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Hello everyone! I am glad i found this forum, i was about to register my self on a casual dating site, but just my intuition didn't let me to, i didn't wanted to let them have my credit card nr and i wanted to register on 3 day trial and see if those mail i got are real but the thing is after those 3 days are expired, they take 29$ for one month haha. Isent the Email asking what is the point of trial if they auto subscribe you.Wonder what will they say, or even reply at all. I registered as free memeber on Horny matches, sexsearch, fling and ratemybody, just to see what reaction i will get. I always suspected that these sites might be scam so i was always reluctant to sign, but i am lonely so i guess they prey on guys like myself. Anyways i noticed that gold members on horney matches are always online, i guess they never sleep ,second one gold member chick, about 3k miles from me lol kept on sending me pm (first couple of days) giving compliments and what not, ok that can be legit, but she kept on asking me why i am not replying, and like "can you see my PM, please reply" hmmm ok as gold member she should know i can't reply to her since i am free member, it was poor acting i think. Also when i go to porn sites for example, there is usually some add of one of these sites, showing me girls that live near me, in my area, problem is where i live, it is small place, few 1000 people, a lot of older people, so you def notice young good looking chick and this site made it look like there are horny goodlooking "sluts" (based on their comments) all around me, might be under my house. Problem is that is bogus, never seen one of them, plus like i said small town. Obviously bogus.
My point is, this really made me feel bad, what is the point in making fake scam sites, when there are so many real people that would register and would like to meat real people. Sad, so sad.
Are there any legit dating sites?