Posted on: 2019/08/20 03:54am
By: ANRelationships
Know of any ANR/ABF dating sites, if so name them and what you think would be good to join pros and cons, don't see any listed in the reviews, here are a few I have checked out, and joined.
ANRelationships
ABFSingles
anrconnecttions
Land of Milk and Honey
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2019/08/29 08:04am
By: Anonymous (Lightning)
What is an ANR dating site? Everything has an acronym these days
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2019/09/13 03:43pm
By: Anonymous (Ricker)
Get ready for this... ANR/ABF stands for: A Nursing Relationship/Adult Breast Feeding
Basically Breast worshipping. Now I have heard of everything!
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2019/09/15 02:55pm
By: Anonymous (Afadmin)
Brand new ABF/ANR dating site ...ABF Heaven
https://abfheaven.com
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2019/09/26 06:01am
By: Anonymous (ANRelationships)
Quote by: AnonymousGet ready for this... ANR/ABF stands for: A Nursing Relationship/Adult Breast Feeding
Basically Breast worshipping. Now I have heard of everything!
Obviously you never been on Fetlife
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2020/01/01 09:54am
By: Anonymous (Booblover)
Sites I have joined or looked at recently are:
ANRelationships ... Looked at, didn't join. Too flashy, looks like it's full of fakes. Owned by some kind of corporation, obviously just want my money. It even says on the front page "Photos used are of models, not real site members" !!! Forget it!
Dreams of Milk ... Good site, free to post Personals to find a partner, but there is a big delay before it appears (moderation?). I posted a Personal, but it took three days for it to go up on the message board. I wouldn't pay the $15 fee to join as a member, there's no need, the free Personals are good enough.
ABFheaven ... Good site, free to use. Lots of visitors (displayed on front page) but not much activity in the Personals section. Chatroom was empty when I tried it. Nice maps showing all the site members locations (in the US, the UK and Europe). Probably needs more members to increase activity, but it's free so not complaining.
Land of Milk and Honey ... I joined this site 3 years ago, paid $10 fee, what a disappointment. Very few users, very difficult to navigate. Contacted site owner by email within 24 hours, asking for refund. No reply, no response. Rip off! To be AVOIDED.
AdultBreastFeeding.us ... Good site, free to use. Looks like it's been around for a while, so lots of users. But confusing site layout, not easy to navigate. Lots of spam posts in the forums. Where's the moderator? Overall, though, good for a free website.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2020/01/19 11:38am
By: Anonymous (David)
Beware of the ABF singles site, they will draw you in and get you to pay their member fee. Then will state that their terms have been violated and de-activate your account. Beware of this fake admin site!
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2020/02/22 08:23pm
By: Anonymous (Mooncake)
Quote by: AnonymousSites I have joined or looked at recently are:
ANRelationships ... Looked at, didn't join. Too flashy, looks like it's full of fakes. Owned by some kind of corporation, obviously just want my money. It even says on the front page "Photos used are of models, not real site members" !!! Forget it!
Dreams of Milk ... Good site, free to post Personals to find a partner, but there is a big delay before it appears (moderation?). I posted a Personal, but it took three days for it to go up on the message board. I wouldn't pay the $15 fee to join as a member, there's no need, the free Personals are good enough.
ABFheaven ... Good site, free to use. Lots of visitors (displayed on front page) but not much activity in the Personals section. Chatroom was empty when I tried it. Nice maps showing all the site members locations (in the US, the UK and Europe). Probably needs more members to increase activity, but it's free so not complaining.
Land of Milk and Honey ... I joined this site 3 years ago, paid $10 fee, what a disappointment. Very few users, very difficult to navigate. Contacted site owner by email within 24 hours, asking for refund. No reply, no response. Rip off! To be AVOIDED.
AdultBreastFeeding.us ... Good site, free to use. Looks like it's been around for a while, so lots of users. But confusing site layout, not easy to navigate. Lots of spam posts in the forums. Where's the moderator? Overall, though, good for a free website.
So on the ANRelationships site you never when pass the landing page, of course they use models on the landing page and were honest enough to tell you so, maybe you should of did the site preview and got to the main site, you know where the actual member profiles are, you can't do a review without actually looking through the site. try doing that. BTW it's free to join and send messages.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2020/02/24 07:40pm
By: Anonymous (ABFSINGLES )
Quote by: AnonymousBeware of the ABF singles site, they will draw you in and get you to pay their member fee. Then will state that their terms have been violated and de-activate your account. Beware of this fake admin site!
As an admin I assure you we are not fake. Due to our success and being the largest we had to move to a donation based for upgraded memberships. It was that or shut it down as it is privately owned by a single mother. Also if you violated the regulations that also puts not just the owner in jeopardy but the entire community. ABFSingles and ANRConnections follow the regulations to keep the sites up and operational. The abf/anr community has always had issues with distance ... well their is a price for success and we try and keep those low. If you were removed I assure you there was a valid and recorded reason.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2020/03/14 12:20pm
By: Anonymous (Peter Hartley )
ABF singles is definitely fake.
It wasn't too bad when it was free, but later they started sending fake responses and messages and asking for payment.
Basically. Avoid payment for any of these sites. Soon as there's payment there's scams etc...
The others are OK. Generally it's too much of a niche to have a lot of members.
Dreams of milk and reddit are the best ones.
Again
AVOID abfsingles
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2020/03/16 01:21am
By: Anonymous (Morbius)
Total Bull, you must of been banned from the site, you seem to have some sort of vendetta, also most of the scammer profiles are on the free sites, what makes you think because a site isn't free it's a scam, or are you one of those people that feel that everything should be free for them to use, it's not free to run a website, there are expenses involved, Do you own a business, do you give your product or services away for free, do you work for someone, do you work for free..of course not, the sites that are free usually are run by someone that is using the site for their own self interest like meeting people , they usually don't get upgrades as often or ever ( cost to make program changes) and since they are free aren't monitored as closely for scammers..
Dreams of Milk and Reddit...Really?
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2020/04/22 02:09am
By: Anonymous (Morbius)
Quote by: AnonymousABF singles is definitely fake.
It wasn't too bad when it was free, but later they started sending fake responses and messages and asking for payment.
Basically. Avoid payment for any of these sites. Soon as there's payment there's scams etc...
The others are OK. Generally it's too much of a niche to have a lot of members.
Dreams of milk and reddit are the best ones.
Again
AVOID abfsingles
I would take this guy's review with a grain of salt, seems he has some ongoing issues with the site management. and he seemed to only be driven by price point in what he likes about a site, as long as it's totally free he's all good, if it's a paid site he has issues with all of them, also sites that are paid have a different standard of content then say a free site, I think they use Paypal, so they can only allow certain images and content on their site, otherwise their payment processor will cut them off, so they have to make sure people don't post things that will jeopardize them. with free sites there is no real oversight so there isn't any real pressure for them to meet payment processors standards.
The site been around a long time, and at one time they had many more members than they do today, but they did remove the very old inactive profiles, maybe about a year or so ago, it used to be free at one time, but running a website has expenses, so the owners of these sites either take donations, or charge a membership fee.
Most totally (free) sites usually die off or are just not moderated closely so they become something like Craigslist, there are at least four ANR/ABF sites I know of that no longer exist, one was taking donations but I don't think many donated.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2020/04/23 01:30am
By: Anonymous (Rasputin: lover of the Russian queen)
Quote by: AnonymousSites I have joined or looked at recently are:
ANRelationships ... Looked at, didn't join. Too flashy, looks like it's full of fakes. Owned by some kind of corporation, obviously just want my money. It even says on the front page "Photos used are of models, not real site members" !!! Forget it!
Dreams of Milk ... Good site, free to post Personals to find a partner, but there is a big delay before it appears (moderation?). I posted a Personal, but it took three days for it to go up on the message board. I wouldn't pay the $15 fee to join as a member, there's no need, the free Personals are good enough.
ABFheaven ... Good site, free to use. Lots of visitors (displayed on front page) but not much activity in the Personals section. Chatroom was empty when I tried it. Nice maps showing all the site members locations (in the US, the UK and Europe). Probably needs more members to increase activity, but it's free so not complaining.
Land of Milk and Honey ... I joined this site 3 years ago, paid $10 fee, what a disappointment. Very few users, very difficult to navigate. Contacted site owner by email within 24 hours, asking for refund. No reply, no response. Rip off! To be AVOIDED.
AdultBreastFeeding.us ... Good site, free to use. Looks like it's been around for a while, so lots of users. But confusing site layout, not easy to navigate. Lots of spam posts in the forums. Where's the moderator? Overall, though, good for a free website.
I did a review of the same sites here is my take on them
ANRelationships;
I actually when on the site and took a look, it has a lot of members, different membership levels and access, everyone can send messages, but here how it works,
Free to join and send messages
VIP members can send, read and reply to messages from all members.
Free members can send, read and reply to messages from VIP members.
Free members can send messages to other free members but can't read messages from free members or reply to them.
So if you want to use the site totally for free only contact VIP members, but this really limits you making contacts because if you try to send a message to a free member and you're a free member you have to hope they find you appealing enough to want to get a VIP membership to read your messages and contact you back.
You can upload, pictures, videos, music, and VIP level members get a lot of other options that free members don't have access to
Can search members database by country, city, state
Easy to use, no complains , or use advance search for more options.
Easy to use, lot's of option. but you have to follow the site rules and guidelines and it moderated to keep out bad apples. good site to use
Dreams of Milk:
Have to pay first to send messages and do anything on site and view other member profile, you don't see anything until you do so, but it has free personals, but no pictures, and if you're ok with posting your contact info in the open, or contacting people directly without first contacting in a safe place( online where they can contact you until your sure they're ok first before giving out your contact info) go for it. so as long as you're ok with paying the entrance fee, you'll be ok with the site
ABFheaven:
It's a free site, fairly new, you have a forum where people can post personals, and other miscellaneous things, I personally wouldn't like to reply to a personal in a forum, I would rather just send that person a message, which you can, not a lot of post in the personal section at this time.
They have a US, UK and Europe maps that shows members by their locale, but it can be convoluted, they would be better off having a better member search capabilities so you can search by country city and state. and maybe add a advanced search section.
Have a chatroom but it has limited access hours.
Not as many rules, and since it's a free site it doesn't have the same restrictions as paid sites.
The site is free so if price point is a issue for you, this is a good starting place.
Land of Milk and Honey is now called Gift of Milk:
Has a personal forum that you have to paid to use, basically a blog with a lot induction info, not really for meeting people, more technical aspects of induction procedures.
AdultBreastFeeding.us:
Free site but they take donations,
Have personals and a forum, but there isn't a lot of members for as long as they been around (maybe 3500 total). with few personal postings maybe 100 in the US., you can post a profile picture, No chat. can only do a very basic country search.
ABFsingles:
Free to join but you have to have a paid membership to send messages.
No chat or forum, has picture, music and videos uploads, blogs, classifieds etc, a lot of options.
Site is moderated, and they have a lot of rules, but don't see them as a problem.
Site has been around for a while so it has a lot of members, site is in need of a update.
Can search members database by country, city, state or use advance search for more options
Easy to use, no complains , I been on it for awhile and haven't had no issues.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2020/05/25 02:11pm
By: Anonymous (Dudley)
Just closed my account on abfsingles.net. It let me answer 1 message I received. Then, after I received an answer to my response and I had typed in my reply it wouldn't let me send it. I got this message "In order to prevent spam, you may not send more than 1 messages per 24 hours. Please wait before sending another message." WTF? If you want me to pay say so! At least be upfront about it! This was just frustrating and insulting, and I won't pay for an account on a site that treats users this way.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2020/05/27 05:31pm
By: Anonymous (Morbius)
Quote by: AnonymousJust closed my account on abfsingles.net. It let me answer 1 message I received. Then, after I received an answer to my response and I had typed in my reply it wouldn't let me send it. I got this message "In order to prevent spam, you may not send more than 1 messages per 24 hours. Please wait before sending another message." WTF? If you want me to pay say so! At least be upfront about it! This was just frustrating and insulting, and I won't pay for an account on a site that treats users this way.
So how did they treat you bad, they never said you have unlimited message posting as a free member, you did get to use the site, (yes it is very limited) but you could of gotten a paid membership and make all the messages you wanted, seems they only give you a taste. If you want to drink your full you got to pay for it, heck some sites won't even let you in without paying, much less send messages, now there are free sites out there, but you're going to have to deal with a lot more fakes, scammers and solicitations, you get what you pay for.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2020/05/27 06:03pm
By: Anonymous (JackInNYC)
ABFsingles,
I have talked to about a dozen real women, taken it off line and spoken on the phone with a few. These sites are all heavy on hungry thirsty men, putting off women who are interested in finding a partner. You have to realize that. From your posts, you seem a bit butthurt and impatient. Gimmie a way to met women but I won't pay to help you run it as a passion project. I've found eager and happy women, but they don't appear out of thin age. Please grow up.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2020/07/29 06:49am
By: Rasputin
My Review and my suggested site choice
My preferred and favorite site is ANRelationships.com
The site is geared towards a higher serious quality of relationships for quality people.
I like the search and match functionality, easy to find people by searching country, city or state and the many search options in advance search.
I like the picture and video functionality, and Private and Video Chat.
The site is heavily moderated to keep the scammers, and those doing solicitations off the site, it doesn't allow any milkmaid services or solicitations of any kind, it's for people wanting real a real relationships, not a service call.
I also like the fact that there are two levels of memberships, each have aspects that most people would find attractive.
Free members can send messages to any other members, and if that person is a VIP members can also have full complete message communications with them, this is good for the free member who may want to see what it's like to be a VIP member who has full messages capabilities with all site members ( Regular members cannot read messages from other free members just VIP members), Free members can't view members adult rated pictures and videos, and don't have access to all site areas
VIP members have full message access to all members, so even free members can contact them with no restrictions between VIP and free members. this is what they call the VIP advantage, you also get full access to all site areas and can view the more adult rated members pictures and videos.
Video and private chat for VIP members, Free members don't have access to video and private chat. but have access to the public chat rooms
The site is aimed for the more mainstream people who you wouldn't normally find on your more fetishized sites, since for most people they don't consider this a fetish, you won't find the usual dick pictures in members main profile pictures you find virulent on the heavy fetishized sites, and since the site is geared for a more quality in relationships for it's members you won't find just miscellaneous Tit hanging out pictures in the main profile pictures, this help keeps the site focused on the ANR/ABF aspects of a quality relationships versus people just looking to view tit pictures and clogging the site with people who are only there for the pics and jerking material. the site allows members to upload more adult rated pictures ( they have a image quality standard so read before posting pics) in a member photo album which only VIP members can view adult rated images, this keeps the picture collectors away since they are only looking for free picture to spank the monkey to.
The site is really easy to use once you get the hang of it, but it does have a very slight learning curve.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2020/07/30 11:54pm
By: Anonymous (Milkman2020)
AdultBreastFeeding.us has migrated everything to a new domain called MilkSweetMilk.com and upgraded their cms seems like. They still have personals, but no forums anymore. Have a nice chatroom but feels empty. But locations and search is very much improved. They have cities and states available worldwide. And you can do a Geolocation search as well. Its definitely a much better user experience compared to old website but i thinks total number of their registered users is still not more than 5000-6000.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2020/07/31 12:34pm
By: Anonymous (not Jake from state farm)
Quote by: AnonymousAdultBreastFeeding.us has migrated everything to a new domain called MilkSweetMilk.com and upgraded their cms seems like. They still have personals, but no forums anymore. Have a nice chatroom but feels empty. But locations and search is very much improved. They have cities and states available worldwide. And you can do a Geolocation search as well. Its definitely a much better user experience compared to old website but i thinks total number of their registered users is still not more than 5000-6000.
Ok took a look, they copied ANRelationships.com format and search functionality but with much fewer modifications, (take a look at the sites layouts MilkSweetMilk is using a basic theme with just a few cosmetic and slight functionality differences, chat is different) a lot of videos from porn sites almost 100%, not from members, (ANRelationships only allow videos from actually members of only that member) you can just google lactation porn videos for that, looks more like a porn site on the home page ( I guess that's their hook), not like a site for people looking for a real ANR/ABF relationship, hookups yeah maybe.( I joined both to take a look under the hood.)
What I really don't like is people can change their gender and ages, this means you can get people doing some insidious stuff, they can change up gender and age to fake people out.
.
It looks like they transferred the profiles from the old site, but it doesn't look like a lot of people actually logged in to access the new site, you can tell by looking at the profiles and the lack of profile info like very few people have edited their profile just bare basic.
I guess it depends on what your'e looking for, More upscale versus not so much, I see them charging for this in the future because for them to get upgrades and site support from the people they brought the script from isn't free. it not a freebie Wordpress type site.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2020/10/11 07:16pm
By: Anonymous (Jameson2000)
MilkSweetMilk now has paid membership. Didn't last long as a free site.
You now must pay to:
- See when people were last online (I imagine they did this because the majority of women have not logged in since July)
- Send and receive photos via private message
- Send and receive unlimited messages
- View social media links
Instead of adding features, they have taken away features and put them behind a pay wall which is a damn shame.
ABF Heaven provides more functionality for free and has more active members.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2020/10/14 08:14pm
By: Anonymous (anon)
Quote by: AnonymousMilkSweetMilk now has paid membership. Didn't last long as a free site.
You now must pay to:
- See when people were last online (I imagine they did this because the majority of women have not logged in since July)
- Send and receive photos via private message
- Send and receive unlimited messages
- View social media links
Instead of adding features, they have taken away features and put them behind a pay wall which is a damn shame.
ABF Heaven provides more functionality for free and has more active members.
The majority of woman have not logged in at all. Their profiles have been transferred over from adultbreastfeeding.us to make it seem like there are a lot of women.
They have never logged in
Bit of a crafty move to be honest
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2020/10/18 05:45pm
By: Anonymous (not Jake from state farm)
Quote by: AnonymousMilkSweetMilk now has paid membership. Didn't last long as a free site.
You now must pay to:
- See when people were last online (I imagine they did this because the majority of women have not logged in since July)
- Send and receive photos via private message
- Send and receive unlimited messages
- View social media links
Instead of adding features, they have taken away features and put them behind a pay wall which is a damn shame.
ABF Heaven provides more functionality for free and has more active members.
The only thing about totally free sites is the massive amount of scammers and fakes they have on them, you have the solicitations, picture collectors, spammers ETC. they are only there because it's free, so you have to walk through the weeds much more just to find someone and a lot of the free sites have a none or little oversight.
What you need is a balance where serious people are more apt to find positive results while avoiding the bull, you need a site where you can do some things for free but for those who want something more, a place where only those who are really ready and serious can find each other, my vote ANRelationships they have a good mix where those who want the free site aspect can use those areas of the site while those wanting a more unique upgraded experience and site functionality can do that where they can find those more serious minded people which eliminates a lot of the undesirable elements. also the site is highly moderated to keep out those elements.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2020/10/23 12:28pm
By: Anonymous (Jameson2000)
Quote by: AnonymousQuote by: AnonymousMilkSweetMilk now has paid membership. Didn't last long as a free site.
You now must pay to:
- See when people were last online (I imagine they did this because the majority of women have not logged in since July)
- Send and receive photos via private message
- Send and receive unlimited messages
- View social media links
Instead of adding features, they have taken away features and put them behind a pay wall which is a damn shame.
ABF Heaven provides more functionality for free and has more active members.
The only thing about totally free sites is the massive amount of scammers and fakes they have on them, you have the solicitations, picture collectors, spammers ETC. they are only there because it's free, so you have to walk through the weeds much more just to find someone and a lot of the free sites have a none or little oversight.
What you need is a balance where serious people are more apt to find positive results while avoiding the bull, you need a site where you can do some things for free but for those who want something more, a place where only those who are really ready and serious can find each other, my vote ANRelationships they have a good mix where those who want the free site aspect can use those areas of the site while those wanting a more unique upgraded experience and site functionality can do that where they can find those more serious minded people which eliminates a lot of the undesirable elements. also the site is highly moderated to keep out those elements.
I've not come across the "massive amount of scammers and fakes" on ABF Heaven or other free websites such as Reddit and Fetlife. This a strawman argument.
This same argument is made by those who own ANRelationships and ABFSingles, and they also push the agenda that a site with a 'premium' membership will attract 'serious' people to the website.. I am yet to see this point proven. You just end up with less members overall. With the ratio of men to women already so high, why should I pay to use a website with very few active women?
This isn't coming from a point of entitlement. The point is, I am yet to see a reason to pay for a membership on websites such as ANRelationships and ABFSingles. Websites such as ABF Heaven, Fetlife, and Reddit are much much more active and are free.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2020/10/23 05:36pm
By: Anonymous (Not Jake from State Farm)
Quote by: AnonymousQuote by: AnonymousQuote by: AnonymousMilkSweetMilk now has paid membership. Didn't last long as a free site.
You now must pay to:
- See when people were last online (I imagine they did this because the majority of women have not logged in since July)
- Send and receive photos via private message
- Send and receive unlimited messages
- View social media links
Instead of adding features, they have taken away features and put them behind a pay wall which is a damn shame.
ABF Heaven provides more functionality for free and has more active members.
The only thing about totally free sites is the massive amount of scammers and fakes they have on them, you have the solicitations, picture collectors, spammers ETC. they are only there because it's free, so you have to walk through the weeds much more just to find someone and a lot of the free sites have a none or little oversight.
What you need is a balance where serious people are more apt to find positive results while avoiding the bull, you need a site where you can do some things for free but for those who want something more, a place where only those who are really ready and serious can find each other, my vote ANRelationships they have a good mix where those who want the free site aspect can use those areas of the site while those wanting a more unique upgraded experience and site functionality can do that where they can find those more serious minded people which eliminates a lot of the undesirable elements. also the site is highly moderated to keep out those elements.
I've not come across the "massive amount of scammers and fakes" on ABF Heaven or other free websites such as Reddit and Fetlife. This a strawman argument.
This same argument is made by those who own ANRelationships and ABFSingles, and they also push the agenda that a site with a 'premium' membership will attract 'serious' people to the website.. I am yet to see this point proven. You just end up with less members overall. With the ratio of men to women already so high, why should I pay to use a website with very few active women?
This isn't coming from a point of entitlement. The point is, I am yet to see a reason to pay for a membership on websites such as ANRelationships and ABFSingles. Websites such as ABF Heaven, Fetlife, and Reddit are much much more active and are free.
Really, everyone knows that the scammers, fakes, picture collectors and solicitors and time wasters are always prevalent on the free sites it just the way it is, why because they don't have anything stopping them, they're certainly aren't going to pay to send out spam, or to scam or do solicitations or sexting all day which they can do on a free site all day everyday to their heart content, what's stopping them.
So would you rather have quality or quantity, why have a lot of *censored* members that don't enhance the site experience.
Try doing a search for people on Fetlife, or Reddit by country, city, state or province, you can't, and ABF heaven is only recently playing caught up in that department. also ABF heaven has performance issue due to the low quality of the Wordpress theme I mean let's talk about basic word press theme and server it's on, they can't even send out notification emails when you get PMs because it bogs the site down till it's not functional so they turned it off, don't believe me read their site forum it's covered there.
Now as you said you don't see any reason to pay for a membership so how do you know how well things works on those sites that have memberships, you don't., bet you didn't know that free members on ANRelationships can use the site for free depending on who they are communicating with, there are some people who use it that way everyday with no issues. Can they use all the site functionality...No they can't but they can use it enough to contact and meet people.
People will always pay if they feel they will get a advantage, a bang for the buck so to speak, if it gives them a advantage over the masses and it cuts through kissing a lot of toads to find what they are looking for, people that are looking for someone that isn't a flyby night, someone willing to make a commitment to finding that right person, people that paid know that another person that also paid made that commitment by spending their hard earned cash. they know that person is serious, money talks loudly.
What you're paying for is eliminating the vast majority of those who aren't as serious as you are, plain and simple, as in all things in life you want a leg up over the masses you want to be with people who are willing to do the little extra just like you did to find that right person.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2020/10/24 06:10am
By: Anonymous (Jameson2000)
Quote by: Anonymous
Really, everyone knows that the scammers, fakes, picture collectors and solicitors and time wasters are always prevalent on the free sites it just the way it is, why because they don't have anything stopping them, they're certainly aren't going to pay to send out spam, or to scam or do solicitations or sexting all day which they can do on a free site all day everyday to their heart content, what's stopping them.
So would you rather have quality or quantity, why have a lot of *censored* members that don't enhance the site experience.
Try doing a search for people on Fetlife, or Reddit by country, city, state or province, you can't, and ABF heaven is only recently playing caught up in that department. also ABF heaven has performance issue due to the low quality of the Wordpress theme I mean let's talk about basic word press theme and server it's on, they can't even send out notification emails when you get PMs because it bogs the site down till it's not functional so they turned it off, don't believe me read their site forum it's covered there.
Now as you said you don't see any reason to pay for a membership so how do you know how well things works on those sites that have memberships, you don't., bet you didn't know that free members on ANRelationships can use the site for free depending on who they are communicating with, there are some people who use it that way everyday with no issues. Can they use all the site functionality...No they can't but they can use it enough to contact and meet people.
People will always pay if they feel they will get a advantage, a bang for the buck so to speak, if it gives them a advantage over the masses and it cuts through kissing a lot of toads to find what they are looking for, people that are looking for someone that isn't a flyby night, someone willing to make a commitment to finding that right person, people that paid know that another person that also paid made that commitment by spending their hard earned cash. they know that person is serious, money talks loudly.
What you're paying for is eliminating the vast majority of those who aren't as serious as you are, plain and simple, as in all things in life you want a leg up over the masses you want to be with people who are willing to do the little extra just like you did to find that right person.
You're beginning to sound like the owner of ANRelationships... I wouldn't be surprised if you are. As you would know, you can only send mail to 'premium' members on ANRelationships, and vice versa. There are very few premium members. What would anyone else do? Pay for membership, or move to a website which does not require paid membership?
I have met someone from ABF Heaven, Fetlife, and Reddit and I am speaking with someone from MilkSweetMilk. I have not met anyone from ABFSingles nor ANRelationships regardless of paid membership because most of the women are inactive. ANR is already nich. The proof is here. Both women and men mostly use the free sites.
ABF Heaven has it's issues, such as downtime, layout and design. But it is the most active website at present.
I understand it costs money to host websites, but I am yet to see a website active enough to justify a paid membership.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2020/10/24 11:35am
By: Anonymous (not Jake from state farm)
Quote by: AnonymousQuote by: Anonymous
Really, everyone knows that the scammers, fakes, picture collectors and solicitors and time wasters are always prevalent on the free sites it just the way it is, why because they don't have anything stopping them, they're certainly aren't going to pay to send out spam, or to scam or do solicitations or sexting all day which they can do on a free site all day everyday to their heart content, what's stopping them.
So would you rather have quality or quantity, why have a lot of *censored* members that don't enhance the site experience.
Try doing a search for people on Fetlife, or Reddit by country, city, state or province, you can't, and ABF heaven is only recently playing caught up in that department. also ABF heaven has performance issue due to the low quality of the Wordpress theme I mean let's talk about basic word press theme and server it's on, they can't even send out notification emails when you get PMs because it bogs the site down till it's not functional so they turned it off, don't believe me read their site forum it's covered there.
Now as you said you don't see any reason to pay for a membership so how do you know how well things works on those sites that have memberships, you don't., bet you didn't know that free members on ANRelationships can use the site for free depending on who they are communicating with, there are some people who use it that way everyday with no issues. Can they use all the site functionality...No they can't but they can use it enough to contact and meet people.
People will always pay if they feel they will get a advantage, a bang for the buck so to speak, if it gives them a advantage over the masses and it cuts through kissing a lot of toads to find what they are looking for, people that are looking for someone that isn't a flyby night, someone willing to make a commitment to finding that right person, people that paid know that another person that also paid made that commitment by spending their hard earned cash. they know that person is serious, money talks loudly.
What you're paying for is eliminating the vast majority of those who aren't as serious as you are, plain and simple, as in all things in life you want a leg up over the masses you want to be with people who are willing to do the little extra just like you did to find that right person.
You're beginning to sound like the owner of ANRelationships... I wouldn't be surprised if you are. As you would know, you can only send mail to 'premium' members on ANRelationships, and vice versa. There are very few premium members. What would anyone else do? Pay for membership, or move to a website which does not require paid membership?
I have met someone from ABF Heaven, Fetlife, and Reddit and I am speaking with someone from MilkSweetMilk. I have not met anyone from ABFSingles nor ANRelationships regardless of paid membership because most of the women are inactive. ANR is already nich. The proof is here. Both women and men mostly use the free sites.
ABF Heaven has it's issues, such as downtime, layout and design. But it is the most active website at present.
I understand it costs money to host websites, but I am yet to see a website active enough to justify a paid membership.
It sort of tells you that on the ANRelationship site, you know in the Knowledge section how the site works. anyone can read that, you don't have to be the owner to know that. maybe you should go to that section of the site and read the knowledge base, also you can send messages to anyone free or VIP member on the ANRelationships site, you would know that if you spend a minute reading how the site actually works, seems your pretty clueless on how that and any paid site works.
also MILKSWEETMILK isn't free to use the site anymore.
Just because you haven't met someone doesn't mean other people haven't. and since it's obvious you never paid for a membership anywhere so you don't have a clue how things actually work as a paid member anywhere.
Really you just want something for free.
So what metrics are you using to say ABF heaven is the most active website, by the number of deadbeat users?. if you using that as a metric Fetlife and Reddit have a multitude of more users.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2020/12/06 06:43am
By: Anonymous (Mudbone)
Quote by: AnonymousMilkSweetMilk now has paid membership. Didn't last long as a free site.
You now must pay to:
- See when people were last online (I imagine they did this because the majority of women have not logged in since July)
- Send and receive photos via private message
- Send and receive unlimited messages
- View social media links
Instead of adding features, they have taken away features and put them behind a pay wall which is a damn shame.
ABF Heaven provides more functionality for free and has more active members.
Really in all honestly ABF heaven has much less functionality, it's just free, and has less capacity, and running out of message space
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2021/02/01 01:57pm
By: Anonymous (not Jake from state farm)
Quote by: AnonymousQuote by: Anonymous
Really, everyone knows that the scammers, fakes, picture collectors and solicitors and time wasters are always prevalent on the free sites it just the way it is, why because they don't have anything stopping them, they're certainly aren't going to pay to send out spam, or to scam or do solicitations or sexting all day which they can do on a free site all day everyday to their heart content, what's stopping them.
So would you rather have quality or quantity, why have a lot of *censored* members that don't enhance the site experience.
Try doing a search for people on Fetlife, or Reddit by country, city, state or province, you can't, and ABF heaven is only recently playing caught up in that department. also ABF heaven has performance issue due to the low quality of the Wordpress theme I mean let's talk about basic word press theme and server it's on, they can't even send out notification emails when you get PMs because it bogs the site down till it's not functional so they turned it off, don't believe me read their site forum it's covered there.
Now as you said you don't see any reason to pay for a membership so how do you know how well things works on those sites that have memberships, you don't., bet you didn't know that free members on ANRelationships can use the site for free depending on who they are communicating with, there are some people who use it that way everyday with no issues. Can they use all the site functionality...No they can't but they can use it enough to contact and meet people.
People will always pay if they feel they will get a advantage, a bang for the buck so to speak, if it gives them a advantage over the masses and it cuts through kissing a lot of toads to find what they are looking for, people that are looking for someone that isn't a flyby night, someone willing to make a commitment to finding that right person, people that paid know that another person that also paid made that commitment by spending their hard earned cash. they know that person is serious, money talks loudly.
What you're paying for is eliminating the vast majority of those who aren't as serious as you are, plain and simple, as in all things in life you want a leg up over the masses you want to be with people who are willing to do the little extra just like you did to find that right person.
You're beginning to sound like the owner of ANRelationships... I wouldn't be surprised if you are. As you would know, you can only send mail to 'premium' members on ANRelationships, and vice versa. There are very few premium members. What would anyone else do? Pay for membership, or move to a website which does not require paid membership?
I have met someone from ABF Heaven, Fetlife, and Reddit and I am speaking with someone from MilkSweetMilk. I have not met anyone from ABFSingles nor ANRelationships regardless of paid membership because most of the women are inactive. ANR is already nich. The proof is here. Both women and men mostly use the free sites.
ABF Heaven has it's issues, such as downtime, layout and design. But it is the most active website at present.
I understand it costs money to host websites, but I am yet to see a website active enough to justify a paid membership.
So much wrong with this post
1- MilkSweetMilk IS a paid site
2- People on the free sites complain about scammers and time wasters on those sites, take a look in the ABFheaven forums
3- People use all the different type of sites, paid and free, of course you'll get more on the free sites, because they are free, which is also why scammers and timewasters are there, don't cost them nothing to do their thing, they aren't going to pay for anything.
4- The vast majority of women that register on free sites aren't active. they just post profiles and leave. since they have no skin in the game there is no reason to stick around.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2021/02/18 11:26pm
By: Anonymous (Jacki)
My reviews:
ABF Singles:
This website was alright a few years ago when it was one of the few ANR dating sites. However it has been very poor recently. It is not as active as before. You must also pay to comment or send messages when it was not like that before.
I find the moderation a bit hit and miss. They are really odd. They have this weird thing about "personal information" in statuses (such as usernames for chat apps). You'll find every other status has been edited by a moderator or admin. They say it's to protect your personal info, but in reality they don't want anyone to contact you without paying for membership.
What I do find rather strange is when ANRelationships first opened, the owner/Admin of ABF Singles critisized ANRelationships owner on Fetlife for offering paid memberships. (Something about how men can't run ANR/ABF websites) Yet, these were introduced very soon after onto ABF Singles.
Final verdict: This site is a relic of the past. Most have moved onto other ANR/ABF sites.
ANRelationships:
Somewhat very similar to ABF Singles interface but with more features. I find the website UI to be inconsistent. The splash page pics look very amatuer as they are all stretched out.
Much like ABF Singles most are inactive. Though you can sort members by activity unlike ABF Singles. In the past you could send a limited number of messages and comment on peoples profiles. You cannot do any of that without paying now. However you can reply to messages recieved by paying members.
The website moderation is very good, and banned profiles are displayed so you can make note of the fake pics people use for future reference.
Final verdict: Better than ABF Singles but loses points for awful cropped images and weird stock images. Inconsistent UI. Many inactive members. Very good moderation.
MilkSweetMilk:
The newcomer. Started off as completely free. There is a membership fee now. However you can send a limited number of messages for free.
The website UI is very clean and easy to use. It strips back features for a very simple website. No blogs or feeds here. Just profiles.
Quite a few active profiles. However there are many, mang inactive profiles which have obviously been taken from the old website "Adultbreastfeeding.us".
Final verdict: Worth signing up for as you can still message for free. Has spikes of activity as it's a relatively new ABF site.
ABF Heaven:
Vert different from the rest. A very basic forum style website that is 100% free to use. There is a real community aspect on here which I like. This is by far the most active ABF website right now.
Moderation is ok. It's done by a single person but I've not come across any fakes.
The bad thing is the website does not send out any email notifications so you find yourself logging in constantly which can be annoying.
My verdict: Join! It's completely free! But bear in mind you have to keep logging in to see your notifications.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2021/02/23 07:17am
By: Anonymous (Not Jake from State Farm)
After reading this review, I feel that while I may agree with some things, the sections and ABFSingles and MilkSweetMilk I just can't wrap my head around what was said about Anrelationships and ABFheaven
Site Visuals:
ABF Heaven:
ABF Heaven hasn't had a update in many years totally out of date. not much investment done since it first started for upgrades.
MilkSweetMilk
MilksweetMilk look the same internally like ABF Heaven because they were made from the same basic script, just that MilksweetMilk is a newer update of the same script.
ANRelationships:
Splash page: from what I see it's better that all the sites this person reviewed, since none of the others have one at all.
ANRelationships is also a more recent updated version of the same script and much more modified, than ABFHeaven, MilkSweetMilk. they all share the same roots in design.
ANRelationship is based on a much more newer version and with many more features.
All three sites use the same basic UI since they all have the same roots some are more updated than others and have more menu items.
All the sites are owned by different entities.
ABFheaven;
Is a totally 100% basic Wordpress site, with basic features and functionality it's based off a free Wordpress template, has zero styling and appearance, has very limited profile information of the members.
About Memberships:
One thing that ANRelationships does is let you know the last time when someone visited the site, which the others don't really do, you can't tell when the person was last onsite on the other sites so you don't know if they are active or not. with ANRelationships you can tell who's online and how long ago the person was last online.
Site Activity:
ABF heaven have a small vocal group that are very active in it's forum, basically the same people posting, and replying to each other. the other sites are much more profile driven so they don't have as active a forum if they have one at all and since they ( The other sites) have more invested in having a more engaging interactive member profile experience most people go right into interacting one on one with other members than in forums.
Site Moderation;
ABFSingles: can be spotty, but it has some.
MilkSweetMilk: I really can't tell if they have any or not
ABFHeaven: the owner does what he can and tries to stay proactive but being a free site it has many members that would of been booted or wouldn't of join the paid sites. people complain in the forums about fake and scam profiles and nuisance members.
ANRelationships: Moderated constantly, banned members profile are available to review, you'll see these same profiles on the other sites. and they will place people in site administrative time out or banned them completely if they violated site rules, the site have a three strike rule for people that violate site rules, three strikes and you're banned, and if it's a major violation, it's one and your done.
Site Cost:
ABF Singles: Paid Site
MilkSweetMilk: Paid Site
ANRelationships: Paid Site
ABFHeaven: Free site
In Conclusion:
If price point is a issue and you don't mind limited site functionality very limited member profile data and much more questionable members profiles and mediocre site visual appeal: ABFHeaven is the place for you, The site owner does what he can and tries hard but with no funding but it has to be tough for him, but since it's totally free, you got nothing to lose by joining.
If price point isn't a issue and you want much more site functionality and better more interactive member profiles and fewer questionable members profiles: the paid sites maybe more to your liking. I would join them in this order.
ANRelationships; More of a exclusive site much more site features and functionality. always having updates and features added without the limitations of the free sites.
MilkSweetMilk; has good functionality and member profiles recent updates.
ABF Singles; decent functionality and so-so members profile just a really dated site, haven't been updated in years but it still give a punch after all these years.
So it all depends on what you the consumer wants or find most appealing, take a look at them all and find one or all of them that are right for you and join them, kick the tires and light the fire.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites ( updates)
Posted on: 2021/04/04 06:54am
By: Anonymous (Not Jake from State Farm)
I need to update,
ABF Singles:
I see that ABF singles has finally gotten around to updating their site to improve their functionality, so now it almost like ANRelationships (both sites have the same DNA but owned by totally different entities) with a lot less features, and you can't send any free messages on ABF singles anymore, you have to paid a fee now for everything.
ANRelationships has teamed with Cinefanz:
There is a new site for those people that like posting lactation pictures and videos and want to monetize them called Cinefanz so if you got original content and want to get paid for it post it there, really you can post whatever you want as long as it's doesn't violate the Cinefanz site rules, it's open to all adults over 18+ only. you don't have to be a member of Anrelationships to join Cinefanz which is open to everyone no matter where they may have a profile posted.
ANRelationships still has free message posting for free members.
ABFheaven:
Has reduced site message storage to not more than 3 months. doing some changes to the site member map. added a couple of features like audio-stories you can listen to. and jigsaw puzzle game. still free to post
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2021/04/14 09:33pm
By: Anonymous (MissMilkALot)
Quote by: AnonymousMy reviews:
ABF Singles:
This website was alright a few years ago when it was one of the few ANR dating sites. However it has been very poor recently. It is not as active as before. You must also pay to comment or send messages when it was not like that before.
I find the moderation a bit hit and miss. They are really odd. They have this weird thing about "personal information" in statuses (such as usernames for chat apps). You'll find every other status has been edited by a moderator or admin. They say it's to protect your personal info, but in reality they don't want anyone to contact you without paying for membership.
What I do find rather strange is when ANRelationships first opened, the owner/Admin of ABF Singles critisized ANRelationships owner on Fetlife for offering paid memberships. (Something about how men can't run ANR/ABF websites) Yet, these were introduced very soon after onto ABF Singles.
Final verdict: This site is a relic of the past. Most have moved onto other ANR/ABF sites.
ANRelationships:
Somewhat very similar to ABF Singles interface but with more features. I find the website UI to be inconsistent. The splash page pics look very amatuer as they are all stretched out.
Much like ABF Singles most are inactive. Though you can sort members by activity unlike ABF Singles. In the past you could send a limited number of messages and comment on peoples profiles. You cannot do any of that without paying now. However you can reply to messages recieved by paying members.
The website moderation is very good, and banned profiles are displayed so you can make note of the fake pics people use for future reference.
Final verdict: Better than ABF Singles but loses points for awful cropped images and weird stock images. Inconsistent UI. Many inactive members. Very good moderation.
MilkSweetMilk:
The newcomer. Started off as completely free. There is a membership fee now. However you can send a limited number of messages for free.
The website UI is very clean and easy to use. It strips back features for a very simple website. No blogs or feeds here. Just profiles.
Quite a few active profiles. However there are many, mang inactive profiles which have obviously been taken from the old website "Adultbreastfeeding.us".
Final verdict: Worth signing up for as you can still message for free. Has spikes of activity as it's a relatively new ABF site.
ABF Heaven:
Vert different from the rest. A very basic forum style website that is 100% free to use. There is a real community aspect on here which I like. This is by far the most active ABF website right now.
Moderation is ok. It's done by a single person but I've not come across any fakes.
The bad thing is the website does not send out any email notifications so you find yourself logging in constantly which can be annoying.
My verdict: Join! It's completely free! But bear in mind you have to keep logging in to see your notifications.
I would just like to correct a few statements made about what was said on fetlife. I said historically websites in our lifestyle owned by men have failed. Mainly because they become sausage fests. (See we all used to know each other and talk) Also, another competing now defunct ANR/ABF male website owner commented supporting my statement as his was then failing. In addition I did encourage any growth (including competitors) to help our community and lifestyle grow. Us old timers realize distance has always been an issue. Only one way to overcome that...more people.
Secondly, I did not criticize him for offering paid membership.. I criticized him for only be in it to make money vs being in it to build the community, to which he openly and repeated on fetlife he was only in it for the money. Vastly different in my opinion. My websites have had paid memberships since 2012.
Yeah Yeah I have commented here before..yes you are welcome to not agree with the guidelines we have created and built over the years (also copied by above mentioned other sites) but both of my sites have very high Alexa rankings (a clue to hosting costs) which I use to not just gauge my business success but also to comply with the GDPR, California 's Online Privacy regulations and every other additional countries new regulations they come up with as I am required to as a business. On adult sites yes..publicly personal identifiable information (anything someone can stalk you with) is not permitted....legally.... Guess what!?!? The GDPR has a regulation on the table about requiring all adult sites to have member submit a legal ID to be verified before acceptance. See once and if, these other sites get high enough on the Alexa ranking...same boat or pay fines that could easily add up to six figures... So carry on with the complaints and I will carry on keeping up the legal changes and everything else it takes not just for my business but the community I have been working to support and grow for a decade. I would really love to see the distance gap overcome in my lifetime.
Sincerely,
MissMilkALot
P.S. yeah you can also go post this on the wordpress site.. the blog about this site on that one shows up in a google search as it doesn't have security and all users are visible. I take pride in is protecting the privacy of our members.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2021/04/14 09:41pm
By: Anonymous (MissMilkALot)
Quote by: AnonymousI need to update,
ABF Singles:
I see that ABF singles has finally gotten around to updating their site to improve their functionality, so now it almost like ANRelationships (both sites have the same DNA but owned by totally different entities) with a lot less features, and you can't send any free messages on ABF singles anymore, you have to paid a fee now for everything.
ANRelationships has teamed with Cinefanz:
There is a new site for those people that like posting lactation pictures and videos and want to monetize them called Cinefanz so if you got original content and want to get paid for it post it there, really you can post whatever you want as long as it's doesn't violate the Cinefanz site rules, it's open to all adults over 18+ only. you don't have to be a member of Anrelationships to join Cinefanz which is open to everyone no matter where they may have a profile posted.
ANRelationships still has free message posting for free members.
ABFheaven:
Has reduced site message storage to not more than 3 months. doing some changes to the site member map. added a couple of features like audio-stories you can listen to. and jigsaw puzzle game. still free to post
My old software company was bought out by the same company that the other website you mentioned uses. We couldn't get software updates for a long time without redoing the entire site. It was not my choice to have the same software.
Thanks for the breakdown on what the other one is doing. I have been working to get this lifestyle separated from being perceived as porn. Others have lumped it right in there. Everyone has a right to have their own business model. One day I hope to not need to explain it's not porn it's about healing, spirituality and true intimacy....building a bond like no other.
A girl can dream...
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2021/04/16 06:06am
By: Anonymous (Not Jake from State Farm)
Quote by: AnonymousQuote by: AnonymousI need to update,
ABF Singles:
I see that ABF singles has finally gotten around to updating their site to improve their functionality, so now it almost like ANRelationships (both sites have the same DNA but owned by totally different entities) with a lot less features, and you can't send any free messages on ABF singles anymore, you have to paid a fee now for everything.
ANRelationships has teamed with Cinefanz:
There is a new site for those people that like posting lactation pictures and videos and want to monetize them called Cinefanz so if you got original content and want to get paid for it post it there, really you can post whatever you want as long as it's doesn't violate the Cinefanz site rules, it's open to all adults over 18+ only. you don't have to be a member of Anrelationships to join Cinefanz which is open to everyone no matter where they may have a profile posted.
ANRelationships still has free message posting for free members.
ABFheaven:
Has reduced site message storage to not more than 3 months. doing some changes to the site member map. added a couple of features like audio-stories you can listen to. and jigsaw puzzle game. still free to post
My old software company was bought out by the same company that the other website you mentioned uses. We couldn't get software updates for a long time without redoing the entire site. It was not my choice to have the same software.
Thanks for the breakdown on what the other one is doing. I have been working to get this lifestyle separated from being perceived as porn. Others have lumped it right in there. Everyone has a right to have their own business model. One day I hope to not need to explain it's not porn it's about healing, spirituality and true intimacy....building a bond like no other.
A girl can dream...
Thanks for the update and good to see the site updated:
What most people don't understand is that the paid sites have much more of a legal obligation to members than a free site to protect members info they also have to follow the rules of the countries that they are doing business in to do transactions. you'll notice that the free site usually don't have anything to guard against being viewed by minors, or cookie warnings or anything about GDRP, no privacy, terms of services pages, that all paid site have. also they can shut down at anytime since they have no obligations to the site members, while paid site have a obligation to it's paid members.
A lot of the free site are more of a passion project where the owners are usually also dating the members (not all free sites but some) not saying it doesn't happen on paid site also but it's not the motivating factor for having the site and keeping it running which is why most male owned free site die off once the owner get tired of dating or finds someone and the need is no longer there.
Also about the ANRelationship site, people can use the site for free to contact members but it has restrictions on who you can have full access with, for example any free member can freely contact a paid member (Send, Read and Reply to messages), no problem, so as long as a free member is only contacting a paid member no issues but there is a 25 message limit for that free member. free members do not have access to all site features.
Free members can send messages to other free members, but to be able to read and reply to the message you have to be a paid member, so free members can send messages to anyone on site no matter their membership level, but only paid members can read and reply to them.
Paid members have full site access, they can send, read and reply to everyone no matter what their membership level is and all membership levels can also send, read and reply to paid members. this gives the greater advantage to paid members over free members in making more contacts since they have full access to everyone.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2021/04/19 03:52pm
By: Anonymous (MissMilkAlot)
I started as a passion project. ...
I miss being just a passion project. Things were simple.
I have to wear two hats now; one business and the other my personal passion. The business one is in charge most of the time. The passion one spends most of her time duct taped up in the trunk so she cannot voice her opinion on so so many things (it comes out on cam in the chat rooms sometimes). I just really do not like being miss quoted, especially in the context of a conversation where I was defending women being objectified and I see it turned against me.
I do thank you for honestly reviewing the sites. It is useful to have for all of the sites.
Before you post it... yes singles needs another update! I know. I’m super not happy with this new company. They have horrible reviews and took my site down for 10 days. It will happen but Connections first. Singles birthday is June... maybe new software?!? We shall see.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2021/05/08 06:16pm
By: Anonymous (Not Jake from State Farm)
ABF Singles:
Nothing really new since their last site update. last site news update was almost two years ago
Still chugging along,
ANR Connection:
Nothing new, the forum is very slow hasn't had a post in about two years, Blogs are a little more active than the forum.
Still chugging along.
MilksweetMilk:
Now have a PWA (progressive web app) which let you place their web app on your devices.
ABF Heaven:
Sites look like it's going to get a server upgrade, they are starting to have major functionality issues with not being to access site and connecting to database really intermittent at this time but will only get worse until they get their upgrade. (since this is a free site they depend on donations so upgrades are slow since it isn't free to do server upgrades so they have to wait until enough donations are made.)
Shutdown of the chat section, it was causing extreme server loading issues, maybe once they change servers they can bring this feature back.
Stopped with email notifications because of these issues so you don't get emails whenever someone tries to contact you, maybe this will be corrected with the upgrade.
Seems the forum and puzzle section are popular site features.
ANRelationship:
Has a new thing called the ANR/ABF Refugee program, where if you are a current member of these sites.
ABFsingles, MilksweetMilk, ABFheaven or ANRconnections they are giving a free 7 day upgrade to VIP member status to new members just for joining, to get the upgrade you have to use the same username you use on those sites and you must select in the registration which site you are a refugee from which they will check to view your profile on that site for confirmation, once confirmed you get the upgrade. you must notify ANRelationship support after you join them to let them know you are a refugee by sending them a message saying you joined, and your username, I believe this will be valid from 5/7/2021 to 5/15/2021, they did this back in April so this is the second time they are making this offer.
Anrelationships added a new way to be matched by political leanings in their matchmaker section: so it makes it easier to find people for a match if political leanings are important to you.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2021/08/06 10:39am
By: Anonymous (Bertfrombrum)
i dont know why 'jake' speaks in third person about anrelationships.
he is the owner of anrelationships
everyone on fetlife was tired of his constant advertising of his website so he kept on making new accounts
he even posed as a trans person to try and advertise the website as another user which i find very strange
he does the same thing on reddit whenever someone create a new anr abf website. he jumps into the topic to advertise his website
he pops up like crab grass in every single anr abf related website
really desperate of him
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2021/08/25 04:03pm
By: ANRelationships
Guess again Bertfrombrum,
It's a hoot reading your post, maybe you should also check out twitter you forgot to name that one, the deal is this you most likely have or had a profile on the ANRelationships site, and if you haven't you should it has a lot to offer, now yes it's not a totally free site, most are not, but have you ever wonder why the same people that are on a free site are willing to also be on any paid site, that should tell you that it offers something the free site does not that they are willing to paid to access. but whatever those reasons are it something they consider as value added.
How did you find your way here, was it a post somewhere, seems whatever way you got here it worked,
And that's all that really matters.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2021/08/28 01:06pm
By: Anonymous (Bertfrombrum)
I see you've remembered your login details
Your reply has nothing to do with what I said. I never mentioned anything about your website being paid.
You have once again created another persona on fetlife under the name "Aquaboogie". Very strange how they are directing users to all your other websites! Now why would anyone do that? If they are a fan of anrelationships then sure, but the fact that user is also directing people to tsrelationships and 420armour (two other websites operated by you) makes it pretty damn obvious.
I am not on your website as there are better free alternatives now out there now.
I dont have a problem with paid websites I used to pay in the past when there weren't many ABF sites out there.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2021/09/14 09:12pm
By: Anonymous (Morbius)
The post you're talking about on Fetlife lists at least five ANR/ABF sites, with no links to any of them, so are you saying the sites are owned by the same person. last I looked ABF Heaven is owned by a guy name Michael in the UK and ABF Singles and ANR connections is owned by a lady that posted here. what about Milksweetmilk you're casting a board net that is full of holes.
Also the person has profiles on those sites so they listed the sites they have profiles on, do you have a problem when people link their Onlyfans, Pornhub or Manyvids page on their Fetlife profile so you can go pay to view their pictures and videos, it seems two thirds of the women do that on Fetlife.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2021/09/14 09:19pm
By: Anonymous (Morbius)
In Case someone is wondering about what was written:
Here are some sites that are considered ANR/ABF sites, Fetlife is not considered a
stand alone ANR/ABF site. you can only link to any site that is a stand alone ANR/ABF site, it doesn't have to be any that are listed they are only examples, there are a lot of other sites out there, so you may want Google to find them.
ABF Singles
ANRelationships
ABF Heaven
ANR Connections
Milk Sweet Milk
Land of Milk and Honey
AdultBreastFeeding.us
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2021/09/19 01:36pm
By: Anonymous (Bertfrombrum)
You know very well that's not what I'm saying.
You've created a fake profile on Fetlife named "AquaBoogie" which links websites owned and managed by you "Invisible Sun Entertainment Group".
I am not taking about any other ANR websites.
This profile only has links to your websites. Yet pretends to not know ANR/ABF dating websites exist. Yet, this profile has also created a group asking people to link their profiles from other sites into that group. You are doing this to monitor who is a member of rival websites.
Let me clarify. The admin of ANRelationships (and other sites managed by the above such as Tsrelationships, 420amour etc) has created multiple aliases on websites like Fetlife. First, he kept on spamming his website everywhere. Then, as people caught on, he created fake accounts on Reddit and Fetlife in an attempt to advertise his website. Now, he is posing as a woman on Fetlife (Username AquaBoogie) in another attempt to get people to join his websites. He is also trying to monitor who is a member of 'rival' websites.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2021/09/23 07:35pm
By: ANRelationships
My My My, you must work for one of the other sites, If you had a membership on our site you would know how we collect data on who are on other sites, and we don't need Fetlife to do that at all, Now about the person in question, they actually have a profile on two of our sites, if you had a membership you would of known that, let me ask you this do you have a problem with women that have profiles on OnlyFans, Pornhub ETC. on Fetlife, do you complain about that when they post on Fetlife with links to their profile, I don't think so, how strange, it's only the sites we own that you have issues with, sure you don't work for a rival site.
Now where are all these post you're talking about, I didn't see any post from Aquaboogie that tells anyone to join Anrelationships or any other site we have. as a matter of fact she talks about all the ANR/ABF sites in equal terms and tells people to join any or all the different sites with no recommendations whatsoever on which to join, seems to me that ALL the ANR/ABF sites would benefited from that, not just one as you like people to believe, and she doesn't link to any of them in any of her post as a matter of fact she explains why she set up her group the way she did and I direct quote from her group About Section:
"The reason for this is because we only want those who are really wanting to meet people and have taken the extra step and effort to finding that special person by their willingness to expand their reach in meeting that person."
Have no idea why you're going after this person, maybe you tried to hit her up and she turned you away, she does seem particular on who she wants to get to know on Fetlife. sour grapes maybe.
Next time you post how about showing any post or links she made that tells anyone to join or any recommendations to join any of our sites.
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2021/09/24 12:54pm
By: Anonymous (Bertfrombrum)
Re: ANR/ABF Dating Sites
Posted on: 2021/09/24 06:09pm
By: ANRelationships
You must be WillFrisco
Seeing that you made screenshots of all his post on Fetlife where he said the exact same things you're saying here and you block out his/your name, tsk tsk tsk, Come on Will what really happen between you and Aquaboogie, I see you didn't make a screen shot of when you tried to join her group and she blocked you from her profile you made a comment about it, it's in the group thread that you didn't make a screen shot of, and remember I said what Aquaboogie posted... I see you have nothing about anything she might of posted on Fetlife saying to post on any of the sites we own where's the screen shots you like the post, nothing there Eh, didn't produce nothing to substantiate your claims, you know what you were complaining about, seems what you have is where she say to just use Goggle to find a ANR/ABF sites YMMV, didn't see anywhere she said to post on any specific website. seems that would benefit all the ANR/ABF sites not just any one in particular.
The post on Reddit that's on me have no problem trying to help people who are lost, those guys on Reddit never get any replies to their post looking for a ANR/ABF like in never ever, no need for them to wander in the wilderness so to speak, and 420amour, yeah we own that site too, light em and take a puff you need it dude. We used to have ads on Pornhub think we'll just renew our ads there, then when the ladies that have ads on Pornhub link to it on their Fetlife profiles, Guess what!!! I think you missed the Twitter pages we have also, Never said we didn't post of Reddit, that's what it's for
Give it a break Will.