The 10 Commandments of Online Dating: Part I

Online dating is a unique world, governed by rules, etiquette, and an ethical code all its own. Every thriving online dater knows that the key to success is a combination of real-world dating knowledge with awareness and comprehension of the factors that make online dating a distinctive, one-of-a-kind experience. If you're finding it difficult to navigate this complex and complicated world, you're not alone! Follow these ten fundamental tenets, the 10 Commandments of Online Dating that every online dater should take as gospel, and before long your nascent love life will begin to blossom.

Commandment #1: Thou Shalt Upload A Photograph

Research has shown time and time again that profiles with pictures receive more views and more messages than profiles that do not feature pictures. Declining to include a photo sends all the wrong messages to potential dates - Are you intentionally concealing your identity? Are you embarrassed by your physical appearance? Does the profile even belong to a real person? Prove that you are honest, genuine, and confident, even if you're not a perfect 10, by posting a photo that is flattering but not Photoshopped beyond all recognition.

Commandment #2: Thou Shalt Stand Out From The Crowd

A memorable username, catchy headline, and funny profile go a long way online. Study other profiles before writing your own. You will quickly notice that certain phrases like "My friends and family are very important to me" and "I like having fun" are everywhere. But they don't express your individuality, they don't tell other members anything about you, and, worst of all, they're just plain boring! On the other hand, if you're witty, unique, creative, and engaging, interest in your profile will dramatically increase.

Commandment #3: Thou Shalt Keep The Skeletons In The Closet

There is a time and a place for discussing previous relationships and the sordid or traumatic details of your past - and your online dating profile definitely isn't it. Save the serious discussions for later on, when you're in a stable, committed relationship in which you feel comfortable and respected. We all have baggage, but opening up about it too early on will frighten potential suitors away.

Commandment #4: Thou Shalt Be Concerned With Your Safety

The majority of online daters are honest people who, like you, are looking for love with a compatible partner, but that doesn't mean that you can let your guard down completely. Don't give your personal information to anyone you do not fully trust, and only meet dates in public places. Rely on your gut instinct always, and cut off communication immediately with anyone who seems suspicious.

Commandment #5: Thou Shalt Be Honest Always

If you expect others to be honest with you, it is only fair that you are honest with them. Don't upload photos that are old, not you, or doctored. Don't lie about details like your weight, occupation, education level, income, or marital status. Don't pretend that you are looking for a long-term, monogamous relationship if you're only interested in casual dating. False information and misconceptions are not a solid foundation for a relationship.

We're halfway there! Continue on to "The 10 Commandments of Online Dating: Part II" for the final 5 decrees of online dating.