Dating Foreign Woman - What are the Benefits?

- Tuesday, February 16 2010 @ 08:12 am
- Contributed by: william gent
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Many men quickly get frustrated with the traditional American Dating sites. We all know, and have experienced the intense competition for desirable, talented, and intelligent women. Have you considered the foreign themed sites? What are some of the benefits and risks of these sites?
We have all seen the movie scenes. A successful American businessman travels to Europe and meets an exotic and beautiful foreign woman. This exhilarating experience is still the dream of many. With the epidemic of obesity in both sexes, we have all observed that the competition is brutal for any potential mate that is anywhere near a normal weight. This is a fact, and the problem has been made worse by the image that Hollywood and the media have given us. Movies and television programs display beautiful men and women with perfect features and proportions and at their ideal weight.
One way to increase your odds of getting that ideal looking woman is to look on the foreign themed sites. If you decide to go this route, however, there are a few things that you need to understand.
In general, the days are long gone where American men can easily date Western-European woman. This is primarily a function of greatly differing lifestyles and work habits. The average person in the United States has only 2 weeks off for vacation per year and just a few holidays. Let’s contrast this with life in the European Union. In Europe, the average worker has a month vacation in the summer, 2 to 3 weeks off for Christmas, a week off for Easter, unlimited and no-fault sick leave, and about 15 national holidays. Add on to this a 30 to 35-hour working week and I think you can see the problems.
Because of our hectic pace, Americans tend to “schedule” activities. For example, it is usual for us to say, “Let’s meet for coffee at Starbucks at 6 PM.” Normally, by 7PM, we are looking to be on our way. In Europe, in contrast, the couple will sit for hours and hours talking and chatting away the time. Because they have almost 2 months off in a year, time is not critical. A person with only 2 weeks off in a year will not be so generous with his or her time and has a lot of personal business to do on that free Saturday.
What is the solution to this problem?
One solution if you are interested in foreign woman, is to consider those from Eastern European nations. You will find that many of these women are still trying to pull themselves and their families up by their bootstraps, and will be highly motivated to have a relationship with you. From the beginning, they will want to be sure that you are “serious” but that is not a serious problem to overcome. Just be polite, do not confess love in the first emails, and take some time to get to know them. In addition, if you display some interest in their culture and language, you will have scored valuable points, and you will be on you way to a wonderful, and life enriching experience.
As we see many of the same people on the traditional dating websites, the foreign themed websites may offer an interesting opportunity to some. Just be careful and practice a few safeguards such as never sending money before you meet, take the relationship slowly, ensure that you webcam each other to match the face with the profile, and keep the age difference in the same decade. With a few of these suggestions, you can open up your world in ways you never thought possible.
Just think about it. Perhaps 6 months from now you will be in that café in Europe with that beautiful French woman of your dreams, sipping wine and enjoying the sites!
Good Luck.
We have all seen the movie scenes. A successful American businessman travels to Europe and meets an exotic and beautiful foreign woman. This exhilarating experience is still the dream of many. With the epidemic of obesity in both sexes, we have all observed that the competition is brutal for any potential mate that is anywhere near a normal weight. This is a fact, and the problem has been made worse by the image that Hollywood and the media have given us. Movies and television programs display beautiful men and women with perfect features and proportions and at their ideal weight.
One way to increase your odds of getting that ideal looking woman is to look on the foreign themed sites. If you decide to go this route, however, there are a few things that you need to understand.
In general, the days are long gone where American men can easily date Western-European woman. This is primarily a function of greatly differing lifestyles and work habits. The average person in the United States has only 2 weeks off for vacation per year and just a few holidays. Let’s contrast this with life in the European Union. In Europe, the average worker has a month vacation in the summer, 2 to 3 weeks off for Christmas, a week off for Easter, unlimited and no-fault sick leave, and about 15 national holidays. Add on to this a 30 to 35-hour working week and I think you can see the problems.
Because of our hectic pace, Americans tend to “schedule” activities. For example, it is usual for us to say, “Let’s meet for coffee at Starbucks at 6 PM.” Normally, by 7PM, we are looking to be on our way. In Europe, in contrast, the couple will sit for hours and hours talking and chatting away the time. Because they have almost 2 months off in a year, time is not critical. A person with only 2 weeks off in a year will not be so generous with his or her time and has a lot of personal business to do on that free Saturday.
What is the solution to this problem?
One solution if you are interested in foreign woman, is to consider those from Eastern European nations. You will find that many of these women are still trying to pull themselves and their families up by their bootstraps, and will be highly motivated to have a relationship with you. From the beginning, they will want to be sure that you are “serious” but that is not a serious problem to overcome. Just be polite, do not confess love in the first emails, and take some time to get to know them. In addition, if you display some interest in their culture and language, you will have scored valuable points, and you will be on you way to a wonderful, and life enriching experience.
As we see many of the same people on the traditional dating websites, the foreign themed websites may offer an interesting opportunity to some. Just be careful and practice a few safeguards such as never sending money before you meet, take the relationship slowly, ensure that you webcam each other to match the face with the profile, and keep the age difference in the same decade. With a few of these suggestions, you can open up your world in ways you never thought possible.
Just think about it. Perhaps 6 months from now you will be in that café in Europe with that beautiful French woman of your dreams, sipping wine and enjoying the sites!
Good Luck.