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Total Bull, you must of been banned from the site, you seem to have some sort of vendetta, also most of the scammer profiles are on the free sites, what makes you think because a site isn't free it's a scam, or are you one of those people that feel that everything should be free for them to use, it's not free to run a website, there are expenses involved, Do you own a business, do you give your product or services away for free, do you work for someone, do you work for free..of course not, the sites that are free usually are run by someone that is using the site for their own self interest like meeting people , they usually don't get upgrades as often or ever ( cost to make program changes) and since they are free aren't monitored as closely for scammers..
Dreams of Milk and Reddit...Really?

I would take this guy's review with a grain of salt, seems he has some ongoing issues with the site management. and he seemed to only be driven by price point in what he likes about a site, as long as it's totally free he's all good, if it's a paid site he has issues with all of them, also sites that are paid have a different standard of content then say a free site, I think they use Paypal, so they can only allow certain images and content on their site, otherwise their payment processor will cut them off, so they have to make sure people don't post things that will jeopardize them. with free sites there is no real oversight so there isn't any real pressure for them to meet payment processors standards.

The site been around a long time, and at one time they had many more members than they do today, but they did remove the very old inactive profiles, maybe about a year or so ago, it used to be free at one time, but running a website has expenses, so the owners of these sites either take donations, or charge a membership fee.

Most totally (free) sites usually die off or are just not moderated closely so they become something like Craigslist, there are at least four ANR/ABF sites I know of that no longer exist, one was taking donations but I don't think many donated.

I did a review of the same sites here is my take on them

ANRelationships;
I actually when on the site and took a look, it has a lot of members, different membership levels and access, everyone can send messages, but here how it works,
Free to join and send messages
VIP members can send, read and reply to messages from all members.
Free members can send, read and reply to messages from VIP members.
Free members can send messages to other free members but can't read messages from free members or reply to them.

So if you want to use the site totally for free only contact VIP members, but this really limits you making contacts because if you try to send a message to a free member and you're a free member you have to hope they find you appealing enough to want to get a VIP membership to read your messages and contact you back.

You can upload, pictures, videos, music, and VIP level members get a lot of other options that free members don't have access to

Can search members database by country, city, state
Easy to use, no complains , or use advance search for more options.

Easy to use, lot's of option. but you have to follow the site rules and guidelines and it moderated to keep out bad apples. good site to use

Dreams of Milk:
Have to pay first to send messages and do anything on site and view other member profile, you don't see anything until you do so, but it has free personals, but no pictures, and if you're ok with posting your contact info in the open, or contacting people directly without first contacting in a safe place( online where they can contact you until your sure they're ok first before giving out your contact info) go for it. so as long as you're ok with paying the entrance fee, you'll be ok with the site

ABFheaven:
It's a free site, fairly new, you have a forum where people can post personals, and other miscellaneous things, I personally wouldn't like to reply to a personal in a forum, I would rather just send that person a message, which you can, not a lot of post in the personal section at this time.
They have a US, UK and Europe maps that shows members by their locale, but it can be convoluted, they would be better off having a better member search capabilities so you can search by country city and state. and maybe add a advanced search section.
Have a chatroom but it has limited access hours.
Not as many rules, and since it's a free site it doesn't have the same restrictions as paid sites.
The site is free so if price point is a issue for you, this is a good starting place.

Land of Milk and Honey is now called Gift of Milk:
Has a personal forum that you have to paid to use, basically a blog with a lot induction info, not really for meeting people, more technical aspects of induction procedures.

AdultBreastFeeding.us:
Free site but they take donations,
Have personals and a forum, but there isn't a lot of members for as long as they been around (maybe 3500 total). with few personal postings maybe 100 in the US., you can post a profile picture, No chat. can only do a very basic country search.

ABFsingles:
Free to join but you have to have a paid membership to send messages.
No chat or forum, has picture, music and videos uploads, blogs, classifieds etc, a lot of options.
Site is moderated, and they have a lot of rules, but don't see them as a problem.
Site has been around for a while so it has a lot of members, site is in need of a update.
Can search members database by country, city, state or use advance search for more options
Easy to use, no complains , I been on it for awhile and haven't had no issues.

Just closed my account on abfsingles.net. It let me answer 1 message I received. Then, after I received an answer to my response and I had typed in my reply it wouldn't let me send it. I got this message "In order to prevent spam, you may not send more than 1 messages per 24 hours. Please wait before sending another message." WTF? If you want me to pay say so! At least be upfront about it! This was just frustrating and insulting, and I won't pay for an account on a site that treats users this way.

So how did they treat you bad, they never said you have unlimited message posting as a free member, you did get to use the site, (yes it is very limited) but you could of gotten a paid membership and make all the messages you wanted, seems they only give you a taste. If you want to drink your full you got to pay for it, heck some sites won't even let you in without paying, much less send messages, now there are free sites out there, but you're going to have to deal with a lot more fakes, scammers and solicitations, you get what you pay for.

ABFsingles,

I have talked to about a dozen real women, taken it off line and spoken on the phone with a few. These sites are all heavy on hungry thirsty men, putting off women who are interested in finding a partner. You have to realize that. From your posts, you seem a bit butthurt and impatient. Gimmie a way to met women but I won't pay to help you run it as a passion project. I've found eager and happy women, but they don't appear out of thin age. Please grow up.

My Review and my suggested site choice

My preferred and favorite site is ANRelationships.com

The site is geared towards a higher serious quality of relationships for quality people.

I like the search and match functionality, easy to find people by searching country, city or state and the many search options in advance search.

I like the picture and video functionality, and Private and Video Chat.

The site is heavily moderated to keep the scammers, and those doing solicitations off the site, it doesn't allow any milkmaid services or solicitations of any kind, it's for people wanting real a real relationships, not a service call.

I also like the fact that there are two levels of memberships, each have aspects that most people would find attractive.

Free members can send messages to any other members, and if that person is a VIP members can also have full complete message communications with them, this is good for the free member who may want to see what it's like to be a VIP member who has full messages capabilities with all site members ( Regular members cannot read messages from other free members just VIP members), Free members can't view members adult rated pictures and videos, and don't have access to all site areas

VIP members have full message access to all members, so even free members can contact them with no restrictions between VIP and free members. this is what they call the VIP advantage, you also get full access to all site areas and can view the more adult rated members pictures and videos.

Video and private chat for VIP members, Free members don't have access to video and private chat. but have access to the public chat rooms

The site is aimed for the more mainstream people who you wouldn't normally find on your more fetishized sites, since for most people they don't consider this a fetish, you won't find the usual dick pictures in members main profile pictures you find virulent on the heavy fetishized sites, and since the site is geared for a more quality in relationships for it's members you won't find just miscellaneous Tit hanging out pictures in the main profile pictures, this help keeps the site focused on the ANR/ABF aspects of a quality relationships versus people just looking to view tit pictures and clogging the site with people who are only there for the pics and jerking material. the site allows members to upload more adult rated pictures ( they have a image quality standard so read before posting pics) in a member photo album which only VIP members can view adult rated images, this keeps the picture collectors away since they are only looking for free picture to spank the monkey to.

The site is really easy to use once you get the hang of it, but it does have a very slight learning curve.

AdultBreastFeeding.us has migrated everything to a new domain called MilkSweetMilk.com and upgraded their cms seems like. They still have personals, but no forums anymore. Have a nice chatroom but feels empty. But locations and search is very much improved. They have cities and states available worldwide. And you can do a Geolocation search as well. Its definitely a much better user experience compared to old website but i thinks total number of their registered users is still not more than 5000-6000.

Ok took a look, they copied ANRelationships.com format and search functionality but with much fewer modifications, (take a look at the sites layouts MilkSweetMilk is using a basic theme with just a few cosmetic and slight functionality differences, chat is different) a lot of videos from porn sites almost 100%, not from members, (ANRelationships only allow videos from actually members of only that member) you can just google lactation porn videos for that, looks more like a porn site on the home page ( I guess that's their hook), not like a site for people looking for a real ANR/ABF relationship, hookups yeah maybe.( I joined both to take a look under the hood.)

What I really don't like is people can change their gender and ages, this means you can get people doing some insidious stuff, they can change up gender and age to fake people out.
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It looks like they transferred the profiles from the old site, but it doesn't look like a lot of people actually logged in to access the new site, you can tell by looking at the profiles and the lack of profile info like very few people have edited their profile just bare basic.

I guess it depends on what your'e looking for, More upscale versus not so much, I see them charging for this in the future because for them to get upgrades and site support from the people they brought the script from isn't free. it not a freebie Wordpress type site.

MilkSweetMilk now has paid membership. Didn't last long as a free site.

You now must pay to:
- See when people were last online (I imagine they did this because the majority of women have not logged in since July)
- Send and receive photos via private message
- Send and receive unlimited messages
- View social media links

Instead of adding features, they have taken away features and put them behind a pay wall which is a damn shame.

ABF Heaven provides more functionality for free and has more active members.