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How do you keep them interested while emailing on a dating site?

JJ Ran

I think my subject says it all but how do you keep a women interested during the email phase on a dating site?

I have joined 2 dating sites, and Plenty of fish. I have been fairly successful with both at getting women I am interested in, to contact me after I send that first email. This seems to suggest that they like my profile and are engaged with my first message. The problem is it always seems to fizzle after about 3 or 4 emails.

Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can improve my results so I can move to the next step and contact them by phone?

JJ Ran


I try to move the messaging from the dating site to my phone by the third email. Women usually get many messages a day on a dating site so it is fairly easy to get drowned out by all of the other horny guys.

If I were you by the second or third email give your phone number and ask for the girl’s so you can continue to text them or call them if you want. If they do not give you their phone number then most likely they will move on or are not really interested in meeting guys online. Rolling Eyes

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