Communication

AI and chatbots are changing how we date, as well as how we use dating apps.

According to a new report in Times of India, as well as a report from Business Insider, singles are gravitating more to AI features, including using them to craft messages and profiles, analyze relationships, and even finding virtual girlfriends and boyfriends via realistic chatbots. (In some cases, dating apps that are AI-based can send chatbots in the likeness of the user out on dates with chatbots of other users and report back how the date went – in other words, the chatbots do the heavy lifting.)

The Business Insider report conducted an experiment where its reporter set up her chatbot and it went on a date. The conversation with her date’s chatbot was sent to her via the app so she could read the exchange. She noted that her chatbot got some of the answers she would have said right, and others wrong. (For example, the chatbot said she loved pineapple on pizza. In fact, she’d never tried it).

A new study has found that when dating app users can share disappearing photos with other users, it can increase matches and user engagement.

According to Phys.org, researchers found that enabling people to share photos that would disappear within a certain timeframe helped them overcome fears related to privacy and helped with conversation starters. Many dating app users are not willing to share personal details about themselves when they meet new people on dating apps, making it more difficult to connect and have deeper conversations, according to the study.

The large-scale randomized field experiment was conducted with more than 70,000 users of a China-based dating app. The experiment featured both a control group where subjects uploaded a photo that would stay posted, like in traditional dating app profiles, and a treatment group where users could upload ephemeral photos. They found that users in the treatment group sent more personal photos compared with the control group.

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Two dating apps based in Asia have changed their platforms to entice women - and intend to take market share away from popular dating apps like Tinder and Bumble.

According to South China Morning Post, dating platform YouApp recently underwent a major revamp. The app now uses AI to create personality tests targeting specific demographics and cultures within its userbase, to correct a longstanding problem: men outnumber women on these platforms.

In fact, Pew Research found based on a survey conducted in 2022, 54 percent of women in the U.S. felt overwhelmed by messages on dating apps compared to 64 percent of men who said they felt the opposite.

Grindr’s CEO George Arrison is planning to monetize the app more aggressively, including launching an AI chatbot and putting previously free features behind a paywall.

News website Platformer broke the news about Grindr’s plans to launch an AI-based “boyfriend” chatbot feature that can engage in sexually explicit conversations with users, for a price. Some employees have expressed weariness, as the AI-generated conversations could be based in part on private chats between other human users, pending their consent.

Platformer also learned that Grindr is revising its terms of service to ask people signing up if the company can train their AI models on their personal data, which can include direct messages. This is likely to be a privacy issue going forward for other dating apps who could pursue employing user data to train AI.

BLK dating app has unveiled Spring Mode to help foster more connection among college students during their spring break vacations, when many are traveling and looking to meet people.

According to Blavity, the feature allows college students to place a fun badge on their profiles of the place they plan to visit over their spring break, in case other potential matches might be traveling there, too. Destinations include Hawaii, Cancun, Jamaica, Los Angeles, Cabo, the Dominican Republic, Cancun, Las Vegas, and Miami among other prime locations.

The badges all have unique personality and style, and are modeled after the famous places they represent. The vision behind Spring Mode according to Jonathan Kirkland, BLK’s head of marketing and brand, is in line with the company’s overall commitment to fostering connection and community as well as inclusivity.

Bumble CEO Lidiane Jones is reconsidering the app’s signature selling point: a dating app where females make the first move. The app is scheduled to relaunch later this year, and it seems everything is on the table.

Bumble’s longtime marketing strategy and company mission was to appeal to women and help them feel empowered while using a dating app. Jones however feels that things have changed, and it has become a “burden for a subset of our customers today," according to Yahoo! Finance.

The company has been testing out alternatives, from sending prompts to help women start conversations (and reduce their anxiety about doing so) or they can choose to let their matches start conversations instead.