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Jenny
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Listen up MEN. Sure, it's ok to split the bill with ladies... but it honestly gets old. If you want to romance a woman, and make her your wife, she needs to feel special. When she takes out her wallet and hands you $21.52 cents to split the bill, I can assure you that she is not feeling too special.

Why not go to some reasonable places for dinner and drinks, and treat her to dinner. I bet she'll treat you to dessert.

Honestly, most women I know pick reasonable things on the menu, and don't go overboard. If she does go overboard with expensive drinks and dinner, maybe you aren't compatible anyway.

If she's nice enough to date, she's worthy of a nice dinner to show her that she is special.



I couldn’t agree more. Treating someone you love to a lunch or dinner is so kind and respectful. Ladies you deserve it. Don’t chase after men. They aren’t worth your time if they can’t ask you out, treat you to a drink or some food, and maybe even buy you a special surprise of flowers or something symbolic of your love. Why sit around and cry over some loser. You deserve the world and someone who will treat you with love and kindness.
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Mar34
Anonymous
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Quote by: Anonymous

Listen up MEN. Sure, it's ok to split the bill with ladies... but it honestly gets old. If you want to romance a woman, and make her your wife, she needs to feel special. When she takes out her wallet and hands you $21.52 cents to split the bill, I can assure you that she is not feeling too special.

Why not go to some reasonable places for dinner and drinks, and treat her to dinner. I bet she'll treat you to dessert.

Honestly, most women I know pick reasonable things on the menu, and don't go overboard. If she does go overboard with expensive drinks and dinner, maybe you aren't compatible anyway.

If she's nice enough to date, she's worthy of a nice dinner to show her that she is special.



I couldn’t agree more. Treating someone you love to a lunch or dinner is so kind and respectful. Ladies you deserve it. Don’t chase after men. They aren’t worth your time if they can’t ask you out, treat you to a drink or some food, and maybe even buy you a special surprise of flowers or something symbolic of your love. Why sit around and cry over some loser. You deserve the world and someone who will treat you with love and kindness.



I think it's ironic that men can pay for porn, strip clubs, prostitutes, stupid video games, stuff to jazz up their cars, you name it, but they can't treat someone they are dating to a special dinner or an unexpected treat. You can't buy her some flowers "just because". Nice. That speaks volumes. It's selfish. Walk away ladies.
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SalWhite
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I’m old fashioned. Unless you don’t have a job or work minimum wage it’s important to treat a lady right. A nice dinner or date is a way to show you care. People I date can leave their wallets at home.
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Junior
Registered: 2019/07/29
Posts: 21
Location:NY
FROM A PERSON NAMED DARK N JUJU (I SAVED SOME OF HER STUFF FROM POF)

If I am high maintenance because I expect a man to bring so much more to the table than a penis then sue me. I BRING SO MUCH MORE THAN BOOBS. So much more. And Why would I need to come online if all I was looking for was a warm body with a penis since when I walk to get my lunch men follow me down the street and give me their number? Or when I am in the grocery store MEN follow me around asking for my number. OR when I am headed to my office MEN stop me and ask for my number. HELLO, I HAVE HAD MEN ASK FOR MY NUMBER AT TRAFFIC LIGHTS. So you will forgive me IF BEING MALE AND INTERESTED is not enough. Sorry. It is hard work to across from a guy YOU have no interest in and who is dull as dishwater and EAT THE FREE FOOD. IT is not worth it. I am a divorced woman on the tail ended of her good looks and I would like to use these looks to find a HUSBAND who will be around when his wife isnt the hottest 80 year old in the retirement home. I really am sorry if you have to be more than interested and male because most men do not get you are at the end of a long line of interested males. I come here to find the guy who is special, different, unique who is a good match for me.


ONLY FROM A MAN WHO REALLY INTERESTS A WOMAN, OTHERWISE, SHE MAY BE A GOLD DIGGER
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ebola kitty
Anonymous
Just paying isn't enough...

Pick the place...always

Drive her there. If you have to use her car then get the keys from her.

You call the waiter -- very important

Find out what she wants and order for her.

If she balks at any of it then her traditionalist routine is a sham. You know who you are dealing with. Get out of there while you still can.
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Vid
Anonymous
I'm traditional so I think the man should take the lead, always.
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ADT
Anonymous
Men who aren’t *censored* pay and women that want to show some kindness.
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Guess
Anonymous
I think it’s romantic and sweet for a guy to buy a girl dinner without hesitation. Smile
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Vibrant
Anonymous
I can learn a lot about a man who doesn’t open up his wallet. Cheap men make lousy dates, and husbands.
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Voice
Anonymous
Men should
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