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I use Coomeet for a long time. And also I wasted a lot of money. I think it is more than $300.
I have a few question about this platform.

01: When I ask some girls to show their nudes, they reject me.
But some girls show up without any hesitation when I ask for it.
Furthermore, when I asking it, some girls remove me from their contact.

02: So this is another question.
There are some girls who when I send them a request to add their contact, They refuse my request,
And, some girl quickly add me to their contact and then ask me to play.

03: Last question.
Why are they asking us for gifts? Can they turn those gifts into cash?
Or do they just use it to make more calls with someone?
And. Is it safe to pay with my credit card? Can they steal all my money?