Chance on the Internet
- Monday, November 28 2011 @ 09:31 am
- Contributed by: Jet
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One could say that the Internet has created an entire parallel world, one that still manages to affect our day-to-day lives (so maybe it’s a perpendicular world?). We don’t need to actually go out and shop; we can buy everything on the Internet and have it delivered. We don’t need to rely on cable TV; we can watch it through the Internet. We don’t even need to pick up the phone and order a pizza; we could do so through the pizza chain’s website. Almost every social interaction has a web-based alternative - including dating.
No longer do we have to spend time in smoke-filled bars or clubs, hoping someone shows up; we can seek people out and find new ones via online dating sites. Indeed, an online dating site is a pretty direct alternative to a singles bar; it’s a place that’s formally designated as a place for single people to meet with the intention of dating or starting a relationship (if you’re compatible).
Like a singles bar, it takes the guesswork out of the intent (no one can say, “Oh, I’m just here to hang out with my friends”). It’s probably the fastest, easiest way to meet new people. Everyone is on their best behavior, too. You can prepare your best first impression.
But what about random chance meetings? They can certainly happen anytime in the real world; it’s not uncommon to hear about people who met at the grocery store or the post office.
Likewise, don’t forget about the “grocery stores,” “malls” and “movie theaters” of the Internet; places where you might be interacting for some other reason. Maybe it’s a message board about home renovation, or a social networking site for your city.
The problem with such random interaction is that if you’re not thinking about dating or relationships, you might miss all the signs of a compatible person. Perhaps you’re focused on getting to the movie on time, or finding just the right tile for your kitchen. Either way, you might ignore that friendly, attractive person in front of you.
As you go about your day, as your perfect your online dating profile, or even run to the post office, just remember: You can meet someone new anytime, anywhere - and that includes the Internet.
No longer do we have to spend time in smoke-filled bars or clubs, hoping someone shows up; we can seek people out and find new ones via online dating sites. Indeed, an online dating site is a pretty direct alternative to a singles bar; it’s a place that’s formally designated as a place for single people to meet with the intention of dating or starting a relationship (if you’re compatible).
Like a singles bar, it takes the guesswork out of the intent (no one can say, “Oh, I’m just here to hang out with my friends”). It’s probably the fastest, easiest way to meet new people. Everyone is on their best behavior, too. You can prepare your best first impression.
But what about random chance meetings? They can certainly happen anytime in the real world; it’s not uncommon to hear about people who met at the grocery store or the post office.
Likewise, don’t forget about the “grocery stores,” “malls” and “movie theaters” of the Internet; places where you might be interacting for some other reason. Maybe it’s a message board about home renovation, or a social networking site for your city.
The problem with such random interaction is that if you’re not thinking about dating or relationships, you might miss all the signs of a compatible person. Perhaps you’re focused on getting to the movie on time, or finding just the right tile for your kitchen. Either way, you might ignore that friendly, attractive person in front of you.
As you go about your day, as your perfect your online dating profile, or even run to the post office, just remember: You can meet someone new anytime, anywhere - and that includes the Internet.
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