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Well now, my post on the top of the previous page was intended to stir the pot. Looks like I got my moneys worth!

~ J $ ~

It was my pleasure.

I've been waiting years to say that.

So how long do you think it will take the conspiracy theorists to start claiming that the woman in the video is not me. Perhaps it's the wizard or somebody with face altering software. LOL

Miss Allison...been a while.

Well, it took a while, but...


It,s beginning to look a lot like POF
Every post you read
But the prettiest sight to see is the trolling that will be
On your own front door


Somehow I do not see the administration on this forum putting up with too much of it. Well just have to wait and see.

~ J $ ~

It has been a long time since I posted a Friday morning rant. The last one was on POF and directed at DD.
So, here goes…

The conspiracy reference in my post on page seven was actually intended for the user who went by overunity. You know, overunity as in free energy. Those people tend to run in the same crowds as the conspiracists and other lunatic fringe groups. However, look who, from that lunatic fringe, first responded!

First off, I have no problem engaging with Blondie in spite of the fact she opened her second of two consecutive replies to my posts with “I am not interested in engaging w/ socks... “ followed immediately by “And...your audience is gone” along with other references to my prior two posts making it crystal clear that she is absolutely engaging with me. I will compose this post as a post about statements made and not directly to/at her. Regardless, if she has anything to say about it or tries to dispute anything I state let it be clear to her, anyone and everyone who reads those replies she makes will know that she is clearly and undeniably engaging with me just as I am now engaging with her ….. thinly disguised.

I originally thought that Blondie called me a sock puppet of KJ as a trolling tactic to try to get under my skin. As I stated when she posted that, I laughed aloud at the absurdity. It still make me chuckle when I think of it. Now though I am not so sure it was trolling. I think she has deluded herself into thinking that she is stating a fact. I truly think she suffers from Delusional Disorder to the degree of a diminishing of her quality of life.

A note about pointing out my spelling blunder. Spell correct on phones trips us all up at times. HINT: If you do not see the ~ J $ ~ at the end of my posts it is likely because they were posted from my phone that does not have a tilde on its keyboard. Nevertheless, the autocorrect may have been a more accurate statement than the correct spelling. The word bate can be used to intend obvious, or being blunt, or even an angry statement or mood (The best fitting I think considering who pointed it out.) So reread the statement with using these meanings of the word my phone decided to insert.

I first thought that the user going by “Cat” might have been Miss A. However, she also spells her name with one “L” (Alison). I attempted to contact this “Cat” thru the message system on this site to ask if she was possibly Miss Allison from POF. Later an email from the mailer demon showed up in my inbox. It was a delivery failure for the message I sent thru this site. It had the original message I sent along with the email address it was sent to. The email recipients address was allison*****@********.com - with two “L’s” - followed by the statement “Requested action not taken: mailbox unavailable”. (The actual email address was shown in full, I edited it here for privacy sake.) That email address with two “L’s” made me wonder about the possibilities. “Cat” has not posted since my posts requesting that she and others reveal their POF personas.


>>>Side note to site administration:
This is a potential security risk. People often slightly change email addresses when registering at sites/places to avoid spam email lists. Having these failure notices sent to someone sending thru your message system listing the email address they used to register on your site has some potential of security risks.



Then later there was the posted reply by the moderator named Alison to my comment about site moderation. I found it ironic that it was the moderator’s first post ever and that it was a moderator using the name Alison in this POF thread.

I knew that a reference to the former POF moderator Miss Allison was likely stir things up and get a response. It was no surprise when I saw that the first person to float up was Blondie. There was extreme hatred between her and Allison. Both ways.

Miss Allison should know better by now. Way back, just after she quit as the last POF moderator, there was an extensive thread about her and the other moderators leaving POF. In that thread she and some of her “friends” posted links to screen shots of communication between her and other moderators doing battle and swapping insults and name calling along with copies of emails between her and Markus with Miss Allison wanting to get *cowboy* removed as a moderator. There was some vile stuff in some of those screen shots and emails. I would have to dig thru old emails but somewhere I have copies of the emails between Markus and Allison about *cowboy* that Allison forwarded to me (after she quit as a moderator) during non-POF correspondence. It was those emails that that concerned me about her and caused me to break off communication with her. By the way, she also told me that Markus never had moderators sign a non-disclosure agreement. Probably a foolish neglect on his part. I closed my then POF account right afterwards and quit responding to her emails.

A year or so later in the tribute to *cowboy* thread after Mark’s death was announced Allison returned to the forums as Miss Allison and made a tribute post about how much she liked Mark and his commitment to POF and the POF forums and what good friends they were. I called her out, referenced those screen shots, and linked to the thread that had the links she and her friends posted to them. She pulled down those pages right afterwards to hide the evidence.

By the way, that really pissed off KJ. She was personal friends with both Mark (*cowboy*) and Allison. KJ later became friendly with me during the thread I called delete-fest about a year later. (That is the thread that Blondie is referring to where AusiNancy (Or something like that) posted the photo of Allison holding a piece of paper up calling Frank an idiot.) KJ did remind me more than once how pissed she was that I used Mark’s tribute thread to call out Allison. I just thought that Allison’s guilt driven hypocrisy in her tribute post could not be ignored.

Allison and Blondie’s hatred towards each other go way back. Allison started using her moderators “tools” as Yoshie, Ed Jacobs, and The Wizard after quitting as an authorized moderator. I have plenty of antidotal proof along with a few emails. After she got Tall IQ kicked off and he gave up returning, Allison started attacking Blondie. I do not recall all of here attempts since so many people disliked Blondie and attacked her but I do remember a few. The one username she attacked Blondie with that sticks out was Tall I Spew Poo. Only because of how disgusting the name was.

Allison has posted some vile things here too. Neither she nor Blondie are blameless and both should be shamed for their actions. My opinion.

So, not bad for my first Friday morning rant in what, six months? (If I say so myself)

Now, if they have not closed this thread it is time to hit submit and see if it posts.

~ J $ ~

Not sure why you should still care what Miss Allison did over five years ago in a forum that no longer exists.

My opinion.

That line you quoted was commenting on:

• Some of the things Blondie has said about KJ in this thread.
• The video Blondie linked to and her reason.
• Some of the things Allison said in her retaliatory video she herself linked to.
• What Allison said in her spoofs of “Blond Angle” and “Halcyon Skies” profiles and the fake photo. Then answering herself.
• Allison‘s self-admitted years old pent up anger in her post stating “ It was my pleasure. I've been waiting years to say that.. She apparently has her own years old issues.
• The high likelihood that Allison was the one who posted as notasock and what was said.

It had nothing to do with all the old history I brought up.

~ J $ ~

Too much for me to follow cash. I never liked Blondie primarily because she was an enemy of kj and crook. She clearly has issues, but not my problem. Allison I remember as giving unwarranted timeouts but far better than the free for all after the moderators left. I really only had maybe two friends on the board, and politics eventually came between us...yes I despise trump that much. I actually learned quite a bit from the boards through the discussions, but found the politics far more interesting than the dating side. I've been married a longtime and the boards convinced me being married was better than being single and dealing with everything single people deal with. I'm not sure if there are any other boards at all similar to what pof was. If there were, wish I could find them. I've never bothered looking at other dating forums.

If your looking for kj she's over at the Frivolity Boards.