How To Be A Sugar Daddy

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  • Monday, September 19 2011 @ 09:25 am
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Ever wondered what it's like to be Hugh Hefner? I can't help you with the mansion, lavish parties, and flash cars (or the cryptkeeper look and Viagra dependency), but I can help you create a Hefner-like love life. We've covered 4 of the basic rules of being a sugar baby already, so now let's have a look at what it takes to be an in-demand sugar daddy.

Finding a sugar baby, in the age of the Internet, is as easy as logging onto one of the many sugar daddy dating sites that can be found on the World Wide Web. Simply sign up, fill out a profile, and start searching. The real question is: what do you do after you've found a suitable sugar baby? How does a sugar arrangement work? Is it different from other kinds of dating relationships?

To master the art of being a successful sugar daddy, follow these rules:

  1. Know exactly what you're looking for, and what you can afford. Misrepresentation is an epidemic plaguing every online dating site, and sugar daddy dating is no exception. Before entering the sugar lifestyle, be clear about what kind of companionship you're looking for. Gorgeous arm candy? Friendship? Sex? A relationship that could develop into something more meaningful? Be upfront with potential sugar babies about what you're seeking and what you plan to provide, and don't enter any arrangement that that will force you to live beyond your means.

  2. Market yourself. Competition is fierce in the world of sugar daddy dating. In an environment in which the available men are often significantly older than their female companions, the most attractive (in every sense of the word) sugar daddies are in high demand. "Attractive," in this case, goes far beyond physical appearance. Are you funny, charming, well-read, artistic, or musically talented? Have you traveled the world? Can you play a sport or speak a foreign language? What makes you unique and desirable? Play up your strengths to stand out from the crowd.

  3. Be safe. Don't think that, just because you're a man and not a woman, this rule doesn't apply to you. Online dating can be dangerous for anyone who isn't careful. Be cautious about the information you share, and do your best to protect yourself from the unscrupulous people who lurk online. Sugar daddy relationships are financial arrangements, but that doesn't mean that you should be frivolous about your finances. Beware of scammers and gold-diggers who are not genuinely interested in being part of the sugar lifestyle.

  4. Act the part. If you don't want to live up to the image and expectations of being a sugar daddy, don't be one. Sugar babies have their visions about what the arrangement will be like, just like sugar daddies. Dress sharply. Be generous and charming. Spoil your sugar babies. Walk the walk and talk the talk. Live up to the fantasy.

Now go get your Hefner on.

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