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I wrote a very down to earth profile and it was rejected (I have had many innocent ones rejected and called once and the woman found NOTING wrong with my rejected ad at matchcom via their automated system) Yet I have read countlesss ads posted by women o matchcom (and other sites) that are very thinly veiled offers of prostitution or desire to become a mistress. Example I enjoy the finer things in life and like to be spoiled. I love to stay at 5 star hotels (who is paying? Are these women spliting the expenses-they never mention THAT). There are countless other statements if you read between the lines. Also some women list a list of activities a mile long and nearly all include skinny dipping. Are there REALLY that many women who love to skinny dip (maybe in someone's pool that makes a 6 figure income). So these women want to be taken 'care off'. YEt there is a double standard toward the men. I wish I had my last rejected ad but I re-wrote it so maybe I could at least salvage my mistake of joing and get one date from this site.