First Impressions: What Men Notice Right Away

There's never a second chance to make a first impression, so it's best to keep a few things in mind when you're going to a party or meeting a date for the first time. You might think you're coming across as sexy and approachable, but perhaps you don't realize most men would say just the opposite!

Following are some things he'll notice before you even have a chance to ask a question. Not to focus on the superficial, but most guys do make up their minds pretty quickly as to whether or not they find a woman attractive, so pay attention to your behavior, attitude, and look.

Avoid too much make-up. If you're in love with your eyelash extensions and fake nails, you're not doing yourself any favors. Men prefer women to have a more natural look (translation: not high-maintenance). If you're getting all gussied up to get his attention, consider making some changes to tone it down.

Smile. It's not rocket science - if you're not smiling, a man might assume you're sad, bored, or angry, which doesn't make you a good candidate for striking up a conversation. Instead of hanging back and trying to look like you don't care, engage and have a good time. A simple smile works wonders every time.

Eye contact. This goes along with smiling - if you're looking away every time a man tries to get your attention, your sending a signal that you're not interested, even if you're just shy. Have some courage and return the look with a smile so he can feel comfortable approaching.

Don't obsessively check your phone. It's fine to check for text messages if a friend is meeting you somewhere, but if the point is to meet a new guy, why do you want to look busy or occupied with other things? Put your phone away and look around. There's nothing that says "stay away from me" quite like someone constantly texting or checking their emails.

Drop your posse. If you show up to a club with a group of girlfriends, it's very intimidating for any man to walk up to you and start flirting. If you really want to strike up a conversation, leave your pack and order a drink at the bar by yourself. Making yourself approachable is key.

Remember, these are guidelines to help you make a good first impression. The best way to approach someone new is to just be yourself without trying too hard to impress. Let your natural fun side come out - it helps to smile.