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Hanna

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Right now I have one ex-boyfriend as a friend on Facebook. My husband knows about it and he is okay with it. I have been married to my husband for 5 years now and we have 2 kids. The relationship with this ex was long distance and didn't last long. We never had s*x and we had parted ways as friends 10 years ago.

Last night I got another friend request from a different ex. I was very surprised as the last time I saw him was about 12 years ago. From his Facebook profile I can see he is married and has kids. The relationship I had with him was much more steamy and very fun. I am not looking to cheat or anything as I am very happy with my current marriage.

I am curious to see how he is doing though. Should I accept his friend request or not? Do you think it will upset my husband if I do?


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Rod

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No unless you wouldn't mind him talking to a hot and steamy ex. If you add him you will face creep. If you message and he replies it will turn to flirting/looking back, this is the grey area.
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sandrawhite1182

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For me I don't think it will be a problem with your husband as long as you know your limitation. Meeting ex and long lost friends in Facebook make us curious about their current life. I also have ex's in my Facebook friends list but its not an issue with my husband as he said he trust me and he knew I will never flirt to these guys.
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Athena

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Quote by: Anonymous

Right now I have one ex-boyfriend as a friend on Facebook. My husband knows about it and he is okay with it. I have been married to my husband for 5 years now and we have 2 kids. The relationship with this ex was long distance and didn't last long. We never had s*x and we had parted ways as friends 10 years ago.

Last night I got another friend request from a different ex. I was very surprised as the last time I saw him was about 12 years ago. From his Facebook profile I can see he is married and has kids. The relationship I had with him was much more steamy and very fun. I am not looking to cheat or anything as I am very happy with my current marriage.

I am curious to see how he is doing though. Should I accept his friend request or not? Do you think it will upset my husband if I do?




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