How to Avoid Online Dating Scams

Millions of singles use social networking and online dating sites to meet people and find love. However according to the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), many scammers use these sites as well to prey on unsuspecting victims, creating fake profiles and asking for money in the name of love.

When it comes to romance, we are often led astray without realizing it. As a general rule, if you feel uncomfortable or hesitant with any request, don't do it. Also, do not share any personal information (home phone numbers, credit card number, etc.) with an online love interest.

The FTC provided a few clues of how to tell if your sweetie is actually a scammer:

• He wants to exchange personal email addresses and leave the online dating site immediately to communicate.

• She claims instant feelings of love. Many scammers use emotional ties to ask for money, favors, etc.

• He claims to be from the U.S. but is currently overseas.

• She plans to visit but is unable to do so because of some tragic event or occurrence.

• He asks you to pay for travel expenses to meet you.

• She asks for money to pay for anything: medication, a child or other relative's hospital bills, or recovery from a temporary financial setback. Do not offer any personal information or financial help, no matter how amorous you may feel. The FTC warns that wiring money to someone is like sending cash: it's hard to recover.

Remember, you can have fun online dating, but please be aware: if someone is appealing to your generous heart by playing to your emotions or asking for help, they are likely only looking for money, not a relationship.