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Sometimes it’s not love that breaks your heart, it’s disappointment.



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After having gone through a relationship that was one sided, where I gave it all and kept it going, without anything, anything nice being done 4 me, I would suggest to not to 2 b a disappointment to the other person. If you see that you are doing nothing for your partner, and yet they are kind and generous to you, it’s time to step up and get rid of your ego or selfishness. Be kind. Be loving. Give them some of your time. What is wrong with you that you can’t be loving to them?You are damaging them 4 life making them think they aren’t enough 4 you or don’t deserve 2 b treated well. There are plenty of excuses why “they” can’t treat you right like too busy with work, too busy with other responsibilities, not good timing now,blah blah. That was their last excuse btw 4 me. That timing wasn’t right. I gave so much, but they just ignored me. How come i had the time to be loving 2 them? I’m busy 2 with lots of responsibilities. It’s because i treated them how i wanted 2 b treated. I prioritized them. I gave up any free time i had 4 them. I complimented them and said loving words which i meant. All i wanted to do was love them. To show them I cared. Actions are everything. What’s worse is that you see them giving of themselves to other people in their life but they can’t give anything to you. Nothing. Not an action or deed. No kind or loving words. No kindness at all. Meanwhile they say they love you? But nothing backs up their words at all.

For those treated like this by someone U love you need to know you aren’t the problem. Walk away ASAP. it will hurt but you will find someone that wants to treat you special instead of have you when it’s convenient to them. Stop being used.

For those that are this person - don’t be the disappointment. One day they won’t be there for you and you’ll realize what you had and what you lost. Before it’s too late……………. Change