Preparing Yourself for Online Dating

Okay, online dating isn't rocket science, but if you're planning on giving it a real go then there are a few things that you can do beforehand to give yourself the best shot at success. By success I am referring to finding love, though I suppose you could apply these to finding whatever it is you want, because let's face it; success in online dating to some is finding the ideal sex partner and nothing more.

Getting Ready for Online Dating

Think about what you really want. You need to know whether you're looking to find love or some casual fun because you'll need to choose a category for your profile when you start dating online. Being sure of what you want will also help you choose the category to browse so you're more likely to find those who are looking for the same things, i.e. long term relationships, casual dating, etc.

Choose a great profile picture. Yes, it's terrible that society bases so much importance on looks as opposed to what's inside, but it happens. You don't need to be a supermodel to find love online and you don't need any professional 8x10 glossies either; just a good picture of yourself as you look right now-not ten years ago. It is a proven fact that dating profiles with pictures get viewed more than those without which ups your chances of meeting someone. Choose a picture that shows you off and that you're proud of. One that is very natural and almost shows your personality is the best bet. Your online dating profile is, after all, your first impression so make it a great one!

Open your mind up nice and wide. Preparing yourself for online dating and making the absolute most of the experience really will require keeping an open mind. This means canning any preconceived notions or hang ups you may have about the whole online dating thing as well as any that you may have when it comes to people. Without lowering your standards and settling, you need to try to keep an open mind as to the different types of amazing people out there who may not necessarily fit the 'type' that you normally date or think you need to date. Height, weight, hair color and boob size hardly dictates a good match! Be willing to try new things and people and you'll have a lot of fun and a lot better luck at finding someone great.

Be patient and have fun. Even if you've had it with dating and want to find the love of your life yesterday, you won't get anywhere if you're not willing to have some fun and be a little patient. You can't hurry love, my friend! Enjoy the dates you go on and the new experiences that online will bring and be ready to laugh off the bad dates, should you have any. No one stops you from having fun but you!

Now you're ready for online dating and all the fun that it can be!