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Here is my experiance of adult 'dating' sites.

I have used numerous sites, I won't mention which ones as my post will probably be removed, however I can tell you my experiance with each one was the same.

First of all, the majority of womens profiles are fake. Most of them are scammers, cam girls, prostitutes, or some sick guy posing as a woman, and even if it is a genuine profile it's always inactive.
Such profiles are easy to spot, for example I'm in the UK, Glasgow, and was chatting to a girl who lived in my city -allegidly. However the background in her pics suggested otherwise. There was American 2pin plug sockets on the wall, triangular basket ball pennants and you could quite clearly see American styles housing through one of the windows. When I confronted the 'girl' about it, I got the following responce "the pics were taken when I was on holiday at my uncles in America" - yeah right!
I then asked her what part of Glasgow are you from...she obviously quickly googled Glasgow and quoted any old location, so I then started talking about a night club I invented on the spot, she claimed she knew of it and goes there most weekends...all a load of pish and a typical example of a fake profile.
Furthermore, I'm convinced these fake profiles are actually operated by the site owners in order for the site to appear genuine. Adding to this, I'm sure if you have been around a few sites you will quickly notice the same profiles on each site, and the same women are all different ages, in different locations and go by different names.

Secondly, lets say you somehow come across genuine, active, profiles - RESULT!
But the sad truth is the ratio of men to woman on these sites is seriosuly disproportionate, its about 1000:1.
The woman get about 100-200 messages per day and simply do not have the time to read them all - and actually get sick of reading them!
This results is you receiveg an automated responce about a week later stating your message has not been read and has been automatically deleted.
Further to this, most of the woman have filters on their account, meaning if you are below a certain age, height, lenght etc, then you cannot contact them. So all those women you saw when browsing before signing up and parting with your money - most of them cannot be contacted!

Lastly...FRAUD. I quckly realised that after my membership had expired and auto renewal was turned off, the sites kept taking money out my bank account. I contacted them, expressed my concernes, got told it was dealt with and I'd be refunded etc. No refund was given and the money continued to get taken from my bank account. In the end I had to contact my bank and report my card as stolen in order to block future withdrawles and obtain a complete set of new details and the whole process cost me about £1000.
What happened to me is a common complaint I have read on these reviews and not only that - outright FRAUD! And the reason the sites continue to take your money is because they know all you will do is block the transaction at some point but not report it, are you going to phone up your bank's fraud department and tell them the adult site you signed up for is still taking your money??? Course your not, how embarrassing!

However the funny thing is, I'm a very secptical person, and the thought of these sites was almost too good to be true. I was actually on this very forum before I signed up for the sites, I read all the negative press about them but still signed up! PLEASE DO NOT BE AS STUPID AS ME!!!!

If you want my advice guys, speaking from experiance, avoid these sites, save your time, save your money - use it to take real woman out on a date - you will be much more successful.

This is all coming from a guy who is 28, good looking, super fit, 6 pack, 7.5 inches, car, own house, the lot, therefore, at least in theory, a good catch for women - and I still left empty handed.

Think about it guys.

All the best