12 Resolutions For Finding Love In 2012

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  • Saturday, January 01 2011 @ 11:45 am
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  1. I will put myself out there. I can't find love if I don't make an effort to meet new people and go on dates.
  2. I will ditch my dealbreakers. I may be missing out on great people because I'm focused on superficial qualities like height and hair color. This year, I will focus on what really counts: finding someone who makes me happy.
  3. I will smile more often. Not only does smiling make me more appealing and approachable, it also boosts my mood and shares my positive energy with the world.
  4. I will revamp my online dating profile. I've changed over the last year, and my profile should change with me so that it is an accurate reflection of who I am and what I want.
  5. I will make dating a priority. I won't let work or Dancing With The Stars reruns get in the way of what I really want: a relationship with someone I love.
  6. I will give my attitude a makeover. There are plenty of wonderful people out there...I just need to find them. I will let go of the idea that there's no one out there for me.
  7. I will not take rejection personally. Some dates will work out, but it's not a reflection on who I am - it just means that we weren't right for each other, and we will find better partners in other people.
  8. I will not let my past determine my future. It doesn't matter how many unfulfilling relationships I've been in - they do not mean that I do not deserve, or will not find, happiness.
  9. I will speak to strangers. Even a simple "Hello!" gets me one step closer to meeting the person of my dreams.
  10. I will let go of my expectations on dates. I will be open, kind, funny, honest, positive, a great listener, and do everything I can to be the best date I can be. Even if I don't meet my soulmate, I may end up meeting a new friend.
  11. I will recognize my own self-worth. I am a unique and fabulous person, and I deserve to have everything I want in life and love.
  12. I won't give up! Sometimes bad dates and breakups happen...but they're no reason to give up on my dream of finding love with a partner who's perfect for me.

Happy New Year!