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the REAL truth about ADULT sites


They are just fake sites to get your crdit cards. Women do not exisit. A woman these days is NOT going to give it away when she can sell it on back page or craiglsist.

So if you want sex, try these sites. They even give rates and phone numbers'

But i figure that there is going to be some major stings going on soon and since this is protitution, then backpage and craiglsist can be held in helping this illegal activity. I wish they would sue these sites.

And these site's disclaimers are worthless. Just like the signs in a parking lot that say they are not responsible for damage to your car. WRONG.

In TEXAS, if you give your keys to a a valet, a parking lot attendant, etc, a relationship called the bailor-bailee relionship is created (I was tought this by a lawyer in college in a business law course). So discaliners are usually worthless.

Michael T. Gugliatti

I really hate reading your post. It's a lie. In the last 2 years I've used Adult Friend Finder twice and was sucessful both times. YES there are spamers, scammers, prostitutes, etc. on that webite, but THERE ARE A LOT OF REAL GIRLS on the site that are just trying to have sex too.

The chat feature on AFF is free. Both times I met girls all I did was pop in my regional area chat room, jump in the conversation, found the youngest, closest girl (in my cases the first one was 19yo 10 miles away, the second was 23yo 3 miles away, I'm 28) exchanged Yahoo IM names (obviously private IM on AFF is a pay service), talk, meet up.

I'm outside NYC in Central Jersey, and there's a lot of people on that site around here. The last girl I met up with actually goes to 'parties' by people on the site (ie not sponsered by AFF).

Now I'm not gonna lie, I needed to get laid. Not find a girl to date. And for 2 girl's I met on a sex site and met in person for the 1st time at an hourly motel off the NJ turnpike, they actually did seem like the types of girls who'd "meet a random ass guy on a sex site and meet for the 1st time at an hourly motel off the NJ turnpike."

TIP: Girls can have the need for sex without a relationship or getting money.


Women do want just sex but VERY few give it away. You pay for it one way or another be it money or a date.

Think a decnt looking woman is going to jump inot bed with you unless you can do something for her?


What I write is the TRUTH. If you can't handle the truth don't respond to my posts. I certainly don't care about YOURS.

Mr. Adult Dating Site

Quote by: Michael T. Gugliatti

Now I'm not gonna lie, I needed to get laid. Not find a girl to date. And for 2 girl's I met on a sex site and met in person for the 1st time at an hourly motel off the NJ turnpike, they actually did seem like the types of girls who'd "meet a random ass guy on a sex site and meet for the 1st time at an hourly motel off the NJ turnpike."

75% of the profiles are fake. The only way you can tell a girl is real is if she doesn't give it up on the first date. If a girl is real, she isn't meeting anyone in a motel off the anypike. this dude is just as much of a scam as Adult Friend Finder. How much do they pay you an hour bro???

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I agreed that 75% are fake profile but even though its like that you can still find a real ladies and has a good intention and likes to have conversation before meeting each other.


Crap Crap Crap

Adult dating sites are no more than porn sites that try to hook you to paying for live feeds. The thing is porn sites do it better.

If you are looking at trying to hookup there is no use paying for it. I would recommend using plenty of fish but you have to be above average in looks to get anywhere.


There must be ladies as mad about shelling out cash as men are! Asking for real, free, sites on Google only gives us the big "pay us" sites.... On the great big, open, free information internet, there must be places adults get together to chat, maybe meet, maybe more.... I'm not looking for a hooker site, hookers are everywhere, I'm looking for a woman that just wants to play sometimes.... How far do we have to dig? Anyone know?

UK reviewer


FWIW my experience is that it depends on what effort you put in - I've tried a number of sites with various degrees of 'success' which depends of course on what you want!

There are definately fake profiles on all of the sites I've tried but a bigger problem in my opinion is that the 'systems' send you loads of fake messages when you join for free in order that you'll then pay to join to answer these messages which then obviously leads nowhere...

However to suggest as in the old posts on this thread that fake profiles are maybe 75% is _in my experience_ nonsense esp as on most sites women join for free but men have to pay for anything over a basic package which usually means little or no contact options - unfair, yep, but that's the way it is and the men on these sites still way outnumber the women who can then pick and choose...

I'm in the UK and have used Adult Friend Finder (AFF) off and on for years - mainly as a non paying standard member and trying to chat to women using the instant messaging (IM) system - and in the past the free chatrooms although that's usually pretty futile as the distances make it going any further unlikely. Ok if all you want is cyber sex with someone in the US - tried it but not for me although she didn't have a webcam!

Have chatted online on the IM system to dozens of more local women over the years - sometimes a one-off conversation, other times on a regular basis - most of the time it doesn't lead anywhere - and is frustrating because they're usually chatting to a number of men at the same time so the conversation is painfully slow. If you can get them to chat off AFF - chatting on yahoo, live etc and then exchanging pics, mails, texts etc again_in my experience_ most of the time it doesn't lead to a meet - but I'm also fairly cautious as there some very odd people out there... Smile

My first free 'stint' on AFF eventually led to a couple of 'social' meets and 1 no show - I met one woman a number of times but no sex and the other was one-off social meet that I think we both decided wasn't going any further!

At one point I paid for a couple of months on AFF but didn't have any success - lots of chat but no action - so cancelled.

Since then over a period of years as a standard member, I've met 3 women off AFF - 2 earlier this year - and all resulted in sex and all ended up being a one-off as I guess it wasn't right for either or both - I'm really looking for a regular fwb. A couple were fairly quick - chatted off and on for a few weeks or so, the other we had chatted for years and eventually it led to more!

Also had success on Illicit Encounters a few years back within a day of joining - paid - and met the same woman twice in a few days for hotel sex but that was the only success and even back then it was very expensive so cancelled after a month!!

Also had some success with Sex in the UK - met a couple of women, one ended up having sex on second meet and the other we had agreed just to be friends.

Because there's way more men on these sites it seems to me that you have to be persistent in that it's a numbers game so the more woman you try to contact the more you're likely to eventually find the right person for a meet but it can be - and usually is Smile - very frustrating.

I'm currently a non paying member on a few sites including AFF and as it looks like I'll have a bit more time over the next few months I'll probably join one or two for a month to see if the contact options lead anywhere.

Overall I don't think these sites are much different than more conventional sites - possibly a little more honest over why you're there really - and again FWIW I would suggest doing a bit of research on the number of 'matches' in your area, check em out for free and then if you think it might work for you give it a try for a month or two which usually costs less than actually taking someone out...

Happy hunting...


While AFF has its issuses with scammers/ we were glad we joined - met a couple of couples & had fun . BUT CouplesTouch is better- its like AFF with more privacy.
& YES - met great single females ,males,& some great couples.
The negitive poster must NOT have had any luck !!


Not true.. Adult dating is for real and can deliver as promised.. You just have to find the right site.. Thats all there is to it. The right adult dating site with as much member in your local area as possible and you will find a date sooner or later.

Some people get lucky and some dont ever find anyone on adult dating sites but I can tell you from personal experience that a few sites are for real and sets you up with a sex date

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