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Hi all,

I recently came across a fascinating piece of online history while digging into ancient online dating communities, and it’s got me hooked on something called the Delphi Effect. Wes Kusmaul, founder of Delphi Internet Services, shared that back in 1981, he launched the world’s first online encyclopedia, which grew into the Delphi social network. By the time it was sold a decade later, hundreds or thousands of couples had met through Delphi, with many getting married. The crazy thing? Delphi wasn’t even a dating platform. It was text-only, no photos, just people connecting in online clubs over shared interests and values. Leading with superficial stuff like looks was considered pretty uncool.

This “Delphi Effect” has me thinking about how different modern dating sites are, with their focus on swipes and polished profiles. It sometimes feels like they’re built to keep us hooked rather than help us find meaningful connections. I’m curious—do you think a return to that old-school, values-driven approach could make online dating feel more genuine? Have you come across any platforms that capture that Delphi vibe, prioritizing shared passions over appearances? Would love to hear your thoughts on this!