Ways to Improve Your Online Dating Profile (for Women)

If you're feeling that online dating isn't working for you - whether it's because your matches are non-existent or you seem to attract men who aren't right for you - take heart. The answer is easily fixable. But it requires changing up your profile and expanding your search.

Not every man you meet is going to make you swoon (admit it - we all seem to look for chemistry first when we meet someone). You will have good dates and bad dates like everyone else, regardless of whether you meet through an online dating site or through some other method. The key is to keep things in perspective, be open to new experiences, and maintain a positive attitude.

And if you want to grab a man's attention online? You have to have a great profile. Following are some tips for you to help it out:

Post a variety of pictures. Let's face it, men are visual creatures, especially when searching through online dating sites. A woman has to catch his eye. But don't try to be someone you're not - men have different tastes so don't think they are all looking for a certain "type." Use current pictures (taken within the last six months), and ask a friend to take some if you don't have any you like. Have a headshot, a body shot (or they think you're hiding something), and shots of you doing things - whether it's hiking, painting, or playing soccer. And smile.

Be creative. Men and women could both use some improvement in this area. Don't be tempted to use the tired online dating phrases like "I want to find my best friend" or "I love to travel." Instead, state in a sentence or two where you've traveled or where you'd like to go, so you can leave room open for conversation. If you're funny, be funny in your profile. Show off your quirks. Your unique personality has to shine through to separate you from all the other women.

Throw out your "list." If you have standards that just aren't being met (i.e. he has to be at least six feet tall, have a full head of hair, work as a lawyer, be athletic), or any number of particular traits that don't have much to do with how you want him to treat you in the relationship, rethink your list. Is his height as important as his ability to communicate well, or that he's affectionate and kind?

Communicate. Most women feel that a man has to contact them first, but if you see someone who interests you, please reach out! Or if there's a man who has sent you an email, write him back in a timely way. The first step in any relationship is communication. Try to withhold any judgment until you get to know him a little better. After all, we don't always convey our feelings accurately over email or text. Practice keeping an open mind.