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I could do the same and that would help me out. It would cut out nearly a million people I neither want and who would not want me and I could see what real chance I have. I am 46, tall, average to thin, intelligent, work full time, don't drink, smoke or do drugs (all this goes against me apparently). I'm a very warm and loving woman.
Well I used to be on PoF, Wow... It taught me alot of women play games so I found evow and I was thinking that with a smaller base of people more would be serious... So far what I have gotten is either alot of drama from psycho women(wow do I have stories about these) or games from women that only respond with a word or two, I am still on there with a hidden profile and only willing to talk to one girl at a time, I am honest and up front but I feel like as soon as you really show your interested that they have had their fun and move on... Just yesterday infact this happened, I mean I dont drink or go to bars and I have become anti social due to how people treat each other... What are even my other options? Can't go up to someone on the street or you get treated like as they say as a creeper.
On top of things when you contact the support on this site saying hey this person is a player they ignore it showing the whole them caring to make this site legit is BS, Im 33 and dont want to spend my spare time getting played with women over a website, Even had one that all she wanted to do is sext as I believe its called and tease, When I actually tried to meet her POOF no more contact.
I am also aware alot of girls wouldn't know a nice guy if he stopped an asshole from beating the *censored* out of her, Dating sites are making women lazy because they just want to play games or they want the perfect guy (aas
shole) or that chemistry attraction which is lust and not love.
I Am SO Darn Sorry You Been Hurt!! I Understand Your Frustration BUT I Had to Say NOT All Woman Online are Lazy Or Playing Games! I Happen to be One of those Rare Ladies!! Evow is Driving Me Up The Wall for A Lot of Reasons!! I Can't Sign In Half the Time, When I Go to Send A Message Or Log In I Constantly get the Message "Sorry This Link is Not Working!! We Have Been Alerted To This & Are Working On It As Soon as We Can!!" Or Something Close to That.. I have gotten almost NO Responses, All My Searches Show Me Guys Who Were Last On in the Last 30 Days, the Same 12 Guys are the Only Ones On in the Last Week & Hardly Anyone Puts Effort in Their Profile & Most Have One Picture! I Think This Site is a Crock!!
Pof and Evow don't take down user profiles even if you delete on the site. They use users to have large numbers of users to make themselves look good.
Little hint all site suck if there used wrong and back up what you say in your profile don't go by the picture for your only basis on responding to a message. Use your head stick to what you want block users in the special request in the messaging section. I try to message and spend a little thought into it and be mature and women will view but not respond ,ok what that is is the site computer program to get you excited make you think someone is checking you so you will upgrade.
I went out on several dates with different men I met on POF. I could write a book about the weirdos and creeps I met there including a guy called Iowaphoto who brought a small video camera to our first date and without my knowledge, permission videotaped by legs. My account was deleted because I sent him a nasty email on Valentine's Day with a heart attached. All I said was now you finally have a heart. Oh well, POF did me a huge favor by deleting my account. I am trying to find another dating site, but unfortunately none of them seem to have as many people on them so responses are slow. Does anyone have any recommendations for a good dating site?
i've been internet dating since it started and it's come a long ways. Any way you do it, it's better than a bar or the church choir.
I"m on nine sites and none of them are perfect. I date one or two people a year and i almost always meet them online. I go on 15-30 coffee dates a year. WAY cheaper than a bar...
I've met some nice people on POF (you DO have to learn how to filter the losers), but i was not prepared for the 3x as much activity upgrade i got when i went to OKC. I've trebled my phone conversations. My hopes have really risen. All the normal filters have to be there, i.e. are these really recent pics, etc, but now i'm able, thru the questions, to actually feel like i'm getting to know the women. I'm such a happy camper that I even paid for 6 months of upgrade.
I found that Match.com was REALLY BS!! All these people were on there when you were searching out the site to join and then when you joined...they were no where to be found.
PLUS, they keep charging your credit card whether you have checked off X amount of months, payments whatever.
E Harmony was the worst!! THEY do all the choosing for you, you do not have any say what-so-ever so that's BS especially as they are sending you obvious "matches" that you would not interested in at all. Between this site and Match, I had to cancel my credit card which causes all sorts of issues as you know!
So I will say this about POF, at least it's free, the people are real and men are as bad if not worse than women for posting 10 year old photos! You don't have to go to the bar Yuk and with everyone being so busy these days, it's worth a try. I agree that there are some people who just haven't been strong enough to actually leave a bad relationship so they are literally just "fishing". That being said, most women are willing to get counselling but the men, not so much. The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. If men and women alike would just take the time to listen to each other, there wouldn't be so many dating sites for wounded and weary.
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