Some First Date Ideas that won't Break the Bank

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  • Sunday, June 06 2010 @ 09:34 am
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Summer is here, and it's a great time to circulate, meet new people, and date. However, when you are going on 2-3 dates per week, it can get a little expensive and another coffee date just seems so...boring. So, what do you do?

First of all, since the weather is great, you have a lot more options in the summer because you can be outside. The bonus? It's also a savings to your pocketbook compared to expensive restaurants, and more fun than another coffeehouse. Take advantage of the season and try out some of these suggestions:

  • Try a picnic - if you live near the ocean, grab a blanket and some cheese and fruit and enjoy a picnic at the beach. If you are inland, try a nearby park. There are plenty of lovely places to be outside in any city, so why not bring a date and enjoy?
  • Go for a walk or bike ride - Time to dust off the bike or hiking shoes and head outdoors. If you live near hiking areas, plan a nice trek or ride and bring a little food and water to share. If you live a more urban lifestyle, choose an interesting neighborhood to explore on foot.
  • Take the dogs out - Perhaps some of you like to hang out at your local dog parks looking for love. If you have a pet, why not kill two birds with one stone and invite your date to walk dogs together? Your dog will thank you for it.
  • Check out the local listings - I live in L.A. where it can be very expensive to go out, but there are some cheap (even free) options here, especially in summer. Check out your local papers for neighborhood events, farmers markets, street fairs, or even flea markets. It's a fun way to explore and connect with others, especially on a date.
  • Volunteer together - With the fumbling economy, there are a lot of opportunities to volunteer your time with organizations like Habitat for Humanity or Heal the Bay. Ask your date if she'd like to roll up her sleeves and help with beach and park clean-ups or building/ renovating homes. You can enjoy the summer weather, get to know each other, and do something great for the community in the process.