Tips on Pick-Ups at New Year's Eve Parties

As New Year's is fast approaching, it's time to figure out how to celebrate. Whether you like attending a big event at a local club or prefer an intimate gathering with friends, there are plenty of chances to meet new people and start the year off right.

If you're at a party and someone catches your attention, how do you approach? What do you say? It can be intimidating, but don't let opportunities pass by because you aren't confident or don't know what to do. Take a chance! Here are some ideas to help you get through:

Make eye contact and smile. If you're attracted to someone, don't let shyness get the best of you. Make eye contact to let them know you're interested. Many men take this as a sign to approach, so put it out there! Smiling also helps to let others know you're approachable.

Circulate. Sure, you may be happiest standing at the bar to be closer to your next *censored*tail, but this won't help you meet people. Instead of staying in your comfort zone, force yourself to go up to people you find attractive or engaging and introduce yourself. If you find they don't respond, then move on. Having a good time and meeting new people is up to you, not others.

Don't lose yourself in your smartphone. Blackberries and iPhones may help us stay more connected to the online world, but they also keep us from experiencing the world around us. If you pick up your phone to keep yourself occupied at a party, you're missing out on what's right in front of you. Would you approach someone who was busy texting?

Ask questions. Instead of providing all of the conversation or stories, ask questions. It shows your interest and also indicates that you want to engage, rather than just talk.

Flirt! This is a New Year's party after all...the best time to engage in flirtatious activity. Have some fun, let your guard down, and just enjoy the people around you. If you're having a good time, so will they.

Happy New Year!