What Men Want

Men are confusing creatures. Sometimes they don’t think they even know what they are looking for. But, based on my dating experience, I’ve realized men look for four things in a woman: Beauty, Brains, Body, and Balance.

Beauty

Men are visual. This means that they fall in love through their eyes. The first thing a man notices about a woman is her physical beauty. So, now that you have this information, use it wisely. Do everything you can to look your personal best. No matter how old or young you are, all you need is a little effort to be beautiful.

Remember, your wardrobe is an important part of who you are. You have to dress the part of who you want to be. If you are looking for a meaningful relationship, dress with class. Men treat you the way you tell them to. If you let them walk all over you, they will! If you make them chase you, they will! That being said, you don’t have to dress like a nun. Of course it’s okay to show some skin, but you don’t need to have everything on full display.

Brains

You don’t have to be an absolute genius for a man fall in love with you. You can be witty and clever. Make sure you are up to date on current events. Read a financial newspaper so you are aware of the events that are happening in the business world. Go to a bookstore and buy some interesting books so you don’t talk about the same topics that all women discuss. It’s important to be different. Remember that!

Body

Men are body conscious. You don’t have to be a model to attract a man. But, you should find the right weight for your body. If you need help in this area, there are many weight loss clinics, yoga studios, and gyms all over the country to shed those extra pounds. Summer will be here before you know it and now is the time to be in the best shape of your life. Start working out and men will find you more attractive. You will also feel better about yourself.

Balance

Men want a classy woman who knows who to have fun. They want someone who can throw a dinner party and attend a Museum gala, but they don’t want a lady in the bedroom. So, if you haven’t figured it out by now, men want the full package. They want the beautiful woman who challenges them intellectually and constantly keeps them on their toes.

Now that you know this, it is important to remember that you can always improve your appearance. Make sure your hair looks pretty, your makeup is fresh, and you are dressed well. So get out there and beautify yourself!