Single for New Years Eve?

New Year's Eve is just around the corner, and this year, there's a movie coming out with the same title that puts the holiday front and center on our minds - especially if we're single. A long list of A-List stars will experience new love thanks to all the romance that's supposed to take place on this night - after all, it's a magical time, right? Not to mention one of the biggest date nights of the year. That's great for Hollywood, but what will most singles experience?

While I love a good romantic comedy, sometimes these kinds of movies put undue pressure on singles to find someone special before the ball drops and champagne toasts are made. But should you be made to feel like your life is missing something because you don't have a date for New Years?

New Year's Eve isn't all about couples and having someone to kiss at midnight. It's about ringing in the New Year - which means new adventures and new people to meet. With all the parties and the festive atmosphere, going out with friends can make for a fun night - no romance involved. And if your friends already have plans? Well, then you should make a point to go solo to that party you've been invited to. While I was never excited to go to parties by myself (I'd much rather go with friends), going solo was how I ended up meeting my husband. Because I didn't have a group of friends to hang out with, I was forced to make small talk and introduce myself to strangers. We talked and he asked me out - the rest just flowed. And it all happened because I went alone to a New Year's party.

The bottom line? You never know what the future holds, but the present is totally in your control. New Year's Eve is a great time to celebrate regardless of your relationship status. So make a point to celebrate it. Following are some ideas, depending on what floats your boat:

Travel. Make plans to visit a friend or family member, or ring in the New Year in an exotic locale you've always wanted to visit. This is a good time to expand your horizons. Take advantage if you want to just get out of town.

Make plans with friends. If you already have a jump on planning your social calendar, that's great! Book your friends for a fun night out downtown or at a favorite club. If that's too expensive, you can always celebrate at someone's house.

Host a party. Why not bring New Year's to you? Have a party at your house and ask each of your friends to invite someone new so you can expand your social circles.

Most importantly, remember that New Year's is about new beginnings. It's not about finding a date so you don't feel alone. Have fun, and enjoy your friends and people you meet. Let the evening take on a life of its own - and see where it leads you.