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I’ve been on eHarmony for a while now, and overall I really do like it. Compared to other apps I’ve tried, the people here tend to be more serious and respectful, which is exactly what I’m looking for at this stage of life. I’ve had some genuinely good conversations and even a couple of nice coffee dates, so I don’t feel like my time has been wasted.

That said, I’m running into a frustrating issue with messaging. I’ll match with someone, we’ll exchange a few thoughtful messages, and then the conversation just… stalls. It doesn’t feel like ghosting so much as the system slowing things down. Sometimes I won’t get notified of a reply until a day later, and by then the momentum is gone. I’ve double-checked my settings and email notifications, but it still feels hit or miss. I’m curious if other long-time users have noticed this, or if there’s a setting I’m overlooking. I like eHarmony and want to stick with it, but I’m hoping there’s a way to make conversations flow a little more naturally.