Are You a Gold Digger?
- Thursday, March 31 2011 @ 09:23 am
- Contributed by: kellyseal
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We all know the stereotype of a gold digger. These are women who are only after a man’s wallet, and nothing less than wealthy will do. They are superficial and don’t fall victim to romance, but instead prefer financial security. While this is true for some women, it’s not for the majority. Or is it?
According to recent studies, young women are more likely to graduate college and get jobs than their male counterparts. Many women are financially independent and successful in their careers compared to 30 years ago. Despite all of these accomplishments, there are still many women who are looking for men who are successful, ambitious, and let’s face it…rich.
Is this because they are looking to for men who are more ambitious than they are? Or are they craving a certain lifestyle, and are ready to throw in the career towel as soon as they find men who can provide it?
While the reasons vary, there’s no doubt about it: many women prefer men who are wealthy. While they don’t have to be Donald Trump, there is something appealing about men who own houses, their own businesses, and who have put everything else on hold to further their career and financial success. Women find a sense of security in dating men who can provide well. It’s attractive during the dating process to be taken to five-star restaurants and on romantic getaways. It heightens the romance, but should wealth be such an important factor in deciding if a man is right for you?
Instead of dismissing men who aren’t as financially successful as you’d like, try keeping a more open mind. Perhaps they are putting themselves through school to obtain a higher degree and get higher salaries. Or perhaps they have been through divorce and are building their assets back up. Maybe they are aspiring comedians or writers. Whatever the case, if they are happy in their careers and taking steps to improve their financial security, isn’t this just as attractive?
My advice is to think past the material success you crave now in a man to how you may feel ten years down the line. Will you still enjoy his company? What if he loses his money? Ultimately, you are partnering with the person, not his wallet.
Also, keep in mind that you can create your own financial success if you want a better lifestyle. Anyone can build career success with talent, hard work, and dedication. There’s no reason to wait for someone else to provide that for you.
According to recent studies, young women are more likely to graduate college and get jobs than their male counterparts. Many women are financially independent and successful in their careers compared to 30 years ago. Despite all of these accomplishments, there are still many women who are looking for men who are successful, ambitious, and let’s face it…rich.
Is this because they are looking to for men who are more ambitious than they are? Or are they craving a certain lifestyle, and are ready to throw in the career towel as soon as they find men who can provide it?
While the reasons vary, there’s no doubt about it: many women prefer men who are wealthy. While they don’t have to be Donald Trump, there is something appealing about men who own houses, their own businesses, and who have put everything else on hold to further their career and financial success. Women find a sense of security in dating men who can provide well. It’s attractive during the dating process to be taken to five-star restaurants and on romantic getaways. It heightens the romance, but should wealth be such an important factor in deciding if a man is right for you?
Instead of dismissing men who aren’t as financially successful as you’d like, try keeping a more open mind. Perhaps they are putting themselves through school to obtain a higher degree and get higher salaries. Or perhaps they have been through divorce and are building their assets back up. Maybe they are aspiring comedians or writers. Whatever the case, if they are happy in their careers and taking steps to improve their financial security, isn’t this just as attractive?
My advice is to think past the material success you crave now in a man to how you may feel ten years down the line. Will you still enjoy his company? What if he loses his money? Ultimately, you are partnering with the person, not his wallet.
Also, keep in mind that you can create your own financial success if you want a better lifestyle. Anyone can build career success with talent, hard work, and dedication. There’s no reason to wait for someone else to provide that for you.
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