Lessons From The Ultimate Soulmate Summit (Part 2)

The Ultimate Soulmate Summit brought together 21 of the world's most respected relationship experts on Valentine's Day 2011. If you weren't one of the 60,000 people who attended the teleseminar series, but you are one of the millions of people searching for their soulmate, Alexia Elejalde-Ruiz recapped the highlights of the convention. We've already reviewed Day One through Day Five, so lets dive straight in to what you missed during the second half of the webinar:

Day Six: Evan Marc Katz, dating coach

When filling out an online dating profile, think of five core adjectives that describe you - then don't use any of them. Give interesting examples that illustrate them instead. Don't be too choosy, but don't compromise on two things: character and consistency.

Day Seven: Lori Gottlieb, author of Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough

Stop looking for chemistry and start searching for compatibility. The sweep-you-off-your-feet Prince Charming types are only found in Disney fairytales, and refusing to settle for anyone who doesn't live up to that standard is likely to leave you single. A lasting marriage is built on flexibility, compromise, and a shared vision for the future.

Day Eight: Pat Allen, marriage counselor

The polarity between masculine energy and feminine energy is responsible for creating harmony and desire. Therefore, a woman who wants to attract a masculine man must embrace her feminine side, and a man who is interested in feminine women must embrace his masculinity.

Day Nine: Jean Houston, mythologist

In Plato's Symposium, Aristophanes tells a story about the origin of love, in which he explains that humans, once upon a time, were two beings in one body. The beings were split in two, and now we are driven by love to find our other halves. Houston advises becoming a living force of love by allowing the spiritual concept of The Beloved, "the great archetype of love," to "be your guiding essence."

Day Ten: Arielle Ford, author of The Soulmate Secret

Find your soulmate by creating a soul mate wishlist. Outline exactly what you want in a partner, and your vision for your life together. Believe that you deserve and will find "The One," and conduct affirmations called "feelingizations" to reinforce that belief.

Day Eleven: Claire Zammit, co-creator of The Feminine Power Courses

Don't lose yourself in waiting for love to happen - focus on actively becoming who you really are. Rather than obsessing over your need to find love, dedicate yourself to being a source of love in the world.