Posted on: 2021/08/11 03:33pm
By: Anonymous (InspireMe)
I have been inspired recently by a few quotes. I think people that are in struggling relationships might find value in them. If you have any quotes to share, please post. I want to create a post of inspiration.
"If they miss you, they'll call. If they want you, they'll say it. If they care, they'll show it. And if not, they aren't worth your time."
"Life is too short to waste your time on people who don't appreciate and value you and show you love through their time. Spend your life with people who make you laugh, smile and feel loved."
"Please do not cry for me when I'm gone. Because I'm here right now, trying to be loved, and you don't even have the time to say hello."
"I once loved someone so much that I tried to fix them while they were breaking me."
"It's hard to wait for something that might never happen, but it's even harder to give up when you know it's everything you want and need. Instead of pulling away, show your love to them."
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Posted on: 2021/08/11 04:15pm
By: Anonymous (Gia)
This is a FANTASTIC idea!
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Posted on: 2021/08/11 04:20pm
By: Anonymous (Gia)
This is powerful. I was in a relationship once where I put forth all the effort, and he did nothing for me in return. I read this quote and said "THIS"!
One day you're going to remember me, and how much I loved you, and how much I did for you....
and then you're going to hate yourself for not treating me right and letting me go.
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Posted on: 2021/08/11 07:54pm
By: Anonymous (tonya88)
“””Real love is rare. A lot of people date with motives and marry for perks. If you have someone who loves you at your core, don’t let them go. “””
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Posted on: 2021/08/11 10:19pm
By: Anonymous (Jess)
Mine is:
In this world, you only have one true love, one connection that is meant for you. Your connection will match you in mind and body and spirit. If you haven't found your love, keep your heart open and keep searching, for your love is searching for you. If you found your love, never let them go.
<3
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Posted on: 2021/08/12 01:34pm
By: Anonymous (AntB)
“You are too good to be someone’s second choice. Stop settling, stop chasing, and let them go. “
This speaks to me. Someone I love deeply doesn’t have time for me. I’m the second priority with everything going on in their life. I kept hanging on hoping for some time and attention. It’s time to let them go no matter how painful it may be. I just hope I can get the strength to actually do it.
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Posted on: 2021/08/13 09:12pm
By: Anonymous (Gia)
You don’t find love, it finds you. It’s got a little bit to do with destiny, fate, and what’s written in the stars.
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Posted on: 2021/08/14 12:25am
By: Anonymous (####)
A lot of things here really make me think. Thanks for sharing.
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Posted on: 2021/08/14 01:36pm
By: Anonymous (Perish)
Sometimes it’s not love that breaks your heart, it’s disappointment.
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After having gone through a relationship that was one sided, where I gave it all and kept it going, without anything, anything nice being done 4 me, I would suggest to not to 2 b a disappointment to the other person. If you see that you are doing nothing for your partner, and yet they are kind and generous to you, it’s time to step up and get rid of your ego or selfishness. Be kind. Be loving. Give them some of your time. What is wrong with you that you can’t be loving to them?You are damaging them 4 life making them think they aren’t enough 4 you or don’t deserve 2 b treated well. There are plenty of excuses why “they” can’t treat you right like too busy with work, too busy with other responsibilities, not good timing now,blah blah. That was their last excuse btw 4 me. That timing wasn’t right. I gave so much, but they just ignored me. How come i had the time to be loving 2 them? I’m busy 2 with lots of responsibilities. It’s because i treated them how i wanted 2 b treated. I prioritized them. I gave up any free time i had 4 them. I complimented them and said loving words which i meant. All i wanted to do was love them. To show them I cared. Actions are everything. What’s worse is that you see them giving of themselves to other people in their life but they can’t give anything to you. Nothing. Not an action or deed. No kind or loving words. No kindness at all. Meanwhile they say they love you? But nothing backs up their words at all.
For those treated like this by someone U love you need to know you aren’t the problem. Walk away ASAP. it will hurt but you will find someone that wants to treat you special instead of have you when it’s convenient to them. Stop being used.
For those that are this person - don’t be the disappointment. One day they won’t be there for you and you’ll realize what you had and what you lost. Before it’s too late……………. Change
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Posted on: 2021/08/14 03:05pm
By: Anonymous (Rachael_09)
Quote by: AnonymousSometimes it’s not love that breaks your heart, it’s disappointment.
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After having gone through a relationship that was one sided, where I gave it all and kept it going, without anything, anything nice being done 4 me, I would suggest to not to 2 b a disappointment to the other person. If you see that you are doing nothing for your partner, and yet they are kind and generous to you, it’s time to step up and get rid of your ego or selfishness. Be kind. Be loving. Give them some of your time. What is wrong with you that you can’t be loving to them?You are damaging them 4 life making them think they aren’t enough 4 you or don’t deserve 2 b treated well. There are plenty of excuses why “they” can’t treat you right like too busy with work, too busy with other responsibilities, not good timing now,blah blah. That was their last excuse btw 4 me. That timing wasn’t right. I gave so much, but they just ignored me. How come i had the time to be loving 2 them? I’m busy 2 with lots of responsibilities. It’s because i treated them how i wanted 2 b treated. I prioritized them. I gave up any free time i had 4 them. I complimented them and said loving words which i meant. All i wanted to do was love them. To show them I cared. Actions are everything. What’s worse is that you see them giving of themselves to other people in their life but they can’t give anything to you. Nothing. Not an action or deed. No kind or loving words. No kindness at all. Meanwhile they say they love you? But nothing backs up their words at all.
For those treated like this by someone U love you need to know you aren’t the problem. Walk away ASAP. it will hurt but you will find someone that wants to treat you special instead of have you when it’s convenient to them. Stop being used.
For those that are this person - don’t be the disappointment. One day they won’t be there for you and you’ll realize what you had and what you lost. Before it’s too late……………. Change
I can tell you are hurting and I’m sending you hugs. I’m going to assume you are a woman and the other person is a guy just for the ease of writing this. Please don’t let him ruin you. You gave a lot to the relationship and he didn’t give you that in return. You walked away knowing you did what a loving person should do. He can’t say the same. He lost the one person in this world that would have given it all to him for life, giving to his every need and desire. He lost. You won. I hope you find/found a person that will treat you right. He will spend the rest of his life knowing that if he wouldn’t have ignored you and pushed you away that he would have had a lasting and loving relationship for LIFE. Now he has nothing and he will never have you. God bless you.
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Posted on: 2021/08/14 10:05pm
By: Anonymous (Cheye)
Holy crap all the responses are depressing! Let's switch gears.
"Don't miss out on something that could be great just because it could also be difficult"
or
"In the end, we regret the chances we didn't take".
Let's all try to be hopeful together to find love, and to find the person that makes us happy in this life. We only have one life to live <--- this isn't a famous quote, this is from me.
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Posted on: 2021/08/14 11:29pm
By: Anonymous (Beloved)
Quote by: AnonymousSometimes it’s not love that breaks your heart, it’s disappointment.
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After having gone through a relationship that was one sided, where I gave it all and kept it going, without anything, anything nice being done 4 me, I would suggest to not to 2 b a disappointment to the other person. If you see that you are doing nothing for your partner, and yet they are kind and generous to you, it’s time to step up and get rid of your ego or selfishness. Be kind. Be loving. Give them some of your time. What is wrong with you that you can’t be loving to them?You are damaging them 4 life making them think they aren’t enough 4 you or don’t deserve 2 b treated well. There are plenty of excuses why “they” can’t treat you right like too busy with work, too busy with other responsibilities, not good timing now,blah blah. That was their last excuse btw 4 me. That timing wasn’t right. I gave so much, but they just ignored me. How come i had the time to be loving 2 them? I’m busy 2 with lots of responsibilities. It’s because i treated them how i wanted 2 b treated. I prioritized them. I gave up any free time i had 4 them. I complimented them and said loving words which i meant. All i wanted to do was love them. To show them I cared. Actions are everything. What’s worse is that you see them giving of themselves to other people in their life but they can’t give anything to you. Nothing. Not an action or deed. No kind or loving words. No kindness at all. Meanwhile they say they love you? But nothing backs up their words at all.
For those treated like this by someone U love you need to know you aren’t the problem. Walk away ASAP. it will hurt but you will find someone that wants to treat you special instead of have you when it’s convenient to them. Stop being used.
For those that are this person - don’t be the disappointment. One day they won’t be there for you and you’ll realize what you had and what you lost. Before it’s too late……………. Change
You are going to flip when you read this article:
https://tinnhanh12s.com/if-he-truly-wants-you-he-will-pursue-you?fbclid=IwAR3FPmp4XuQRK_aYdChlH28-MPfy-adAGNgK0W48ttDp92p_pQDX638KW2U
This is a lot of what you’re saying with another angle added. Ladies take note!
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Posted on: 2021/08/15 08:29am
By: Anonymous (Pepper)
Smile more than you cry. Give more than you take and love more than you hate.
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Posted on: 2021/08/20 03:34pm
By: Anonymous (Truth)
If they really cared about you
They would have never given up.
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Posted on: 2021/08/22 03:21am
By: Anonymous (TRK)
Men just use you if you are convenient — you give them love and affection on their schedule.
They will tell you they love you to get what they want.
Once you aren’t satisfying their needs they’ll ditch you. They won’t work to keep the relationship vibrant, you will have to do that.
Then you are left with memories of something wonderful that you now know was all fake and you were being used.
It’s a painful lesson not to love or trust anyone ever.
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Posted on: 2021/08/22 11:44pm
By: Anonymous (Amanda)
My favorite:
Most men who are running away from a good woman who loves them, are running away from parts of themselves that they aren’t willing to change to keep her.
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Posted on: 2021/08/25 10:40am
By: Anonymous (deb776)
"Stop thinking about him, because he's not thinking about you."
Ladies learn this lesson. Men are never, ever thinking about you the way you are thinking about them. Relationships s/b equal, and if you see it isnt, move on. Save yourself the grief. You deserve better.
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Posted on: 2021/08/26 10:11pm
By: Anonymous (Tig)
Julia roberts said:
‘’I believe that two people are connected at the heart, And it doesn’t matter what you do, who you are, or where you live; There are no boundaries or barriers If two people are destined to be together. ‘’
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Posted on: 2021/08/26 10:23pm
By: Anonymous (Tig)
‘’ It’s all about who you think about when you close your eyes; The one that makes the rest of the world fade away ‘’
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Posted on: 2021/09/13 09:19pm
By: Anonymous (Truth)
Someone needs to read this tonight>>
There is a part of me that wishes I never met you. I preferred the emptiness in me when I didn’t know it was there.