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I am a widow of more than 3 years and have decided to try online dating. I am over 50 and this is my first time back dating in 20 plus years. I've decided I want to date a widower. Someone who has experienced similar pain in their life and who I can relate to.

I've joined a few sites like Plenty of Fish and Tinder but can't really find any widowers on them, just a lot of divorced people.

Is there a website or dating app that is just for someone like me? I figured it doesn't hurt to ask