How To Be A Sugar Baby

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  • Friday, September 16 2011 @ 09:18 am
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What does the sugar lifestyle have to offer? What should a sugar baby expect from her arrangement? How should a sugar baby conduct herself with her sugar daddy?

From SugarDaddie.com, to SeekingArrangement.com, to SugarDaddyForMe.com, to MillionaireDates.com, sugar daddy dating is a flourishing niche of the online dating world. For many, the thought of such an arrangement is appalling. But for many others, the idea of forming a mutually beneficial relationship with someone who can meet their needs, whatever they may be, is undeniably appealing. If you fall into the latter category, here are a few tips for being a skillful sugar baby:

  1. Be the best you that you can possibly be. A sugar daddy is seeking companionship with someone extraordinary, so to be a successful sugar baby you must live up to the fantasy. This goes far beyond simply being beautiful. An expert sugar baby attractive, but also cultured, charming, funny, playful, and intelligent. She is confident, intriguing, and entertaining. She loves life, and does her best to bring fun to the lives of those around her. A sugar daddy improves the life of his sugar baby, and she must return the favor.

  2. Be appreciative. If accepting the generosity of others makes you feel uncomfortable or guilty, a sugar daddy arrangement is probably not for you. To be a sugar baby, you must let go of the idea that benefits must be earned, and that receiving gifts without reason makes you spoiled. A man enters a sugar daddy relationship because he wants to pamper a woman and provide her with the things she seeks, whether they be in the form of money, gifts, or all-expenses-paid travel. Accept the things you're given graciously.

  3. Be on your guard. This factors into the sugar lifestyle in two ways:

    • Emotions - beyond the connection of friendship - have no place in a sugar daddy arrangement. Hopefully your sugar daddy is someone you truly like and enjoy spending time with, but falling in love is not an option. Do your best to keep your emotions in check.

    • Your safety, as with online dating in any form, is a primary concern. Most men on sugar daddy sites are genuinely good people, but there are always a few frogs among the princes. Always meet in public places, and go with your gut.

  4. Be honest at all times. Discuss the terms of your arrangement upfront, with clarity and strict attention to detail. Be clear about what you're willing to provide, and what exactly you want from your sugar daddy. Each person's expectations should be well-defined, and both parties should do their best to meet them. If your expectations are not being met, terminate the agreement and find a new one in which they are. Never stay in a relationship that makes you unhappy or does not meet your needs.

Now that you know a few of the key rules of being in a sugar arrangement, tell us: Would you ever consider being a sugar baby?

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