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Tall was involved, and he continued to go after you even after you came back under different usernames. I didn't like Tall because he was trying to take over as moderator and I didn't think it was his place to do that. After his profile was deleted, he tried to come back under different usernames too. I reported him after he tried to fat shame some other posters. He was big on hiking and staying in shape.

No, Sailinges. I'm not kj. Sorry to disappoint you.

First off, I have no problem engaging with Blondie [GOODY 4U] in spite of the fact she opened her second of two consecutive replies to my posts with “I am not interested in engaging w/ socks... “ followed immediately by “And...your audience is gone” along with other references to my prior two posts making it crystal clear that she is absolutely engaging with me. I will compose this post as a post about statements made and not directly to/at her. Regardless, if she has anything to say about it or tries to dispute anything I state let it be clear to her, anyone and everyone who reads those replies she makes will know that she is clearly and undeniably engaging with me just as I am now engaging with her ….. thinly disguised.

I originally thought that Blondie called me a sock puppet of KJ as a trolling tactic to try to get under my skin. As I stated when she posted that, I laughed aloud at the absurdity. It still make me chuckle when I think of it. Now though I am not so sure it was trolling. I think she has deluded herself into thinking that she is stating a fact. I truly think she suffers from Delusional Disorder to the degree of a diminishing of her quality of life.[NAH]

A note about pointing out my spelling blunder. Spell correct on phones trips us all up at times. HINT: If you do not see the ~ J $ ~ at the end of my posts it is likely because they were posted from my phone that does not have a tilde on its keyboard. Nevertheless, the autocorrect may have been a more accurate statement than the correct spelling. The word bate can be used to intend obvious, or being blunt, or even an angry statement or mood (The best fitting I think considering who pointed it out.) So reread the statement with using these meanings of the word my phone decided to insert.

I first thought that the user going by “Cat” might have been Miss A. However, she also spells her name with one “L” (Alison). I attempted to contact this “Cat” thru the message system on this site to ask if she was possibly Miss Allison from POF. Later an email from the mailer demon showed up in my inbox. It was a delivery failure for the message I sent thru this site. It had the original message I sent along with the email address it was sent to. The email recipients address was allison*****@********.com - with two “L’s” - followed by the statement “Requested action not taken: mailbox unavailable”. (The actual email address was shown in full, I edited it here for privacy sake.) That email address with two “L’s” made me wonder about the possibilities. “Cat” has not posted since my posts requesting that she and others reveal their POF personas. [BLA BLA BLA]


>>>Side note to site administration:
This is a potential security risk. People often slightly change email addresses when registering at sites/places to avoid spam email lists. Having these failure notices sent to someone sending thru your message system listing the email address they used to register on your site has some potential of security risks.



Then later there was the posted reply by the moderator named Alison to my comment about site moderation. I found it ironic that it was the moderator’s first post ever and that it was a moderator using the name Alison in this POF thread.

I knew that a reference to the former POF moderator Miss Allison was likely stir things up and get a response. It was no surprise when I saw that the first person to float up was Blondie. There was extreme hatred between her and Allison. Both ways.[HELL NO, I BARELY SAW ALLISON AS A BLIP ON MY RADAR...TILL NOW THAT IS. BUT TY 4 CLUEING ME IN TO THE FACT THAT ALLISON HATED ME-SHEEZ, ALL I WAS- WAS A RANDOM ON A MESSAGE BOARD- WHY WOULD SHE LET ME RENT SPACE IN HER HEAD? AN I MUST OWE HER MILLIONS IN BACK RENT!]

@ ata: Blondie’s posting that link to Allison’s YouTube video was absolutely uncalled for. [WELL I WOULDN'T SAY UNCALLED FOR BUT MAYBE NOT SWEET AS PIE] Choosing a link to that video for no other reason than to shame and embarrass her was purely ignorant, despicable, appalling, wicked, etc., etc.…. [EXCUSE ME HOW WAS THAT A SHAMING THING? SHE CHOSE TO MAKE A VID OF HER & HER SIS IN JUMPSUITS & SAFETY GLASSES SMASHING DISHES W/ MALLETS/HAMMERS, AND POST IT ON YOUTUBE NOT AS A PRIVATE VID.] That said, it was not an invasion of Miss Allison’s privacy. [EXACTLY] Allison had that video on a public site completely accessible to anyone. [I RESPECT YOU HERE FOR BEING FAIR MINDED]

Miss Allison should know better by now. [YES, ONLY SHE KNOWS ALL THE EVIL SUGAR HONEY ICE TEA SHE DID, ABUSING HER POWER AS A MOD ON THAT SITE, I WAS CLUELESS UP UNTIL THIS WEEK] Way back, just after she quit as the last POF moderator, there was an extensive thread about her and the other moderators leaving POF. In that thread she and some of her “friends” posted links to screen shots of communication between her and other moderators doing battle and swapping insults and name calling along with copies of emails between her and Markus with Miss Allison wanting to get *cowboy* removed as a moderator. There was some vile stuff in some of those screen shots and emails. I would have to dig thru old emails but somewhere I have copies of the emails between Markus and Allison about *cowboy* that Allison forwarded to me (after she quit as a moderator) during non-POF correspondence. [THAT WAS VERY UNPROFESSIONAL OF HER, SHE WAS A MOD & USING THAT POSITION TO CAUSE MAYHEM IS A HUGE NO NO. IN FACT SHE PUT POF, MARKUS & THE MATCH GROUP IN LEGAL JEOPARDY BY DOING SO. I AM SURE SEVERAL LAWS WERE BROKEN]It was those emails that that concerned me about her and caused me to break off communication with her. By the way, she also told me that Markus never had moderators sign a non-disclosure agreement. [TY IF THAT IS TRUE I HOPE MARKUS HAS LOTS OF $$ MORE TO SUE HIM FOR]Probably a foolish neglect on his part. [EXPENSIVE TOO]I closed my then POF account right afterwards and quit responding to her emails. [SMART MOVE IMO]

A year or so later in the tribute to *cowboy* thread after Mark’s death was announced Allison returned to the forums as Miss Allison and made a tribute post about how much she liked Mark and his commitment to POF and the POF forums and what good friends they were. [THAT WAS TRUE, I RECALL POSTING IN THERE ABOUT PPL SPEAKING OUT OF BOTH SIDES OF THEIR MOUTHS] I called her out, referenced those screen shots, and linked to the thread that had the links she and her friends posted to them. She pulled down those pages right afterwards to hide the evidence.[GOOD 4 U- ALSO ANOTHER PERSON WHO CLAIMED TO BE A FRIEND WAS LYING BIG TIME- HE HAD CONFIDED TO ME VIA EMAIL ABOUT A CERTAIN SITUATION]

By the way, that really pissed off KJ. She was personal friends with both Mark (*cowboy*) and Allison. KJ later became friendly with me during the thread I called delete-fest about a year later. (That is the thread that Blondie is referring to where AusiNancy (Or something like that) posted the photo of Allison holding a piece of paper up calling Frank an idiot.) [I REALLY THOUGHT SOMEONE FAKED THAT PIC TO THROW ALLISON UNDER THE BUS, I THOUGHT SOMEONE ELSE WAS DOING ALL THE NONSENSE & THEN SAYING IT WAS ALLISON- I DO NOT EVER RECALL TRASHING HER IN ANY POST ON THE POF FORUM] KJ did remind me more than once how pissed she was that I used Mark’s tribute thread to call out Allison. I just thought that Allison’s guilt driven hypocrisy in her tribute post could not be ignored.[HYPOCRITE IS A GOOD WORD]

Allison and Blondie’s hatred towards each other go way back. [NO- I NEVER HATED HER- WHY? ON THE SURFACE THERE WAS NO FEUD- I HAD NO CLUE OF HOW TWISTED SHE WAS & THAT SHE DISLIKED ME THAT MUCH!] Allison started using her moderators “tools” as Yoshie, Ed Jacobs, and The Wizard after quitting as an authorized moderator. [WELL THANKS FOR SHARING, THAT IS SICK, UNETHICAL & PROB ILLEGAL-KA-CHING]I have plenty of antidotal proof along with a few emails. After she got Tall IQ kicked off and he gave up returning, Allison started attacking Blondie [I WAS OBNOXIOUS AT TIMES, BUT SO WERE MANY OTHERS...I ONLY KNOW NOW WHY] . I do not recall all of here attempts since so many people disliked Blondie and attacked her but I do remember a few. The one username she attacked Blondie with that sticks out was Tall I Spew Poo. Only because of how disgusting the name was.[WHAT ABOUT ANGEL PUPPET WHERE SHE STARTED A THREAD TRASHING ME, OR THE PERSON THAT WENT TO MY NOW DEFUNCT YOUTUBE CHANNEL & HARRASSED ME THERE? THAT PERSON WAS A REAL PSYCHO!] Allison has posted some vile things here too. [WAY MORE THAN I DID & NOT EVEN OPENLY, ]Neither she nor Blondie are blameless and both should be shamed for their actions. My opinion.[SORRY I AM NOT ASHAMED, I WAS POKED & EVENTUALLY POKED BACK]

So, not bad for my first Friday morning rant in what, six months? (If I say so myself)

Now, if they have not closed this thread it is time to hit submit and see if it posts.

~ J $ ~