Finding The Perfect Match: How To Choose An Online Dating Site

- Saturday, July 17 2010 @ 10:16 pm
- Contributed by: ElyseRomano
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If you've decided you're ready to explore the world of online dating, the prospect of having to decide what sites you're interested in joining might seem just as daunting as finding potential mates you're interested in dating.
Don't freak out. Choosing a dating site is actually a lot easier than you might think, as long as you ask yourself a few key questions while evaluating prospective sites:
Does this site fit into my budget?
Some sites are free, while others require a yearly or monthly subscription. Many of the most well known dating sites, like Match.com and eHarmony.com, charge a fee for membership, but don't assume that cost is the sole indicator of a site's quality. Free sites like PlentyOfFish.com or OkCupid.com are also very popular.
Does this site offer all of the features I want?
Are you interested in having the option to video chat? Do you want the ability to browse other people's profiles, or do you want the site to automatically match you with members it thinks you'll connect with? Do you want unlimited messaging? It's important to make sure that the sites or membership levels you choose include the features that will make online dating an enjoyable experience for you.
What kind of relationship am I looking for?
Maybe you're easing yourself back into the dating pool after a long hiatus and want to date many people casually. Maybe no-strings-attached adult dating is more your style. Maybe you're only interested in finding a serious, long-term relationship. Whatever your needs are, there's a site out there that caters to them.
Is a niche dating site right for me?
A niche site can be a great option if you're looking for a partner with very specific attributes or interests. Want to date a millionaire? Try MillionaireMatch.com. Interested in people of a specific ethnic background? InterracialMatch.com might be ideal for you. If you're vegan or vegetarian, try your luck at VeggieDate.org. There's a dating site for pretty much everything and everyone, from faith-based sites (CatholicCupid.com and JDate), to sites for specific occupations (TeachersPassions.com), to sites for animal lovers (EquestrianSingles.com). Niche dating sites narrow down your potential choices and, as an added bonus, provide an easy way to start a conversation.
Are the members of this site people I'd actually be interested in meeting?
Many dating sites charge you to contact other members, but allow you to sign up for free. Take advantage of that opportunity and browse through the profiles of other members before making a decision. Do most of the profiles appear to be real? Do you find the members attractive? Are you interested in knowing more about some of them? If you're unable to find anyone that intrigues you, move on to the next site.
Is the site reviewed positively?
There's no better way to get to know a site than reading other members' opinions of it. And as you might have guessed, the perfect place to start your search is right here, at DatingSitesReviews.com!