The Secret To Attracting The Love Of Your Life (Part II)

When the honeymoon period wears off, what's left? It's not your looks or funny pickup lines that create lasting attraction - it's your lifestyle. It's obvious to others when you have a life that you're proud of, passionate about, and fulfilled by, and nothing is more seductive than that. Love comes not from the words you say, but from the things that make you, on the deepest level, you.

What does it take to create a life that you genuinely enjoy living, every day? A life that allows you to live your dreams, and experience everything you want to experience? A life that leaves you fulfilled, and attracts interesting, passionate people?

Creating the lifestyle you want is an ongoing process, but here are a few tips to get you started:

1) Be open to new experiences. Sometimes happiness comes from unexpected places, but you'll never know unless you're willing to explore and challenge your boundaries. Meet as many people as possible, because one connection lead to another and you never know who you might find. Live in the moment and embrace whatever comes your way.

2) Do what you love. Apply this rule to all areas of your life, both professional and personal. Never do something because you think you have to or because you believe that other people expect it of you. Find what you're passionate about, ignore people who want (consciously or unconsciously) to limit you, and do it. This includes reevaluating your career - a job that makes you miserable is not a job worth keeping, because you will project your misery on everyone around you.

3) Embrace your inner child. Can you remember what it was like to be a child? Children are curious, enthusiastic, unselfconscious, and full of joy. They live in a state of wonder. They favor the fun over the serious. They are constantly learning and experiencing new things, and meeting new people. This attitude is the foundation of an amazing life.

4) Cultivate confidence and positivity. Destroy limiting beliefs and know, genuinely, that you can be whoever you want to be and accomplish whatever you want to accomplish. Find the fun in everything, even life's most mundane tasks. When you believe that you are high-value and attractive, others will too.

These tips are just a starting point. Creating the life you want is a process that will probably never end, but it's one of the most important things you will ever do. Be open, passionate, positive, and enthusiastic, and good things will come your way.