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It is a horrible feeling to worry if your woman is looking out. How can you know for sure? There is a video on YouTube where a guy sent a drone to spy on his wife, after a mate tipped him about her apparently dating someone else. As the story goes, the mate saw her somewhere she should not be at that time, with a guy, more than once. So, you can probably buy a drone and set it off once she leaves, but it will only work if she walks, not drives. The wife in the video walked to her job, but met a lover on the way, who picked her up in his car.

Other tips for men include hiring a private detective, which is rather expensive, or getting a spy program loaded in her phone, if you have access (you probably don't). Some people advocate the use of a GPS tracker, the simplest application being the function to find one's phone.

But let's take a step back...

How do you even start suspecting that your woman may be looking out, without being tipped by someone else?

Truth to be told, with availability of modern dating apps, most of which are free, anyone interested to look out, is able to find a hook up easily, especially a nice looking woman.

Here are some tips what to look for:

• She suddenly changes her hair style, slims down, signs up for gym, buys new underwear and/or clothes.
• She starts looking really pretty, but it's not for you because you never seem to spend time together.
• The use of a different perfume than usually.
• She is busier than ever, has to go to work early or stay late.
• Your sweetheart starts seeing her female friends or family more often, and you are not invited.
• She is more distant or vice versa, more affectionate than usually, wishing to try different positions or places to make love. Or maybe totally rejecting any your attempts for intimate contact (and she has no medical reasons to do that).
• Her phone rings or beeps often and she doesn't tell you who it was.
• You have found your woman to have a second phone (this one is definitely a tip off that she is up to no good).
• Some jewellery items appear out of nowhere and when you ask, she tries to downplay the price and origin.
• You notice her smiling to herself in a dreamlike manner.
• Emotional closeness is what glued her to you during the dating stage of your relationship, and it's strong emotions that women seek in affairs, not just sex. Wanting to feel beautiful and desired is a strong motivator.
Do you think something's going on?

If there is more than one sign from the points above that seems to fit the picture, it may be that your woman is seeing someone else. How do you know for sure?

• Ask your trusted friends and family if they know anything about it. Often people around you are already aware that something's going on, and you are the last one to find out; they simply don't know how to tell you.
• If you really have strong suspicions, you can also approach your partner directly. However, this may result in your lady's departure, as she may keep hiding her involvement because she doesn't want to hurt you. But once you know, there is no point in keeping up pretences.
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A mutual friend told me about his mate who suspected his wife was cheating on him. He asked the guy to follow her in a car, and sure enough, she arrived to another man's home (whom he knew), during her lunch break. The guy had no desire to lose his wife, so he didn't approach his spouse on that, but apparently the lover's car went up in flames a few days later. In general, think in advance what are you going to do if you find out your suspicions are real. Just bear in mind, illegal things are a bad idea. The tip is to keep it classy and no violence, please.
Is she looking out without cheating?

Many men are taken back by a request of a partner to break up or divorce. The poor guys say they never got a drift. But is it really so?

Things that should worry you:

• No intimacy or less frequent than once a week.
• You don't have long kissing sessions or passionate lovemaking; things feel mechanical like she just wants it over.
• Her being distant and irritated most of the time or often. Small things throw her off balance.
• Signs of contempt towards your appearance, ideas, attempts of closeness.
• She is trying to keep away from you physically by not staying in the same room, moving to another area of the house.
• She doesn't want to talk to you or discuss things when you approach.
• Her visiting a shrink.
• She is squandering money in cash or a secret bank account.
• Visiting a family lawyer (she may tell you it's for the will or something else).
• Her browser history reveals searches for information on divorce or family law.
• Your lady's conversation remarks reveal disappointment with marriage as an establishment, regrets about having kids or giving up something once you became an item.
• Some of her girlfriends left partners or divorced.
• She has profiles on dating websites or mobile apps.

Again, look for a cluster of indicators rather than jump to conclusions based on a single point.

Most people who initiated breakups say they knew they wanted out of a relationship or marriage 2-3 years before they told their partners. During this time, it's still possible to recover the relationship, if you notice the early signs.

As a dating coach, I give tips to couples how to ensure their relationships survive in the long run. Some of the most important points in these dating tips for men are to make sure you remain lovers and regularly spend intimate time together away from home routines and caring for kids. If your love life is hot, she is unlikely to look out.

Sad to say but falling out of love is very common thing to happen when your woman no longer find something to interesting in your relationship. It is not that you are no longer an interesting person but you are no longer in line in her interest.