The Secret To Attracting The Love Of Your Life

When people find out you've dedicated yourself to studying relationships, offering dating advice, and helping singles find love, they inevitably have a lot of questions.

How do I find a man who's x, y, and z?

How do I write an online dating profile that actually gets noticed?

How do I approach a woman?

How do I ask someone for their number?

How do I go in for the kiss without being rejected?

If you've thought it, I've probably heard it. But one question always strikes me as the most interesting: If you could give me one piece of advice - just one - what would it be?

It's a difficult question to answer - I've learned so many fascinating things over the years and I want to share them all! - but one piece of advice always stands out from the crowd: If you want to meet the person of your dreams, create an amazing, irresistible lifestyle.

Meeting your match is about more than understanding body language and knowing the perfect opening line - it's about being, at your core, an interesting and attractive person.

Rather than having to chase after love for the rest of your life, wouldn't you rather be the kind of person that others want to pursue? A happy and fulfilling love life starts with being happy and fulfilled in the rest of your life. A person who has a negative attitude, a job they hate, and doesn't spend time doing the things they're passionate about is not someone you want to spend your life with, On the other hand, a person who sets goals and pursues them, has a positive outlook, indulges in hobbies they enjoy, and has a career they love is extremely attractive.

To put it simply: when you have an amazing life, others will want to be a part of it.

So how do you become the positive, energetic, passionate, well-rounded, interesting individual that everyone will want to meet? How do you create a lifestyle that you love, and that naturally attracts other equally-amazing people into your life?

There's no easy way to do it - it takes some soul-searching and a lot of hard work and dedication - but it's worth every minute you spend, because the outcome is much more than a blossoming love life. Developing an attractive lifestyle will improve all areas of your life, from your career, to your friendships, to your physical health.

Continue on to Part II for a few tips on creating a life you love.