men. If you don't realize what you're dealing with , when you move to exchanging your real email addy so you're not going through the CL remailer (email relay) you immediately begin receiving spam from the "person" trying to get you to come to a site that is either a cam girl site or a "verification" site where they're evidently trying to steal your CC info.

That being said, within the last couple of months I actually met three women, two of whom I know for a fact are 100% very real. And believe it or not both of those agreed to meet me at a very late hour which is something most women probably wouldn't do on a first meeting with a guy they met on the 'net.

The first I had chatted with on KIK after we moved off of CL and seemed like a nice girl (I sttill think she is, actually) and by "nice girl? I mean a genuine friendly person as from the start we both new we were talking about a hook-up mostly just for sex except that "FWB" by the definition I accept is not quite as impersonal as a random" hookup would seem in that you might consider that person a friend and associate with them for other reasons beside just a "one night stand". Similar to what the more polite way of saying a "lustbuddy".
We had set up a time to meet and I was running extremely late and I was worried she thought I was being thoughtless and /or perhaps playing some kind of game with her so I wanted to keep our meeting although sh did offer to postpone it for the next day. I was already headed her direction and didn't realize how late it was getting.
I could tell this girl was pretty "street wise" and it didn't seem too unusual at the time but also she did appear to have some concern about security as she didn't give me her address, instead wanting to meet in a parking lot near where she lived. When I got to the area it was so dark and seemingly deserted that I began to suspect I was being set up for a robbery or as we had discussed chemical support perhaps it was a LE sting. But it turned out to be a place where they have security patrolling and she arrived just as I was telling the patrol that I'd just wait on the street as they didn't allow people to stay there and loiter (understandable)
We moved to a nearby parking area, I had mentioned I would have thought she would want to meet somewhere that there were people around but she was self confident enough (or foolish enough) to be OK with a place where the businesses were closed and it was very private. We got out of our cars and although she wasn't quite what I expected I'll take the responsibility for that and she would be as you might say "close enough".
We had an interesting conversation for probably a little over an hour and then sort of came to a mutual agreement to call it off.I think she may have picked up on that I wasn't all that attracted to her but she hadn't misrepresented herself and I didn't want to hurt her feelings, and she was an interesting person.

The second girl also agreed to meet me very late but the situation was different in that she claimed to only be available at that time and I was suspicious. Different things she would say and do in or communication were odd, didn't seem above board and suspicious. She said she was single and we set up a meeting as although she said she had a small window of free time it was several hours and I figured I could work with it and besides, I had to get an eyeball on this chick as she seemed to be hiding something or playing some game and I wanted to see if I was misreading that or if she was up to something what that might be. I also thought perhaps she might have a husband or BF and wanted to hide that from me and her partner as well or any number of somewhat reasonable situations the one might be embarrassed about and withhold details on which might give one cause to be suspicious.
She had been texting me while I was en route to the point where I was about to mention the I could either text or drive but not do both and I might have said something about that but I arrived near enough at the point where it was time to nail down a spot to meet and also I mentioned I was low on gas and I was having trouble finding a station open. wecontinued texting and I was luck enough to find a place and told her that I was going to fill up. After finishing that I texted her and.....nothing. I figured it was someone playing games and that she wouldn't respond anymore but then we began texting again with her expressing different excuses and I giving her was to deal with different things and also telling her if she was worried about safety, by all means bring a friend. She finally gave me directions saying sh had maybe 10 minutes to talk.
Of course before we got to this point I had realized there was something fishy and she more than likely not going to be up for a casual thing as we had been discussing. I just had to know what she was up to.
When I got to the p[lace it was an apartment complex and she was still being secretive and wanted me to pull into a spot that was at the back and pretty much a place thet would be perfect for an ambush and I texted her back and said I would think she would want a place that wasn't so private as if she was indeed worried about herself that spot wouldn't be a good choice. (I didn't tell her all that, just that it seemed unsafe)
Now note, I'm willing to get into a spot like that as If it's a setup and only one person say, wanting to rob me they are going to get a nasty surprise as on person isn't going to get far before I insert hot metal into delicate places. If it's a team then sure, I'm giving up whatever they want whether it's wallet, car or anything else but they aren't going to disarm me even though they might think they have and my vehicles are set up so that you can't start them unless you know how.while they think they are getting away or trying to figure out why the car won't start, same thing hot metal, weeping , gnashing of teeth, all that stuff. This being the short explanation, there's more to it but unless someone just walks up a pops be without discussion I'm pretty confident in the strategy.
She chooses an area more lighted and less "ambushy" although I was still on my guard and she had wanted me to park and get out, lean on the car or something so I was still wary but figured her being cautious it wasn't unreasonable. I did that and she evidently got a good look to satsfy herself of "whatever" and in a minute or so came right out, smiled and I teased her saying something like "OK, what's all the secret agenty stuff?" and gave her a laugh. she really didn't answer that and came up , gave me a little huig and we started talking . At this point I relaxed as if she was a distraction for someone coming up behind it would have happened by now. She was actually a nice looking chick and seemed sheepish and a little embarrassed. she said she hadn't done anything like that before . When I had thought a but before that I wouldn't hear from her again I had asked "are you underage or something" because I thought it might be a kid playing games and naturally if it was some chick that was and actually would get up nerve to meet me, I wanted no part of that.
But she did fit exactly what she had claimed, late 30s and nice looking. We did talk for about 45 minutes, past her claimed 10 minute limit, which would have still been well before the end of her availability that she had given before I had started out. I gave her a little bud as she had asked about that in conversations before and we said our goodbyes.

I still think she was up to something but it seems like an awful lot of work just to get a joint or two so I'm stumped. She did say "no one's ever showed up before" so she might have been unprepared as she claimed but I'm sure it wasn't just that. She didn't seem insane or really stupid but it could be she was either or both. She said things about the situation that simply didn't add up and although she talked as if she was wanting to set up another time to meet I know it was BS so perhaps she was working a longer range scam of some sort. She was looking around quite a bit as if worried someone would either see her or maybe that expecting someone to have set her up so I'm not buying the "never done this before" or the "no one's actually showed up before"stuff.

When I KIKed her later to say she seemed nice but I didn't think it was worth the effort she got pissed off and said some stuff a lot of guys would probably be upset about but I'm a big boy, self confident and this ain't my first rodeo so my disappointment is that I failed to figure out what she was up to. That seems typical of scammers getting frustrated at their plan failing after putting some effort into it, if here intent was to make me feel bad about myself it didn't work. My wife and I ares swingers and also into MFM stuff, when we do the couple's thing the wives seem to be more than happy to play and the only thing we've run into on that front is a couple of times one of the other couple had some jealousy or self esteem issues related to insecurity so if anything it wasn't as if I'm unattractive. I had told her this stuff up front but it's not unusual for people to not believe it when you say that you "have a pass" as we're even more rare than unicorns.

I do admit to being a bit warped as well as crazy enough to think certain things are my idea of a good time or worth pursuing just out of curiosity to see what's the benefit of someone's effort. In this case if she wasn't working something more long-range I'm thinking she's just a pathological liar that just does that for the satisfaction of the lie itself rather than any gain that would be worthwhile. I'm doubtful she would consider the incident satisfying.

One thing you need to be aware of also with online interactions is you might be part of someone's psychology experiment which could be a term paper or a study being conducted for some particular purpose. There's all sorts of documentation of this activity I often run across research papers when I'm doing google searches where they've used the internet as a source of test subjects that don't realize they're part of that type of an agenda. For the most part those don't seem to be harmful to the test subjects although they could be a waste of time for people being drawn into participating in such.
I've also had some interesting conversations when I've answered unusual ads asking what the person placing the ad was really up to as it seed obvious that it probably wasn't what their ad seemed to be about and found out that some people just want conversation and others are interested are sort of "people watching" as I also do but not with an academic interest or a purpose other than formal research. In my own case I just get curious about all sorts of interactions and agendas people have on the internet.

I have met a third girl that I'm sure is a person rather than a bot but her pic has me questioning whether she's a "girl" at all but perhaps she's a guy in drag or maybe a pre-op M2F trans.

When my wife and I seek other couples or a threesome we usually find those online. We have a lifetime at SLS but don't use that much as in our area there are people but it seems no many new members and we lost a resource whe CL went dark as the activity thee now is nothing like it was before and flagging is still an issue. But places like Reddit and "tube" type porn sites have member forums that are promising and there's sites that require verification but are still freee that use verification pics rather than CC info that look promising.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/11/19 01:37am
By: Anonymous

No. There isn't a single one out there. If a guy is over 50, he's too old and ignored and/or told no. This is because ALL women look at guys over 50 as used up, limpd***, "ED" infected, wrinkled up, gross, nasty, cradle robbing, sicko, perverted freaks of nature who should quit wasting the youngs guys airspace and die off for all they care.
Also, if a guy isn't hung so damn big that a horse would be ashamed and bury his head in a mountian of hay, then you're not worth the time of day. And the same goes for looks, ya better be a hot hollywood model, or you are deleted.........permanently.
Yet another thing. A guy, ESPECIALLY OVER 50, better be "$$ GENOROUS $$" and have fat, deep pockets crammed full of $$$$$$, otherwise women turn into ghosts. *(Last I remember I think that was called prostitution.)*

Ive tried to get a woman for 20yrs now, and this is what I encounter EVERYWHERE, every "site", in person, no matter who they are, where they are, maybe even the site they're on. This new "Doublelist" site is a stinking, laughable JOKE. The above described descriptions fit that site so very well. Craigslist, Backpage..........in person, it makes no difference. A guy better damn well meet "criteria" listed above or if not.....you'll find that you're ((guy or over 50yo)) gonna be thrown to the trashcan lions den.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/11/19 10:30am
By: Anonymous

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You’re all a bunch of cheating, lying *censored* who will soon realize karma is a real *censored*. Why don’t you get divorced and get a life. You need therapy. Or perhaps you get off on the thrill of doing this behind your partners back or simply you cannot find a real relationship any other way than prostitution. Shame on the dirtbag women who are home wreckers doing this idk how you sleep at night. Best of luck to all of you in the afterlife, boy is that going to suck for you ❤️



to whom do you refer to?



Good for you. It's so awesome to see that someone actually agrees that these sites are basically prostitution. My wife and I have had some issues in the present 90% my fault but hopefully can be repaired. I know when I get in the wrong Haven't we will call it I go on these sites to see if she's cheating on me. I don't know why I really ever worried though seeing as my wife is beautiful competent, witty, smart and sexy AF and is allowed to dictate her own life the way she sees it. To all the douchebags out there that just want to make others miserable bc they live a very sad and dismall existence with little to no value on society and are more of a drain to the nation instead of help fixing it. You guys can go F*** yourselves right up the ass like you like it when you go and play poker in each other's *censored*. It is never ever F*** okay to take anyones family and turn there problems into chaos for amusement. Like really I know a couple of you guys and your sad ass marriage ending stories. You guys are still miserable and I guess thats where we should all be bc if your little feelings get hurt by someone you have to drag down 2 small children and a very wonderful women. As for me you all can do what you want I don't care. If you want to mob stalk me for some bs you guys created out of thin air and then used someone's nightmare against them so you can feel like slightly better than me for the day it's okay. I will tell you that it is so sad that even when I'm going through a mental crisis that you messing with some elses family only makes you feel slightly better you are the most pathetic bunch of *censored* the world has seen. Litteraly shall I start with names phone #s and how attractive your jobs are. Not to mention where you live some say a car is there house but anyway. I really hope you have some decency left in you and remove all the *censored* you've spread around online and blaming me for it just to try to get close to my wife when we are in a bad place. You know that will haunt you for the rest of your lives if, and that's a very big if, anyone will ever think of marrying you. Lastley enjoy imposing someones face and body on one of you dudes bodies as you all do a spitroast to each other at the next game night you have. As for me I look forward to seeing you again and again and on my way to work and when I can say honestly that made a real change and I get to have my family back well at that point you guys will be just another thing in life that people get through overcome and are stronger in the end for it. I really do hope you realize at that point you all will still be alone and miserable and probably tweeked or coked out of your minds and maybe you will be lucky enough to own a shopping cart.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/11/26 11:00pm
By: Anonymous

There are no Legit Sites. If they are, they are not at all for men. Not worth the time and money at all.
People are running scam. Women asking for money. Not Healthy people on the websites. Women wanting committed relationsihp and looking for Husbands and "soul-mates" online. WTF? Why Adult xxx Dating websites then?
Of course after spending months and years on any website, you may find legitimate members, but they may not like you or you may not like them, and so on. So, there is no point.

Just go old school. Start talking to people around you in a shopping mall, library, petrol station, a grocery shop. Get to know people. Be kind and friendly to them and start making real relationships. You may also come across women who also want just sex. But women usually look for "soul-mates" even if they say otherwise.

only 1% of them would just go for sex, which you won't like anyways..

Good luck, and stay healthy!

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/11/29 08:37am
By: Anonymous

i have gone back to doing magazine ads for contacts as i always found they worked as its all 1 to 1 and not BS respondents and fake profiles that lead nowhere whilst racking up monthly bills on my CC..online dating is all BS

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/11/29 06:33pm
By: Anonymous

I used nostringslocal too and one girl massaged me daily for two weeks and then someone replaced her. We had inside jokes between us and the new person didn’t know about them, she misspelled words and her grammar was different from the first girl. Then I asked her to finish a sex act the first had started and she was offended. And for some reason the girls will never initiate. They only respond. They will just disappear if u stop msging them. Never agree to meet or exchange info. I found one girl on three different sites, same name same picture. I wonder how they sleep at night...

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/12/02 08:29am
By: Anonymous

I have been on this website for about a month. The only "amazingflings" you will get is flinging your money out the window in more ways than one. Where shall I begin...?

Be careful about the pictures and profile description you post because they will most likely get hijacked and used to dupe other members. Once I posted my profile I was over run with responses and of course, I thought that was cool. I'm 65 and women from 19 to 70 were responding. You can post your profile for free, but to respond to other members requires you to purchase "credits". So I purchased a few just to try it out and everything was fine,...at least for a few days!

The credits spend quickly because the women are advertising they want to "meet-up or hook-up", but invariably they want to chat until "they get to know you". Cha-ching, more credits used. I thought it was strange that they were on an adult website and in many cases, posted nude pictures of themselves and responding to my profile which clearly stated I was looking for a NSA relationship, then suddenly they wanted to "get to know me better" first. Cha-ching! It gets weirder.

I started to notice similarities in the responses. Several women would not use my name, but called me "babe". There were a lot of misspellings, grammatical errors and the big giveaway were terms like "bloke, bum and KG" instead of weight in pounds. Many of the responses did not reflect age appropriate comments. One 59 year-old responded to me like a teenage Russian and did not have command of normal English language.

Just to be safe, I kept a close eye on my credit card statement, and sure enough, over $150.00 was charged to my account even though I was careful NOT to check the "Remember My Account" button. I had to file a dispute claim with the credit card company, plus I had to cancel the card and wait a week for a replacement.
I also started to track my credits more closely and found once I logged off and returned another day, I had less credits available than the previous day. Interesting. I thought, well I'll contact them, right? Wrong. There is no member support or way to contact them.

They also have a "Speed Dial" option so you can save members and not have to go searching for them every time you want to respond to them. I had one profile show up in my speed dial that I was unable to delete, she kept coming back, and I hadn't even selected her for this option in the first place. There's more.

I thought I was pretty smart giving out my email address and phone number to a couple of members I was really interested in and they did email me, but sounding like the "teenage Russian". They also insisted on doing a "free" video chat" just so they "could get to know me better." By then I was too gun shy- no telling what they would have done with my telephone account! It was confirmed when I refused to do the video chats, then I never heard from them again after all that talking. Except for the initially contacting me, the women will not write to you unless you message them. Strange. Had just a few good two way conversations, but if I didn't continue to message them, they just fell off the face of the earth! It just wasn't real.

The last thing I can tell you is about your profile. When you login to it, it takes you immediately to the edit page so you can't even see your own profile! Many of the women who responded to me were from New York, California and Texas, you know, just a stone's throw from Georgia! It gets better. The next time I heard from them, their profile suddenly indicated they were now magically from Georgia, how convenient... just not for me. It was like some dating "shell game", and the bottom line, I never talked to or met in person one woman from the website.

I only searched the profiles one time and set the filters for women my age in my immediate area... It displayed 45,000 profiles! I don't think that many people live in the town where I live! When you read the profile descriptions, they really do match the pictures, the age of the woman and so on, but when you write to them, they always immediately respond in the same short, robotic and evasive way. They do not answer any direct questions, and usually respond to you with more questions rather than letting you know anything tangible about them. I'd have a better chance meeting a woman floating on an innertube out on the ocean! This was truly my most "amazing fling"! Cool

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/12/09 07:49pm
By: Anonymous

Specifically is there a good hooker site where the hookers are real and not $500 a trick.

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/12/10 07:22am
By: Anonymous

No unless.you try fabswingers which is a free to use site. Even then be aware as a single bloke you will be ignored.
I joined a site called genuine.uk swingers for a month expires next week so here is my experience and views of that site.
If you join as a non paying member yiur email will be flooded with posts of a the women who are dying to meet you.
When you pay to join you will find all these people want.to get in touch and give you a gmail account. Si you message them. They will then give a crap excuse as to why they cant talk to you and give you a link to pick.o . This will then be a other pay to join dating site. Total scam
This will happen 99% of the time. The other answers you get to your profile will be offers to a party with the price tag of £100. In fact the whole swinging scene is a joke and all sites like genuine uk swingers and AFF are best avoided

Re: Are there legit adult sexual sites that aren't scams?

Posted on: 2019/12/11 02:39am
By: Anonymous

NO!!! They are ALL scams. Please bring back Craiglist Personals!!! Yes, you had scammers, whores, skanks and prostitutes on that site, but you could fairly easily figure them out and it was 100% FREE!!!!! I met a few legit women on there and had some amazing sex with them. Craigslist Personals were legit, no matter what anyone says about them.

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