First Impressions – What Women Notice Right Away

As I mentioned before, you don't get a second chance when it comes to first impressions, so make it count. Women notice the details right away, so guys: it's important to take note of what you may be doing wrong when it comes to attracting members of the opposite sex. It's not always intuitive, and you can't always rely on your male friends to clue you in - they could be wrong!

Following are some things she'll notice about you straight away. Women can judge pretty quickly, so if you can help it, don't give her a chance to get it all wrong.

Hygiene counts. Make sure you take care of your teeth, breath, and any other body odors that might deem you unsuitable for partnering. Women like to know a man takes care of himself and is concerned about his hygiene. Besides, she'll want to see if she'll enjoy kissing you - don't give her a reason to hesitate.

Dress for success. This list isn't all superficial, but your appearance does matter when it comes to dating. If you show up for drinks in a t-shirt and flip flops, she'll assume you really aren't all that serious or considerate of her. Also, don't wear that sweater you bought ten years ago or your favorite white tennis shoes and acid washed jeans. If you need to update your look, there's no time like the present! Grab a friend who can help you shop.

Confidence rules. We've heard this before, but that's because it's true: women like to be with confident men. If you know you're shy, then it's time to practice by playing up your strengths. Are you funny? Are you politically active? Are you successful at your career? Take your strengths and use them to your advantage - talk about what you love, or show off your funny or intellectual side. Whatever floats your boat, a woman is most impressed by your self-confidence. So show her some.

Don't take yourself so seriously. A woman likes to be with someone who can make her laugh, and who can laugh at himself. This also shows a type of confidence - he doesn't have to prove anything to her when he can laugh at himself without worry. So have fun, and don't take dating so seriously.

Pay attention to her. Women like it when a man is focused on her - how she looks, what she says, how she feels. Ask her questions. Don't turn around every time an attractive woman walks by, and don't check your cell phone while she's talking. When you're paying attention to her, it's definitely attractive.